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Beat Speaking Anxiety with This Proven Technique 

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Beat Speaking Anxiety with This Proven Technique // Have a fear of public speaking? Learn how to proactively deal with presentation stress and anxiety by using these public speaking tips.
To deal with speaking anxiety, use these presentation tips to help you maximize your impact and confidently connect with your audience.
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@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
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@leroybishop8766
@leroybishop8766 2 года назад
sorry to be so off topic but does anyone know a trick to get back into an Instagram account? I was stupid forgot the password. I would appreciate any tricks you can give me!
@Justin-hv7od
@Justin-hv7od 3 года назад
my brain: everything is fine my body: *seizure mode activated*
@kraftyjae8915
@kraftyjae8915 2 года назад
😂😂😂
@boxmunkey9856
@boxmunkey9856 2 года назад
best comment
@coder5677
@coder5677 2 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣😅damn true
@mochi-ke1zn
@mochi-ke1zn 2 года назад
Lol 🤣
@chadd498
@chadd498 Год назад
😂
@milkies8610
@milkies8610 3 года назад
i didn’t realize i had public speaking anxiety until i tried to join in on a debate today and my voice and body started shaking and i got super embarrassed. it makes sense now because my heart raced whenever i wanted to speak in class :(
@demonslayer6325
@demonslayer6325 3 года назад
Lol me too that's why I only recite whe my teacher calls me cause my heart beats fast just by thinking about reciting
@dimakratz63
@dimakratz63 3 года назад
same here, plus my heart beat gets so loud that it's all i can hear.
@MajorBall
@MajorBall 3 года назад
@@dimakratz63 then it feels like you’re having a stroke cause u forget what you’re gonna say and u are so worried about others opinions
@sleepymeasmr8832
@sleepymeasmr8832 3 года назад
Same. I once signed up to compete in a public speaking contest cuz I thought I’m not bad at public speaking and I speak well. But NOPE! I froze on stage and made a complete fool of myself and ever since then I just have so much anxiety and stage fright 😭
@saravananv1480
@saravananv1480 2 года назад
I'm not a doctor, but if nothing works out for you.. Then consult a doctor and take proponolol before presentation.. Works like charm... But down side is without proponolol I'm not able speak in a public or in a meeting.. My heart beat raises as soon as I start talking...
@sabinkarma3388
@sabinkarma3388 3 года назад
the #1 one cause of your speaking anxiety is uncertainty! Love it, just speaking truth
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Awesome Sabin, thanks for the feedback.
@pixelinnie
@pixelinnie 3 года назад
I have a class presentation tomorrow and I’m so terrified. I’m shaking even just thinking about it :( Update: I commented this a while ago, but it went pretty well. Our teacher is gonna grade it so i’m kinda nervous about that, but let’s hope for the best. Another update: I got a B!
@soundvoices6973
@soundvoices6973 3 года назад
So glad it went well despite your nerves!
@merlinsbeard9746
@merlinsbeard9746 3 года назад
I have a speech in the assembly on Monday
@soundvoices6973
@soundvoices6973 3 года назад
@@merlinsbeard9746 Good luck!!!
@merlinsbeard9746
@merlinsbeard9746 3 года назад
@@soundvoices6973 thanks (:
@oscar-xy5dj
@oscar-xy5dj 3 года назад
Let’s goo
@samilasin8576
@samilasin8576 3 года назад
It's 4:05 in the morning, and here I am being so competitive and practicing the soul out of me. Hope it goes well later!!!!🤕 Edit: I won first place! I snatched that Champion title!!!
@cheayto9085
@cheayto9085 3 года назад
SO HAPPY FOR U
@samilasin8576
@samilasin8576 3 года назад
@@cheayto9085 THANKS!
@cheayto9085
@cheayto9085 3 года назад
@@samilasin8576 NO WORRIES!! YOU ROCK BESTIE
@heyyy7089
@heyyy7089 3 года назад
YESSSS SO PROUD OF YOU!!! OMGMGMG
@samilasin8576
@samilasin8576 3 года назад
@@heyyy7089 THANK YOU SO MUCH!
@anoname5935
@anoname5935 3 года назад
I literally have to do a presentation in the next few minutes and I’m so nervous
@How_to_613
@How_to_613 3 года назад
How was it?
@anoname5935
@anoname5935 3 года назад
@@How_to_613 it actually went well lol i got a great score on it
@kimi-chn8669
@kimi-chn8669 3 года назад
I have one tomorrow😫,I really hate chemistry.
@deimos2108
@deimos2108 3 года назад
@@kimi-chn8669 how was it bro??
@deimos2108
@deimos2108 3 года назад
@@kimi-chn8669 I have one tomorrow 😢
@CoachViva
@CoachViva 3 года назад
Love the about connecting with people individually. This helps with my speaking anxiety!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Right on!
@ziba6433
@ziba6433 3 года назад
I have a presentation in 3 days and honestly I'm LITERALLY shaking at the thought of it.
@aliciagagliano1212
@aliciagagliano1212 2 года назад
How did it go
@darylballard307
@darylballard307 3 года назад
Point the focus outward, I love it. My favorite was "be a giver and not a taker." It's so hard not to focus on me. Thanks Riaz.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks for your honest feedback Daryl. Awesome to have you here.
@jaimetan
@jaimetan 3 года назад
Love this... it's about getting out of your own way! I find giving talks similar to teaching a yoga class - it's not about you... it's about the students in the class and how to give them the best experience in that moment. And every single time, it's about getting out of your own way, don't make it about you and your nerves - it's about them! Thanks for this reminder. :)
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Jaime. That’s a great example. The best yoga instructors are dialed in to what the student is thinking, feeling and doing and then just guides there energy while the student does the work
@Clear256
@Clear256 Год назад
I recently realized that I have this. I thought it was social anxiety but I'm not that anxious in social situations . It's when I'm in the spotlight and expected to talk is when all the fear comes out
@spaget7428
@spaget7428 2 года назад
Ngl i really wanna cry right now cz of the presentation due next week. It's not even am important one. Our teachers are trying to push us more this semester to build confidence but boi o boi i wish they didn't 😭😭😭
@debrathorpecoaching3232
@debrathorpecoaching3232 3 года назад
Focus on delivering to one person at a time - and find 'the nodder'! Thanks for sharing this video.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Debra. Don't we love a good 'nodder'? Thanks for checking this out.
@ishwaryai9796
@ishwaryai9796 3 года назад
I forget everything I stammer and talk nonsense it is serious and I just accepted this is me and didn't try to change for 10 years
@olomitutuadedotun240
@olomitutuadedotun240 22 дня назад
This is me.
@petrovabloood3744
@petrovabloood3744 2 года назад
my soeaking anxiety is so horrible i physically cannot form words and i start shaking and my heart starts beating so fast
@silvannessler3615
@silvannessler3615 3 года назад
Every time I have to do a presentation my palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy. I'm about to drop bombs, but I keep on forgetting What I wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud I open my mouth, but the words won't come out I'm choking, how? Everybody's joking now The clock's run out, time's up, over-blaow!
@veronv1151
@veronv1151 2 года назад
Talking in class wasn't even a bit problem for me before pandemic. I used to represent my group. But when covid has started, just thinking about speaking would make me feel terrify. Cold feet, hands shaking, heart's pounding, usual signs of speaking anxiety. Because I kept thinking about 'Maybe I' ve changed already and I can't do it anymore.' But upon diving into this video, it got me straight, beating anxiety is about not focusing on yourself but rather on what you are about to do. Loosening up and having fun. Maybe that's one thing I have neglected. I was always focused on the things I thought I couldn't, but hell, I definitely can. Thank you for this video :)
@krupakshari1370
@krupakshari1370 2 года назад
I I'll forget whatever I want to speak about the topic and my head goes just blank my heart beat goes in 120 Speed 😥🤐
@carlolrac7889
@carlolrac7889 3 года назад
got a 6 minute presentation on french tomorrow, i cant even speak french lol. Prob is not the mindset, but my body, it just goes all places whilst im thinking, it doesnt matter how they think, theyre just ppl too. Lol im such a mess when it comes to powerpoints ehhh
@mg0790
@mg0790 3 года назад
I agree with connecting with people before hand. This really helps calm the nerves for me personally and helps as an ice breaker.
@arelimarceleno559
@arelimarceleno559 3 года назад
I have to do a announcements to my whole school I’m so nervous ..... you oddly make me calm
@Helena42246
@Helena42246 3 года назад
I even have anxiety in a small group setting. I’m trying my best to overcome this anxiety.
@Sossoholic
@Sossoholic 5 месяцев назад
Have you succeeded?
@BrookeGGillard
@BrookeGGillard 3 года назад
I'm so nervous! I have a speech that is 8 minutes long rip me.
@arelimarceleno559
@arelimarceleno559 3 года назад
I have to do announcements to the whole shook
@AndreaS-ru3yw
@AndreaS-ru3yw 3 года назад
10 mins 😭
@caringgurl4444
@caringgurl4444 3 года назад
Andrea S aoww u hot thisss, remember everyone feels the same, u just cant see it, also ur safe💗😌😜
@AndreaS-ru3yw
@AndreaS-ru3yw 3 года назад
@@caringgurl4444 thank you! It went so well and I wasn’t afraid at all ❤️❤️ I stuttered a bit but I’ll work on that!
@daxiapatton3941
@daxiapatton3941 3 года назад
Same
@twelshyy
@twelshyy 2 года назад
I have a presentation Thursday in one of my college courses. I’ve found that if I start the presentation by asking a question to related said topic I’m able to ground the my nerves faster once I get the audience speaking instead of just having them staring at me during the start of the presentation. I’ll add this is someone who is terrified of public speaking and on anxiety medication.
@NissySlim
@NissySlim 3 года назад
Love these points you're absolutely on point Riaz. Focusing on ourselves only increases the anxiety, focusing outward shifts our focus and naturally our perspective.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Nisreen. Figured you could definitely relate to this given your work in front of the camera. 'Don't be a creeper' also applies here to reduce the anxiety :)
@ElizabethSampson
@ElizabethSampson 3 года назад
I have had this happen to me! I love this idea of talking to them in the beginning so you can focus during your presentation.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Elizabeth, it really helps cut that tension and make it more enjoyable on both sides.
@NazaNalani
@NazaNalani 3 года назад
Right before I am about to step up, I take a few BIG DEEP breaths with my eyes closed. Then, I focus on my senses to ground myself. I LOVED tip #1. Building those relationships up front makes them feel less like strangers. :)
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Right in Naza. That grounding moment you describe is a difference maker with managing that anxious energy.
@TertiaRieglerEmbodiment
@TertiaRieglerEmbodiment 3 года назад
Love this Riaz. My biggest tip is to connect to people individually, similar to your suggestion of your fab 5. Then it becomes about them, not you and your can serve your audience instead of being anxious.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Absolutely. The individual connections are a great way to refocus and build confidence in your content. Thanks Tertia!
@miss_aligned
@miss_aligned 3 года назад
I'm happy to have come across your channel. I don't particularly have anxiety when speaking, it's more that I stumble on my words at times and that they don't come out conveying the message I initially intended to convey. Thanks for you great content!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Jessica. Glad to have you hear. Will be releasing a video in the coming weeks on recovering after a stumble. Stay tuned!
@DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords
@DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords 3 года назад
I've used the "connect with people before you speak" technique. That way when I'm speaking I can connect with friendly faces. Helps a bunch. Never thought about also asking questions to use for even better connection. Super helpful tip Riaz!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Debbra. Not surprised you are familiar with this approach. You appear to be someone that leads with their heart :)
@DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords
@DebbraLupien_AkashicRecords 3 года назад
@@RiazMeghji thank you Riaz. What a beautiful sentiment. 💚
@hanijoo
@hanijoo Год назад
It's so very difficult to handle nervousness for me but also i feel bad if i didn't get the chance to speak up about my thoughts. It feels like my ideas are wasted so i really need to overcome my weakness so thank you so much for this. I hope that i can do well more in my school because of this mindset. I appreciate it.
@sun_sets_with_Natalia
@sun_sets_with_Natalia Год назад
Hi, @Himari. I can definitely resonate with what you’ve said and would be really interested in hearing more about your experiences relating to public speaking and/or any anxieties you may still currently face. I’m looking to gather insight from individuals like yourself (purely for my own research) to help me build a new workshop I’m working on. It would mean the world to me if we could hop on a quick call and I could ask you a few questions. OR if you know of someone who fits this description, please tag them below/introduce me. Feel free to tag me here with a reply if you’re interested :) Super appreciate your shared insights in advance.
@DrJonTam
@DrJonTam 3 года назад
Learning what's going on in the local scene is such a great idea. Great stuff as always Riaz!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Hereeeee's Jonny! Thanks for checking in my man
@starrynight2915
@starrynight2915 2 года назад
I have a presentation with a person in a couple of days. We are both really nervous! Thanks for the tips
@Kris-gm7ms
@Kris-gm7ms Год назад
I always knew i had anxiety when I'm about to say something in fornt of a crowd but today the way my heart raised it actually took me by surprise well the point is does anyone want to like practice giving any sort of presentations or speaking in general like yk who could really use a company
@gkrt2474
@gkrt2474 2 года назад
I have to talk about how I want to be a good colleague in front of my co workers on monday. It is all I can think about, I am so nervous I want to die instead... They can tell I am so nervous and I am convinced they enjoy it inside cause they love not being me. I am shaking, sweating, dry mouth, can't speak properly when I am so nervous... I hate it!!
@BME399
@BME399 2 месяца назад
How did it go? Did it get any better?
@SerenaDAlexander
@SerenaDAlexander 3 года назад
Loved all you advice. I know I definitely can feel very anxious when talking to a big crowd. Terrified thag I will stutter and mess up the whole thing. Really appreciate these tips
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Serena. I think we all have that fear. Sometimes when we show it, we can bring the audience closer to us. We’re human after all :)
@publicspeakingbasics
@publicspeakingbasics Год назад
This is the topic to address! Sometimes I wonder if anything really works besides just getting up and doing it as cliché as it sounds lol. So many people avoid public speaking which obviously makes their anxiety worse. Nice vid - kudos!!
@YesToTech
@YesToTech 3 года назад
This is amazing Riaz! Can't wait to try this technique! Thanks for sharing!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Marina.
@ortallevitan1
@ortallevitan1 3 года назад
Absolutely loved this video! Packed with super helpful and valuable information. Also, the editing was really fun to watch! Thanks
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Ortal
@qivvii91
@qivvii91 2 года назад
This helped me a lot, thank you! I gotta do a school presentation tomorrow that I have been avoiding for 3 months, im not afraid anymore because im pretty sure that everyone feels the way I do when they are infront of the whole class so im not nervous anymore cause im not infront of professionals that are gonna judge me
@arrivederci9689
@arrivederci9689 2 года назад
How did it go tho
@qivvii91
@qivvii91 2 года назад
@@arrivederci9689 it went well, I spoke calmly and slowly at the start but messed up a bit at the end cause I was out of breath
@TiidiiLivingwithSabrina
@TiidiiLivingwithSabrina 3 года назад
Love this tip of getting to know your audience better. When I used to go to comedy shows I really respected comedians who made local references. Like when Trevor Noah came to town and he opened with jokes about Vancouver, loved it!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
So true, I was at one of Trevor's show. I think he was talking about discovering E Hastings 😳
@thefallenpotato9594
@thefallenpotato9594 2 года назад
Thanks for the video! I watched this 2 days ago, and today I found out I was school captain! Y’all it will be okay
@SarovaraYoga
@SarovaraYoga 3 года назад
Service! Yes.... such amazing tips. Thank you Riaz :)
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Awesome Ally! Thanks for checking it out
@BrieKirbyson
@BrieKirbyson 3 года назад
OMG I can totally relate! I tend to get shaky knees and it is incredibly annoying :P. Such a great technique to focus on the audience instead of yourself. Thanks for sharing :)
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Brie! It’s a small shift with a big impact. Let me know how it works for you.
@JennaWahl
@JennaWahl 3 года назад
EVERYTIME! I love your delivery and this was great I want to use this within writing and speaking situations now that we are mostly working from home!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Glad it landed for you!
@creemybbun6085
@creemybbun6085 3 года назад
I have to debate in the next few minutes infront of my whole class (online on zoom) with my video on. I just hope I don’t get too nervous!
@user-fv6be1uo6z
@user-fv6be1uo6z 3 года назад
Palms sweaty, knees weak, arms become heavy, mom's spaghetti
@chriscarrion8018
@chriscarrion8018 2 года назад
He’s nervous but on the surface he looks calm and ready
@King-gi6cv
@King-gi6cv Год назад
to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting
@VickyZhaoBEEAMP
@VickyZhaoBEEAMP 3 года назад
Want to improve my improv public speaking so will try this out!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Vicky. Keep me posted on your progress.
@preiss0
@preiss0 2 года назад
Great video. Short but straight to the point and has helped me more than many other videos on here.
@ericamulondo210
@ericamulondo210 2 года назад
Thank you Riaz - fantastic and so practical! I love your channel
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 2 года назад
Awesome Erica. Let me now what topic you'd love to see covered in future videos!
@yolandangwekazi1594
@yolandangwekazi1594 3 года назад
I just came here after a zoom meeting we I just had speaking anxiety I couldn’t stop talking and I couldn’t hear what I was saying🥺 .. but I’m hope watching your videos will help me because I’ll be working with clients and they need to have confidence in me as I handle their accounts...I guess it’s that need to be validated that I know my work but Gosh speaking anxiety 😥
@soundvoices6973
@soundvoices6973 3 года назад
Now that so many of us have to speak via zoom which is so different to being in person something I do is to practice and record myself talking on zoom to no one then play it back so I know how I sound and look. This helps me feel a bit more confident when presenting on camera. Hope this helps...
@arezoartinmohammadi8159
@arezoartinmohammadi8159 Год назад
Usually I can control myself while presenting in from of hundreds people but my problem is while speaking in small groups😕😕😕
@santasuser
@santasuser 2 года назад
I don’t know if I will ever be able to speak in mass . I can’t even do normal conversation with my boss . Social Anxiety is so painful .
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 2 года назад
Thanks for you honesty. What specifically do you find increases your anxiety?
@MrJessy24jessy
@MrJessy24jessy Месяц назад
have been afraid of public speaking as long as I can remember. I have dropped out of school and lost a lot of opportunities because I was too afraid to speak. I'm scared to talk to authority or speak in front of people because my mind goes blank. My heart beats so fast and my mouth goes dry. Then after that I get very very depressed and think of suicide because I felt like a failure. I don't want this to control my life. I did toast masters today and it was so hard. Very hard for me but I forced myself to. I know the fear is irrational but it impacts my life and my body and my mind . After toast masters I got depressed for reasons I don't know. I'm going to go again. It's like I'm walking into the danger to overcome it. I see potential to present. I see hope to give a speech some day. I'm so so so scared but I have to .
@olomitutuadedotun240
@olomitutuadedotun240 22 дня назад
You are overcomer already.
@alexandradugan2301
@alexandradugan2301 3 года назад
Thank you!!! :) love how this is quick and tips anyone can apply!
@itsmebonnyqueen3233
@itsmebonnyqueen3233 3 года назад
I found this content helpful. Actually a while a go I left in our online discussion cu'z I can't explain my feelings by that time. We usually having a recitation every meeting in our particular subjects. But suddenly I feel some difficulties to breathe and I am prepared in recitation I'mnot that confident but I've done an advance study. Then a while a go I can't even talk and express my thoughts straight and properly. I just feel so sad.
@sun_sets_with_Natalia
@sun_sets_with_Natalia Год назад
Hi, @itsmebonnyqueen. I can definitely resonate with what you’ve said and would be really interested in hearing more about your experiences relating to public speaking and/or any anxieties you may still currently face. I’m looking to gather insight from individuals like yourself (purely for my own research) to help me build a new workshop I’m working on. It would mean the world to me if we could hop on a quick call and I could ask you a few questions. OR if you know of someone who fits this description, please tag them below/introduce me. Feel free to tag me here with a reply if you’re interested :) Super appreciate your shared insights in advance.
@kakulmeow
@kakulmeow 3 года назад
I'm a 14 yo kid. I used to be so good at debates but then i left my school in 5th class. I was so depressed about it and i think that is why i have speech anxiety now. And the funny thing is that i can sometimes talk to strangers but i find it so hard to talk normally to my family especially my dad i don't really know why. It's like something is stopping me from speaking and my chest gets heated up. I really need a solution from you or the Internet!
@kakulmeow
@kakulmeow 3 года назад
Also if i speak fluenty in front of someone i normally don't feel the anxiety then. Also its not only in big crowds but even to a single person who i don't even know for eg. Taxi drivers, delivery guys etc
@CelinaBelizan345
@CelinaBelizan345 3 года назад
Great stuff as always! Keep 'em coming!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Celina!
@khndea1764
@khndea1764 3 года назад
I'm nervous for my interview this Monday. even though its an online interview but still I'm nervous as heckk 😭
@harrisonsokoipei4521
@harrisonsokoipei4521 2 года назад
I've a graduation party tomorrow and I'm planning to use the techniques in my speeche.
@KarlaDreyerDesign
@KarlaDreyerDesign 3 года назад
Great tips! "pointing your focus outward' -- such good advice.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Karla!
@CRuf-qw4yv
@CRuf-qw4yv 2 года назад
I have done relatively a lot of public speaking whether it is giving a presentation at a convention or providing state of department projects for annual upper management review . The degree of anxiety is fluid and depends how ready you are with your material. I engage the audience first and that brings them in as part of the presentation...and I'm asking them questions thru-out. One thing I find many people who are uncomfortable speaking, is they try to do the conventional approach first but as soon as they get the dreaded "shakey voice" they almost always revert to reading their speech....Not good. And one odd thing I have found out about most people is while they are afraid to speak in public, they are usually the first to volunteer for a community play or skit acting the part of a fictional or historic character. It seems their fear always goes away when "hamming it up".
@nabilaahmed375
@nabilaahmed375 2 года назад
This is so crazy, I have speaking anxiety when presenting or doing job interviews (as MYSELF) but have no qualms acting or role playing in front of an audience. What IS the logic 🥴
@keerthipavuluri2732
@keerthipavuluri2732 Год назад
All of these are true, all that you told here actually increase my confidence when i spoke earlier
@SteveGreenhalgh
@SteveGreenhalgh 3 года назад
Some really great tips here for any one with anxiety around public speaking ...EXCELLENT
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Right on Steve, great to have you here.
@KristinaKushner
@KristinaKushner 3 года назад
love this technique and the wat you explain it. great vid!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Kristina!
@LetsTacoBoutWine
@LetsTacoBoutWine 3 года назад
This is so helpful! I've been teaching weekly wine classes and I ALWAYS GET NERVOUS!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Good thing you have wine as a backup to take off the edge!
@LetsTacoBoutWine
@LetsTacoBoutWine 3 года назад
@@RiazMeghji Hahaha! Wait, why didn't I think of that!
@Kickin40andBeyond
@Kickin40andBeyond 3 года назад
Finding your 5 is such a great strategy to make a connection.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Fab 5 is a big booster! Thanks for watching.
@loserrrrrrr
@loserrrrrrr Год назад
ugh i was in a spelling bee and we all had to introduce ourselves. judges told me to redo it because they couldnt hear me. THERE WAS SOMEBODY LAUGHING 😭
@doreendsouza8862
@doreendsouza8862 Год назад
Loved the video . Exactly how I feel .my body shakes voice gets shaky ..Loved the line stop focussing on yourself ..Thank You sir .
@BME399
@BME399 2 месяца назад
Did it go well?
@Alpha-ux1gk
@Alpha-ux1gk 3 года назад
I have a French one Tommorow and my accent is kinda shite 😅
@DestineChinae
@DestineChinae 2 года назад
try adding a stutter on top of the speaking anxiety. This is a great video, thanks
@humeraazhar2851
@humeraazhar2851 Год назад
I really enjoyed watching your video and these are good tips but once you are up for presentation you forget everything and become so nervous and anxious 😅
@teasamays471
@teasamays471 3 года назад
I'm late but this is super-helpful. I am headed in now to give a presentation. I'll be sure to use your techniques mentioned in the video.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
How did it go?
@teasamays471
@teasamays471 3 года назад
@@RiazMeghji It was just ok. I have about three presentations a week (every other week) when in the office. I believe the three day consistency will strengthen my presentation skill (muscle) and relieve some of my anxiety issues. At this point, I don't have a choice. In the meantime, I will continue to watch videos like yours to get more comfortable. Thanks so much for asking.
@JennyMayor
@JennyMayor 3 года назад
This is such a great video! I think I need to watch it a few times :) thanks for sharing
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Jenna! Thanks for stopping by
@drmorgannolte
@drmorgannolte 3 года назад
Great video thanks for the tips!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Morgan!
@DonnieGupton
@DonnieGupton 3 года назад
Thank you for this Beat Your Speaking Anxiety with This Proven Technique !
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Donnie!
@aldrinpadua4210
@aldrinpadua4210 3 года назад
Love thus tips. Gold Thanks
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Aldrin.
@michellemabanta4150
@michellemabanta4150 3 года назад
I am a college student and I am always reporting. And it is even if thru online class. I always feel nervous. Sometimes I forgot all the ideas i had practiced😣.
@JoelSHansen
@JoelSHansen 3 года назад
Powerful video!
@williammcleroy558
@williammcleroy558 6 месяцев назад
I often get asked in church how I am so calm in front of the congregation. I just tell the truth. I don't much care how people judge me. 😂 Or in more common terms I just don't care much about what people think. I don't mean it in a snarky way mind you. I just have bigger worries than what may or may not be going through other people's minds. I do care about people though. I also listen well oddly enough.
@cyrilusjima6119
@cyrilusjima6119 Год назад
Thanks for the great vidio, its really helpful for me in preparing my final thesis persentation in my university, thanks for the helpuf tips and trick to overcome the unxiety problem during speaking in front of people, kudos....
@Tanya23852
@Tanya23852 2 года назад
Comment section giving me happiness knowing i m not alone suffering from this
@mvsleaks8949
@mvsleaks8949 10 месяцев назад
Its not that its just that when like I practice to myself, like its good and everything, but when you do it infront of a class or a crowd, you just waste everything you did, the eye contact, when you remember what your saying and everything. I really hate it and I just feel like I wanna get it over with no matter what happens. Its super annoying and I say to myself why am i embarrasing myself.
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks 3 года назад
Yup. Uncertainty management is definitely a skill.
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Right on. If we know it's there, we just need to find the way to navigate it.
@tanyaannn
@tanyaannn 3 года назад
Love the Fab 5 idea!!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Tanya!
@careerstrategies9529
@careerstrategies9529 3 года назад
I really enjoyed your tips... Great video!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Aces! Thank u
@SixFigureBusinessCoaching
@SixFigureBusinessCoaching 3 года назад
My favorite is tip #2! So real when you have a shift in your mind to give more :)
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Service is the name of the game!
@sam2oy
@sam2oy 2 года назад
one thing that helps me overcome speaking anxiety is to think that will this speech or presentation matter in a matter of a few months or years. Also have bullet points ready for what you are about to speak about. That takes away the weight from the speaking part instantly.
@sahchannel7340
@sahchannel7340 Год назад
Thanks this is very helpful for me🙂
@syedmuneer3812
@syedmuneer3812 Год назад
Tomorrow is my presentation and i am shaking even by imagine ing the scence..
@CarlaVisentin
@CarlaVisentin 2 года назад
I am going to be interviewed on a morning show on Monday. I’m so nervous. I’m hoping I do well 😂
@SocialConfidenceMastery
@SocialConfidenceMastery 3 года назад
I'm excited to implement this!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Let me know how it goes Myke!
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks 3 года назад
Yup. I know the dry mouth! Great video, Riaz!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Lol. Right when you think you have things under control, we hear that nasty dry mouth creep in :) Thanks Tanya!
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks
@ProfessorTanyaSpeaks 3 года назад
@@RiazMeghji hahahahaha
@eclipseaaterminator8153
@eclipseaaterminator8153 3 года назад
I have a presentation tomorrow 😬
@tastyDungeon
@tastyDungeon Год назад
Another thing that helps is contradictory. Try to feel as much fear as you possibly can, crank it up. Notice how it really feels and accept it. It won't kill you to do this. Once it's accepted it will go away, the more you resist the more it will keep itself around.
@square007tube
@square007tube 3 года назад
Thanks Riaz for the great video
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Mo!
@vishank7
@vishank7 Год назад
Very interesting points, thanks!
@bonkus4073
@bonkus4073 2 года назад
thank you riaz meghji ! !
@Sustainagirl
@Sustainagirl 3 года назад
dreaded dry mouth!! lol So true with comedians making local references, i'm always so impressed by that!
@RiazMeghji
@RiazMeghji 3 года назад
Thanks Sara!
@costazurra
@costazurra 3 года назад
@Keitho Dunleavio stop between sentences and drink huge loads of water
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