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23:29 thats the first I've heard of barophobia. ... I was hoping it was the fear of pressure . I have some kind of fear of pressure. Blowing up balloons gives me anxiety. Or when there is strong winds I get scared that things will break and stuff like that...
as an infj older female, I find that I am way too sensitive, and I build defensive walls way too fast. I hate being sensitive to peoples feelings and emotions toward me, but it also helps me to readjust to make the problem go away, but I usually go away in the process. I dont like being talked about, so I try to cross my i and dot my t to avoid issues, and that leads me to be too quiet and reserved . When I try to be my helpful and overly friendly self, I sometimes get on peoples nerves or come off as bossy. I will always be true to myself no matter what, but I need to be able to control my desire to be overly helpful and friendly and try to be more balanced. People like me, but I think i am too much for most people and need to learn to stop being overly helpful and learn to be more balanced in everyting I do. I also have noticed I fight the flow when I stress about things and I over think and over solve and make people around me feel like I am controlling everything which I totally am because I over think and overly solve and try to make everything work better which just makes people resent me. One day, I had an issue at work that was bugging me, and I went home and over analyzed and solved the issue I thought was coming up. I wrote it all down on paper and was going to ask everyone if we could do the project this way because I thought it would work better than what we usually do. I am so glad I held my tongue and just went with the flow and never made any suggestions on changes. Everything went smoothly, and I didn't get on anyones nerves or piss anyone off for just trying to make things better. I am starting to learn as an infj to first go with the flow and wait till the issue arrives before trying to solve future problems that have not even arrived yet. Going with the flow and relaxing helps me get along with others around me. We have too many ideas and want to put them in action, but at a price we have to pay later. I would love to hear other infjs stories of what they realized they were doing that caused their own issues and how they solved it. I am an infj that is has come to the realization that I need some advice from other infjs who figured out how to overcome their infj struggles.
INFJ seems similar in functioning to something called a "Super Empath". An Empath who survived Narcissistic abuse as a child, and has grown up to be very strong. Super Empaths are immune to Narcissistic abuse.
Just because you personally don't believe there is a spiritual reason for the ability to intuit certain knowledge doesn't mean that it isn't a possible truth. I agree the sensationalism can be absurd sometimes to reel people in but I can't relate to your dismissive response to that. You can't deny that intuition is a gift that is rare enough to astound people and also differs in proportion, some people are capable of intuiting beyond the examples you gave at a very young age with little experience.
My husband is INTJ, I'm the INFJ. Someone else said it first, but it's very true. The first person said that INTJs will throw pebbles at people to get them to go in that direction. We say that he throws rocks. Sometimes large stones depending on how far his patience has been pushed. But this is only for people that he cares about or has a vested interest in such as coworkers. Otherwise, he might give a warning and if they ignore that, they can fall off the cliff and he'll just watch it happen. Like you said, INTJs are very good at focusing the INFJ.
Yes. I love the INTJs. My husband mercifully is an INTJ. When I get into the feedback loop, I just go talk to him so he can tell me to get out of my head or confirm/disprove whatever the latest spidercow theory is that I have. Or else I realize it's waaaay too late to be awake anymore and go to bed so I can get out of my head. And moody you say? Last weekend, I had a wonderful Saturday. I woke up Sunday and got depressed while in the shower after talking to no one, just being in my head because there were emotions that I had not even realized I had been suppressing for two weeks that would no longer be ignored. But it's fine. I'm fine. No problem. I'll just self sacrifice myself. Ok? Don't worry about it. No please. Really don't worry about me. I wouldn't want to impose on anyone. All of these are accurate. Here's indecisive for you. I can't decide whether or not I should click on comment because this video is four years old. And why add to the discussion? And I've already edited out half of what I said because INFJ brain just keeps on going and going and going.
Yeah - I’m Older too and I’ve learned that it’s just pattern recognition. I’m also a movement teacher - was interesting to know you are a martial artist … optimal training for pattern recognition … my clients think I’m a savant the way I can see what’s going on and how I can see what’s going to happen next - but I tell them - I just remember what I’ve seen and it tells me what’s gonna happen next.
We do everything to be calm inner outer surrounding areas every last t crossed I dotted so if we are getting full of rage anger hate and scorch earth it's either a old girlfriend pushing our buttons to such a degree we know they are un diagnosed cluster B borderline cover nacacisst sycopath, or we have been set up by someone mentally ill or insane because unless we are deliberately messing with someone we shouldn't we are perfect gentlemen noble laid back get on with anyone and help if we can we know ourselves so we'll we are probably best candidates for illumination by sheer inner work and curiosity we were the why children I remember watching the space shuttle turn right and asked my father' who didn't even question it I knew then I was on my own 😇♥️🙏
This was quite interesting to listen to. Thank you for doing this set up of conversation. I'm an INFP, and I found both of you to be quite opposite from me but the same at the same time. At first, I found the woman in the video making me think of an ISTP because of her "cool, indifferent" vibe, but then she talked more and more, and it was just fascinating.
Great analysis; however, "There are more things in Heaven and Earth, than are dreamed of in your philosophy, Horacio." - from the play, "Hamlet" by William Shakespeare Salome 🖖🔥🌈
Hi! That you for your informative video! I have watched scores of writing videos and I have a question. However a bit of context: I write in both Portuguese and English and these two languages have quite different literary traditions. In English, the writer pursues readability and direct action, with the rule of show not tell. In Portuguese, it’s the opposite. Complex sentences are filled with adverbs and with passive action. As a consequence, since I tend to write Portuguese in an English style, I’m not considered a literary writer in Portugal. My question is: why not adverbs? They modify the verb beautifully and give depth to the sentence. Please,someone explain to me this particular issue. Thank you!
Its not Se vs Si but Se vs Ne - ways to observe the outer world And Si vs Ni - ways to observe thoughts Its not Te vs Ti but Te vs Fe - type of external info you value primarily And Ti vs Fi - where you base your inner values on and how you justify decisions
"The haters" are most likely ENTP's. They tend to debate/argue with people for the sake of debating/arguing. Because of this, they can be seen as "online trolls". I know correlation doesn't mean causation.
I honestly came here via Jaclyn! I’ve been watching her videos about planty things for a while now so I’ve been made aware of your books and your whole shabang by watching her stuff. I’m also an avid reader and I just downloaded your book The Caretaker from Kindle. Good shit. Guna read Pew Pew next! 😂❤🎉
Thanks so much! The Kickstarter has about a week to go for SPACE PEW PEW, so now's a good time to grab it (and some goofy merch if you're into that!) Here are the details, I appreciate any support! www.kickstarter.com/projects/threeravens/space-pew-pew And if you enjoyed Caretaker please pretty please consider dropping an Amazon review, they help! (Also, NEW Caretaker is coming out this year with an additional 15,000 words or so to set up the next novel in the series!)
Fascinating. I know a narcissist who has convinced herself that she's an INFJ. She not empathetic, idealistic, or altruistic, but she claims she's all those things. And she goes around constantly diagnosing people as narcissists. I've noticed there are a ton of "INFJ vs Narcissist" videos on RU-vid, and I wonder if that's part of why she convinced herself she's an INFJ, because she's always calling out those imagined narcissists.
Great for you. Your situation reminds me of my ex-boss. The unpredictable rage was a lot to handle. Never once did she say thank you or please. I left and a two weeks later my company wanted me to return.
