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An eye opener video for Twilight eye. Even after listening to this video, if you don't want to change for good, Don't blame children for ruining your and their lives. Parents must realize that Children comes through them but doesn't belong to them. They come with their bag of karmas and sanskaras. Better adapt before it's all gone.
They will not want to see such videos! Only videos where they are praised that they want... nothing else... and those videos they keep circulating to show their greatness only 👎
A great video to open eyes of the "senior citizens" who self pity themselves. Always taunt the younger generation, and saying our generation respected parents and elders. I sometimes wonder you have seen my mother. Though she is staying in a metro city like Nagpur, father deceased, but we are calling her to Chennai and making her provision but she doesn't want to come to Chennai and always cries that how I will stay alone
Look at all the comments! Truly shows how TOXIC NARCISSIST our older generation is! Whether in village or in town ... wherever the parents stay they only make things miserable ... being very much self centered... biased ... and not understanding the difficulties of the next generation... talking openly and discussing these matters can bring some light on these issues! Hoping to have it get better for the present generation! Sad to see that parents can be this type! Exceptionally a handful of parents are really good! Thank you Sir for bringing clarity on these topics
I agree with you. Elder generation is so narsicist to that extent. Always glorify, our time we came hardships, we are the best, your generation is lazy, don't work
I am parent of 2 adult children i totally agree with you.we didn't have the stress which our children are facing.we have to at least take care of our health to lessen our children's stress and let them fly and succeed in life😊😊
Our ongoing family concern ..... situations even get worsen when parents were from conservative background and children are progressive in thoughts and education, just contrary view with each other.
Namaste sir🙏 Retirement ke baad bhi log vahin chote shahar me rahna chahate hai,kyuki vahan unke relatives hai,ye nahi pata ki ho sakta hai,kal vo relatives apne baccho ke pas chale Jaye, Rahna aakhir me aapko baccho ke pas hi hai,to kyu na pahle se sahi planing ki jaye,sir aapne sab baaten bahut sahi ki hain
Wow Sir !!! What a Video and Topic covered !!! I was feeling as if you are explaining My Life. I am sure all this holds true for many people like me who lives in Big Cities and Parents live in small cities. And in most of cases, Son's Wife or Daughter's Husband is blamed. This thinking of feeling superior of Parents leads them to the grave where nobody wants to talk or meet with them. Many Parents only think that their Children are only interested in Money or Property but the fact is children can only take best care of their parents. Just by showing off your money to relatives and blaming chidren for their problems will only lead them to be the laughing stock in society. I totally agree with Sir on every point. I guess only the change in social conditioning will lead to a big change in this problem ...
Jai ho🙏 gurudev. Bahut hi prectical knowledge dete ho app. Mere Ghar me yahi sab chal Raha hai. Perents emotional blackmail karte hai. Bilkul bura nahi lagta. Lekin ek baat hamesha yaad rakhungi ki apne budhape ki taiyari karke rakhungi.. apni betiyon ko pareshan ni karungi emotional blackmail karke.. bahut bahut dhanyawaad aapka. Aapko bhagwaan khub tarakki de.
Actually ye bhi hota hai. Mere bhi nana nani tier 1 city me rehte the.. toh shuru actually hamara bada attraction the. But nana nani us timw toh bohot natak karte the ki damad ka rishta hai beti ka rishta aur matlab hum rahe lwkin guest ki tarah. Mera clg bhi wahi tha ab meri badi iccha thi yaar nana nani ghar par rehne ko mil jaye colg ul down kar lungi. Thoda comfort ho jayega hostel se better hai. By god. Tab meri nani ne saaf mana kar diya ki hum musibat nahi bulani. Aaj ka ye haal wo hamare upar dependent hai pure time bolte rehte ki aap aaya karo rehne ke liye. Kyuki dekho ab unke beto ke samne toh unki chalti nahi. Aur ab mere waha jane ka man nahi karta.. jab yaar zarurat tab toh tum nana nani nahi rishtedar ban rahe the. Ab tum bolte ho ki arey aap log toh bacche ho hamara
I live in Australia and so do my parents and in-laws , both don’t want to downsize because of memories created in the homes. We have been telling them to get a smaller house closer to us. I’m so tired of helping them clean and maintain their huge houses. It is frustrating as they are getting older heading to 70s.
Lucky atleast both sides are with you. We have no one here they refuse to come to stay with us. I told them stay until you healthy, give flat on rent, when major problem then we can go India 🇮🇳 to get medical help. As they cannot be perm residents here.
Bade shayaro ka climate old age walo ko suit nahi hota...unko khana suit nahi hota...woh har bhar campare karte rahate hai bade aur chote shaharo mai. .. Ultimately unko samja samja kae dimag ka dahi ho jata hai
Guruji please ek video banao neighbours ke upar. Agar neighbours uneducated ho aur hamesha group banake bat karte ho but aapko acha nhi lagta and I don't go to that group because I know faltu ki bat hogi. To isse kaise handle kare kyuki wo log sochte hai main ghamandi hi wagera.
There are some banks which give 20 year loan on old people with their houses as collateral in Kerala, India, bank will give a monthly amount for the expenses of Old people. The idea is that the bank will take the house by the time they die. Many old People who do not have a pension or savings (people who did Business or worked Private jobs) are going for it.
Plz refer SBI official site "SBI Reverse Mortgage Loan provides an additional source of income for senior citizens of India, who have a self-acquired or self-occupied home in India. This product is beneficial for senior citizens who do not have adequate income to support themselves. The Bank makes payments to the borrower /borrowers (in case of living spouse), against mortgage of his / their residential house property. The borrower is not expected to service the loan during his lifetime."
Now we can relate to his real estate advice … choose a city and don’t move out of it…. Live with full family and extended family in same city …. Plan like this …. Always
Dialogue from my mother in law-Hum apna Ghar dwara kese chode... situation-beta bahu beemar hain bhale mar bhi jaye... TB sirf ladki k ghar wale aaye support ko
Not fully agree with this. It might be applicable for specific situation/person where distance between job location and home is more and job is very very hectic otherwise it can be manageable.
Seems that parents are burden on their new generation children. Parents should understand their children in their childhood, and even in their adulthood.
My father got sick when I was in 7th grade. He remained sick till I completed 10th. I did as much sewa as I could. He himself dragged his body so that he had to not rely on us. Finally, we all are free in 2012. Similarly, my friend has been taking care of his sick father for the last 10 years. He is 28 now like me. He can't do anything. Can't go to meetings, can't marry, his sister's marriage is on his to-do list and everything is on his shoulders. His mother got targeted by missionaries. He came out of all. But parents don't really ...well, I say his parents are now somewhat neutral. This means starting to understand their child's pain.
Ysa hi mera hi manna hai meri mom 95 hum 5 sister sabhi retire ed abhi man choti sister ke pas hai mom bhi high school principal retired pention se unka kharch and caretaker ke liye sufficient hai pahle 90 years unhone apne workplace choti jagah per kabhi hamare sath bare town mein abhi 5 years se shahr mein rah Rahi hai use koi sikayat nahi hai aaram se rahti hai likhna padhna bhi kar leti hai T V dekhkar update rahti hai unke bacchon se jyada unke 11 grandson daughters unko pyar karte hain
Parents keep sampatti as a pawn to strong arm decisions and to have control over children. This narcissistic behavior has been rampant. Parents do it with such impunity, they think it's a win win situation always. Little do they know, it's not going to work out anymore. Times have truly changed.
Guruji namesta I am following you sincerely. Very good thing to shift to big cities. Now a days small district places and even small towns have good medica, educationl and other facilities. Parents have made good assets nice bungalows for working almost for 30 ,35 years . How it will be if children instead of staying in crowdy cities, parents being selling all property what if children start small business earn decent amount and stay all together (in different houses)at same premises in small towns? Parents will take care of grand children and children will take care of parents. Please your opinion on this guruji. Thanks 🙏🌹
Woh Cghs facility hote har government central employee aur unka wives ke liye,even bachho ke liye till age 25, Mere papa khud karte hai ..doctor fee nominal hai aur medicines free hai most
Need to change this really...meri toh shaadi he saas sasur ki wajah se Tut gayi...or pati toh shravan kumar Bane baithe hai....sasur ne shaadi karyi ki are mai bimar ho gaya muje kuch ho jayega bete ki shaadi karo...budha abhi tak jinda hai 20 saal ho gaye or tab se hamare saath rah rahe or hamari life hell kar rahki
Dear sir : please guide how to know or identify which city is small ( not liveable) big , medium ( ok ok ). Ranking, google , or visit manually, what to see, How to know big city limits ( if low budget and want to buy property on outskirts or just outside or inside border of big City) Any way for technical mapping to find Goldie spot where it's is possible to buy property at lower rate than the centre of big City and even at low rate with equal facility GOLDIE SPOT HOW TO IDENTIFY IT ?
Does your city/town have a Industrial area (with many large Private manufacturing, Logistics, Import/Export Business) This is a Government subsidized region for the growth of Private companies , Economy and local jobs, IT Park, Airport? Sea Port is a plus. 5 star hotels and Malls are secondary to this
Sir bhut sare parent ayse h jo ki abhi 50 ,55 ke h pr wo abhi abhi 1965,70 me jite h unke pass keypad wali mobile h zamana itta aage aagya h unko nhi pta or janna v nhi h kuch btao to intreast v nhi lete or group waise hi h chugli krne wale dusro ke bacche ke bare me galat bolna apne bacche ko hmesha dra ke rkhna agr mehmaan ke shambe earphones lga lo to eye bda krke dekhte h wo is liye nhi ki hm unke shame earphones lgate h wo is liye aakh dikhate h ki shamne wala ko ye lgega ki ye ldki ldka ke baat krti h, kisi ladke ne ye puch liye ki clg kyu nhi aayi to is baat pe 21 saal ki ldki ko chapal se Marna, is topic pr video bnaye.
Pls make content that in case of three sons , having housewives and working wife, in laws have to stay nd take care of children of and with whom and how? Also topic where inlaws handling children of daughter instead of sons
