But if you point out that the number one thing people in prison have in common is that they were raised by a single mother without a father around, you’ll be called out for hating women. Women truly believe they can do anything and don’t need a man but get very upset when you point out they can’t. Conversely, children raised by a single father do almost as well as those raised in a two parent home.
Fathers teach children there are consequences to their actions. If the kids dread consequences from their father, who would die for them, how much worse will the consequences be from the cold, cold world, who don't care if they live or die?
My dad was a truck driver, so he wasn't around a lot. And my mom was overprotective when he was home... Now I'm a worthless man. Let your husband be a dad... it'll save your kids, especially the boys.
So on point. My son has been "protected" from me by his mom and her parents who were overprotective towards her. They kept me away for over 2 years seeking custody, which they got through parental alienation. Now my son sits on his moms couch all day playing video games and hasn't been to school for 2 years. The municipality has done everything they can to help her, and sending caregiver after caregiver. The problem is my son's mom doesn't want to set consequences, and neither does society towards her, so I'm stuck watching them ruin my kid.
@@steven1671 They rarely listens to anyone who disagrees with their emotional point of view. When they stop viewing the world ONLY through their emotions, they'll understand us.
Men are unquestionably better at parenting, teaching and building relationships. Traditional women might be able to compete but definitely not modern women.
Oooh now you're really hitting the nerves now. The ladies don't want to hear this one. Big man daddy right. I'll explain to my wife all the time. That it's a balance. I go through this on a daily basis, Mommy trying to protect the babies from Daddy. When Daddy is just trying to teach them action and consequence and what it means to be a well-rounded respectable human being.
That was very well said. I would add, when mothers swoop in and protect their children from reasonable discipline from dad, they are weakening his fatherhood and simultaneously teaching their children to think of dad as wrong or bad. I have fought this quite a bit in my family, and yes, occasionally I AM wrong, but there are ways to go about getting on the same page as parents, without breaking each other down in front of the children, but instead taking each other’s viewpoints into account. I find the sweet spot is somewhere in between, where my wife’s compassion and my discipline inform each other.
I'm a father of 6 boys and my spouse is currently doing everything she can to save them from consequences of not following instructions. She literally treats me as if holding them accountable is bad parenting
And an offshoot of this is being second guessed and challenged at every turn by my wife in regard to how I care for my kids. Im Self made, prior Mil, Retired LE and remind her daily I don’t need to be managed and won’t tolerate it
Jesus preached that the father is the head of the household, and one of his most important duties is to read Scriptures to his children and teach them the word of God.
I hate to say, but there’s been study after study showing that single fathers raise better kids than single mothers. The ultimate deal is both parents but facts are facts
Dads are just as important as moms. I was a single father with two girls. I worked, made all the meals, lunches, laundry, brownies, Girl Scouts, coached their little league team, lemonade stands, and I never regretted a second of it. Have an excellent relationship with my kids. They look back now and say Da, how the hell did you do all that by yourself? I say because that’s what Dads do.
I observed the same in many families with a narcissistic wife that emasculates her husband using kids and being “protective”. This usually ends up in a toxic divorce and parental alienation towards the dad. It’s a pattern that needs more visibility.
My x-wife "swooped" in and "saved" my kids every time I tried to hold them accountable or get them to do chores. I could never understand why until I learned that she was actually the one that felt threatened by accountability and work.
Generally, I agree wholeheartedly with this sentiment, the real issue is what role does each parent play in raising their kids. I was a stay at home dad, my wife was the breadwinner, which gave our son a different perspective on Mom versus Dad. I raised what I call an Independent, Confident, Good Decision Maker and although I was very much a traditional father as she describes, my wife's support of that approach is what helped our son grow to be the amazing young man he is. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mrwzX_RGgCE.html
A lot of dads just lack basic human confidence that makes them unsure parents and targets for insecure moms to do all the parenting. When you encourage a mans parenting supportively he gets better and better. He needs to build confidence from his wife seeing his parenting as valuable though different, she understands what hes doing.
I agree that only a man can raise a boy to be a man. However I feel like my husband doesnt have patience with our son. My husband speaks to my son with a stern tone but alot of the times when my son doesnt do an action how he wishes he would ie not being careful and spilling something, taking a long time to do a task, not using his brain to work smarter not harder. He will raise his voice at him. Ive seen people around us treat my son with more patience and kindness like my husbands brother his sister than his own Dad. My husband says hes not raising a boy to be a sissy. In his mind its Okay to yell.
A good man who can "walk the walk and talk the talk" probably can be a good parent. Unfortunately, I've seen more men drop off their kids to the babysitter/ other family as soon as the mother turns her back then picks up the kids before the mother comes home then when asked what they did " we went to the park". Having to be both mommy and daddy, I'm not convinced.
That's the exception and a single view from your window. That's not the majority. There are men out there who do that out of laziness. Curious to know their upbringing.
The statement wasn't "men are better parents WITHOUT women". It's more a case that GOOD men naturally understand some principles that children need to grow up well adjusted...maybe your man isn't or wasn't of good character and it shows in how he raised his kids.
That's the exception, not the majority of men. And chances are he didn't seek input from a respectable elder or role model to improve his parenting skills. May have even been prideful and a YES dad, not putting foot to butt needed.
