It is so insidious of a problem when dealing with a narcissist. The sad part is, your alone in your journey because everyone else who knows them is getting a different version of them, so you feel like you’re going crazy when you try to explain the situation. Or the other people just want to keep the toxic wheel going so they refuse to acknowledge the truth of the problem.
This man has helped me during my time of abuse. Honestly so grateful he was here at at time I needed him the most. The most informative man about narcissist abuse I've seen thank you man.
❤ Agreed! I have been learning about narcissism for the last few years. Everyone of the people who have platforms on here do not have any of the knowledge that actually can be applied and innerstood on the level needed to help me make changes and heal. I just found this channel and already I am blown away with excitement because of the level of emotional intelligence and information about narcs Richard shares. I finally have found answers that make soo much sense and can be applied. ❤
Me too if I wasn't abused horrifically as a child and in adulthood and coworkers and supervisors and if I had the courage to stand up for myself and wasn't not raised to be scared of people and this was conditioned in me since childhood. I had no clue about anything about narcissism. I am learning all this and I feel so ashamed and embarrassed for what I put up with for my whole life😢😢😢💔💔💔💔
@@MajidahMateen-xd9rx Please don,t feel ashamed , your strong and a survivor , together we get through this , we are with so many , all survivors , your not alone , stay strong and be kind to yourself , it,s not your fault .❣️🙏
@thejavandenberg4509 Thank you for your kind words and compassion and I am seeing a trauma therapist and I am working on my emotions that I don't know how to regulate my emotions and telling myself it's not your fault or I shouldn't be ashamed of what people did too me. Thank you again for your uplifting and encouraging beautiful words. 🙏🙌💯💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
When a victim goes external seeking help protection anything.. There's a Societal construct governing the outcomes which is a PYSCHOSOCIAL Quicksand that constricts, & debilitates; further sinking.
You are the cause of your happiness…You are the cause of your pain due to your own perceptions, beliefs and expectations. You have to WAKE UP. This is what happens when someone mindF’s you. You have a horse pill to swallow-it’s not pleasant tasting-plug your nose. The quicker you accept you have to take this horsepill, digest it and let it pass, the stronger you will be.
❤ Really? I'm going to dig into his channel as I'm so grateful for finding Richard 's channel. All the other channels on Marc's have basic information that only gives me bits and pieces 🧩 of a puzzle that is just insane. Finally I have just found Richard & already he is making Soo much sense of everything! I'm so grateful ! ❤ Sending lots of unconditional love to you and for each and every one of the people trying to heal from narc abuse. ❤
People who enter into a abusive relationship usually don't have good relationship with them self .I have learnt so much about me post this abusive relation which wasn't that long but it did so much damage .because of that I'm now feeling emotions that previous I didn't allow my self to feel and has opened a can of worms
Easy. Validate yourself, and live in your truth. The minute you love and believe in yourself and never let anyone Mind-FU again, you won’t feel like this anymore 🌹✌🏽💯You have my word 🙏🏼. Once you love yourself the way you WISH someone else loved you, you will be LIBERATED!!! ❤
I simply refused to speak to my brother again. Emotional scarring stayed with me, but the abuse certainly stopped afterward. It's strange that I'll still get asked why I don't answer the phone only with him. When you're not blind but you can't see...
Simply genius. I just have to listen and I'll learn. I was looking for the weapon that the man who loved me was never carrying. The bad man was gone. I could have loved him better if I wasn't waiting to get hurt. He passed away. He used to say, people are not interchangeable. I was too young to understand. Now, I understand. Every person is different and the trust has to be built between just the two of you. I miss that masculine hand that reached out for mine. 💙
@@grosbeak6130Watching the man who I loved so much die in front of me and knowing that I'd have to look through about a thousand men to find one that is half as good as him, after being with a narcissist for 27 years before that... kind of makes a girl not want to get out there and be used. I'm very soft hearted and generous and I would be wanting to give a man everything. It wouldn't work for me. I couldn't tell the difference. Not until it was too late. I can't go through that again. Just look at your simple comment. You couldn't even bring yourself to be nice. Gentlemen don't exist anymore. But, genuine women do.
@@CarlyFaith15 you can LEARN to tell the difference. Not being able to is part of CPTD symptoms. Richard Grannon talks about how you can rebuild your ability to judge and assess your environment, by defining and finetuning your moral philosophy, which in turn creates boundaries for you and ultimately helps in becoming a better judge of a person.
@@sumanmishra123 Thank you for your kind comment. I have a lot of time to look back and self-reflect since my husband died. I always like to see what responsibility I had in the good and in the bad of my life. I know now that I would stop and walk away from abuse. I also know that if I ever get the blessing to love another man that I won't be walking on eggshell. You're a very wise person.
@@CarlyFaith15 I do hope you give love another chance. In fact, as many chances as it takes. You are stronger and wiser now as you say, and can most definitely undertake the journey. And in fact, the journey of finding love with my eyes finally open, has also taught me a lot about myself and others. Wish you luck and love! Hugs
thanks for the awesome work..... I was only at the edge of being with 2 NPD co-workers - one my boss and one my subordinate- and I could feel this war in me while everyone was like they are so cool...but the knowledge has helped me regulate myself so much better. I know it has saved me from extreme stress, slavery, medical conditions and saved my job and sanity. I am someone who usually have high boundaries and and was able to stop them from crossing boundaries liek 20-30 times in a day but after a point I also felt like I was probably overhyping it and was wrong , tired and it seemed like they enjoyed the win of some kind especially the subordinate cause I could never tell her no without extreme mental stress. But I was in a difficult phase of life and someone guiding about these things helped me feel supported cause I could not share the intensity of issue with anyone as they would either discard or talk to them about this and now I look back ......I was saved big time and with help of regular practises - yoga and breathing exercises now I am stable - I can see through so much of behaviour manipulation. Still doing same job with same people , same position but almost minimal stress.
You are the cause of your own pain. The narcissist and toxic people, and anyone who takes advantage of your compassion, support and your generosity to help them is abusive to you. You are being abused such as friendships and family. I cut off family members several years ago and didn't tell them and went no contact. I recently had to cut off these fake friendships. I found for myself this is codependency. Went no contact. I said nothing to them about this. I got sick and tired of being sick and tired.
@@Prometheuspredator you r naive. Narcissistic men is the topic here. What about our daughter's narcissism? We didn't bring those painful years on ourselves. The trick is 2 let go of it as soon as you've exhausted all recourse.
🫡You are great Lightworker. ❤ How to heal „the hearth?“ what its mean „ know your Worth?“ how to know the self as the „operant/Ego/mask/rolle which we play here in this Theatro on Earth and how to know the core of „myself „( thyself“ ) )( the all different Levels of self. ( we dont know the roots of tree 🌳 but we know the time when he bring the fruits/harvest. From where come the seed for the tree (a Tree) and how to know what the Tree need for healthy looong lufe and qouality and nurturing fruits 🍇 … 🤪🤔🫢🤗 🫡
