COGNITIVE DISTORTION #8 of 10: Mislabeling (For INFJs and Everyone!) 

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Simply stated, labelling and mis-labelling a person means that one has stopped thinking in a critical fashion.

Hi there from NZ. I am not an INFJ but am so fascinated the special gift you, the Sigma male/female process. I enjoy listening to your videos' informative and interesting facts and past experience youve lived and how you managed to get through life is truly amazing. If there was only INFjs and Sigma's in the world, it would be paradise.

Agree with everything in this video👏👏. Even our highest elected officials are dividing us into 2 groups. I feel pretty rounded in this area. I do have my judgments of course, we all do. But I believe we are more than just our political beliefs and our true character is shown by how we treat eachother. The hatred I see every day online is depressing.

I don’t judge and never label. It takes time to get to know someone and even then people change. I don’t like to be judged, therefore I don’t judge. Our screw- ups and mistakes don’t define us. We all make them and nobody has the right to put a label on us. Ummm but that’s just me.❤️🇨🇦🤗🐙

I like everything you said you brought up a lot of good things for people to think about I have known people like that in the past I’m a lot older than you just my husband and I but hopefully you have opened peoples eyes

I love this

I don't use Twitter. I like having more in my life than social media so I limit my time. I'm not on Facebook either. I love the phrase " let's just agree to disagree" it gives them a chance to stop the attack cycle. I only communicate with my sister by text so we can go back to see what was said. It tamed the shrew. We now have civilized communication.

I’m a firm believer in agree to disagree. True to my Libra sign, I’ll listen to both sides. Unless there’s verifiable facts about something, I don’t pass judgment. If there is something I keep it to myself. I dislike conflict(Libra the peacemaker). My favorite saying is don’t assume, don’t judge, don’t attack. Especially if you haven’t walked in someone else’s shoes. Stay awesome David!!❤️

I’ve just recently experienced this. I commented on how much I liked watching videos from one of my favorite science RU-vidrs and expressed some genuine moral questions in passing-didn’t go too in depth then-while stating that I didn’t care what topic they covered, that I would watch that person’s videos. But next thing I knew, people were replying to me calling me a socialist and such because of those questions I asked. My comment was completely misunderstood. I had to explain myself in the comments and that was a mess in a hand basket. Every word I said seemed to offend them. And some thought that they should educate me on government issues and reasons. I looked them up of course and came to a better understanding of their point of view. But that didn’t change the reaction they had. They even had a talk about biases despite being way more biased than I was. I had no idea why they were responding so harshly. Especially since I had only stated very briefly the questions that they were trying to address. I explained my thoughts as best I could as to why I asked those passing questions in my original comment as best I could. I was then told that they hoped that people read the comments to hopefully get an understanding that I basically wasn’t an asshole due to legitimately asking genuine questions that were in passing. I got one person literally accuse me of supporting socialism and fascism. I had to explain that wasn’t the case and that my intentions were genuine. This person acknowledged that and apologized though, so I’m thankful for that. But the original comment was just stating how much I liked the videos despite not fully understanding certain things in the most genuine way I could. I may not have written it the best, but it was how I thought about it. It really confused me why I was being attacked for being genuine. But after watching your video here, sadly, it makes sense now. I feel bad for them… I just wish that sometimes we would all try to understand each other instead of jumping to conclusions. And I don’t care if someone misunderstands this comment. I know what I think. I can defend myself if need be. But I will always try my best to understand others side just as much. But that was my most recent experience summed up. I like the video and all of your videos in this series so far. (^ ^) Edit: Also this is Ashla. I’m just making personal changes right now and that’s why my username is different right now.

I love to explore both sides of arguments and try to discover motivations for beliefs and opinions held by others so I can appreciate them as individuals. In the UK the far right and the far left are so aggressive at the moment, but it is still fun to peek behind their respective curtains on Twitter and see what makes them tick.

Hey David, this is ur infj brother big quinn559 still watching and enjoying your content good job.

I feel like I'm better handling this distortion ( however One may not be able to see their shortcoming here) I try to understand their view point and accept that I just don't see it their way. Granted When that view point comes down to an arbitrary view with no underlying logic I have a much harder time. I guess though this may be one you someone can't easily see from within. Also handling it better doesn't mean well, I just feel like it's easier to try and see a view point before judging it.

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