Ask A Bi Guy 3 

Wow! what a situation to deal with (your mother's reaction). Glad these vids were such a help. I'm in the early stages of dealing with my man admitting he is sexually attracted to men (with a history of him having quite the active male sexual life before). It's only been a few weeks.....it's confusing and hurting right now. But these vids DO HELP!! White light to you on your journey xxxx

I've had a similar experience witha friend who, after knowing I identified as a bi woman, and it came up again in conversation, said: you're not bi, you're straight, because you've never slept with a woman before. I didn't know if I should get offended.

nelly5376 ***** the only person who can tell you what you want to call yourself is you and if that changes over time, that ´s fine too. Sexuality is fluid and you should just label yourself with whatever you feel comfortable with (or don´t label yourself at all if you want to.).

Praptolium lol

UNDERATED COMMENT!!!!😂😂😂

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And Bi-derman would be his sidekick. On that note: Bi-derman, Bi-derman, Does whatever a bi-der can, Kiss a guy?, Sure, why not?, Also thinks that girls are hot, Look out, He's a Bi-derman.

devinngeorge Unfortunately, many in the gay community want to deny RJ his bisexuality and classify him as "fickle" in order to validate and justify their own coming-out hardships, and they extend this discrimination even to gay ethnic minorities. I understand why they do this, but I simply refuse to accept it. If Love is Love, then Discrimination is Discrimination.

I never understood why we say. "LGBT" and not for example "BGLT" because apparently it's not in the alphabetical order because "lesbians need more visibility than gays". What about bi and trans people? And assexuals and pansexuals? It's just terrible that even within the community there's so much prejudice.

Mira Kun lol, I just noticed that, it's ordered on the level of acceptance. Interesting point.

In my experience gays are just so demeaning towards us bisexuals and mean spirited. It breaks my heart the level of intergroup discrimination, from our so called gay brothers and sisters.

Mira Kun It used to be GLBT but it was re-arranged. I think it's an EXTREME stretch to assume that the order of the letters in any way indicates prejudice within the community, though there is no doubt that such prejudices exist. Personally, I think the acronym at this point is ridiculous. It's what... LGBTQIAAP now? We're trying to encompass so many different groups of sexual orientations and gender identities under a single umbrella. I'm starting to prefer "Sexual / Gender Minority" at this point... though even that umbrella term has its issues.

Maybe that should be on a pan guys channel

Kaylin Holcomb Same ^^

Kaylin Holcomb Same ^^

Mattew Pearce...I'm gay thank you. Don't know what you are bitching about...

Matthew Pearce nope ;your name is spelled whiny Bitch.......Bye

*+Matthew Pearce* I apologize for calling you a whiny bitch. Had I known your current background and self esteem issues I would have NEVER said that to you, so please accept my apologies. You, on the other hand need to stop bashing your own head in, because you are not worth that! If in a relationship one is mentally abusing the other it is always easier to join in, because 'well...he must be right' but he is not right! Treating anyone like crap like that is such a dangerous path to travel, because it only revolves around power. He doesn't think you are ugly, fat, damaged and non loveable...he only makes you think that, because you gave him the power to be the landlord of your emotions. Don't travel any further and please take your life and self worth back into your own hands again! You see how a small change of view here made us plead for and to you, in stead of keeping on bashing you? You can do that in your own life too! You Are Worth It!!!

My exact same thoughts about him. Hence I keep following him.

No offence but you're sister needs educating on pansexuality. I'm pan too and it seems like people have a hard time understanding my sexuality when really it's as simple as I don't care what gender or sexuality you are, if I'm drawn to you that's all that matters 😁

I agree completely, I though she understood, but it hurt that she would say that.

That's great!! Didn't know it existed. Especially with the problems that the other acronym has with getting bigger and messier and not being in the alphabetical order (to "give lesbians more visibility" apparently).

Nat Bray Really? You really want to identify yourself as a minority? I am a man who likes to have romantic and sexual relationships with another man. That does NOT make me a minority....that makes me only love the same gender as I am.

gyqz But we are Minorities in this sense, as its common for people to be straight and identify with their given sex. We are in the minority (I.E. not as common) because there are less of us, so yes, we are Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities

Nat Bray We are NOT minorities! We are human and in that sense we are majority! If you want to talk common : as long as you keep on talking about 'us' , the more you keep yourself segregated from everybody else. Just because you happen to love the same gender as you are, doesn't make you a special or seperated species.....

gyqz We are in the minority for our sexuality, romantic orientation, and/or gender. In the same way that African people, or Spanish people, or Japanese people are minorities, they are racial minorities because there are less of them than white people, in the US, at least. Saying that we're LGBTQIA,etc. isn't doing much better, and GSRM is just an easier way of saying LGBTQIA, etc., because all of these things aren't normal, they're different, and we're in the minority of people for being this way. I'm not trying to separate us from straight, Cisgendered people, I'm just giving a better, shorter alternative to LGBTQIA, etc.

Tell him it's his loss 💅🏽

gameguy8101 I suggest you sit them down, and say "Guys, I'm straight," wait a couple of seconds "up bisexual!"