After Dave said his Trans friend ended up committing suicide because she was dragged and abused by the Trans community after she defended Dave by saying he isn't transphobic AND NOW THIS!!! I stand by what I say here when I say the entire Trans community is a community desperately in need of psychological/ psychiatric therapy
That's sad. I actually did watch the Netflix special. That poor woman who was bullied by other trans people harassed her just for defending Dave, so much until she took her own life. That's sad.
@@summerrose8110 She was in San Francisco too so she probably got shit everywhere she went I can imagine how that kind of stuff would push you over the edge. Here's someone who dedicated her life to a community only for them snakes to turn on her over something so trivial and the trans community here is so tight I wouldn't be surprised if they were just banning her from all their events.
@@vante2129 I wish she had talked to somebody. Family? Friends?Therapist? I wish she had called Dave Chappelle. I made the terrible mistake of attempting to end my life and I never want to go to that place ever again. I'm slowly getting to learn how to live and love my life. It's not perfect, but I'm glad I'm still here.
If Adele went on stage and said she's proud of being Trans, everyone will be on these streets with "Yass queen, live your truth". But being proud of being a woman is now transphobic? Okay.
Can't expect these kinda folk to have any reason whatsoever.. they are walking contradictions.. chop your body up then proclaim to the world how you love yourself so much.. they're too far gone man
Someone said - When a Adele lost all her weight she lost her place in the oppression Olympics. Now she has no shield because they haven’t forgave her for being healthy. And I completely agree
The funniest thing about these body positivity girls who are all 400 pounds is that they wont date other fat dudes😂. They still want skinny tall dudes, so when u dont even like your own body type that says something.
So let me get this straight: They're mad at JK Rowling for saying that transgender women aren't women, and they're mad at Adele for saying that she loves being a woman. What!????
I'm Trans and absolutely shocked that anyone is mad about Adele saying that she loves being a Woman & being Female. This Trans Woman is the first Trans person I've seen say this Bullshit. She is so wrong to attack Adele for loving who she is. It disgusts me.
We live in a culture where everyone is trying so hard to be intelligent, that they say the most nonsensical things possible to sound nuanced or insightful. That person is a prime example.
This is fax everybody wants to be a smartass on a high horse and then act dumb when they feel like it cus 'yolo' lol idk if this is new or always been tho
"The trans community is about all people being comfortable with who you are and not being shamed for it!" "I love being a woman." *NOT.* *LIKE.* *THAT.*
As a 46 yo Black Gay Man for over 2 decades I have noticed Trans Women picking fights with Females, it's past problematic, get the therapy you need and live your life.
We are being attacked for being born as women by some in the transgender community. If they are proud of who they are we (I) am proud to be born a woman.
Yea they're just jealous they made this transition and nothing changed they are still the same weak minded terrible person who blames everyone for their decisions
Many trans women see biological women as competition and so they attack and revile women just like men do - which reveals just how manly they really are in their heads.
Like I said. I highly believe transmen are jealous of and have a deep hate for natural born women! They know they won't ever get the full respect of being a woman! Idc if I get called transphobic I'm tired being asked if I'm a REAL woman because of these fun house mirror looking wannabees! Sorry not sorry. No dicks in the woman's bathroom. Just tired of the disrespect from men in dresses.
The Trans community needs to realize that everything is not about them. Being proud of being a cis-woman and saying so is not an automatic jab to Trans women! Being pro-self doesn't make you anti- someone else!🤦🏾♀️
@@whatzittooyah do you think they will ever take over? We just want to be women. They want to be women too but they are not understanding we are the women w/o anything at the beginning of the word or end of it. Just women or woman
So imagine being a TRANS WOMAN and still choosing to be misogynistic, but also being a BLACK trans women and being racist at the same time? To her own race?!😂😬Lord I can't with some people😂
Aren’t you familiar with this person? They’ve made way worse videos going in on black women. Then this person deleted the videos because of all the backlash. I’m not even exaggerating. It was extreme hatred and misogynoir. The typical stuff you hear from self hating. black men.
This is a prime example of "the Bullied, become the Bully." when they get some power. You project your traumas on everyone else. The same people demanding acceptance are now the least accepting.
I've been saying this since the whole sjw thing started. It's a admirable thing but they perverted it to beat people down and make for their own insecurities.
All of this. Everything. It's the people who felt outcast in high school (or who wish they were a cool outcast) who haven't matured past that, and now they're out for the perceived pound of flesh that they are owed, and it's never enough to satisfy. They don't care about injustice or bullying, they just want to be the only one allowed to wield the club.
I’m annoyed that every time we want to speak as women & don’t include the latter…. someone says we’re phobic or hateful. No, I am woman hear me roar and leave me alone! Do you share everything you have with everyone? No! Not even parents do that! Sheesh
No sorry. I am not calling men women, no matter how much they deman I do so. We would all be better off if everyone got on board with not lying because other people want us to. Calling him a woman is lying. To please who? Him? Nope.
I’m just over here as a black man thinking “bruh… tf did I have to do with any of this? Why do we always get blamed for everything and when are you guys gonna take blame for anything!?”
Someone in another comment said: "She isnt allowed to be proud of what she is because of their insecurities of what they’re not" and that shit was BARS.
I feel like deep down they envy biological women so when they hear things like "I love being a woman" they feel attacked and then you get these kinda rants
But its fucking true. I know Trans would jump on me for that but I'm not even trying to be offensive. When did being proud to be a healthy natural born female,trans and fat phobic? Wtf.
@@fideletamo4292 Yes, because black heterosexual men don't want to suck dick. Well.. NEWFLASH; As a white heterosexual man, I don't want to suck dick either. Just sayin'. That is why we are HETEROSEXUAL. It siu why when he we jerk off, we are imagining women not men. I'm attracted to women. PERIOD. You do you. 'Cause I won't. LMAO
@@volourn9764 Trans people are the same. A "heterosexual trans woman" is more likely to date a trans woman than a trans man. Because ultimately it's about biology. A straight man is more likely to date a trans man than a trans woman. Though most people who dont swim in those waters just avoid these fish anyway.
This world is getting ridiculous. It's funny that some of the people from the communities who want to be accepted, are the ones constantly mad that people who are different from them actually like themselves the way they are. My God.
Adele never said she hated being a woman when she was fat. She didn’t said anything at all. Nothing I ever heard of. I’m not even a fan of Adele but she’s so not problematic 😂😂😂 wtf
if you wont accept men as being women your problematic to the woke mob.. accepting trans people as trans people aint good enough, women have to welcome trans women in to their space regardless of how provenly dangerous it is
It’s crazy to me that loving yourself is so threatening to trans people. Adele loves being a woman and I 100% understand what she means. This person has gone out of their way to look like a woman and it seems like they deep down dislike women.
"Bih" got some big ass paws. Some of these folks are off of their damn rockers. As a BLACK MAN I've gotten to the point of being HELLA comfortable with saying "I don't give a fuck what people say now." Be mad and take it to your grave.
I'm proud to be a woman. I'm proud I gave birth , I'm proud I breastfed, I'm proud my body did the job it was meant to do. I'm not apologising for it, neither am I putting anyone else down, or shaming anyone else. No one's going to tell me I can't say that. I'm not going to hide my proudness in fear of offending people. Women have had to repress themselves for so long, and apparently now we can't say we are proud of who we are ? Make it make sense .
What’s funny is that if a trans woman said she was proud to be a woman, the whole trans community would be cheering. It’s almost as if the outrage comes from a place of serious insecurity and jelousy. I am a woman and I will NEVER apologise for it
Yes he is miserable. They are all miserable, why would they want to be something other than they are if they're happy stable people? They can't be happy, ever. Only the illusion of happiness from the dopamine they get from the affirmation is the thing that keeps most of them going
Okay, so, you can be proud and fat. Proud and trans. Proud and non binary. Proud and bisexual. Proud and lgbtq+. But you can't be Proud and binary? Proud and male/ female? Proud and heterosexual? Proud and skinny? Is losing weight fat phobic too? Jesus Christ dude, world's about to end
"Is losing weight fat phobic too?" Yes actually, according to the fat acceptance/Health At Every Size community! Adele and Rebel Wilson both got a ton of shit for losing weight because apparently it made women that looked up to them feel betrayed. As if that's their responsibility.
A lot of "Trans" community folks don't like "Cis gendered" folks being proud of their biological gender. They want to destroy the dynamic. Their agenda is based on deeply rooted self hate.
@Complex Ez Bro, what??? I swear this shit is pathological. We're the boogeyman no matter what. Other folks get their actions absolved and the blame always gets shifted to us...even if we're nowhere to be found. "Well, how come you BM weren't there protecting us???" Smh 😑😒🙄
She proved her own point that it’s “black men” fault as this person use to be a black man that transitioned & attacking a natural born female for being proud.
This woman identifies with being a blk woman, she's acting like a blk woman. Gay blk men don't operate the same as blk men, nice try at trying to blame blk men as a collective though lol.
“Natural born female”…the fact that some in our society require such a carefully worded description is alarming. I’m a female, I refuse to include any extra words. Trans-women are not women. That’s my opinion, quite frankly at this point I don’t care what that makes me. This woke nonsense is ridiculous. I’m not going out of my way to be overly respectful of someone who clearly does not even respect their self. 🤷🏻♀️
@@ashleycasey Amen sis ! Plainly this is man hating women. It is 💫woke misogyny💫. When will men leave women alone? Like just because they wear a wig and make up doesn't change that it's misogyny in disguise at the end of the day.
9:43 OR--and this is gonna be a shock--she just said that because the reward no longer acknowledged her importance as a female artist anymore for their shallow idea of inclusivity and decided to make that clear.
Preach made a great point. If she was proud to be a woman then She wouldn’t be triggered by Adele it would instead empower her as well like it did for a lot of other women
He can't be proud to be a woman because he isn't one. Adele saying she is proud to be a woman has triggered this man because he knows he will never be one.
@@justinm2697 Right, trans people are ironically the biggest transphobes a lot of the time. We get a lot of this in the lesbian community, trans identified males come in demanding that lesbians date them, but they aren't willing to date each other either. Basically they're perpetually desperate for validation because they know they aren't the opposite sex, but they're hoping if enough people tell them they are they'll start to believe it too.
Trans people: " Why are people so judgmental? We just want to be able to express ourselves and who we are" Adele: "i love being a woman" Trans people: "That's transphobic. Only we are allowed to express who we are. No one else opinions matter. And if you disagree with that, you 're a bigot"
@@ksy1111 I feel you. I know 2 trans people like you as well personally. The same type of people as the, "star" of this video exist in almost every demographic. There are gay people who are resentful of straights & hold bizarre grudges against them, black nationalists who hold the same type of shit against whites, and white nationalists against blacks. Thankfully, they're just a loud minority of their respective groups. We shouldn't ignore them entirely, as countering what BS they spit is important, but I def think we give too much attention & importance to what they say, whether that be catering to their views or acting like they're a bigger problem than they really are. Just keep being yourself. Most people still judge people by their actions & personality instead of their identity. Hope you got some good people in your life that are grounded as well! Cheers
could someone help me in another comment section which is actually on a community tab talking about similar stuff to this bcuz i feel like we could always help eachother in other comment sections who spread this nonsense especially if it comes to harrassing someone which alot of these people do when someones doesnt agree, hasnt happened there yet but yeah something like sticking together. idk just a thought and it would be cool imo if you want to, just reply to me and I'll say on which channel what post it is and under which comment and all that cuz idk I don't wanna just say it like that yet lmao
Imagine being so insecure, that “I’m proud of being a woman” sentence can hurt ur feelings. I could have made a harsh joke here but some people are already punished by existing and getting hurt by every single word said 😂
People just get on the internet to project their insecurities and outlandish thoughts. Which is what she did. She’s definitely the type to think she’s woke but in reality she’s in a deep sleep and dreaming, which could be why she’s that delusional.
Yall lost me at that "Adele got with a black man and now she's transphobic. I'm so over anyone with this victim mentality. My mom just died, I have four kids and a wife plus her mother to feed, I just found out I have diebetes the other day, my vision is so bad I can barely read what I'm writing right now. I can't work because my vehicles have both shit the bed, and I have a. 3 bedroom house that I'm trying to fit 7 people in and I got 3 of my friends basically living in my minivan in the front yard but these people act like they have the most problems. I would cry if someone helped me out because I was brought up not to be a burden to anyone. That's what it's like to be a man. Pull your big boy/girl pants up and do the best you can.
But you see, its like the n-word. Black guys can call other black guys that word. Well... this person can call other black guys hateful because ... well...
“You can’t be happy to be a woman when ur fat” Proceeds to call Adele fatphobic “This all happens when she started dating a black man” Proceeds to call Adele racist Lmao I’m dead
That was a looooong, heavy-handed reach with her take. How does expressing being proud to be female, become transphobic and fat phobic? Why is it okay to express pride in being apart of the LGBTQ community but no one else can be proud of who they are or express that? What is really happening here? And it’s the black man’s fault! The ridiculousness of the thought that went into this is mind boggling 🥴
The hormones he's taking to make him look like a failed science project of a female has scrambled his brain. This is what happens when the spiritually ill are given power. God, bless us all.
@@adebayor1794 I’m actually just being respectful and calling Her what She identifies as. I have no issue referring to a person in the way they wish. It has absolutely no bearing on me.
Soon we’re expected to say “I’m a proud human” instead of a gender or race etc. then the vegan teacher be like “Oyy! How dare u discriminate against animals!!”
Honey…the word human is so offensive and unacceptable, because it contains the word „man“. The correct sentence would be „I‘m a proud person born with a penis, having a manufactured penis, born with a vagina, having a vagina sculptured, with any kind of genitalia but kinda feeling like having no genitalia, attack helicopter“. Please educate yourself! *fingers snapped, hands clapped
The trans-woman is clearly projecting her insecurities onto Adele. As much as it is not acknowledge, the trans women experience is very different from biological women's experience, an experience that trans women will never comprehend. Most women aren't thinking about trans women. I doubt Adele had trans women in mind when making the statement, and most women would understand this and what she meant.
I am trans and i agree. Thank you for not generalzing trans people and talking specifically about her unlike most people in the comments are doing. Wish people would stop acting like every trans person thinks the same.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 I think this has less to do with them being trans and more to do with online culture nowadays. Have you seen twitter? It doesnt matter how they identify, so many people have shit to say just to have shit to say. its ridiculous.
It's so sad when saying "I'm proud being a woman" is now a problem. And some trans people think it's always against them, it's always about them. You guys can cancel Adele anytime you want but she is still a great artist and she is a beautiful woman.
its the narcisism, you see. narcisism makes you think its about you, when it isnt. And unfortunately it very comorbid with identifying as trans. (i have seen the studies, in my day) I mean, what level of narcisism you need to be on to think you KNOW what the opposite sex FEELS like (or any other demographic youre not a part of)? One thing is empathy, but this is different. They think they have superpowers. The power to change reality, morph their bodies with their will alone, the power to read peoples mind, and know how they feel, and the power to command actions, demanding we use their favourite words to describe them and refer to them. In the old days, that would be treated like we treat the people that think they are jesus and can walk on water.
Right?! Holy fuck… “I wish I was the monster you think I am! I wish I had enough poison for all of you I’d gladly watch you all swallow it!” -Tyrion Lannister
So Adele can’t think for herself now? She must’ve been told by her Black boyfriend what to say? Isn’t saying this fundamentally anti feminist? This woman is delusional
It continues to boggle my mind that we’re allowing less than 1% of the population to determine the framework of society and what is/isn’t acceptable for public discourse.
If you think of it as a "oppression hierarchy" where the group that claims the most oppression is at the top dictating down to everyone else then you start to see where these people get their sense of entitlement.
true. also could anyone help me in another comment section pls? which is actually on a community tab btw talking about similar stuff to this. bc i feel like we could always help eachother in other comment sections who spread this nonsense especially if it comes to harrassing someone which alot of these people do when someones doesnt agree, hasnt happened there yet but yeah something like sticking together type thing. idk just a thought and it would be cool imo if you want to, just reply to me and I'll say on which channel what post it is and under which comment and all that cuz idk I don't wanna just say it like that yet but yeah
Her saying that Adele “only being proud of being a woman after losing weight” equates to being fat phobic is crazy. That’s the same logic as someone telling her that she’s only happy to be alive now because she’s transitioned to a woman, and she’s manphobic because she’s doesn’t want to live in her true identity. Or that’s also like someone calling her bodyphobic because she got cosmetic surgery to look like a woman. Also NEVER in my life have I heard black women being pressed about hearing from Black trans men. I’m starting to have a hard time with acknowledging these people. They’re literally full of shit, literally.
I never had any extended conversations with trans folks but the short convo we did have always got weird super fast. Then the voice drops and I’m gone.
In many cases the, do have in fact body dysmorphia. Trans became an umbrella term, which means transsexuals, transvestites, body dysmorphia, autogenyphilia, and even certain forms if autism and borderline.
My "sister " in law is Trans and that's one of my favorite ppl to hang around he funny af.. I'm a black man BTW and we get along just fine and I had her back several times
I’m pretty sure this is the same person that blamed black women for black men not wanting to date trans women and that we’re also the reason that black men are violent towards trans women. This person is unhinged and thinks they’re smarter than what they are. She’s a shitty person who wants to push her sexual beliefs onto people
I’m proud to be a straight full figured women if that makes me transphobic and fat phobic then 🤷🏻♀️ guess I can’t do much to change that. This lady is projecting her own insecurities onto Adele
My philosophy for years and years has always been “everyone can do whatever they want as long as it’s not hurting anyone and themselves”. Sometimes, for a community that I feel is hugely about that, it’s sad when they perceive something non harmful as harmful, and they themselves exhibit harmful behaviour because of it 🤷♀️
Well the council of the transformers disagree. You behavior is anti-women and anti black. Welcome to what men have had to deal with for a long as time. Logic has left the build and is lost among the damage american public.
That's the problem right there. People keep buying into delusions. If you aren't an adult human FEMALE, you cannot be a woman. PERIOD! This is a male. Therefore, HE is a MAN.
I love being a woman and I’m so happy that Adele spoke up for bio women/females who are proud of being that aka Transphobic. Adele is also clearly happy with being healthier and not being at risk for heart disease, stroke or diabetes aka Fatphobic😒. You are a “Trans” woman - hyphenated, maybe if you were proud to be that there wouldn’t be so much animosity towards Women.
This trans woman seems a little misogynistic. 🤷🏾♀️. I've seen other videos and she continuously comes for bio black women. Not all trans women are like that all. And misogyny can exist in all women. So yeah
I saw that in that Trina puta who said a 20 year old woman can't date an older male. She's 20, who cares, as long as she's not preying on a teenager and she's with a dude and it's consensual shut your God damn mouth and mind your business.
As a biological woman I want to know why it is that you only hear from Trans "women"? They cause the most problems when a biological woman says she is proud to be a woman. They are the ones that try to compete against biological women in sports. Trans women are the ones that call men transphobic because they don't want to date a Trans woman. Where are the Trans men trying to compete in men's sports? Where are the Trans men calling out biological women who don't want to date them?
people need to go outside and touch grass. This person isn't representative of all trans people.This is just a deeply insecure person looking for clout on the internet
Trans men often fly under the radar for a variety of reasons. Noone worries about them perving on cis men in public toilets (for one because molestation of men is not widely seen as a serious issue but mostly if anything it'd rather be the other way around), they don't have unfair advantages in sports (quite the contrary) and they often visibly conform better to societal expectations which leads to them "passing" easier. Body type as well as facial structure and hair growth patterns all generally transition easier ftm
Because trans men were socialized as women, they weren't raised to feel entitled to men or to have access to all the things that men have. Also they aren't stupid, they know that they're physically vulnerable to cis men in male spaces like prisons.
Why do people gamble their self-esteem on celebrities like: actors, athletes, and politicians? An individual's goals and motivations change, suddenly other people get angry that they no longer have a hero fantasy. I don't understand.
Because in So-ciety todays, "individuals" reflect on themselves through the media, not through a physical mirror giving them a view of themselves. THIS is an example of the echo chamber in todays world.
I've recently started seeing comments like "oh I like so and so, they represent me, I like seeing people that look like me in x y z" and I'm reading all those comments like, isn't this sort of, narcissistic? Maybe it's just me, but I don't particularly care if a certain singer or actress shares similar traits to me or not, if I like them I like them, if I don't I don't. They don't have to "represent" me first, that just seems so self absorbed to me.
When she was like "If Adele was with a white guy, this wouldn't have happened!" As a white guy... I leapt from my seat going:" The FUCK you talking about???"
I don’t even understand what it’s point was. If Adele was with a white guy she wouldn’t have said she loves being a woman? I don’t get it. Is it saying that black people are corrupted and spread transphobia?
This is why I was against this shit from the beginning!!! I don't care what people do. But, you give them an inch, they want a light-year. This community is becoming unbearable. They just can't live their lives and be proud. They have to attack anyone THEY feel isn't on board. The SAD part, is they don't even recognize the irony! Someone who WASN'T proud of who they were BIOLOGICALLY trying to shame someone else who is. Make it make sense.
Exactly! and if you’re not on board they’ll try everything to smear you in the mud. attaching labels that aren’t accurate to you saying that you’re a hater. I don’t even have time to sit and argue or consider every little thing because I have to get cheddar, I have to work. I know this might sound mean, but I don’t care about every little thing of what they say or if I hurt their feelings. because I don’t have the time or energy. I just don’t.
I mean...the irony of that statement, is that's EXACTLY the argument bigoted white people made as Black people were fighting and dying for your voting and civil rights decades ago. Damn near verbatim the first two paragraphs. I think this woman was way out of pocket for that b/s she said and comes off as a generally trash person. BUT, why does it have to be a referendum on the whole of their community instead of calling her stupid ass out? We're always the ones saying, "we're not a monolith"...just us on our individual merits. Then going off and doing the same stuff our oppressors did. I ain't with that shit.
Not only am I proud to be a woman, I’m proud to be a black woman woman! Im proud to be a mother too…..a mother with two kids…… a married stay at home mum too. Does that make me against black single parent working mums? NO…..my mum was a single, working black woman and I’m proud of her too😊
Real talk: non-binary/ trans people genuinely confuse me and I’m not trying to be rude. How can you feel like your gender? I’m talking generally nobody FEELS like a woman or a man, you just ARE one. So how can you say you don’t feel like what you are? Or not feel like nothing at all? I’ve heard a lot say they “don’t feel like they’re in the right body” but what exactly does that MEAN? like what does being in right body mean??? Is it gendered stereotypes because we’re working to fix those and have changed a lot to become more equal. I truly don’t understand it
I refuse to let ANYONE tell me I don’t have the right to be proud of ALL that I am, which happens to be a black, intelligent (natural) woman. Which has no bearings on any other person, Trans, gay, straight or any type in between. Someone’s insecurities will never dictate that for me.
@@elizahaynes5916 I just don’t understand why some Trans people think in order to be happy or proud of who ever they want to be, they have to push the idea that we can’t do the same? Or we aren’t supposed to do the same, just because we were born as biological women? Later for all that b.s.
