There's no "Happy New Year!" or "Good Luck!" after all that. She would have gotten a loud knock on her door from me within ten minutes of sending that text. Did her parents raise her to be dismissive and disrespectful, or did she learn that from her friends?
I get the feeling that she expected him to desperately beg her to still go on a date with him, but instead he basically said "Aw, oh well. Peace!", and that pissed her off.
9:18 Hot take: the reason she got so aggro and accused him of only wanting to have sex with her isn't what she was mad about. She was mad at the fact that he didn't get upset at her rejection and accepted it with Grace. For crazy psychos with a complex like that, the idea that someone could be perfectly fine with not getting with them is an insult to their pride.
It could be either this or she was really trying to find an excuse to screenshot the whole conversation and post it somewhere, hoping that she found some creep (which he was not). Dopamine reward from social media could be one hell of a drug.
Not really, though, because there's no identifying information about her that would make anyone realize who she is to avoid her. On the other hand, she has his picture, name and number to hurt him in whatever groups she's part of. And don't take her threats lightly, women do have groups where they dox men and "advise" other women of staying away from them. Those groups go as well as you'd expect, mainly resentful women who just wanna hurt their exes as much as possible
@notatrollll the thing is. You don't know about it. They don't parade around saying they are part of those groups unless you are at the end of their pitching fork and they actively decided to cross you out as potential partner. Either way it's a win to stay away from these type of women that frequent those Echo Chambers
Hearing Charlie speaking fluently in Czech language was the most terrifying thing I have ever experienced because I had the video as a backround thing and I literally thought he broke the 4th wall to talk to me to go fuck myself.
@@amsyjo The guy is to blame to some extent for his weak use of emojis ("When can we make this happen 👶") and word choice (He called her either "m'lady or m'am" at some point). It's hard to say for sure without seeing what they look like. My guess is that the rejection was a pretext for her wanting to meet up with one of her other Tinder matches instead, which is a very dangerous game for women to play. When you make a commitment to one guy, you'd better stick to it.
You are on the very edge of incel behavior. Please look at yourself. Healthy rational people don't care how you use emojis. Fuck the most attractive woman I know types with "XD" and she's 28 Please. Don't go any farther
theyre mad, you just have sex with random people until you get a girlfriend. its probably bad for women in retrospect. especially the girl that's my girlfriend now.
Honestly her freaking out like that was the best possible outcome for this dude. Clearly she’s off her rocker and she just saved this man from the inevitable misery that would have came eventually
@@samuliilill541She was too lazy to block him, I doubt she has the motivation to actually prepare a letter to these groups that doesn't make _her_ look like a moron, lol.
This is a real life example of picking the wrong dialogue options and upsetting the NPC. Except what the test read and what your character says is the complete opposite vibe so there's no way you could have known it was malicious
It was such a free flowing and perfectly natural conversation but the whole idea of it to her was "too perfect" She tricked herself into think it was all innuendo and freaked out at the thought lol
@@queenpanda26 sorry I haven’t met ever woman in the world. I don’t plan to. I know not everyone is like that but I have enough experience to make a general consensus.
@jandptv5954 it's not she was just legit crazy as a girl of you hype everything up when we find out we'll most likely just be disappointed be honest and you'll find a girl that likes you for you I hope you do find a girlfriend one day
As a woman, I love baking and cooking dates but I don’t feel comfortable doing that until earliest the 3rd date. However, I cannot blame the guy for suggesting it as they had just talked about it. If I were her, I’d have replied with something firm yet polite and playful like “Tbh I don’t really feel comfortable coming to your place just yet for cooking or baking so how about we go to a restaurant and have someone else do the cooking for us first? 😉”. You can tell this guy would have been totally cool and respectful about it.
Perfect example of a light hearted and flirty way to redirect that conversation! As a woman, I also never do apartment first dates, but suggesting an alternative is a great way to see if the guy is worth your time. If he’s down: green light. If he’s pushy and insists on that apartment date: quick block.
Exactly...guy didnt seem pushy at all and seemed decent...she either could have left it at the first rejection message if she was that paranoid. Or did what you just wrote. If i was in his place the sudden insults would have me gobsmacked. Uncalled for.
@@elambedoExactly. No decent and respectful guy would be mad if the girl diverted the date to a public place as a first date just to be safe. Its all about having understanding. I mean i would probably suggest to have a cooking date as a first date within the same context of talking about cooking together. I wouldnt think of it as THAT inappropriate if we are talking about it. But sure as hell wouldnt be mad if she rejected it and wanted a date in public. Thats 100% understandable.
Yeah some guys get really pushy about this kind of thing. My friend was recently in the online dating scene and she told me about this time she set up a coffee date with a guy, and then he tried to redirect her to his house because quote, "his new puppy had separation anxiety, so he can't leave." And when she suggested they go to a park with the puppy instead, he made up some weird reasoning why his dog couldn't leave his house. So she just called the whole thing off and moved on. But this obviously wasn't what OP was doing.
Exactly. And cooking together is very intimate as well so it's kinda nice to make sure you vibe with someone first. I get him trying, once again seeing that they talked about it. This lady crazy for handling it like that though lol
It feels like this girl was on Tinder for the sole purpose of finding and criticizing guys that were using it for sex, but ended up finding a genuinely nice guy, and she didn’t know how to react, so she found any reason she could to accuse him of being a creep
This is exactly what I was thinking lol. The switch in conversation was so weird and sudden, it's like she was looking for an excuse to go off on him and just jumped at the first thing regardless that it didn't make sense.
The fact that she even says "You haven't asked me on a proper date yet." before she went batshit, then goes batshit when asked on that date, is the strangest case of bipolar disorder I've seen.
@@NotInAsia Apparently someone didn't listen to the whole story. You can't cook with someone else in public. She could have politely refused and the guy could have asked her to go do something else in public. Instead she had a ridiculous meltdown on some innocent dude. Stop white knighting for some bipolar sociopathic woman, she's not reading these RU-vid comments.
@@___meph___4547 oh I'm white knighting now, lol. For someone anonymous? Come on man you're just misusing the term white knighting now. I'm just being objective. But you do you buddy.
@@john24110 I don't think that is white knighting. That is not my definition of 'white knighting' - white knighting is defending a girl with the intent of currying favour with her. This is some anonymous person that I will never see, know, or know anything about. We may disagree but my comment is wholly objective and just because it doesn't agree with yours, or other peoples, you label me a 'white knight'. Think about it. Because these terms are banded around way too often.
My first and only tinder match wanted to go on a hike for our first date. I explained I prefer something more public, he politely agreed and said he understood why - no drama. We continued talking like normal (until I realized did heroin... So we never met in person lol).
Her saying she's in every single Facebook group on the whole Eastern Seaboard is like Usopp trying to convince his enemies he's got 3 Million ships at his command ☠️
He even started his sentence with "would you be comfortable..", which means he fully understands that's maybe a bit awkward for a first date, but logistically makes sense given the context of the potential date.
I'm starting to feel like these people never learned how to properly communicate with other human beings. It was so clear and obvious to a normal person the dude was only asking this as one potential option, only if she wanted to but the woman somehow mistook that and inserted a whole fanfic of the dude's intentions instead of being a normal person.
The way she acted directly after that seems like she was only going to be "comfortable" with him suggesting reservations at a 5 star restaurant or maybe a few days vacation fully paid for by him.
@@ruidechendude put 2 and 2 together and that was somehow the wrong in her eyes. She’s either got some trauma or has some crazy negative stereotypes about men
@@mutantraze3681Most likely both. Had some horrible dating experiences, got caught up in an echo chamber of women with bad dating experiences, grew a hatred of men and paranoia of men's motives from it. I've seen it happen.
Funny how she had to tell him twice that she blocked him and then proceeded to still have a conversation with him, she must really be the alone one in question if she's unable to find it in herself to just end the conversation there LMAO
Typical behaviour of somone who lives on the internet and probably spends alot of time writeing angry comments. She goes for the classic your blocked power move, but at the same time her low self esteem dosnt let her actually block him as she needs to see if he responds to her.
There's setting healthy boundaries with others, & then there's this. I hope that guy finds a cool person to cook with & I hope she finds a good therapist & possibly the right meds.
i don’t go to men’s apartments on first dates either but girl this was so embarrassing 🫣 the way people flip over text like this never fails to freak me out. i loved how he asked if she was comfortable first, it would have been the perfect segway into suggesting an alternative (like a picnic date where you bring food you both cooked!)
Not wanting to go to a guy's loft for a first date is completely reasonable, but the way she just exploded while he was being completely cordial is INSANE... he seemed like a sweet guy, at least she showed her true colors before he actually went out with this psychopath
@@uniquegod1997Neither can the vast majority of people. Rejection causes emotions that are inherently unpleasant for humans. No need to gender it at all, so no need to worry about phantom feminists.
@@uniquegod1997 He didnt even reject her, she said shes disapointed and doesnt want anything further to which he just agree, but I think hed try to suggest something else and not reject her had she not go completely crazy
Possibly? but we also have to remember that those are extremely rare. And I also read an interesting paper about how many women who make false claims Were actually SA'd, but not at that time or by that person and it was a manifestation of past trauma. there's always so much to the story. Don't get upset at me or anything, hust to get ahead of it I'm not saying its ok or justified ever
As a woman I completely understand not wanting to go to someone's house to meet a date for the first time but i dont understand why she immediately shut down all further chances of dates with him over it
People like her are providing a valuable service, letting others know right away they're insane instead of later down the line when you're somewhat invested. Kudos to her!
But, to be fair to her, I kinda understand the reaction. I don't condone it, but i get it. If these are younger individuals, say 25 ish, the girl was probably told for her entire life that men only want her for sex. She probably experienced it too, and how many bad experiences can you have before you consider it the status quo? It was prolly engrained into her head that "if a guy asks you to come over, it will only ever be for sex," Again, that's no excuse for that kinda reaction given the context, but she was prolly thinking that it was better to be safe than sorry.
I can tell that she comes from one of those eastern European cultures that allows women to talk any which way to men. I guarantee she wouldn't be able to muster the courage to say that to a (non-effeminate) man's face.
If I had to guess, she got offended that the guy was okay with calling everything off after she rejected the first date idea and didn't get on his knees begging to find some other alternative for them. In other words she was mad he was okay with never actually meeting her
@@Memorial24 Assuming nothing on the internet can ever be real is just as stupid as believing everything you read. Nothing about this screamed fake imo
@@heckingbamboozled8097 There’s no way this is real it’s way too over the top and cartoonish, Charlie finds these conversions on Reddit and picks the craziest obviously fake ones he can find and reads them all to you. Anyone can easily fake these with little to no effort.
Ngl, I had the video on background while studying (in Czech) and hearing something remotely similar to Czech from Charlie in the middle of a pretty normal video caught me by surprise.
It would have been so over the second I heard "get lost" from her, this guy is a better person than I am. He actually waited for her to think about what she was saying instead of closing dms with her first when she went full psycho lol
There aren’t many clearly, because this guy had the ruse of a “cooking date” when he really just wanted a hook up which he proved with his “we met on tinder” comment.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v"We met on Tinder," is a statement. It doesn't prove that at all. There are plenty of good men out there, women are just blind to them because they assume that they all want sex and only sex, no matter what. They have that filter over their eyes that they can't tear off.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3vThat was a statement. It doesn't prove anything. There are plenty of good men out there, women are just blind to them because they think that all they ever think about is sex no matter what. Women have this filter over their eyes that they can't remove.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v doubt it. Everyone knows tinder is famous for that but anyone with a brain can sense just by how he talks how much of an innocent teddy bear golf-on-sundays dude this guy is.
She ended that way too abruptly. The guy could have said, “Ok, I understand. How about we go to a restaurant instead?” but she never even gave him the chance.
@@tomrisk9287 on Tinder in a big city? The odds are incredibly low. She's completely gone, nobody's home in that little head of hers. That's the most likely explanation.
Imagine bragging "I'm gonna put you on blast in front of 500k people!" Now she's being put on blast in front of an audience of 14.2 MILLION LMAO edit: was not expecting the amount of likes this got, love y'all 🤙🏽
True! I hope this video reaches her 😃 A fair point tho is that what she wanted to do was much worse, because I don't think he actually posted her personal info/photo as she said she was going to do to him.
I'd say not getting caught up in dramatic people's bullshit is the good ending. Missing the date isn't a bad thing when you didn't wade into someone's waist deep bullshit life.
@@CantTellYou holy fck I met this girl on Tinder and she shared her whatsapp then in a week she wanted to meet and sent some weird texts, after that she blocked me out of nowhere and I found out she has an instagram where she posts people from dating apps and my whatsapp chats were there with her deleting her texts in between my texts and screenshotting it. It was so pathetic, now I just meet new people through my friends and friends of friends. Fuck dating apps its all a sham
It’s because she asked for a first date BEFORE a baking/cooking date and it looks like all he could focus on was getting her to his apartment. But her responses after saying “I’m no longer interested” are unhinged.
I don't disagree but at the same time, what she actually said to him going "when can we do this" as "idk you haven't asked me on a proper date yet" I would view a cooking date as a proper date. My first 'proper' date with one of my now exes was cooking at her house. Her language is pretty vague and could easily be read as "I don't know when we are doing this because you haven't suggested a time and place". I think he read it that way. And yeah, he may have also thought, "If she comes round, I might get laid" but even that isn't uncommon. It is a fair boundary on her end, but I don't think it's fair to insinuate that he ignored any explicit statement of "no, we need a date on neutral ground first"
I love how you can just tell this dude read that message where she said she was disappointed that he even suggested coming over and accepted that that is no longer a person worth pursuing. I feel like shit like that is a trap for people who will try to chase after her just so she can have control
"I hope you find peace and love" Honestly, just the best way to end it off. No hostility, no animosity, just a "Hope you do good, carry on" and that's it. It's always strange watching the opposite of what happens to women happen to a dude that just wants some steaks and ribeye.
The last time I had a similar interaction on OkCupid, I ended up sending a message that read, "You'd better hope we don't cross paths when I'm in [insert her location] next week. You won't hear the end of it. 😈" I ended up being IP banned until I got a new laptop. Mods are the biggest white knights out there.
It’s literally the same as when you have that one person who insists on using the word “baka” instead of just being normal amd saying “idiot”. They think they are clever when in reality they are just not.
Just another worthless bot or an account run by a worthless individual. At any rate, the person who runs UTTP is worth less than the sum of their parts.@@UTTPOFFICER1
Honestly that last line is GOATED, props to the guy. don't forget, she is human. despite the undeserved lash of attack on this poor guy - she was likely traumatized by a life event or had been taught a limited view of the world during these moments. It might seem "crazy" and "insane" which when put into context is "mental illness" or "trauma living". I think the man in this exchange knew this, which is the reason behind why he said "I hope you find peace and love." When someone heals from their own trauma, they realize others may still need to find their INNER peace and love so that they no longer are limited by their narrow view of the world and heal their own trauma.
@@lebooselover978no one is excusing her behavior 😭 OP was explaining why her behavior may be like that, not that it’s okay for her to be unhinged based off of past experiences.
“I’m not comfortable going to an apartment as a first date, would you mind if we grab coffee or dinner a couple times before that?” Is such a better response, she definitely had some underlying issues that were on full display there. Good on him being cordial about it, and oh boy did he dodge a nuke of a woman
it was a bold move on his part, he could have gotten SA charges,,, this is the reason why nice men are leaving the dating pool real fast. men can end up with serious problems and it is just not worth it.
@@minxironwood honestly. You can get multiple Wyze cams for like $30 each. No subscription fee. Don't cam up your bedroom or bathroom like a creep, but having a few cams throughout the house can literally save your life.
@@AngryAlfonse definitely would want one in the bedroom, since if they claim you sa'ed them in the bedroom. You would be back to square one. But yeah, there cheep AF and could easily save you from years behind bars.
This is hilarious to me because my conversation with my husband started out pretty much the same way on a dating app and rather than whatever the hell happened here, we talked it out and decided to meet in public at the park and spend some time together then once I felt comfortable we drove separately to the grocery store and to his house and proceeded to make french toast and chocolate chip cookies.
The difference is that you tolerated his awful date idea and gave him a second chance while the girl in the video won't go down with incompetent guys. The guy fucked up the first date idea and thus got booted.
I was totally stunned by her response. I actually had to rewind and play it back again to make sure I hadn't missed something. He sounded absolutely lovely and she came off completely psychotic.
I'm dumbstruck. I can't figure out where she thought they were going to cook at. Did she think the first date would be at a rentable industrial kitchen for her to show off her skills??? This man didn't dodge a projectile, he dodged Hiroshima.
@CrystalRose1111 I don't disagree with that. It was just *so* sudden, that's what I meant when I said it was weird. I'm pretty wary around men myself, but I don't get what this specific guy did wrong. He seems nice tbh.
@@CrystalRose1111 People who have been traumatized are still capable of acting like adults. The insinuation to the contrary is frankly ridiculous and insulting. This lady was looking for a reason to pop off, likely for some sense of empowerment or attention.
The fact I can get it right away with a lot more fun and addicting and I don't think I'm going to get my nails are!!? A little more time with you guys have to go back and I don't think that I have to do with my friends to play it all over again I don't have a good one for me I love it when people say they are a not so sure about that; your a fan since I got to be go back to my house and I love you so much fun with my life I love it when I was in my head room for a few weeks of a sudden it..
@@sunnydispositionn I think I saw these kind of bot replies a lot sometime ago (also in Charlie's videos - for whatever reason they stick to him just like those pr0nbot comments. Ironically the pr0nbots are actually more human than these) and none of them made any sense. It was as if they tried to sound cultured.
This genuinely reads like someone who's trying out the real world after spending years getting relationship advice and practicing social skills on Reddit and Tumblr.
weirdly enough, i met a guy through reddit and he’s actually my bf now and p similar to the guy in this. this girl has social skills *worse* than a redditor
With each passing day and with each new video Charlie uploads of these text freakouts I get more and more afraid to go socialize. These people genuinely scare me with how deranged and psychotic they are.
This guy is so wholesome and kind, I really hope he meets someone that'll cook with him. He was way nicer than I would've been in that situation, I don't have the patience to be berated without firing back. As for her, she seems like the type of person who's been on Tinder for a decade, and never fails to drive off every decent match that comes her way.
@@jamieabernathy5686Not a lot of thoughts bouncing around in your skull, eh? Let me break that one down for you: the mere IDEA of meeting someone on Tinder and NOT fucking is illogical. She walked into a whore house and was surprised that the product was sex. Doesn’t mean it was his intentions. He’s just pointing out the stupidity. You meet people on Tinder for sex first and foremost. To bitch at someone for wanting sex out of a Tinder date, whether they actually wanted to or not, is beyond hopeless.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Well that's not necessarily an admition, but more so a reminder of where she is I reckon. I understand the thought though. Seems kinda weird to cook somewhere that isn't ones own home one way or another. I kinda wish to know what she had in mind for a cooking/baking date location.
@@jamieabernathy5686 Idk about "all" he wanted. Sex was surely a part of what he wanted, why else would he be on tinder otherwise. Nobody swipes because they think "This guy seems like he'll be a supportive friend", the dialogue afterwards may lead to friendships, but it is safe to assume people are looking for a sexual encounter, one way or another. There is a reason even being active on tinder would be similar to cheating for many, many monogamous couples. The app has a fairly straight forward purpose on that regard. Whether this guy wanted a one night stand, action on his first date or was okay with investing in a long term relationship, we simply won't ever know.
@@Alucard-mj6yjHer name being censored out looks like that was part of the shared image, not something Charlie did or any editors for the channel. I bet the guy who shared this conversation censored her name specifically not to be a douchebag but to just show how nuts people can be.
She was definitely expecting more push back from him after she said no and since he responded in a friendly way she got angry. She even used emojis and said ‘best of luck to you’ to make it out like she was being the nice/innocent one
i feel like this is THE most unhinged part of it all. she was expecting misogynistic incel trying to coerce her for sex but when she didnt get that she actually got pissed😭😭. some ppl genuinely desire to be victimized so that they can have a sob story and can fish for attention.
@@laer.393she honestly may have wanted him to like profusely apologize and beg to go on a date, to where she’d eventually go "ok fine I’m sorry I’ll give you another chance." I know some people, guys and girls alike who do that because it makes them feel like a potential partner is secure and wouldn’t cheat on them. Which is of course insane but it’s a thing some mental people like.
This guy needs to be careful. Her influence grew from 30k to 500k in just a few minutes. At this rate in under an hour she will have informed all 8 billion people of him!!
He dodged a bullet on that one. There are cautious women, and then there are narcissists that think every man wants to immediately sleep with them. Her response so far out of left field you can tell she is just the type to want to be a victim. Especially since she kept messaging him after he just said "ok I understand" and further escalating it.
The perfect way for you cheung was it to a friend who is just like me and you are a good man to you and that your heart will never go back in your mind and I think that your best friends are to you and I love ya and you know how to make a man i was that you and your mom
As a person from Czech, eating my food while watching Charlie´s video on another baffling conversation two people had with eachother, the last thing I expected was a random czech sentence in the middle of all the english. Nearly made me choke on my food.
As a person from "Czech"? See, if you had said "The Czech Republic", "Czechoslovakia", or "Bohemia", we all would have understood what you meant. There is no country called "Czech". You meant to say that you are Czech (predicate adjective). You need to have a serious discussion with your ESL teacher.
@@Zenigundamyou literally understood what they meant..? That’s why you specified the exact country they were referring to and even gave a country that hasn’t existed in years as an alternative to what they said. Not everyone is stupid. If you’re bitter with life, just say that.
That guy was extremly lucky to dodge that poison laced bullet. Imagine getting to know a person, becoming emotionally attached, and then out of nowhere she would do this
She probably has an untreated mental condition. I'm no psychologist so I wouldn't know what her problem is. But I've dealt with people like her and they often swim in their mental delusions and build entire conclusions about you when you haven't actually said anything that warrants such offense. With those people you need to realize they aren't replying to you nor what you've said, they're replying to the devil they've created in their heads and projected onto you. Have you ever fantasized about someone then met them and was very disappointed? That's because your fantasy built a completely different character from what they really are, and when you met them you realized they're not that character. This is why it's important to stay grounded in reality and not let your thoughts go deep without constantly checking if they're justified.
I know a very beautiful 40-something woman who has never had a real relationship, because she picks every guy apart and freaks out before they even get to know each other. Ironically, she herself is an absolute train wreck and has no grounds to criticize anyone lol
that guy deserves a decent person, imagine running into someone like this. Like, she's either been hurt before or she's an olympian athelete jumping to conclusions the way she did.
