Yes women are doing false cases against men. I am NRI, not even breaking traffic rules. My wife with Nambinarayan (ex-isro scientist of rocketry movie) are trying to declare me as mentally unsound and thereby smoothly confiscate my property.
I am glad you made this video. I was biased towards ladies for some past experience. I wrongly generalized them all. However, the reality has changed today from the expectations I had, by observing my mother/aunt and Hindi Films of 90s. Women today want to live as comfortably as men. I cook two times a day now for myself, and I can understand the pain and boredom I feel sometimes. I have realised we can't expect women to do things that we don't enjoy doing ourselves. Good video.
Respect brother❤ Actually for women, problem is not cooking or doing household work. Main problem arises from lack of appreciation and respect for these things. And if a woman is working like i am, there is a limitation to do household works. This thing men fail to understand and do not adjust at all. But i also agree that not all men are same. I am blessed with a really good husband. He helps me in household work, whatever is not done by maid. Sometimes when we both have tired day at work, we adjust either by ordering from outside or cooking something quick. Its all about understanding each other.
Don't suffer in toxic relation ship whether men or women .Respect individual .As sir said always women should be financially independent so no one ever try to haress women .
Well said , but people feel scared to speak up with fear of social isolation so more and more people should move out at the right time from bad abusive relationship irrespective -emotional, verbal and physical . Be strong , protect yourself from such toxic person(male/female).
Excellent video sir but u just missed one point about 498A law and that is it's not gender neutral. Women have been the biggest sufferer historically but everyone should be equal infront of law but this law is actually too much protective of women if u read it . Women basically can make the men suffer as they have the upper hand in it.
Aise "mardo" ko koi bhi aakar samjha de unki samajh me nhi aayega. 😂 He said na, most of the men are idiots. Chorro inko, they will continue with their beliefs. They are not flexible. In that sense they are like 70 yr olds. Very rigid. Also, some have very low IQs. They think they can make better laws than lawmakers, who have studied these things and are practicing it, just because they want to make laws which suit their needs.
Wow highly educated men. If a women file the case 498a there will be an investigation team .....husband will not be put behind bars just after case. Women has to provide proof to the court in her favour .......if she fails no court can sentence against husband. Even a latest case in which women got jail for lodging false case. Jaake theek se padhai Karo 😂😂.....ohhh sorry school college Mai padhne ki jagah ladkibazi porn dekhna se fursat mile toh buddhi Mei vriddhi ki jayegi na. Jitni bhi shadiya hoti h usmei se 95 percent Mei dahej li jati h aur keval 1 percent shadi divorce Mei jati h ......usmei bhi purush Prajati roti h ki alimony Dena pada. Log kehte h na ladkiya bohot roti h woh toh dikh hi rha h kaun roo rha h. Teri age kya h woh toh mujhe Pata nhi 😂😂😂 par zara jaake thik se padhai Kar aur research Kar phir aakar comment Kar warna sabko Pata chal jayega teri buddhi Kam h
Even if she filed a wrong case the thing is you saw just one woman doing that but not seeing crores of innocent women sufferring in marriages and not doing anything against husband/in laws..how can you generalise..
@AmitSangwanji it's funny 😁 how people research, find reviews, friends references to even eat out at chinese restaurant or to go on vacation but mindlessly marry without asking crirical questions about their future lives. IN TODAYS WORLD PREMARITAL COUNSELING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN KUNDALI MATCHING. It's shocking to know people look at shadi as market
@@madhurbajpai9965only if world was an ideal place. The ones who have intent to make it divine can do so despite prenups but in worst case scenario one doesn't end up with loosing money and marriage both or living with a philandring/ controlling spouse. This is applicable to both genders.If nit pre cups absolute clarity on how different aspects before marriage
It means you are not transparent in spending. That's why your wife don't trust you that you can secure her childs future. You might be giving money to your parents without her consent
It takes a lot for women and her family to stand up and go for a case.... when things were going bad in the house that time no one notices her pain... they are simply ignored
101% agree & You always see the other side of the COIN where the majority do not see or are unwilling to see. This analysis made your new approach IMMORTAL in history (इस वीडियो ने आपको इतिहास में अमर कर दिया) keep it up sir and we are with you "GO AHEAD" Thankyou🙏😊
100% true. Most of the problem men facing is not actually about divorce its about clashing opinions and unrealistic expectations of women these days. Sometimes men think better to stay long hours at office rather than going home early :P
Man like you should get out off marriage market. This will make easy to choose good husband. There are really great men on this planet.....soo women don't want people like you. And mister Unrealistic expectations are of men not women ......they want slaves not wife soo better marry your mother ( for mama boys) or hire a personal maid agar aukaat ho toh 😂.....joki jydatar logo ki nhi hoti.
@@pallabiran4266 woman are just possibilities of femenity, love, care and motherhood never guarantee. Are all women manifesting these qualities. Are women not involved in harmfull, antisocial, antinational activities. Are all the criminal are males only. Thus gender is never important our activities and responsible attitude is most important. Those who choose to respect and care others are treated as Devi Maa in our sanatan philosophy.
@@ninanani4085 only in Hinduism women are considered mother , sisters and Devi . In polygamous relationship it's not possible to respect any type of relationship permanently forever .
@@anikettripathi7991 Thats Why no man is respected because they were ever into polygamy, ruining other women's lives. Even they created polygamous gods even to sanction their own lechery. And those lechers became Self claimed pati parmeshwars, subjugating weak women.
I still remember when I went to cinema hall a man continued to smoke near me and my father said me to adjust and I fell seriously ill and since then I'm allergic to it and I can't stand but people don't obey the 200 rd fine concept
This is v true. I have come across so many males who keep cribbing about the good old days. And so beautifully u have described why the old days were good for them. I wish and pray that they learn their lesson soon 😀
System of marriage needs to be changed. Let us think of some other way of arranged marriage. Why only girl are going to boys place? There should not be any difference between boy and girl. Let the couple decide. If there is a problem in this type of system, break cast, religion, place restrictions. Let us make a beautiful society
Our ancestors have tried everything , so they try and tested and came to the conclusion that ITS BETTER TO SENT YOU GIRL CHILD TO HUSBAND . THERE ARE MANY REASON LIKE . POWER STRUGGLE , BASIC HUMAN MANLE TENDENCY , BASIC ANCESTORAL WISDOM .
@@ankitamishra0405 hahaahhaa , I am sure are 3 rd wave feminist . Ok your choice do it now what are you waiting for . When you will marry apply these things , There is a saying in SANTAN DHARM , SON IN LAW AND FATHER LAW SHOULD NOT BE LIVING IN SAME HOUSE FOR LONG , OTHERWISE THERE WILL CRISIS IN DOMINACIAL INSTINCT SETA JI WHEN MARRIED TO RAM JI , SHE LEFT HER HOME , SO YEAH I THINK YOUR BRAIN IS CORRUPTED BY WOKEISM , FEMINISM AND ALL
@@shaangaming350 Patriarchy jas failed miserably. It did no good to the world ever. War, Genocide, massacres, Rapes, Loot, Dacoity, Molestation, Trafickking of women n children, all evil is result of Patriarchy, Uncontrolled and unquestioned Patriarchy. Men couldn't handle the power graciously. It should be changed now.
Dahej naa leke aise behave karte hain jaise koi ehsaan kiya ho....ab crime naa karna bhi ehsaan hone laga!! And honestly maine to koi shadi nahi dekhi jahan bilkul bhi dahej naa liya gaya ho. Har tyohar pe kapre ya koi na koi gift bhi chalta rehta hai after marriage. Bihar me to ajtak boli lagti hai ias ya army officers ki. Kehte hain ki false dowry case.
My God! I am in awe of you a sir!! The line that there is no way to prove passive aggressive behaviour is so true!! Nobody wants to enter into legal battles otherwise!
@@_13456 haa bass ek ye word seekh liya hai patriarchy. Indian judiciary ne ladko ki maar rakhi hai, but harr cheez mai ladkiyo ki hi problem dikhti hai.
Sir, mere sath exactly ye hi ho rahi hai ...dahez, gharlu hinsa, meri pregnancy mai bhi usne mujhe mara hai, aur Mujhe mere gher bhej diya aaj tak June 26 se aaj ye din aa gya, kisi ka koi phone tak nhi aaya...ki kam se kam bacche ki to puch leta.
Social atmosphere in India is such as if women are slave of men, why girls are being sent to boys place, why only girl will work in kitchen and look after all guests etc, this mind set has to be changed. I usually see in society that only girls are suffering of all sort of crimes, discrimination, social attrocities, blamed for small 2 issues. In her new home with in laws, she alone has to fight all problems and becomes helpless human being. We are not used to of girls asking their rights. Let us support every action which advocate for equality for men and women
When men can't learn to serve their parents look after their own households where they have lived with their own family since childhood, why another newcomer women are supposed to do that. If men are so inefficient, they should move to girls house after marriage, and take her surname. Its not a big deal. Women have been doing it effortlessly. Men can also do it. At least daughters dont have serving her own parents.
बहुत सच्चाई है सर...आपके विचारो मे ..मैने अपनी life मे बहुत पडी लिखी महिलाओ को पुरूष के हाथो प्रताड़ित होते देखा है।वे बहुत ही सहन कर रही है।अच्छी बात यह है कि जो कुछ उन्होंने सहा..उनकी बेटी ना सहे..इस काबिल बना रही है।🙏
You are God sent Sangwan ji. Thank you for your video. Brought tears to my eyes because you are one of the men who understand women's issues and are trying to educate people.
Sir has not considered the manipulation through family politics and many girls have anxiety in first few years of marriage. So after initially married there is a high risk of 498A. Man is afraid of jail and loss of money, income, respect.
Omg sooo scarrryyyyy......😢.....this means 😂you are the someone who will do domestic violence on your wife or else why are you scared. 498a case hone ke baad tumko jail nhi dalenge pehle investigate karenge .....tumhari wife ko evidence provide krna hoga and if she fails.....no court can sentence against you. Abhi recently ek case Mei ladki ko jail dala h false case ke liye 😮😮😮.......Kam se Kam theek se research aur padhai toh Kar lete
The root cause of All problems are Unfulfilled Expectations from others while not fulfilling theirs by overvaluing ourselves when something is expected from us. Reality driven thought process from Amitji.
@@JackReacher-rt9ng saas aur Bahu ko ek saath rehna hi nahi chahiye ek ghar me. Kyuki saas sauteli maa jaise hoti hai wo bas apne baccho se pyar karti hai dusro se nahi. Ye human nature hai isliye humesha saas hi galat hoti hai har case me. Solution - shadi ke baad saas sasur ko saath nahi rehna chahiye
Same n fully my case... I still don't have any proof and so, failed for court case... Their mental torture, abusiveness, money desires everything!!!! Sirf bolte the.. ab mai nhi jaa rahi waha
More Reformed Law should be created and need to be implemented properly and it will take another 5 to 10 years, Jese Jese cases aayege law reform hoge for both gender
I have seen an old psyco lady in my neighborhood beating her husband. In many households, women dominate in decision making. Recently, in Pepoye's channel, a school child was accused of sexual harassment by a girl in his school. The school never listened to the side of the boy and straightway rusticated him. Later due to support from social media, people got to know that the boy was falsely accused. Trust me, unless we get gender neutral laws on domestic violence and sexual harassment, such insecurities will prevail.
Very good content sir. Can you pls make one more video on how to understand woman especially wife so that the marriage is a smooth sailing and win win foe both the couples
Actually there are no laws available to address the real issues that is disrespect, mental abuse, trivialising.. which are a huge stress in the marriage for women... In order to separate women end up using available laws that is domestic violence or dowry....
Baat to sahi hai, mere dost ki behan ne hamari batey sun kar puch liya ki agar acchi wife mil gayi to dekhoge gender biased laws ko. We both look at each other then to her and said, well, to hell with the world, my world is my wife only The laughs after that 😁
Sir discuss something on well earning wives n very less earning husband's, bitter environment for family n kids. How to face or tackle such situations.
Sir padhe likhe to sabse bade wale bewakoof hai, itna padhne ke baad bhi Sab apne gotra mein partner dhoondtey hai. Agar ye thinking change nahi ho sakti to pehle wali soch boss log kaise chhod de.
We cannot ask happiness and companionship from men ...is what most educated wirking girls have realised. They are on a journey of self discovery guys. Its changing. It will vety fast. Its not all a western influence. In ancient India women were empowered.
Very nice video, As I am planning to get married having same kind of doubt. I am just a simple n calm person believing in pillars of equality, respect, Love n caring in a relation. But I fear its hard to get from the opposite person as well, experienced in my previous relationship, we mutually agreed to broke up due to our own individual reasons. I love her but looking at the things n her passive aggressive behaviour I am afraid to going back to her. Now worried about what if same happens in the arrange marriage but pre marriage counseling is good option to overcome this issue I guess.
If a woman makes herself strong, good n wise, self confident she will attract the same boys, no compromise. She knows how to sustain marriage n live peacefully What u sow, so shall u reap.
In the right circumstances, my experience has been that women are the most loyal, the most supportive and the most fun to be with. The key is to create the right circumstances. I have had the privilege of having some of the most lovely women friends who would go to any lengths to make you happy. There has never been a secret i told my women friends that's been revealed or made fun of. Most of my male friends have turned against me out of sheer envy after succcess found me and i have been shocked by how cruel they can be. I have never had a woman envy me ever. Not sure why im writing this but im filled with gratitude
This is correct that less flats are coming w.r.t population. But again per capita income is not commensurate with property prices. With technical deflation (deflation due to technology like zoom and wfh) real estate is due for crash till 2026.
How can you justify maintenance law in India. My friend wife is b tech cse pass Still she get maintenance Where As my friend is on 12 th pass and run a contractor business
