Here are the timestamps. Please check out our sponsors to support this podcast. 0:00 - Introduction & sponsor mentions: - Calm: calm.com/lex to get 40% off premium - Weights & Biases: lexfridman.com/wnb - BiOptimizers: www.magbreakthrough.com/lex to get 10% off - InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/lex to get 20% off - Indeed: indeed.com/lex to get $75 credit 3:18 - Trip to Italy 10:20 - Chess tournaments 15:07 - Streaming 27:11 - Chess strategies 47:37 - King's Indian Defense 1:05:37 - Chess training 1:10:03 - Losing 1:13:22 - Street chess and trash talk 1:18:11 - Passion and study 1:36:03 - Loneliness and depression 2:00:52 - Andrew Tate 2:09:35 - Greatest chess player of all time 2:12:10 - Magnus Carlsen 2:21:20 - Advice for young people 2:23:14 - Chess boxing 2:32:08 - Meaning of life 2:33:13 - Love
Podcast with Nick was great . Looking forward to this one 💯 thanks for providing us with such amazing content. Would be nice to have some astronauts or astrobiologist soon[[=
Bro lex,you are in love with sisters. can see it in your eyes 😁 this is what you've been searching for,the eternal LOVE is here. go for it. the stars will allign,if you want them to 🙂
@@prasadpappu23 at her loudest she sounds like she eats cigarettes and washes them down with drain cleaner. i think she's awesome but listening to her with headphones is not an option.
Beyond the extreme high quality of your questions and your apparent knowledge of the topics you tackle, your voice is so calming, it's refreshing. Please keep loving what you do, because I love what you do.
How sad when we live in a world where the Kardashians are seen as role models by young girls when we have amazing woman like these two out there who are unknown to most.
Its all access to popular culture. In America, Kardashians are popular because people like drama and care a lot about looks and being hip, whereas these girls cater to more niche communities. Sucks too because Kardashians are definitely not positively influencing the minds of our youth
Sorry but these two do the same exact things. They constantly stream in skimpy clothing talking about trivial non-sense while making suggestive faces or poses for male viewership and clicks. Being good at chess on top of everything else isn't enough of an extra layer to somehow cancel the rest out.
@@vgold4286 they do, the culture is fucked. But there is more to these gals than that, the tide of things is forcing everyone into their corners. It’s just too easy to make bank very quickly doing onlyfans style content. But again their not just skimpy photo gals. If the entire young population could use their brains like these 2 girls there would be more hope on the world. Also their young, I was young once. Remember having hormones alll the fucking time. I’m starting to think most people comping about such things are jealous that their poor, they don’t have fulfilling relationships. And most of all, such exciting people never stop to talk to you. Don’t let the internet wreck you
I think what I find most enjoyable about this Podcast is just the huge and varied different types of people he has conversations with, and just how intrested he seems, he never seems to be bored, or has a feeling like hes half-assing anything, his sincerity comes across...
There's a Futurama quote that says "when you do things right, people won't be sure that you've done anything at all." And that's exactly how I feel about the Botez sisters. Their stardom feels like nothing. It feels completely natural for them to be as famous as they've become.
@@baldanders no, like Lex is close in age to the girls, whereas he's usually interviewing people older than him, sometimes much older. So I probably felt easier to build a more casual rapport with them
I love how Alexandra turns a lot of Lex's questions back on him, or questions some of his value statements. It really shows how much of a lifelong learner she is. She isn't there to talk about herself she's there to explore ideas with Lex and wants to know what's in his head box
I'm really glad to see the botez sisters on here. I feel like I learned a lot more about them in this podcast and they are the reason I started playing chess like a year ago. I'm a big fan 🥺
Delightful conversation 💛 I’d only seen silly little clips here and there of these 2, but hearing them speak in this format has made me admire them a lot more. So articulate and thoughtful.
OMG, I never thought you would interview the Botez sister. Lex, you continue to surprise me with your wide range of guests and intellectual interests. Outstanding podcast
Love this theme of chess players being in the podcast. I played in highschool and stopped once I became an “adult”. You’ve reignited my love for chess though and am now playing hours a day again. Thank you Lex 🙏🏻
1:34 Lex speaking about being self critical and touching on depression....I could speak hours about this... Sending love to everyone out there listening to Lex and feeling among friends. You are not alone.
Alex saying "Imagine being so intelligent that you could become a grandmaster, and yet only spending the rest of your life being a grandmaster." was kinda wild to think about. There are obviously counterexamples but it's a fun hypothetical: would you give up everything else to be great at one thing?
It reminds me of the Paul Morphy quote.. "The ability to play chess is the sign of a gentleman. The ability to play chess well is the sign of a wasted life." Which I don't fully agree, but I can see this being the case for so many GM's that don't get to be super GM's or don't get to monetize their skills.
Apparently Andrew Tate’s dad would say to him “a well played chess game is the sign of a gentleman, an expertly played chess game is the sign of a wasted life”
It's because 1. Chess doesn't require high intelligence. It's just pattern recognition from other games. All u do is play the best lines that have always already been played. That doesn't require intelligence. Just memory. You didn't create some new genius move. 2. Chess is a dead end. It only makes u good at chess and nothing else. The skill of chess doesn't leak into other areas. And chess doesn't help make the world a better place.
39:50 "for people just listening, there are two pawns who just came out to meet each other" -> both girls smile at his commentary at the same time. Get 'em Lex, you tiger
I see these two playing chess on Twitch now and again even outside around NYC Union square I think. This is the more reputable side of young influencers.
@@onderkruiper If by AA you mean The Academic Agent, yes I do sometimes. I consume many different opinions from many different view points - as much as I can; he's a good fellow and I feel hasn't been treated well by the U.K. academic institutions.
I saw this podcast in my feed, and said to myself, I really want to watch this, but then I looked at the length of it and thought, I don't have anywhere near that kind of time.Then I thought, what the hell, I'll just watch a little, and come back to it later... next thing I knew,a couple hours had passed, it was way past bedtime, and I was feeling amazed, blessed, and full of admiration and renewed hope for humanity. Great content from three amazing human beings.
I sincerely enjoyed this episode. Thank you for introducing me to these two amazing women. I cannot wait to watch their content with my young daughters. I also enjoyed the questions the Botez Sisters asked you Lex. It’s wonderful to discover two amazing role models.
I wonder if this person appreciated the live / RU-vid content as much as this interview? This was a really nice interview- trying to satisfy the algorithm….not the same thing
#1 Rule when renting a car in Italy.....get the smallest model possible, to survive the narrow streets and increase your odds of finding a parking space.
I must say I'm... impressed. I knew Botez sisters are intelligent (it's obvious), but I didn't expect them to also be wise beyond their years. Kudos! Also, very well done, Lex!
Alexandria considerably so. Her statement about Andrew Tate showed exceptional acuteness,: Andrea didn't get so much of a chance, but can't be too far behind, if at all.
What an astute and beautiful observation that might of been missed here, Lex 44:22 "I know you are being nice to the machines, in case they are ever looking back on this." - that's a real chess player mindset right there. I think Alexandra tried to relate to your interests, with that comment.
44:27 Alex dropping truth bombs ...'I know you're being nice to the machine in case they are ever looking back through this ...hahaha! Her wit and snappiness are as high level as her chess ...Found her through Poker and then enjoyed watching her talk trash to old men in the park . Sounds malicious but it's hilarious. Great call Lex! These girls are making moves!
Thanks for the shoutout Lex Fridman! Honored to hear that you have enjoyed a few of the Adult Improver pods. And yes, I found it funny that Magnus avoids deliberate practice while most trainers preach it as the best improvement method, both for chess and other endeavors.
Usually you get the best out of your guests, but this time the guests got the best out of you! Really interesting and enjoying, you three have a great chemistry
Lex I feel like we are two of the same. I am an electrical engineer, 4 years into my jiu jitsu journey and I've been playing chess since I was 10 (I am now 30). Please get Hikaru on and start posting some videos of you rolling. I'm just one guy but nothing would make me happier
Would be interesting to have Josh Waitzkin on the podcast too. He went from chess prodigy and International Master to martial arts competitor, and has a black belt in Brazilian jiu jitsu
I never thought I'd be so drawn into the chess world, but Lex's conversations have the effect of making previously uninteresting topics seem wildly exciting and full of compelling characters. You have an immense ability to make people interested in things, Lex.
Interesting note: When they made the Queens Gambit, the directors initially had planned to have Garry Kasparov play Borgov. However, the movie length for filming was too long for him from chess tournaments, so he offered to help make the chess more realistic over the board at least!
These two are incredible role models for young women in the world we live in nowadays. Love the passion, intelligence and attentiveness. Something that both men and women nowadays are drastically lacking in. 10/10 podcast
How can you say that, you aren't even a woman. Botez are men pleasers, not role models. I don't admire them trying to be sexy and fun for money at all. Fully vain girls, sorry.
18:20 - balancing the want to do with what the audience will also like 19:45 - lex's take 21:39 - discouragement from view count validation 23:00 - doing a task in a way that appeals to us whilst still on the path of progression [sorry for skipping, wanted to hear more about specific topics] 1:49:16 - the addiction of associating views as "a good job" (validation) and how the world is leaning more towards hyper-focusing on it [tbf view count is very optimizable (general audience appeal, topic, title, thumbnail, 10 sec, retention, personalization, yielding more impressions, etc). plus I feel higher and lower view counts can't objectively represent the experience that any individual viewer had had with a video] 1:51:26 - seeing the things we do having an impact on someone is awesome 1:55:42 - interesting, that vibe of being there (looking forward to a new upload feeling) + difficulties in being experimental
Please bring Hikaru on the podcast! The interiew with Magnus was very interesting and I think that Hikaru can bring a lot of interesting experiences also related to streaming and other stuff. Thanks for these podcasts!
@2:04:54 I am a black man Lex Fridman, you won't turn off all people in a community because of controversy. I've watched the Botez Sisters play chess in their park videos with random people looking to up my game and also have a laugh while watching them in their element. I would also watch the Andrew Tate interview potentially. I think there are people who are willing to be nuanced and accept that labels aren't all fitting and there are people who aren't. Stay true to yourself, whether you interview him or not but just know that as much as there will be backlash, there will be always support. This dimension is one of duality and polarity
But what nuances are there with Andrew Tate, really? He's ideology which to some extent he is just putting on as a show is that I'm big strong ape better than you better than women. That's it! It'll definitely be boring and he won't concede on anything because it makes him money. Neither he nor the subject is capable of being intellectually interesting.
It's specifically the floor they use in Italy that makes the difference... The names 00 and 0 Flour refer to specifically Italian milled flour that is used for pasta making. You will find that this is also called Doppio Zero just meaning double zero. The grading system is 2, 1, 0 or 00 and indicates to how finely ground the flour is and how much of the bran and germ have been removed.
"When a human devotes themselves to their nature-given talents and interests, the universe provides them what they need." Its interesting that chess gave these young women so much fulfillment and opportunities in their life. And perhaps it makes perfect cosmic sense.
Lex has rapidly become my go to podcaster. I feel like anyone could talk to this guy and get along with him, except Ye. Lol He’s a gamer, chess player, avid reader of interesting books, engineer, foreigner, etc. Such an awesome guy
I never believed the day would come when Andrea spoke calmly and eloquently. It's charming but simultaneously disturbing. I can feel the restraint through the screen. Thank you, Lex, for making the impossible possible
I love that both sisters ended the podcast saying they were big fans of Lex. (!!!) That this interview was a big deal *for them*. Lex: You made it, man!
Lex I owe so much gratitude to you ..thank you. For now I've finally found a male roll to model after. Your politeness, patience, quick mind, intense focus, sense of humor , variety of skills, vocabulary, kindness & sincerity all serve me well in tweaking how I would like to be perceived as. Knowing you are out there gives me increased faith for the worlds future.
Gosh, 3 humble genuine people talking about this kinda stuff, it may be the best insight into fame for humble people. Aren’t they in their early 20s? Sooooooooooooo mature!
Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other's existence. Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations or television stars.
@@drewber2006 liking people you watch isn't inherently parasocial. It's when you start considering them as more than entertainers / streamers / whatever, and start feeling like they're your friends.
Yea I understand the celebrity thing, I just mean I feels like I’m buying into their shtick. I’m a young man who likes chess and go and games in general, I could watch anybody. But instead I’m watching two young attractive girls play chess? There is a feeling of being had, like the gimmick is working and I feel bad that it is somehow.
For a couple of glamorous young ladies with a wide reach that goes beyond chess let's be fair. They're so well mannered and pleasant to listen to. A credit to the sport and to their parents.
This CD is very calming ru-vid.comUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq the first meditation focuses on breathing, the second guides you through the Buddhist metta bhavana--loving kindness to all, and the third is a meditation to be used when walking. him is originally from Scotland, so there is a little accent to his voice, but it is very soothing and not at all distracting. If you are a beginner to meditation, this CD will walk you through all the steps of relaxing and breathing as well as sending out the positive thoughts of love and kindness that will be returned to you. We have several CD's, but this one is a favorite that we choose most often.
Alex gets around on the youtube influence sphere. It's actually kind of impressive imo. One of my favorite moments is her reaction to MoistCritkal beating XQC in 5 rounds.
This was an awesome podcast! Thank you for allowing them your growing platform Lex. These girls have heart and serious passion. They deserve to keep succeeding.
As a former chess player and a current math major at college, I felt such a connection to this episode. Essentially, I loved how Lex so openly shared his take on some really interesting questions. Overall this episode is beautiful. Beautiful both visually and mentally. Alex is brilliant lady. So is Andrea. Lex is the role model. Lex, thank you for putting your effort out there and creating this valuable informational art that we not only love to be exposed to but I dare to say that we should. Thank you for putting love into the world.
The variety of sub-cultures that Lex explores on this podcast never ceases to keep me interested. Lex, you're the gift that just keeps on giving. The work you're putting continues to facilitate the growth of love and understanding in the world that you seek to achieve. Keep it up brother.
Chess parallels MMA/Jiu jitsu on many levels. Both individual competitions with many time control variations that may give an advantage to one participant over another. Winning is often by tapping or resigning when one is "defeated", or by stoppage/mate. The prepping for a particular opponent, the idea that a fighter might be more comfortable in certain lines/positions than another equally rated player. The fighters also often attach a sense of worth to an outcome even tho anyone can slip up and suddenly lose to a foe considered not as strong. I could realloy go on with the similarities, but I'm sure many others are thinking of them now.