Am I Married to a Bad Wife?

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Originally streamed on June 28, 2024
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I recently received an article from a female listener titled 12 Signs You Are Not a Good Wife, which inspired me to create this episode. In this episode, I discuss how being a victim prevents us from looking at ourselves and changing, 10 ways to know you are a bad wife, as well as the nature of a good man in a marriage to a woman.
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Timestamps:
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:39) Topic Introduction
(07:45) Being Stuck in Camp Victim
(19:01) 10 Behaviors of a Bad Wife
(37:54) The Solution for Women
(40:23) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer:
The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual - what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

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Комментарии : 54

@dewholdingsllc1050 27 дней назад

😂I had not heard that before. But sounds like my life. Camp Victim. After 20 years of a not very good marriage I am tired of being the fault for everything.

@majorbalrah 5 дней назад

I'm so glad I stumbled upon this video. You just red pilled the hell out of me, and I feel at peace in my head for the first time in a long time. Thank you.

@LToddBigham 26 дней назад

Wow! This the best presentation on the all too common husband and wife dysfunction I’ve ever heard! Puts so many pieces together and makes so much sense!! Thank you!

@Lovingkindness. 23 дня назад

Epitaph: “To My Wife, I don’t know why you had to be angry all the time”

@stevefromwork6136 17 дней назад

I spent 29 years being emasculated and manipulated by my mom and sister. The question I asked myself is. If my mom and twin would do this to me? What would a stranger do? If I learned to trust again and the woman closest to me also did this to me how would I ever heal? Women can never be the bad guy. The camp victim mental gymnastics? There's a word for that, I believe it's solipsism.

@Private_Pookie 10 дней назад

I've subscribed to this channel about 2 days ago and i loveeeeeeeeee it. Super informative and eye opening...

@jeffzekas 23 дня назад

Excellent video, gets to the point of the matter

@fightingfortruth9806 27 дней назад

"Is my wife bad, crazy, menstrual, confused, or just plain angry?" Yes.

@poopingwhilestanding5801 27 дней назад

There is no winning....women just need new simps to step up and play the game.

@mo_wox 23 дня назад

Please protect Karyn at all cost

@beentheredonethat-z5i 27 дней назад

Where do they learn thus behavior. I see that in my 4girls, it started in their teens. Currently divorced. Ex wife had these same behaviors. It seems to just perpetuate itself. 2 daughters divorced now,and I think there is a third on the way. Never their fault, always their husband. If only they would change.

@SteveAppel-r2o 27 дней назад

It’s Biblical. If you read Genesis 3 and unpack what it means , it means woman’s behavior towards their husband is in their dna so to speak. It’s their nature. Men have thier own set of problems but women have gotten a HUGE PASS on this defective personality flaw. Men are waking up and going thier own way.

@kat-601 27 дней назад

All woman have a problem excepting they are the problem.

@dat581 27 дней назад

It's in built behaviour, not learned.

@johnsmith4900 24 дня назад

Women stop maturing emotionally in their early teens so their behavior comes natural. The only thing that can help them is keeping them away from feminism and media; and above all get any entitlement out of their head. Maybe you can keep them at a tolerable and useful level.....Men have to work 4x harder for a woman thats 10x less useful than their grandmother with 80% more risk of divorce.

@monthc 2 дня назад

Genesis 3:16 It's the female side of human nature.

@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor 27 дней назад

Despite my wife's flaws, I still love my wife. In fact, I found her flaws to be some of her most endearing attributes...

@funcygames 19 дней назад

I guess one of her flaws isn't emasculating you and disrespect at every turn? Lucky you

@burnedoils 23 дня назад

awsome video

@ruprecht9997 22 дня назад

Argumentative, aggressive, insulted, hurt, always right, blaming, never happy, victim. Yes.

@beentheredonethat-z5i 27 дней назад

How long do these women expect good men to hang around and put up with these issues. Do they not realize that eventually thsse good men will say enough is enough and move on. It's surprising that these exes then complain that these don't know what happened. They are long term residences of camp victim, never to leave.

@RPMentorTokyoChannel 27 дней назад

Women are positively reinforced when they behave this was. They would have to be punished by withdrawing attention, and although it won't happen, this would mean men not pairing with them at all.

@tgold8422 24 дня назад

Why do womb men say they want “good men”, but then treat them in these ways, as though they don’t want them? Why do womb men like “bad boys” so much more than “good men”? What incentive is there to continue to be a “good man”, if you just get abused for it? Good man? Good for who? Certainly not for him.

@johnizitchiforalongtime 26 дней назад

3 months divorced, still fresh, i've been taken for a sucker, in more ways than 1. Being Bi-polar is no piece of cake and it will the death of me.

@Brody.W 23 дня назад

Thanks! For being my only biological mother in Christ Jesus of Nazareth. Amen and amen.

@MrAdippenaar 21 день назад

Good day @Karyn, thank you for your videos. If I may ask a personal question, are you Christian? My wife only follows those that are Christian.

@francoiskeulen 20 дней назад

Ten behaviors: Controlling (micromanaging) Need to be right Wearing the pants (must give permission) Pain avoiding Moody and emotional Critical and judgmental Double standards Talking behind someone's back not interested in intimate contact undermining in front of children

@Savage_Thinker 23 дня назад

Mine is so brainwashed i left her yesterday over her crazy bullshit.

@orangeandslinky 27 дней назад

I think your teaching is good. It makes sense to me. As long as no fault divorce is in existence, women still file for divorce up to 90% and blow the families up as victims. Until women agree with you, the divorce court is gladly there for camp victim women. The divorce courts don't care about anything your saying. The no fault divorce courts are welcoming camp victim women and get paid very well to served them. Lobby to change the camp victim law haven, and your message will have social weight.

@user-gt9xd8bq3h 21 день назад

Do you ever discuss any topics about why women get put off when their husbands disrespect them time and time again, and call them names… husbands who are short tempered!!!… or you’re all about blaming women for everything? I’m here because my husband has been watching your videos… and now I’m being blamed for everything!

@poopingwhilestanding5801 21 день назад

You need to reflect on your behavior at the time (I would suggest a tape recorder so you can hear exactly what both parties said). And perhaps look at things objectively if your husband is short-tempered now (assuming he wasn't prior, and if he was, WHY DID YOU MARRY HIM??), what changed in the relationship? Karyn calls out women not taking accountability and instead adopting the 'victim mindset'. I think your husband is just waking up and holding you accountable...knowing he's not alone and that many, many men experience this despite a wife's best attempt at gaslighting him.

@stevescuba1978 21 день назад

Serious question. Do the names your husband calls you fit? Or is he not a good man? I have not always spoken softly with my wife, but I've always been honest. Some things she didn't want to hear, and she took them as me name-calling or insulting rather than merely calling out the behavior I saw.

@betsydoodle9258 19 дней назад

No, this lady blames women for everything and these men that don’t want to work on themselves eat it up. Look at the title of this video (10 behaviors of a bad wife). Using the word “bad wife” in general is demeaning and shouldn’t be used. She is playing on narcissistic men’s emotions. She really grosses me out

@stevescuba1978 19 дней назад

@@betsydoodle9258 maybe you're a bad wife.

@betsydoodle9258 19 дней назад

@@stevescuba1978 maybe you’re brainwashed 🤷‍♀️ this lady is encouraging men to feel like victims. If you want to make your relationship work, I would not be taking advice from this lady. Look at the lady’s comment I responded to. Her husband is disrespecting her and is blaming her for everything after watching these videos. Sounds like he’s not putting in any work but just blaming his wife for being “bad”

@stivfan9386 27 дней назад

Hi, I noticed that in your videos you say a lot that poor women, they can't see, they can't understand, they don't realize how bad they are doing, that they are innocent, ignorant, that something is beyond their will when she cheats with a badboy, when she makes mistakes, etc..... for me it's a bit like you forgive them.... those poor women are pure and innocent.... it would be too simple... ..because out there there are also ok women who behave well and are good wives....for me it's something like: you men have to forgive them and you women can continue to do so because.....so it's you...too easy for women and too advantageous....🤔😚😚

@lukenielsen8397 27 дней назад

That is not the message she is putting out at all. Actually, she is telling women to look at themselves and change. When she talks to men, she tells them that men need to take responsibility for themselves and go forward in knowledge and with intention, even if that means leaving a woman that isn't worth the effort.

@stivfan9386 26 дней назад

@@lukenielsen8397 I understand ....but for me is to soft with the women and this "even if that means a women that isnt worth the effort" that make a man more victim and perpetuate the situation....

@lukenielsen8397 26 дней назад

@@stivfan9386 First off, she isn't "soft" on the women. She is outright brutally honest and forward about what she talks about and places the onus on them to make the required changes and stop with the toxic behaviors without apology. I don't know what you think needs to be done differently other than running over to Andrew Tate and spew anger, frustration, and condemnation with no way back/out... That will work for sure! ROFL Also, moving forward with intention and deciding whether a partner is worth the effort doesn't make a man the "Victim!" It is a conscious and deliberate decision based on the facts of the matter, by ACTUALLY taking responsibility. Are you a troll? I'm really thinking so at this point. Obviously you need to listen to her whole series a lot more before you comment.

@stivfan9386 26 дней назад

@@lukenielsen8397 I listened all hers series and I think she is good. I learned a lot and I thank for that. But however i think the past can not be erased by taking resposability from "now"....because women know exactly what they do when they do.....and than they say "sorry I didn`t know"...the truth is they don`t care.....it`s hard to believe them.........I can`t buy that.....Yes, somewhere to 40 they can feel sorry but...almost to late.....

@Hartbeat1555 25 дней назад

Your perception of her position on women and being easy on them is dead wrong. This is the first woman that I've witness speak the truth to women without sugarcoating the medicine.

@Brody.W 25 дней назад

Thanks! For being my only biological mother in Christ Jesus of Nazareth. Amen and amen.