Bride Orders $55 Wedding Invitations Without Telling Groom! | Say Yes To The Dress: The Big Day 

Yaassssss 👏👏

Yes yes he does

Yes

Jenette Merlini can’t believe this is something we have to say.

BYE FELICIA

😂😂😭😭😭😭

I know, so freaking sad!

I will dance with him.

LMFAOOOO FR

WHICH WAS ACTUALLY A GREAT IDEA!!

Beauty and the Beast vibes

@@nikolaosnikosjordan Yeah, but no one's fixing that beast. She's awful. Love did not break the spell.

I thought that was incredibly romantic and sweet.... But she wasn't prepared to compromise at all

Lol

How did it all turn out, is there another part to this episode?

Well, actually he did choose to submit her in any way...

Looks a bit like Jojo Siwa, doesn't it?

First thing I thought of was aging Valley Girl.

Hey the side pony is just a hairstyle. It has nothing to do with her selfish attitude.

@@johannakleine232 no jo jo ponytail is way better

apparently... you don't get to that size if you learn restraint.... sorry if I am offending anyone, I just cannot stand ugly people from the inside AND outside on top of it....

Definitely. Maybe if it was white I would keep the box but it's hot pink! I like pink but usually a soft pink. Hot pink is tacky

That's why I bought mine from Amazon 😂 My wedding was casual so I got invites to reflect that. All I did was fill in the name, date, venue and the number to call everything else was already printed 😂

people normally keep or frame the invitations

Yeahhhh, invitations can be online to be even less expensive, like create an online website with the invitations, then you can all share pictures of the wedding that you take with your phones or cameras, everything

@@hello-db7ye sameeeee!!!!!! I was so upset, the day is about both... if they picked some together that they liked why did she pick another ones????

🧐🤚I forgot that part 👍🏾🤷🏾‍♀️👋🏾🇬🇧

Yes she is terrible.

RIGHT I THOUGHT IT WAS 55$ FOR 200 PEOPLE BUT HUHHH

Same 😩😭 The per invitation threw me. An e-vite is free 99.

55x200 is 11,000

And than imagine that it's all thrown away after the wedding

@@charlottewerner8871 👁👄👁 oh heLI nooo

He is just filling an empty slot in her plan. Nothing else.

@@Dachdogoriginal Yeah, you got that right! He's just an afterthought to what she's planned for herself alone for "24 years"... unbelievably selfish. I wouldn't blame the guy if he opted out!

@@hezelgee6012 I would sort of expect him to opt out.

No i get her. I’m like that. I try to get my way because it’s the only wedding I’m going to have. Besides my fiancé knows how important it is for me. The only thing that matters is the marriage after the wedding.

I don't like her shes a spoiled brat to every one

If you picture it is something out of a dream. I hope his chandelier dream comes true with someone deserving of him.

It makes me think of beauty ant the beast. Its so romantic

Absolutely!

Someone who respects, honors and appreciates him. She didn't in those few moments we watched.

She was horrid and she needs a spanking. So evidently he left her, good thing!

Also, like he said, those pictures would have been so god damn beautiful!

I agree. I just hated the faces she was making when he was giving ideas too. His ideas were actually really romantic. It’s HIS day too.

Some brides forget that marriage is a celebration of union, not a birthday party.

Her mom reacted like everyone that is going to get one of them. "What the heck is this? Ostentatious!!"

Seems like a very spoilt madam. It's her fiance's wedding too. I thought his idea of dancing underneath the chandelier was lovely.

@@sandyking6101 I also. She wants them to center their attention on her eating at a table. Hopefully they're going to be dancing all night. Not feeding her face. Her mom needs to tone her down and not feed into spending all that on invitations.

Depends on the person. I would rather have a gorgeous invitation than a designer dress. Then again my boyfriend is a graphic designer. Lol That being said I would never ever pay that much for an invitation. My dream invitation is $4 each.

But yeah. She's a complete brat.

Especially since most people throw out invitations.

Do you know how much KVD I could buy with that 55 dollars per invitation.....my makeup collection would be way bigger

Michelle Goodrow imagine spending over $13,500 on wedding INVITATIONS

@@likacl budget of 45k... spends well over 1/4 of thaton JUST invites.

@Michelle Goodrow Definitely. My wedding cost like 4000€ and it was absolutely amazing. And the honeymoon was like 2000€. We'd still be swimming in money afterwards!

Don't forget shipping costs to send them all to the guests.

@@naomihajian7659 Well many would be couples so that will save some lol. Okay this is ridiculous. What does she and the now ex do that they have so much money. with a disposition like this and having her on tv her stock just went down a tonne. If I were the employer or a customer I wouldn't go to such a selfish woman who thinks she is the only person in the world who counts.

This woman is to the left side of CRAZY! If the wedding was between $40,000 to $45,000 total that means one third of the wedding budget was spent on invitations?? Absurd. Also raise your hand if you thought the invitation was nothing special once you look past the packaging. (hand raised),

Lmaoo. Nooo. Each individual does not need an invitation. When you do invitations the rule is 60% of the list which in this case would 150 x $55 = 8250. Let’s assume she gave 10% of them in person which means the last 90% would need to be shipped. With the flat rate usps small shipping box at $7.45 that equals 1005.75. So its grand to total of about 9255.75. That DOESNT make it ok though! That way to much for invitations. That’s like 3 - 4 DJs!

I think this is just a television show so all is just for entertainment and maybe the show paid for the cards.

He deserves better. She is over spoilt and she doesnt know to compromise. Doom to fail

Exactly! I want my fiancé’s input because that day is about US and our love. The part that’s been about me was picking out my dress - what made me feel beautiful. The rest of the day is about US. He wanted me to pick out both cakes (wedding & groom’s cake) but I value his input. And our wedding will be fantastic.

@@emmyblue30 congrats and THISSSSS so true I’m a high school lesbian so I’m clueless af lol but yes it’s about BOTH and the dress is all u but the rest is compromise

And there'd be NO wedding at all if he didn't propose. A lot of women date boyfriends for YEARS without a proposal. These women need to get over themselves

Ummm no.

That’s his future ...run man run!

Sad

Yaa... like it's her way or the highway

I hope when I get married I meet a guy who's that excited about the wedding... 💕

@@rustinstardust2094 dont get married to a guy who doesn't care 👍

Apparently they divorced, lmfao

15 yr olds dont claim her

@@nora-gc8jf This is very much true.

@@nora-gc8jf yes! Like she didn't have to insult us like that ✋🏾🙄

Hi plz repent of your sins. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life w/Him

whats the update? Did they divorce? lmao i dont think he would divorce her if he accepts her like this before they got married lollll no bro i cant

Too bad they got divorced when she believed Jermaine wasn't supportive of her business ideas. She's been so happy handling her business "Pink Hotel".

I know!! Had to plan the whole thing by myself. Hubby did very little. But he showed up and was looking fine, so... I was happy.

funkyfiss exactly, I think men just want to leave everything to their fiancé , which a lot of the time the women don’t care because they want to do everything themselves. This lady is just a spoiled brat.

@@rohidnablayy6060 I would have loved help! The whole process has me scarred for life and was a literal nightmare. I tell everyone now to hire a wedding planner. This woman really didn't understand how good she had it.

Fact over here

He did. They got divorced pretty quickly

@@Lifeafter40 tHEY DID?

Really why is something so ugly so costly, spins my mind. 😱😳

@@Lifeafter40 after spending all that money. I wonder what happened.

@@Lifeafter40 really? Where did you hear this from?

Its damn near half of the budget lol

It’s only a 3rd of her budget if she is not counting plus ones, her mother was paying for them anyway but 55 dollars is to much for a lot of things but especially wedding invitations.

@@poohjessi19 yeah a third of the budget for something small and irrelevant you wanna be extra go get a chocolate fountain or an ice sculpture

No her mother bought it, they paid for everything else.

Her wedding dress was $5I. She's spending more money on invitations

Hi plz repent of your sins. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life w/Him

Yeah saying just show up, that's what guy is supposed to do. 🙄 Could she BE more manipulative?!

I thought that was sweet and nice picture moment there but obviously not kinda like a beauty and beast 😉 .

@@lettersforchrist no thank you. I'm perfectly okay with my religion, and makes me happy. Sorry!

IKR? I was literally blushing when he said that!

Candy Monay I would never say anything like that to my mom. Her mom looked so hurt and it hurt my heart.

@@kassilynn3290 it was selfish

Yeah

Well, her mom kind of worked for it by spoiling her rotten. But how rude of her to treat her fiance like that. He's to stay quiet because she's planned this for over twenty years? Is he even needed at the wedding as more than just a face to fill the space beside her?

She'll regret this when her mama go with the angels. She'll regret this tantrum over her mum's valid reaction and opinion. I loved the other invites better tbh smdh she needs to learn some R E S P E C T

Don't worry. They ended up divorcing when Tiffany believed marriage was interfering with her business ideas. Her interview said so from her website "Pink Hotel."

Regular Invader Thank goodness.

@@takeitorleaveit.6333 The BS about the interview is a question that asked her what she would have done if she was given a chance to restart her life. She legit answered that she would not have gotten a boyfriend if she had known that being single was easier for her business.🙄

Like Katelyn in The Bridesmaid's revenge a fiction story haha a brat who just want to play marrying but not to settled.

Regular Invader I wonder what the husband’s version is 🤔

That's exactly what I thought

I think she is fun!

@@Jen_l_g yeah otherwise she's fun

@jen scaff she's fun as long as everything goes her way and everyone agrees with her. If not, run!

I was like 😱 noooo, i could never...

RIGHT?! A GOOD IDEA, TOO!! HE'S RIGHT ABOUT THE PICTURES!! But she sucks, so I'm glad she didn't get to experience it, lmfao XD

Yeah

Rose petals down the isle is such a romantic idea 🥺🥺❤️

*. .Ikr. . I'd love to do that with my husband or wife honestly-.*

I agree!

She's more like a 13 year old brat

Those are definitely Super Sweet 16 invites

Wdym? She is 36...

She’s 24

I’m 13 this year...

Oh she would be AMAZING on Bridezillas! I love that show

YEAH..

"Toxic bridezilla" - Every Saturday night 9.00pm on zilla TV

Thanks for the reminder I thought it was LOL

Seems like a crossover

Stop,this is a show. They are acting. Her over the top personality got her on segment.

🧐🤚maybe their daughter; if ‘it’ (her 🤦🏾‍♀️) is mature enough to conceive yet 🤷🏾‍♀️. 👋🏾🇬🇧

can't come up with just one name It’s an expensive one too.

Sure she has the money for it, but it doesn't mean she should spend it on an invitation. She couldve gotten that money invested, saved the money for something else, or buy herself an actual jewelry box that she can look at everyday as opposed to invitations which wont be in her possession forever.

I'm just upset the mom paid for them without knowing what they looked like.

It looks like it belongs in MTV's My Super Sweet 16

It’s a 3rd of the budget she does NOT have the money lol

She even spoke to her sister with such drama. The episode at some point showed her and her sister at the salon to figure out what was going to be the signature hair and make up style. Tiffany kept saying "just like that," as soon as she noticed how she wanted her hair done. She actually started to cry just because she got irritated with her sister "interfering" with her hair style decision.🙄😒

Yes she whines all lot

Fact*

I felt bad for her mom

She acted like her mom just killed somebody for disliking tacky, overpriced invitations. She’s so overdramatic.

sameena n yup they arent together anymore. Goes bu the name tiffany young on facebook

@@CarlaAmore doesn't surprise me. At least Jermaine realized what was up and saved himself running to the hills🤣🤣🤣

children these days are smart, she is stupid

thats not nice to say no matter how true it is sameena n

Does she even care though? Seems like ALL she wanted was a wedding, not a marriage.

Yup

Nicely put

Agreed I would want a man's opinion on our wedding day to

Can't imagine what he'll have to deal with she wants to have kids, "You don't have to do anything just give me your sperm" 😳😂

Marriage is between two people so there should be two people planning and I get that not all grooms care but clearly he does!

Marriage should be a breeze then, all he gotta do is 'show up', no active participation or effort :/

They need to be in agreement. Me and my husband were in an agreement. He told me who we wanted to invite they got invited and I give an option of what suit to wear. Anything else it was my way he doesn't care. The baby's nursery he doesn't care he just tells me what ever I want and pays. Men typically don't care about that stuff.

Especially with the whole "spontaneous" thing.

Exactly like bish you wanna control someone's facial expressions? She wants to frown she'll frown cuz you don't make her smile lady!

She also said something like "as if it's not my wedding" when Jermaine shares his opinion, but then same time tells him to just "show up" as if it's not his wedding. How annoying.

And the wedding planner or whoever she is wasn't making it any better. "If Tiffany agrees to that." Um...who the fuck is Tiffany? It's his wedding day too.

@@brett8460 i understand the planner though, cause you want them to agree. So i can do that if she agrees. The groom usually gives up easier or compromises, so she would check in with the more stubborn person. Also usually the bride hires the planner, meet and talks with on a regular basis. ( especially cause most grooms dont care or help). But if one person actually calls ,hires and deals with you, at the end of the day you are going to make sure they are happy. Idk if you ever see when a parent hires and pays the planner, the planner usually checks in with that parent ( aka the one paying, their client). Even if the event is for multiple people, you want to ensure the one who pays/hired you is happy.

Exactly!!! Its SO rare for guys to even ACT like they give a shit about stuff like this! He's so cute haha

I knowwwwwwww🥺 That chandelier idea was awesome and so romantically beautiful. I'd seriously would've been floored i'd a guy said proposed that idea to me😔 That lady just doesn't see it I guess💔😔

AGREED

Angeliki she looks crazy

She was so rude

Rach # 😂🤣🤣💀💀

I give it a year 😂

His name is Jermaine but I totally agree

His name isn’t difficult. How insulting

@@JustRaiya16 I didn't know what his name was either. I feel like everyone in this pronounced it differently.

Right. A control freak AND a hypocrite.

Thing is its not even elegant.. it looks like some sweet 16 invitations.. lol.. no wedding vibes in it!!

ON GOD I THOUGHT THIS WAS SO HYPOCRITICAL

😂

I agree. I see red lights flashing already.

Dr. Moushumi Gongopadhyay nope dude is making the biggest mistake by marrying this nut job

@@whereiswaldo5872 love can make people do crazy things dear. People even give up their Throne for it.

@@idas5231 true that.

Dr. Moushumi Gongopadhyay well I just found out that she was the bread winner in the relationship he had a reality show on own prior to coming on say yes to the dress. I also hear they got divorced.

So many brides act like they're marrying themselves...it's a little creepy

@@rustinstardust2094 perfectly said 🙏

Or a house to live in after! That poor groom, wanting to make compromise and she’s just selfish.

Forget that ..... 40,000 is a great down payment on a house or a brand new car paid in full.

Her reaction. God.

That $40Gs can be spent somewhere else.

That's a great idea.

Don't we all throw wedding invitations afterwards !

My husband and I came to an agreement on the wedding. I would do everything with decor to the schedule, because I'm an event planner and he trusted me. Also, he wasn't into the "girly" stuff. I wanted him to something so he was in charge of the reception games and honeymoon. He knew more about destinations than I did. We put together the food and music. I was also in charge of the cake.

Because straight guys don't typically care about these kind of details. Actually, most of them would feel releaved if they aren't asked to choose flowers, dresses, invitations and generally anything that looks pretty. BTW, I'm not implying that these invitations are tasteful.

@@antoniobittarperdomoyboliv7501 I understand there are guys like that, but this guy obviously had something to say, so why ignore him? I guess the mentality of guys is a bit different where I'm from, me and my husband to-be are actually planning our wedding at the moment, and we both contribute, he has a lot of things he wants and doesn't want and I just can't imagining ignoring him, and be like "no honey, i doesn't matter what you want for our wedding, it's MY day". It just seems unfair to me.

@@kelseynolin6780 I think doing the planning this way is awesome! You both contributed, and I'm sure you both felt accomplished on the day, not to mention you didn't have to feel like EVERYTHING was on your shoulders, isn't sharing life experiences like this kind of the point of marriage? =) Me and my fiance are doing the planning right now, and we plan most of the things together, and it has been a very pleasant experience so far.

They already had a house and were living together

Afmedic85 I think they are just commenting on how much money they/she wasted on so much stuff. I know wedding are expensive but she spent an extreme amount of money on dumb stuff

At some point I read somewhere that couples who spend more than $20,000 on a wedding are more prone to divorcing later on. Tiffany ended up divorcing Jermaine when she believed marriage was interfering with her business ideas.🙄 Her interview from "Pink Hotel" said so.

Yea thats grown folks thinking 🙂🙂

Or marriage counseling

They eventually divorced. Her interview from "Pink Hotel" said so online.

@@RegularInvader good, he deserves better.

Good idea!

Because most companies who sell those type of Invitation sell minimum 50pcs..

Hey that’s a FANTASTIC idea!!

Because that would be a nice decision, she couldn't take the risk

Her love is more I love you as long as I can get my way with no resistance

Actually turned her head away before she said it. He needs to run away - run far, run fast!

@@decodolly1535 he did!

They divorced :/

@@hamianagrande how do you know???

I don't think it lasted 5 years..😞

@@TalesForTheCulture u sure!? I mean he got divorced?

.....that’s not true at all just stfu and let ppl do what they want damn

Yup married 41 years. Whole thing including dress ($175) cost $4000.

@@coldfire9937 This was 2012 (9 years ago) & I know from a recent video of Tiffany that they've been divorced at least 3 years.

OMG...I bet that happened, too.

Oh, I did the math... $55 x 250 people.... that is crazy!!!!

@@gooberbeans7972 should be $55 per for the whole wedding not just a card. wow

Dira Boddie right her idea of there main table under the chandelier is ridiculous you gone have some people looking to your back, while the other half looking at your front. “TACKY, TACKY, TACKY.”

Dira Boddie he was also super sweet and excited about it, it broke my heart when she just shot him down :(

Hi plz repent of your sins. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life w/Him!

@@lettersforchrist what sins should i repent???

@@calliefrancessa2883 all of them

@@lettersforchrist that’s really rude

@@calliefrancessa2883 I mean we've all sinned, I'm not trying to be rude.

They did get divorced. Tiffany's interview from "Pink Hotel" said so online.

Not if...WHEN

Hi plz repent of your sins. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life w/Him

a giant 4 yr. old, pouting, whining, demanding......not cute at all...........

😂😂😂 This comment had me dead

No body shaming pls

It's a historical remnant of a time when weddings were one of the gew things really "for" women. But nowadays? Bullshit imo.

I agree weddings ARE for BOTH families to celebrate the union of the bride and groom. Weddings, as we know them, have changed drastically over time. The groom's family would pay a bride price and if accepted, the bride's family would pay for the wedding/reception if there was one. Women have been targeted by greedy business people and told that weddings are the "most important" experience they'll ever have. The wedding industry plays off of the myth and stereotype of the "frivolous wife/woman" combined with insecurities society creates within women about self-image. Sadly it works like a charm every time. Instead of genuinely uplifting and congratulating brides-to-be, they push the façade that certain looks and very specific activities should be planned and achieved to ensure happiness (at all costs because "it is HER" day). The bride is highlighted and the misconception that she's the most important (blinding her and her friends and family from the reality she is being grossly overcharged and taken advantage of). The mindset is the groom should sit in the shadows and be glad he can show up. Tuxedos along with shirt, tie, shoes, etc. together are often nowhere near as expensive as the bride's dress alone. Once you factor in hair, makeup, accessories, undergarments, veil, flowers, etc. the price difference just doesn't make sense. The definition of weddings simply as celebrations of the joining of TWO has been destroyed for the sake of profit. Making it easy for a wedding tax (just like the pink tax women have to pay for things labeled womens/ladies) to be added to anything with little to no regard to how ridiculous it is [for something like that to exist and not be illegal] in the first place. Marriage has been misrepresented and misinterpreted as a "wedding" and it's sad. Honestly people really don't realize that money doesn't equal love. It takes true love and commitment for a marriage to work; not a wedding. It's best to start a marriage off in good standing and debt-free than to start it off butting heads because life savings were spent on one day. However I will say, you can tell a lot about the way the actual marriage might go by the wedding planning. Trust can be built or broken over the sake of one day.

I agree

@@bettinaallen5782 thats alot!

Hi plz repent of your sins. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life w/Him!

I wouldn’t leave a note.