These young women are going to be friends forever. They should just compare guest lists, and see how much overlap there is. If it’s only a handful of people, they should both get that dress. This is a rock solid friendship.
My friend and I both got married the same year. When I described my dress to her, after she had bought hers, she said that it sounds like hers. We got the same dress! It's ok. Nobody noticed.
Why not get it together and share? They seem to have similar body types - so probably with some little alterations it could have fit them both. Half the cost and such a cute sign of friendship.
My best friend needed to sell her wedding dress. We are almost exactly the same size so it fit me without alterations. After my wedding I had it cleaned and preserved, and gave it back to her.
I was expecting them to fight over the dress but they were so kind and caring towards the others feelings. Split the cost and both wear it! They're both beautiful in it!
There is absolutely no reason in this world why best friends can not choose the same style wedding dress. Some family members wear the exact same dress for generations.
It's probably because their weddings are only a few months apart and there will be an overlap of guests. You don't want to be compared to another bride
@@MsJubjubbird people always going to compare you no matter what... so, if you like same dress, it's ok to wear it. You can have same dress but can dress up little bit different. Rather than thinking people gonna compare, show confidence and think that how awesome the dress is that even other person chose it for themselves too, or wow we have same taste.
This was the sweetest say yes to the dress I have watched, I actually teared up a bit omg! Although people are saying they could have shared the dress, I feel like if i were a bride I personally wouldn't really want to share a dress. A dress for a wedding seem so personalized, and sharing it, even with someone i love deeply, just feels a bit like part of my special moment isn't mine. Of course, this would vary between people
It would be amazing to be apart of both weddings, see them share a dress and make their wedding unique in their own ways...that would be SO fun!! You'd be making moves that shift generations to come!
Except for those there at the appointment, in all honesty no one else will realize it is the exact same dress 3 months later. They have different figures. Having different flowers, veil, and bridesmaid dresses will be enough variation that it won't seem exactly the same. Both are sweet gals with good families.
Why didn't they both try on dresses that had the same/similar style as that one with different details? It was the satin ballgown they both seemed to love.
The dress looked better on Janay.. her curves filled out the dress better whereas her friend looked like she was drowning the the fabric a little bit. However, I’m happy that their friendship overcome fighting over a stupid dress lol😅
Well they'd fit the dress to her body lol they try the dress on to see if they love the dress not if it fits. If they love it, they'll do some work and make it fit better
There are a lot of dresses very similar to the one they both loved. I don't understand why they didn't pull a different one that looked much closer to it instead of the first one T wore.
Both brides should find a new dress and no one wears it! It will always be a reminder of some difficult feelings. Friendship should come first and no one have to give in.
I love a whole episode about how the friends can’t wear the same dress, and then when two other brides marry each other they’ve basically chosen the same dress and they love it. 😂
Incredible ladies & what a strong bond of friendship of respect & love they will have forever. I love these episodes showing strong families, friends with such love & support for each other. ❤
Exactly. The problem is easily solved. As someone else said, if they have everything else to do with the Wedding visually different, then it won't be that obvious.
I think both brides have good taste yes obviously, but in my opinion i think they should wear different dresses so that way on social media it doesn’t turn into “Who wore it Better?” competition which will put their friendship to the test
I love their friendship together, it was so sweet, but I don't understand why they didn't want or think of buying the same dress, PLUS if they wanted their own unique dress, the consultant could have made each dress a different shade of white so they have the same dress but in different colors. Like one in ivory and one in white.
Oh goodness, I'm having a dejavu vibe with this scenario because my little sister and I had a similar dilemma when it came down to our sweet 15 gown. After I had my shot in my sweet 15 dress (a semi strapless sweetheart princess style) my sister told my mom that she liked my dress and since my mom was going on budget like she did with my sweet 15, it worked out well between all three of us. Only thing my mom did to make it look different was she replaced where the butterflies 🦋 were in place with sunflowers 🌻 and a few other things to dress it up more so neither my sister or I couldn't say anything that would make us second guess our decision (not to mention our themes [ butterflies for me, and sunflowers for my sister] for our sweet 15 especially given the fact that my sister and I are 5 years apart). So yeah, I know the feeling all too well lol 😆 😅 😂 ♥ 😉
Why don't the girls get married in the same dress? Could be awesome. At least both decided to don't fight over something insignificant. In the other hand, the last brides looked so beautiful in their dresses, very elegant.
I respect these women for putting their friendship over them fighting over a dress. They both looked absolutely stunning in the dress, but they both wanted the other to be happy. That is the mark of a true friend. Why not just buy it and BOTH wear it, with different accessories and hair?
Just get the same dress, it literally doesnt matter. Both of them loved it and since they're friendship seems really solid I think they could just agree to get the same one and both be happy
they could have worn different colors bc the white looked so good on one friend over the other....so maybe cream? like they would be so cute with just that tiny difference.
There are so many dresses lol, I think they should have persuaded the girls to do a little extra shopping because there wasn’t anything really one of a kind about it! They could have both gone away from that one and gotten something very similar.
i feel like the dress suited jenaya a bit more but how come we didn't get to see her try on the dress that she said "screamed jenaya"? not to mention i'm sure they have dresses that are SIMILAR without being identical, where's the one that has the same princess-style beading at the top but also has bling around the hem of the skirt? i've seen a couple brides come out in that one and it's always blown me away.
Do you guys understand that it doesn’t matter if the guest list is small or if their bodies are similar? They will still be wearing the same dress, which is what they don’t want. Simple as that
Why dont they just share the dress? Whoever is getting married first wear it and the second girl can wrar it when her day comes! Theres no rule that says you cant share a wedding dress!!
Both girls should get the same dress. With a different veil, accessories, and different hairstyles, each bride will have their own unique wedding dress experience, even if the dress is the same. Each bride will be happy for the other. Truthfully, even guests that go to both weddings will not compare the brides, they will be in awe of each one's individual beauty.
Why can't they just buy the SAME dress (style)? Their weddings are like 3 months apart and guests probably wouldn't know or care (well most of them anyway) - Just both have the same style and maybe let close friends know that they are such good friends that they each wanted the other to be happy in their favourite dress - they already said they have the same taste in clothing, so what is the big deal - who cares if someone else wore the same dress, it really just does not matter. Be happy and have the dress you love - don't worry about what anyone else does.
did the dress only come in that color? One could have done white while the other had a cream,ivory, or blush one? My dress had the option of silver threading and beads or white, maybe there was a option for that. Both could have had the same dress and look different with accents and accessories. Different veils, different jewelry, one could have added some off the shoulder lace straps.
Well, some might call me stupid, but why can't they both have the same dress? Those women look totally different - it's not that they're twins or something. It might be the same dress, but it is not the same bride.
I wonder why yhey didn't. I was thinking that as well. The 1st bride said she loved that other dress with such exclamation, I expected that to be the surprise ending- she'd fall in love with it and their searches would be over.
