Allison Holker OPENS UP: Navigating Grief, The Greatest LESSONS from tWitch & Finding Her Purpose

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Allison Holker is a pro dancer, on-air personality, and Emmy-nominated choreographer, known for her incredible performances on Dancing with the Stars and as a host of Design Star: Next Gen. In this episode she talks about navigating grief after the loss of her husband tWitch, lessons learned, and how she found her purpose.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:02:17 - The Journey and Growth of our Family
00:04:54 - Dancing through the Challenges of Life
00:07:29 - The Power of Affirmations
00:09:57 - The Importance of Doing Hard Things
00:12:37 - Allowing Yourself to Feel Everything
00:15:11 - Letting go of Control, Embracing Faith
00:17:51 - Gratitude and Protection
00:20:30 - The Feeling of Protection
00:23:11 - Dealing with Public Opinions and Grief
00:25:41 - The Positive Side of Grief and Support
00:28:08 - Navigating Grief and Uncertainty
00:30:48 - Showing Up and Prioritizing Grief
00:33:21 - Giving Grace to Others
00:35:59 - Beautiful Memories with Stephen
00:38:35 - Accepting and Giving Love
00:41:09 - Loving Yourself
00:43:35 - The Importance of Self-Love and Twitch's Hugs
00:46:00 - Inspiring Ability
00:48:42 - Helping Others Through Grief
00:51:09 - Dancing Through Life
00:53:33 - Life is a gift
00:56:12 - Being a Role Model
00:59:02 - Following Your Passion
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@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Grateful to Allison for sharing her story and experiences with us today. Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share the biggest moment for you. And make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again RU-vid.com/lewishowes

@AlizaAbundance 3 месяца назад

Yes! ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

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@heyyayyo 3 месяца назад

@@lewishowes Please interview Tom, the founder of Breaking the Chains! It would be an amazing interview of someone who has saved many lives!

@anamaenatividad836 3 месяца назад

Yes ❤️😇💗🙏

@priscyllaplassat 3 месяца назад

Amazing interview… I didn’t know her but what beautiful breakthrough ❤

@taramassey2817 2 месяца назад

Allison you seem to be one of the most beautiful souls. I've been grieving for 9 years & the past 2 years I've learned a lot but the 3 things you learned just helped me more than anything. Prayers for you

@orlynharrington5576 3 месяца назад

I can’t wait to hear this. Being widow twice in 4 years, it’s hard to open up again

@mm7846 3 месяца назад

💗

@lb1798 3 месяца назад

Twice in 4 years😢💔 I am so sorry. Allison is correct,there are some things you canNOT know until it happens to you.

@mariarossi6719 3 месяца назад

My heart goes out to you. That’s an immense amount of loss to deal with. 💜

@orlynharrington5576 3 месяца назад

Allison just thought me lesson, life is a gift, I start loving myself more, I’ll keep on pushing and ask myself who I am now. I was wonderfully married for more than 24 years, my friends and family let me grieve by avoiding conversation , 6 mos after , a mutual friend step in and he become my garbage disposal, 18 mos later we got engaged and 15 mos later he’s gone. I never thought of loving 2 individuals the same. It’s been 6 mos since the 2nd one and today someone told me to take a good look in the mirror and ask if I like the person who is looking back at me. its a lot to punder and I made a decision its time to change because I can’t open a peanut butter jar anymore. :} thank you all, especially to Lewis, I always enjoy your podcast.

@colleenpec121 3 месяца назад

@@lb1798 my heart goes out to you. May the love you shared bring happiness to your heart & a smile to your face♥️🤍🤍🙌🙏🌞☘️🌻

@dennisshipman3585 2 месяца назад

I was fighting back years through this whole thing. I've thought a lot about how the whole family has been doing. She is so strong and impressive.

@leahparsons7907 3 месяца назад

Absolutely also believed that i could control my life but when my 17yr old daughter died i realized i have no control over life. Only how I respond to my experiences. Very wise woman.

@tanyatj7121 3 месяца назад

No wonder Allison can feel wings on her back.. I am in ore of this remarkably Beautiful Human being. She's a blessing and an inspiration to many undoubtedly, yet so humble and unassuming as she goes . I am beyond greatful to have shared this time with both of you Lewis. Much Love 🙏🇦🇺💓🌻

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thanks for being here!

@mariarossi6719 3 месяца назад

I have such deep admiration and respect for how this extraordinary lady has handled one of the toughest experiences a person could ever go through with such grace, integrity and maturity. Thank you both for this valuable conversation.

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@sandaweeraratne6360 3 месяца назад

Allison, so proud of the journey you have come ❤❤ Lewis is so in tuned, respectful and synced with the guest. 😊

@darlenejoyce4467 3 месяца назад

So sorry great man and I love how wonderful you’re keeping his legacy alive.🙏🏻♥️

@alexpoorta1 3 месяца назад

Strong woman! Holding onto faith and her own healing phases. Much love to you Allison

@DulceSpinola 3 месяца назад

I am speechless, I love you Alison and your beautiful family. If I would ever think that I was strong, I am reconsidering it. Well done you Lewis for another beautiful interview and the light way you guided it ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@MP304112012 3 месяца назад

So hard not to cry 💔 I loved watching them together, radiating so much love and joy. Prayers for her! She's so strong.

@user-jp1bk9sh5q 3 месяца назад

Lewis, I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I’m going through a very similar process with my brother that you went through with him. It’s so hard for people to understand the loss you feel while still having your family member present. I felt very connected to you as you were talking about your story with your Dad. Thank you for sharing!

@brianjohnson5995 3 месяца назад

This woman has been through the fire. So have This is a master class on 'surviving deep grief

@anamaenatividad836 3 месяца назад

❤ I'm glad to affirm everything that she shared because I too is doing the healing process through dancing ,and body prayer 🙏🙏

@marcelasvirbelovakuziakova7517 3 месяца назад

Can't imagine life without your podcasts,you are beautiful human,all people you invited,give me a lot,I have friend,her husband passed away 6 years ago on my birthday,I share with her Allison story, really admire her to come and being open,thank you Lewis for being you,thank you for everything you do,your time especially, please don't stop changing people's lives ❤love from UK 🙏😊

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for being here! 🧡

@safianelson835 3 месяца назад

Yes... Grieving loss of mother, my sister best friend brain tumour... 😢 Roller-coaster ❤

@BriaBarrows 3 месяца назад

I pray God lessens the pain ❤

@lizc.8341 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this episode, we really needed this ❤️ 🙏 I enjoyed this beautiful episode.

@minettam1 3 месяца назад

Beautiful. I can’t wait to get the book. I love Allison and miss Twitch so much.

@purplebutterfly5366 3 месяца назад

I think Allison handling her grief in a beautiful way.

@BriaBarrows 3 месяца назад

Her message on affirmations is powerful

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🙌

@aistegus3104 Месяц назад

BUT GOD

@virginiag5580 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for this interview. I was a fan of Ellen's show mainly because of the dancing, I love to dance. I clearly remember crying when I heard the news of Stephen passing, I just couldn't understand how/why him. He was always happy on my TV screen! Little did I know that just a few months later my healthy 42 year old husband suddenly and unexpectedly died. You have no idea how many times I've thought of Allison in this past 11 months, so much that I thought of reaching out to her to ask her how do you survive this. Is it even possible to survive? I never reached out because years ago I closed all my social media, if it wasn't for that I think I would have flooded her DM. Again, thank you for this episode, you have no idea how much it means a lot to me. Saluditos a Martha. Blessings to all 🙏

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So sorry for your loss and thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

@ava-jl1ll 3 месяца назад

Wishing you healing. And love

@virginiag5580 3 месяца назад

@@ava-jl1ll aww thank you Ava. Healing is a very slow process. Blessings 🙏

@KassandraG 2 месяца назад

I’m so sorry for your loss🥺 I loss my mom 5 months ago and this is hard☹️🥺I feel you🙏🏻❤️

@juliamunsod9238 3 месяца назад

i loooove herr! she speaks my beliefs, my soul and my faith. Inspiring and strong woman. despite what shes been through, her gratefulness and faith made her stronger 💯🙏

@ana-luciajaramillo5147 3 месяца назад

Allison, thank you for sharing your beautiful soul with us! 🙏🏻

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🧡

@metbizjak3479 3 месяца назад

I can honestly deep down relate to Allison, I lost my husband with 3 kids. And have practiced many thing that she has talked about. All the best

@___Angelica 2 месяца назад

Allison: what an eloquent way of describing how you were affected by and how you dealt with people and their own emotions. quite honestly, i felt a way about a lot of the comments that i saw people making. it upset and disturbed me that you or your kids might see that stuff. and i believe it would have caused tWitch real heartache. love and light to you all.

@lorismith8721 3 месяца назад

Wow!!!! So much guidance and help from this beautiful place!!!

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🧡

@theresashetler6228 3 месяца назад

YES! when she said 'just show up" it was so profound and relevant. Love this interview!❤❤❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🙏

@angelak3644 3 месяца назад

Such a beautiful and inspiring interview! Thank you Allison & Lewis ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@fzuma 29 дней назад

Hearing Allison speak about trauma is so inspiring. Helps me a lot in my life.

@lewishowes 29 дней назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@carlosam23282 3 месяца назад

What a strong woman. Will definitely keep listening to this over and over again, it is so good! And I’ll keep her and her children in my prayers 💙

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening!

@idaliahernandez1083 3 месяца назад

As always Lewis has the greatest interviews and great insight I got from their conversation. We are not too late to enjoy life and don't wait for a tragedy to change the course of your life to learn that you have to live it completely.

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

@DulceSpinola 3 месяца назад

Just bought the book now 🙏 thank you Alison for your beautiful work ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for watching!

@iyo8506 3 месяца назад

I just love Allison, she is such a beautiful genuine soul. She makes this world a better place. Enjoyed this interview very much. I hope many blessings are on the horizon for her and her precious family. ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@melissafiore3491 3 месяца назад

Beautiful woman and soul! I admire Allison so much and everything she stands for! AMAZING!! This was so wonderful to listen to, thank you for sharing! ♥♥♥ Prayers for you and your family!

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@melissafiore3491 3 месяца назад

@@lewishowes Yes definitely did! Love how Allison explained her affirmations and how prayer helped her and her family !! I just have so much respect for her and how strong of a woman she is!

@pamelasaunders3736 2 месяца назад

He made everyone feel happy. I wish we all could have saved Twitch.. sending Allison & the kids so much love & happiness.

@user-xl7kb3od9c 3 месяца назад

Such a wonderful discussion. Allison is such an example of dignity, resilience and power. Lewis is a talented, intuitive host and seamlessly takes the conversation from one natural point to the next with empathy and kindness. Thank you!

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

@AkA-sw7rl 2 месяца назад

Such a strong woman. Impressive.

@nathalieruffieux4356 3 месяца назад

Thank you both for this amazing, inspiring interview about grief. 🙏💜

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome! Thanks for watching

@farializ 3 месяца назад

Deep 😢 conversation, great interview! So helpful, I appreciate this! 💯 ❤️

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you for watching! So happy to hear it was helpful for you! 🧡

@monicakaram 3 месяца назад

She is lovely and thank you for this interview,

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for tuning in 🧡

@DominionAnako-bb7ry 3 месяца назад

Your video inspired us so much that we appreciate

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

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@SandraPerez-um1tj 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this, a lot of valuable lessons & advice. Allison is a beautiful person inside out.

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@kathybrown1064 3 месяца назад

What a beautiful conversation,I am so inspired by her strength i love the use of affirmations and the way she speaks about her love for twitch you can just tell the love they have for one another. We can all use more grace. I took so much away from this conversation.

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🧡

@user-dq2lu4xv9j 3 месяца назад

Beautiful woman inside and out! ❤❤❤

@saraarmando2021 3 месяца назад

So inspiring thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for watching!

@SG-es2hf 3 месяца назад

I 1st saw Twitch on "...think you can dance". I'll miss seeing him 😢 thank you for your story & strength ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🙏

@carolinchicorelli5991 3 месяца назад

I personally have my own intuitive feelings about Allison. I noticed she referred to Twitch as her late husband… while Kobe’s wife Vanessa refers to Kobe as her husband in the present tense. Even though Kobe has been deceased for many years now. I love that. That’s my observation in love. Interesting to consider. What is my point… just my observation.

@sofialovinglife597 2 месяца назад

She is so strong 💪🏿

@BriaBarrows 3 месяца назад

Wow, the mirror advice is great. I love that

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🧡

@AdiOrPazCoach 3 месяца назад

Soooo Beautiful Thank you Lewis

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@dianeortiz4803 3 месяца назад

I’m also a widow and I also understand The feeling of having love and protection surrounding me every day we are blessed

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🙏

@gabrielaliendo5695 3 месяца назад

She’s amazing ❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

🙌

@alexwyler4570 2 месяца назад

YES!

@michelinecousineau8497 3 месяца назад

I Love You Lewis ❤

@ava-jl1ll 3 месяца назад

Great interview Lewis…

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you!

@informationgathererM 2 месяца назад

Its combo of manifestations, preexistence, collective, soul contract, soul healing process

@reemaabdullah9941 3 месяца назад

Such a great woman..Twitch❤ rest in peace

@mariamyao7846 3 месяца назад

Yes, Yes! You can have all the emotions at the same time 🙏

@annedunbar4598 3 месяца назад

🎉yes!!! I’m so proud of you. This is the same reason my daughter and I wrote Rainbow Rainbow by Dar The Star and Hannah Panda. It’s a kids song book with actions. Let’s dance through it. Dedicated to my late cousin Terri Harnell.

@dennisshipman3585 2 месяца назад

Not fighting back years but fighting back tears.

@stephanieulysse7708 2 месяца назад

Yes

@rpo8a 3 месяца назад

YES

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

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@craigosterberg5045 3 месяца назад

Thanks

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@vitasolano3272 3 месяца назад

yes

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

👍

@juliel4891 2 месяца назад

❤❤❤❤❤

@TheVonnieVonVonShow 3 месяца назад

💯

@biznezzacademy 3 месяца назад

❤

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thanks for being here!

@darlenejoyce4467 3 месяца назад

What’s the name of the book?

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Keep Dancing Through: A Boss Family Groove :)

@TandemSKITTLEZ 3 месяца назад

Good stuff

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

Thank you!

@lizbowes1176 3 месяца назад

The NACG has resources for those supporting children who are grieving.

@JillShufflebotham 3 месяца назад

Lewis I'm a Pisces 🐟 also

@cordietakeyama7782 2 месяца назад

💜💜🙏🏼💜🙌🏼💜💜

@debbiedailey8048 3 месяца назад

He needs to marry her❤

@mm7846 3 месяца назад

🫶💗🙏🤲

@sharonbaber8044 3 дня назад

I don't feel like Allison holker is real, she does a lot of talk, but then again Matthew Perry did a lot of talk to and look what happened to him. We have to get very real authentic and deal with our real feelings about things.

@sharonbaber8044 3 дня назад

And really love ourselves