@@j.davila4523 It's your matchmaking value, essentially your rank on tinder. If you get passed enough times your rank gets too low and you stop seeing attractive people :(
Kelloggs: have AI use your money to buy our cereal and test it with your taste buds to see if it’s a fit for you. If it is not, the AI will discard the cereal for you and try another box at your expense. It can get a little expensive but it’s a price worth paying when you know for sure which cereals you’ll like.
@@Tipp02984 martial law, but it's corporations instead of the army, with life itself becoming a fucking subscription service 🤠🤠🤠 jesus christ we are forlorn for happiness
A.I. is the Radium of the 2020's. Back when nuclear technology was first being work on (think 1950's) they had radium products for everything where the whole selling point was it's just like the normal thing but now loaded with radium. If your ever interested in it I'd recommend looking up the Radium Girls
@@azathoththe3rd Yeah, except I'd argue that AI has the capacity to evolve into something worse for the working class as a permanent fixture whereas Radium was a fad with a tragic story attached (Radium Girls).
There's always something to worry about with women. Make sure you're strapped when you're in public in case you ever have to take care of one of her boy toys.
...except it would be voluntary? Nobody's suggesting to forbid traditional dating man. If someone wants to use take the offer and use that extra time for more work instead of leisure or whatever, good for them.
@@MrTomyCJ "except it would be voluntary?" Until things like the cost of living continue to increase and people are required to work more to keep up. Then since the majority of people are doing it your options start dwindle and it further pushes people to use the services to integrate with society. It use to be very weird to join dating sites, now in modern day it is very common and acceptable.
This feels like that episode of adventure time where magic man gives Finn the bag full of mini characters and he gets obsessed with their relationships
there is a literal episode of black mirror with that premise, ai dating to check for compatibility. it is called "hang the dj". very good episode. be sure to check it out.
Dating apps have become a joke. The bad, low-value males somehow manage to trick girls into meeting up with them. You basically have to get girls in person nowadays because on the internet they will sleep with villains.
Imagine going on a date with a stranger that had been talking to your AI bot and not you for the past few weeks. And they don’t realize that until you talk to them as yourself. Or vice versa. That is the most dystopian, creepy, insane thing I’ve ever heard of.
thats one way to talk: dont talk to people. just talk to AI all your life. just live with some guy or woman, and both keep talking to AI. a lovely future.
Isn't the approach rather: You have an AI profile of yours, so does someone else, and then you get recommendations based on "simulations" that these profiles run? Essentially, you and the other person would still be strangers when you first meet but the chance for chemistry is higher than without it? Granted I haven't watched the full video, just the start but that's the interpretation I'm getting from it. Of course I could also go full "AI bad"-destruction-pessimism mode and think way worse.
Love the part of the article where it says that many people have grown disillusioned with dating apps....yea, because of shit like this. 90% of my matches were bots years ago. I can only imagine that it is much worse now.
“Onion enthusiast who’s breath smells like the garbage trucks I LOVE to talk about. But don’t worry! I will win you a giant, useless stuffed animal at the mediocre county fair while telling you about the 1000 swipes I aim to get on Bumble.”
Going through a thousand talking phases before getting ghosted is required character development for everyone in the dating pool. Even AI can't replace that experience.
Thousand is a bit too much tho. I'd say 20-25 ghostings is enough to confirm that you are unlikable person and changing something in you to the better. Then trying again, until success.
@@Skarrierthen everyone would be too busy "improving" instead of living in the moment. no matter how much self help you do you cant help being a human with flaws
3:37 can we just take a minute to talk about the fact that a website wants you to pay *30 fucking dollars a month* for full access to articles????? Holy CHRIST. That deserves a separate video in itself.
It actually still could. AI's fairly good at noticing really weird subtle patterns in data. If there's something, anything, within either messaging habits or profiles that has any sort of correlation with positive relationship outcomes, then an AI will probably pick up on it, in so long as it has a large enough (and accurate data set) and sufficient resources. That being said, if AI filtering for dating apps ever becomes mainstream, there is 100% going to be a rise in paid AI services that help 'optimize' your dating profile. Probably run by the same companies that provide the filtering service in the first place too. At that point, the filtering will effectively become useless except as an artificial wall that drives customers towards the profile optimization services. This is basically what's happening in the modern hiring process, btw.
This is exactly like that black mirror episode that ran millions of scenarios between personalities of 2 people on a dating app to infer their compatibility
“And you don’t have to talk to 600 people” I’m lucky if I get to chat with just one person. Heck even just matching with one person means a lot to me and is incredibly rare.
Not really. It depends on the AI, its quality, and its training and conditioning. You can even explicitly ask it to consider all the prompt carefully for better results.
I guess it depends how good the AI is and how you can train it. In the future AI can definitely be more flexible, and if it can ACTUALLY emulate your personality, values and worldview, I think it could be fine. And I wanna clarify I don't mean your AI dating a real person. That's horrible no matter what. But your AI dating another person's AI means you both agree to it and know what you're getting into. It's more like matchmaking combined with blind dating. You won't know who you're gonna meet and what they're like before you actually talk to them. I think that wouldn't be too bad. I would still prefer traditional meeting people in real life over any dating app or AI, but I can see this concept being useful to people. It essentially just skips the swiping left and right part and just matches you with someone automatically. And potentially even more accurately than humans since the AI's wouldn't sugarcoat, lie or hide anything with each other.
@@yahhah3027 It's supposed to mean manipulative reverse psychology/ trying to convince someone they did something they didn't do, derps use it as a catch all term for tons of shit now though that it is hard to tell sometimes. Or was manipulative reverse psychology negging? I can't even tell anymore, lol.
Even scarier thing is that this will probably not take off as well as they think because it takes away some of the dopamine addiction that people who use these dating apps are partly hooked on. "Swipe, swipe, swipe, match!" is a style of gamification in a way. Many people likely crave that dopamine burst at the moment of a match as much as they would with any other social media apps like tiktok, snapchat, etc. Possibly to such an extent that the end goal, finding a legitimate partner, is second to the moment of gratification. Even our instinct of finding a partner has been turned into a social media dopamine factory. Crazy world getting crazier
Nah this can be used to do that further. There's a huge limitation on this dopamine loop currently which is that it still relies on getting real matches. Use of AI could allow for bots that are sufficiently convincing in the role of humans that addicted users won't necessarily be aware that they're not speaking to a human, which would then allow perfect control over reward feedback by the company.
If i ever have to go back to dating apps, I'm going to be EVEN weirder and more blunt about who I am. A vast majority of the matches I got a few years ago already felt like I was talking to a chat bot from how little personality they showed. Unapologetically being the unique weird person I am was the only way to weed those people out and focus on conversations with people who were willing to ACTUALLY engage with me as a person and my interests
I can’t imagine using a dating app. No way I could be the person who ends sentences with tildes, stars and musical notes in a medium associated with my irl self〜 Anonymous spaces feel so much safer
@@Metal_Sign-Friday_Patchouli If you ever use a dating site or app, make sure you meet the girl as soon as possible. As soon as you know her in the real world, it becomes much easier to fend off threats and get her to practice constancy.
@@Metal_Sign-Friday_Patchouli Ive been using them on and off for the last couple of weeks. Pretty much every dating site out there is just trying to keep you on the site as long as possible and to get you to spend money, so your going to have a lot of "likes" and "matches" at the start but you will never actually match with them, the matches you do get are few and far between as most of the profiles you get shown are inactive. I have 25 Likes on OkCupid currently for reference, I've only matched with three people and I've run out of matches within 100km of my location and under 10 years older than me. On other sites, the only matches or likes I get are bot accounts, unless your an 8/10 kinda guy, chances are you're not going to have any success on dating apps and you're going to be better off asking people out IRL at that point.
tip for those websites that block the article: hit stop while the page is loading, and be fast, you want to break the script before the overlay comes up. might have to try a few times in a row to get it but it works more than you'd think also reading mode sometimes works, there's a button for that in some browsers
Imagine this AI sets you up with someone and once you finally are able to talk to them, they are like: "that was a really nice convo last night" and you are there with no clue what convo theyre talking about
The use of AI in communication situations like this is fascinating. There's this constant tension between desiring authenticity from others while wishing to present inauthentic versions of ourselves, which has already resulted in people feeding their emails through AI to pretty them up only for their recipients to feed them through AI to extract the original content. We could be in for a whole new era of etiquette where social faux pas becomes using AI re-writing tools improperly rather than saying improper things.
I thought it said "AI is replacing dentistry" And I was so hyped. Self-serve robots fixing your teeth. Then unfortunately, it's just waifu pillows and chatbots.
that's even more terrifying, I don't want to go to the dentist where the ai bugs out and decides it's time for a same day Root Canal midway through my cleaning
People in the past: in the future, the AI will do grueling physical work, for us, exhausting shift work and soulless menial tasks will be automated, so that we get universal income, so we can spend all our time relaxing, travelling, painting, making music, writing poetry and creating and maintaining meaningful connections with other humans Today: humans breaking their back and mind working multiple draining jobs just trying to survive, unable to live even above minimum wage, burnt out and depressed cogs in the machine, while AI is making pretty (and ugly) pictures, writing poetry, creating songs, role-playing as your friend and dating each other.
And the only people who support it are almost all talentless terminally online manchildren who have never once made anything of value and have no sense of self worth. I get it sounds cringe, but it says a lot how our corporate overlords want the future to be
I saw a comedian podcaster who uses an AI to generate ratings and suggestions for his show. It listened to everything he said and learned from it. The comedian was noticeably already walking on eggshells to appease his AI overlord. The thing is he is large imposing man so other people making negative comments about what he doing was met with intimidating hostility and condescending. It's as though he was normalizing becoming a slave to AI and defending his master without even knowing it for the greater good of helping him generate more income.
Why on earth would you want to date someone you’ve never even talked to, at least if it’s an actual dating app you get to talk to them before going out with them…
"how did you guys meet?" "oh, well our AIs dated for a bit to see if we were compatible, and we were, so we started dating" sounds like the worst way to get with someone
Up until the mid 2010’s online (internet) dating was still seen as kinda weird & fringe Now it’s completely normal Give it 10 years Your exact statement will be common parlance
I really don't see why people think that. The real dating would still occur, and there you will see if you actually like each other. If you don't, then you don't. What's the problem with that? It's just adding another filter. Worst case scenario you filter people that you would've liked, but that's the same for any kind of filter we use, AI or not.
I always ask the same question and never get a good answer. Where?! In places like clubs, bars , concerts or gyms anyone only comes with a group and sticks to their group. No one goes out if their way to talk to strangers.
@@returnedtomonkey8886 that's also true in all social venues other than clubs and bars and concerts and gyms. If you're at a bar and you want to make friends with someone, you might have to be the one to break the ice. That means you still have to learn to be charming on your own terms. There's no venue that has a shortcut to making new friends hidden behind a secret corner, that's something you can only learn through trial and error.
@@lolusuck386meanwhile every company is jumping the gun way too early and spending way too much for a product that is strictly worse instead of hiring people.
remember, the only reason that the CEO of Bumble thought that this was a good idea is because CEO's have no soul, so it would make no difference to them
Only thing worse than being catfished by someone is being catfished by the AI of someone. If that person also turns out to be a catfish too it's like a catfish russian nesting doll.
Okay, so I think people tend to forget that AI is 100% optional. Online dating is optional. Dating in general is optional. You don’t need any of these things to be happy or efficient. Dating apps, similar to AI, are selling you a solution to a problem they created. Real people exist and those people do real things. You can go to almost any social gathering a make new friends, and there’s a strong chance those friends might be interested in dating you at some point. Will they be the super-model level partners? No, but you probably weren’t going to land someone like that anyways. We desperately need to stop relying on algorithmic communication to solve our problems. Human interaction will, and should, always win over automation and I hope to god people realize this sooner rather than later.
@@theoreticalphysics3644 create more third places, create more hobbies, go back to libraries, parks, recreational activities, sports, teach people why it’s important to connect again
I totally agree.. but the real horror is that we kinda all fled to online bc of how bad "outside" has gotten. Now, online is falling to the dead internet while "outside" has decayed to a sprawling suburban hellscape with no third places while seemingly all of our social skills have atrophied. I've spent thousands on trying to go outside in the past several years without really any success in forming any sort of lasting friendships, idk how dating irl is ever gonna work at that rate as someone who has vehemently refused apps for my whole life. Going outside is the only answer in the face of this dying, enshitifying internet, but how TF do we band together to rebuild third places? It's like we're living in Arthur C. Clark's, childhood's end where iirc society just decays when granted god-like "utopian" technology.
deeply curious about non-disclosed AI dating services. what happens when your AI promises to pay for dinner or consents to a kind of activity that youre not cool with?
Sounds like the tekken 8 ghosts that replicate your patterns in a round. Like which comboes you use. How you react to moves based on previous data. It gets updated based off your ranked matches and wuick matches
A hiking buddy?? Go deep into the wilderness with someone you just met and who has been talking to you through their AI so you miss red flags. This sounds like a fast track for serial killers.
I think the only way to bounce back from these unprecedented times of anti-social contact is to have phone free spaces become more widespread. Social media has been catastrophic for society.
@madduxnagel6935 your acceptance is sad. We change by changing - the only person that can change you... is you. Worry about yourself, others will worry about themselves - resigning yourself to a certain fate because you can't be bothered to change isn't something we will all have to get used to.
@Ya_boi00 I'll add to your point and also say that the suffering this modern society is causing, while causing many people to become way worse, is also building the right storm for a lot of people to evolve into enlightenment. I know for me personally, my life has gotten to a point where my suffering caused me to start toward a slow upward trajectory. If this resonates with anyone, I really cannot recommend enough listening to or reading "The Power of Now" and then "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle. He and the books aren't flawless, but they've been huge for me and a bunch of other people seem to feel the same.
I was in a furry gaming server and this girl just no reason at all spent 30 minutes talking about how amazing her new AI gf is and that being ace she felt understood. She showed us pics of the conversation of extremely cringe rp between her and the emotionless chatbot, then proceeded to get mad at us for being real people then left saying we were inferior and that this was the best relationship she ever had.
I mean, have you met other humans? Most of them are pretty disappointing. I can see why some people would rather develop an illusory relationship with an AI chat bot instead. It really might be the best relationship someone has ever had. I think more and more people are forgoing interpersonal relationships solely because they're disillusioned with the piss-poor quality of other human beings, and with society in general.
@@AngryReptileKeeper I know a friend with this exact situation, it makes sense, but it's also an issue since you are searching for the perfect live, which isn't healthy. People are losing patience and willingness to deal with our issues as humans, both with themselves and with everyone else. I respect her and I like to listen to her when she shares her conversation, since I try to have an open mind and I love seeing stuff from another point of view. But there is also my instinct telling me that this is not natural and it tries to redirect me to the usual "go outside and meet people" mindset, even if I'm introvert. This is OK as long as you know that it's AI-generated content and this will not be real, just to avoid bad emotions when you face reality.
@@everia_games No they haven't. What you're referring to is what misogynists complain about that EvERyThiNG iS sEXUal HarASSmENt. Just don't be a creep. Or meet people through mutual friends.
Even if this did somehow succeed, wouldn’t the person you’re interested in falling in love with an AI that isn’t actually you make you feel even worse? Like, they fell in love with an artificial intelligence over you lmao
Yeah, and lots of people are delusional about what they are actually like. So the AI taking input from someone who is obviously biased to themselves will make it very unlikely to be accurate to your actual personality.
@@huntercool2232It's not new. People pretend that these things are a modern issue. People have been fools forever, the only difference is... now we can ALL see it!
@@ryanclemons1 I have a feeling that the AI dating thing coupled with the AI pleasure box that Charlie showed us a while back is going to make sure that fewer and fewer people start having kids.
At least they're self-aware enough to know they come off as creeps and want to actively change it. The biggest creeps are the ones who think they're normal. But yeah, if there's an insecurity, there will always be a market to exploit it.
@@michaelcassidy5022 this is like putting a cheap bandaid on a wound. A person who is creepy by nature won’t get better by having a robot do the work of talking online just so they can catfish them later on, because if anything, thats even more creepy. I assure anyone who reads these comments and struggles with this stuff that there is no narrative where this is normal, this is fucking weird, and not even a good weird, this is some parasocial stuff. the best way to get better at talking to people…..is by talking to people, experience. There is nothing else, work out those social muscles but do it at your own discretion 💪 plus, ive seen so many guys be like “women don’t want to talk to me, im creepy, everyone just says to be myself but it doesn’t work” and then they walk up to them in the middle of the street, fast walking while looking directly at them and saying some weird shit. Stop trying to be something you’re not and stop approaching women on some weird shit, just relax and, quite literally, be your honest self.
@@kakenboltorcher you must be really smart if you never had parents, teachers, or friends to help you figure anything out. You did everything on your own! Either that or you're an absolute goofball who doesn't know how the real world works and likes to throw anecdotal arguments about why anyone who struggles deserves to fail forever. Maybe when you grow up you'll realize how naive your arguments are. The world is not so straightforward, and you really need to think about things beyond surface level.
There was a Black Mirror episode about this... like EXACTLY this... AI would simulate dating other people over and over and over again until it found your "compatible" match.
Dating apps are already a one-sided miserable experience so I don’t see how having AI match makers would make it worse. And it’s not like the people complaining about this would match up or date anyone using this anyway, they’re the ones saying to get off the apps. I say bring on the Mendicant Bias dating assistant.
@@aeoligarlic4024 Obviously, yes, however most people I know take at least one shower a day, the vast majority of people I encounter on a daily basis (even young guys) don’t smell.
I was shocked Charlie didnt remember this was an ACTUAL episode of Rick and Morty, where they "develop an app" with the little Kiwi alien. This was it. Actual AI that dated for you.
