I still want to believe that this guy is just getting cold feet and wants to find any excuse to divorce his new family. That would be pretty scummy too but on some level it would at least be comprehensible.
As a man with a 15 month old daughter and a one month old daughter, having just done this hospital thing twice in less than 2 years with my lady, if you actually left your wife at the hospital and said “I’ll see you when you’re discharged” for ANY REASON, go ____ yourself, you don’t deserve your wife or your kids. That is straight abandonment when your wife would be in one of the most vulnerable, anxious, confused, stressed, and unusual positions in her life, and you just dip? Wow bro, not surprised you see one year olds as competition, your wife clearly has no standards
It's really dangerous for a woman's lifelong health to give birth consecutively in a row. I swear, breeders don't even care to do real research before jumping into pregnancy. It's not at all what you're told. She will live with health issues her whole life just cuz you wanted her to pass your lineage on. Gross
not only is he disgustingly insecure, he is sexualizing his own son by implying he is breastfeeding on his mother for a reason other than getting nutrients. It's sickening.
Nah, he's just a controlling narc. He wants to control everything his wife does. It's not about the action of breastfeeding it's just he doesn't have 100% control over her and her soul.
I appreciate that you never said things about the wife like "why does she stay with him?" or "why would she marry him?", you were very very respectful and considerate when speaking about her, thank you
To be fair, those are still valid questions. We cannot act like people aren’t responsible for who they are intimate with and spent time with. Obviously the husbands actions are inexcusable, but I find acting like she couldn’t have seen the signs along the way is a stretch. It’s difficult living with someone for years and not seeing anything. Our own protection and social circle is primarily our own responsibility. Unless you were forced by circumstance there is no excuse for letting bad people in your life. Just as there is no excuse for the bad people actions . And no, I am not victim shaming, this is rational. You wouldn’t walk around like a rich white guy in a ghetto either. It’s up to you to protect yourself…
@@prez.cookie980to be completely fair and honest (even though i hate victim shaming or whatever its called) the fact that she didnt blow up or question his logic shows shes heard similar banter from him before (and let it slide) but in the end the father should be punished, the mom is innocent
As a father if 2, one of the most beautiful things i have ever seen was my wife breastfeeding our kids after they were born. She breast fed both of them until they were just over 2yrs. Every time i would sit and watch in amazement and pride(i dont know another word for it). I loved every second of it. Even the 12, 2, and 4am wake ups early on for night feedings. This dude is a serious psychopath and i hope she gets not uust custody, but a restraining order. He is going to infect thier kid's minds.
this is exactly how men should feel. in awe and amazement of the woman who not only grew and birthed another person but can also sustain them with just their body. men should see women in a whole new light after birth. this guy is truly off the rails. her kids deserve a dad who admires their mom the way you admire your wife
My father said the same thing to my mother before he bailed in 1989, it's not about the breastfeeding, that's just an excuse. These are men who freak out about being a father and find any excuse to run away. They can't admit they just want to run away so they have to find another reason to blame it on anyone but themselves. After the divorce, this man will find a reason why he can never see the child and how it's the mother's fault. Truth is though that he simply doesn't want custody.
I honestly think that he threw up this fuss specifically as an excuse to divorce her. He probably doesn't want to take care of another kid. An awful fucking thing to do if that's the case, and if not, if he just actually is this fragile, then this is still an awful fucking thing to do. Just abusive all around.
Not only is breast feeding good for antibodies, it also promotes brain development. Babies brains can only understand basic stimuli like touch, smell and sound. The brain is like a muscle, you have to stimulate it or it won't grow, even if the child has no memory of it later. Even a simple thing like listening to a mother's heartbeat makes a difference.
@@denis2381 I wonder how long it will take people who say this kind of stuff to realize that by bringing up gender identity nonsense where it is 100% not relevant, they are actually the exact reason why they see gender nonsense everywhere, all the time, everywhere they go. And why it seems so nonsensical. Because it is. It is not relevant to the conversation at all. Mentioning a gender isn't an invitation to talk about gender identity politics just because it's all you ever think about. I mean, can you really wrap toilet paper over your eyes and not expect to see it everywhere you go?
According to her comments she liked the names, if they were spelled the normal way, but he forced the weird spelling. It's sad, reading her comments, it was clearly a very abusive situation in basically every form. Not to mention he apparently defended Chris Watts and blamed the wife...
@MiamiHound We can't curse on RU-vid anymore or say anything that can be considered "bullying" but you bots get to keep doing this? You are by far the Banana nut muffins of muffins (the worst ones).
This HAS to be fake. There ain’t no way. How can you be so terminally insecure that you make a baby with someone but then get jealous about the baby getting to touch boob to LITERALLY SURVIVE
I thought so too but no it’s real 😭😭 apparently she showed her divorce papers to the internet too absolutely insane there’s a man out there who thinks like that
Another guy in the comment section brought up an amazing point. He probably actually doesn’t care that much, he’s more looking for a reason to leave. Sometimes even the most minuscule excuse can be used as a reason to escape responsibility
@@g-zilla1232 But it already happened before with their first child I think, and he still stuck around to make 1 more, guy just sounds mentally unstable
They're not grown females, but they're closer to young women than they are children. Grade/Elementary School = little girls Middle School = young lady High School = young women College and Beyond = women
Thats disgusting-- sexualizing a mother just feeding her baby. Not just a mother and her child, his WIFE and SON. Sexualizing something that is completely natural is nasty as hell.
Omg I have been through a relationship with a “man” similar to this. Him divorcing her is for the best. She’s probably so beat down verbally by him. Also I wouldn’t doubt if she went as far as to tell hospital staff that she didn’t feel safe that he was physically abusive as well. This is based upon my own personal experience with “men” that act like this. I feel for this woman and I hope she find a good man.
People seem to forget that boobs weren't always sexualized. He's so entitled he thinks they're just for him and not their actual purpose. He failed anatomy class.
I've actually debated with redpill incels who would claim that a woman's breasts are only for the man's sexual pleasure, and not for infants. They are the most delusional people on planet earth.
We really need sex Ed, this is barely even the brim of it, how has this guy not heard of the purposes of boobs lmao, they're not for ogling at, they're for baby.
In the same logic as his, should the mother not be able/allowed to change her infant son's diaper? As she is seeing another's privates that aren't her husbands lol, his logic is stupid
this man is seriously unhinged. i read up on her situation, he legitimately believes that the mother of his children should not be allowed to bathe them because he considers that incest too. he is withholding their oldest child from her and threatened to kill both himself and her when she tried to divorce him in the past. the man is legitimately dangerous and needs to be investigated. i seriously worry for the safety of this woman and her children
35 year old guy here. Seeing my wife breastfeed our baby boy for the first time (about 8 weeks ago) was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen. I don’t get this.
its toxic masculinity and the sexualization of womens bodies...everything in the world is so fucked. thank you for actually being a good parent and husband 😢
@@sexygirlmax2019Come now...this is way beyond any of that. No need to try to fit this into your view of western culture. This is beyond the pale...men are not like this. Lust after women? Sure, guilty as charged. But not this. This guy is mentally ill.
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If i were the mother, I wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving those kids alone with him at all. Especially with the level of jealousy he’s shown towards his new born son.
i doubt the court would let him if that's the REASON OF DIVORCE. no way the court (which tends to give the custody to women because men don't step up or a just awful) would give him custody after this meltdown. "i now no longer enjoy your boobs" is a good reason to think he's not fit as a parent.
My guess, their relationship is: Her: Married him for love and wanted to have a happy healthy family with this man. That is why she wanted to compromise and have a stable home for her kids. Him: Married her for her body. Brains? Don't care. She got a hot bod. Personality? Who cares. Want to own that body. Kids? Okay, great, comes with the territory, but that body is mine. She has a name? What was it again? Sexy-Body-Wife, I think? Yup. Mine.
After seeing the thumbnail the knowledge that they got divorced gave me the same relief knowing that a dog lives in a horror movie. This man invented a new mental illness jfc
My wife and I just had our first child. She was so excited to breast feed but within a week she stopped producing milk and we had to go on straight formula. It makes her feel useless as a mom. The fact that this dude acted this way to the mother of his child who is already going through a lot is psychotic. Having a healthy child and being able to breast feed it is a blessing that you need to be thankful for.
My wife and I have 2 kids, 3 and 2 now. She always wanted to breast feed, and she tried and tried and tried. But she just never had milk, or enough milk. She couldn't even pump out more than 1oz after I bought a plug in pump. She was depressed and cried because she felt the same way as your wife. Both kids had formula since they were born but only as a necessity. We both (her mostly obviously for the bonding, but me because I know she would have felt much better about herself at the time) missed out on that beautiful stage raising our children. But the kids are the greatest blessings we've ever had.
That is so sad she feels useless. 😢 Many moms struggle with milk production. I hope she can accept that it isn't her fault and it is not a reflection on her as a mother.
Mom’s are good for way more than just milk! Babies enjoy the comfort of their mother (sometimes much more than the father as I’ve come to experience on many occasions)
That’s incredibly sad that your wife feels that way. But there is SO MUCH that goes into being a mother. She endured 9 months of pregnancy and gave birth to her child-that is not “useless”!
@@mxpelia8943 might be bait, but I'll bite. In many cases, a doctor supports the woman giving birth by quite literally holding the infant coming out (classic hospital stuff), which usually involves glaring directly at her expanding lower region. That's what we also got ppl like gynocologists for and other roles etc.
This is actually extremely dangerous. There are MANY cases where the father will end up taking the life of a baby because he is jealous. I hope she and her kids are safe from this trash.
????? I do not even understand , he is mad because he is sucking her breastmilk and is attacking his manhood? bro if breastmilk was cure to like venom I would give my breastmilk even if I had a husband , who cares the fuck am I gonna let a human die because there is someone with a titty panic attack
He is either incredibly unstable and has no business being around a child.... or..... he was looking for an exit and just used this as his pathetic excuse
@@user-oj3li5yp5nI’m pretty sure after these messages got leaked, she would be granted full custody and keep the house. No lawyer would help the husband win that case
From another comment "Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement. Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing. There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments." So safe to say, she's okay for now, but she definitely needs to move away, change names and get some space between them. Like several states away kinda space. My God.
@@MamaloonyOh goodness, I wish the best for you and your baby ❤ Get away from that entire side of the fam, I want you to know none of this is your fault
I can barely get gfs and then I hear things like this, people who act like this that casually get wives and a possible family development. This world is crumbling so fast.
With how little she speaks against his abusive language, maybe she's had experience with narcissists like this and has learned to 'stay down and accept it'. I don't think this is a case of a marriage with healthy roots. It's not the world crumbling, it's just bad luck that a woman like this met a man like that. Note that I have no substantial proof to back up my words, and this is just a guess. No potential disrespect towards the mother was intended.
@@Sellocapossibly they had a daughter and he didn’t say anything BUT A MAN that’s something else, but honestly by his way of thinking i wouldn’t be surprised if he called his wife a lesbian if they did have a daughter 🤔
I Don't think for this reason he divorced her I think he cheated and his eyes on another woman so he came up with this bullshit as an excuse because this shit can't be real
This isn’t about the breastfeeding. He wanted to control her, completely, but couldn’t. He also was looking for ways to torture her and psychologically manipulate, and abuse her. What a sicko!
I went through a physically and psychologically abusive relationship a few years ago, and when we talked about having children, he acted the same way! He thought women who breastfeed are whores. Luckily we didn’t have children, his mom practically forced me to be put on birth control because she refuses to have more of him in the world 😆 happy to say im in a very happy and healthy relationship now, but still deal with the ptsd
Imagine all your hormones are out of wack, just giving birth to a child, and then on top of all that, having to deal with this damn crustacean divorcing you for taking care of your child.
I mean it was an avoidable situation. She knew his wild thoughts years back from the first child. It would have been better not to bring another one threatened to be fatherless. Lesson: don't expect men to change, accept whatever or move on.
@@KC-zw4mm i’m with you on this how did they go from 1 child to 2 after they had this conversation with the first one ? I would leave the husband in a heartbeat but oh well at least we have this funny story 😂😂
@@KC-zw4mmmost car crashes are avoidable by not getting in a car. It doesn’t mean the person was asking for it or had the foresight to avoid a wreck once they get in the car. Quite frankly, it sounds like OP has been taking the wheel to avoid a wreck for so long she thinks it’s normal behavior.
the "please dont be mad at me" message from her makes me think that not only is her husband clinically insane but he could be physically abusive as well, and it breaks my heart. i hope shes safe as well as her children
@@Souls907 Parents are not part of their children. If they're lucky and treat their children proper and raise them well they might get a place in the child's life. Children owe nothing to their parents.
Seems like he was, ppl are saying they looked into it amd it seems like her second child was conceived during marital rape. She is safe now amd seems to have some kind of restraining order against him, so that’s something at least. Hoping she heals amd lives peacefully amd joyfully.
You know what? I call bullshit. He wanted out a long time ago, so in his unhinged mind, this was the best way he could end it and blame her. He doesn't believe what he's saying, he's just an insane coward that couldn't admit he wanted out from this relationship.
@@KaiserMattTygore927Mate any grown man will decide themselves if they wanna see their biological father or not. The sad part is just that the kids have a fcked family. Both mom and dad seem unstable. She couldnt dump a tons of red flags so shes probably weird aswell. You dont have kids with a lunatic and stay completely normal.
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Unironically not even close to the craziest thing I’ve seen a man get angry over. One time my sister put her lego TIE Fighter on a shelf after completing it. My father for whatever reason did not like that, as he threw it across the room when he came home and saw it. In hindsight, he was probably jealous.
Her name is Apryl. She said her husband (David) wouldn’t allow her input in naming. But he did like the letter replacement. Nurses kicked him out of the hospital and called Fleet & Family. She got a military restraining order, which his CO is personally enforcing. There were so many red flags and abusive things about this guy in her comments.
@@Suh262 Actually, depends. A lot of people with the disorder are inherently narcissistic and hold grudges. On the lower end of the spectrum for ASPD(which is what psychopathy is, severe ASPD) irritation/anger is actually a focal point of the disorder
Therapy won't fix this guy. He's too defensive and has too much unresolved turmoil. He needs to arrive to that conclusion himself but men rarely do. Only then will therapy help.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors. their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't? that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you. thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path. focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive. you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you. but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend. sincerely, a woman.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 that's not what your first thought should be tho. this guy was a serious manipulator, he made it seem like he was a good guy just so he could get with a woman and then when he trapped her with a child he showed his true colors. their newborn was not conceived consensually and this guy has threatened to take the life of himself and her if she ever tried to leave him. this woman is going through so much sht, and your first thought is wow why can this guy get a gf and i can't? that's not what you should be worried about. you should be worried for her safety because she's a fellow human being as are all women, not just a thing to be had by you. thats exactly what this man believes and i dont want you going down his path. focus on yourself, make yourself a better person because you want to be better, develop hobbies, focus on stuff that makes YOU happy, stop putting your entire life's purpose into finding a girlfriend because girls can tell when you do that and its not attractive. you will find someone one day, someone you want to be with, and if you've been working on yourself and have become a better person day by day, someone will notice you and want to be with you. but you can't do it for that reason, again, girls/women can tell. do it for you. women are just people, just like you. your life's purpose should not be to get a girlfriend. sincerely, a woman.
I usually listen to these when Im waking up, as a form to snap out of bed, I'm usually in and out of sleep and I thought I had imagined this story like in some kind of wacky half dream state. I can't believe I was wrong 😂
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imagine having to explain to their son why his dad isnt around anymore. "when i fed you he thought it was incestuous and had a jealous blow out over you"
"He saw that you were already more of a man than he was before you were 1. So, he had to go away to grow up before he could be a real dad. People grow at different rates and he has a lot of growing to do - I wouldn't expect him back soon." Regardless of what's said, this gem is going to complain about having his son "poisoned against him" when the son decides to go NC.
Here’s an actual post from her Reddit account: “I was told that after a certain age (David says around 2 years old) I won’t be allowed to facilitate baths or diaper changes or be in any situation where I’ll see the kids undressed. He believes that’s incest, too.” This is insane
He thinks the baby mother's cheating on him with his own newborn baby???? Breastfeeding is feeding it's not sexual... This husband is highly disturbed.
One of the last times a father got jealous of his own child was Judith Barsi, aka Little Ducky from The Land Before Time, he killed her then himself. this dude needs to be in an Asylum
imagine the plot twist is she was actually super 'into' it and 'got off' from breastfeeding tbh i wouldnt actually be surprised if that's what this psycho actually thinks lmfao
I think your failing to see his side of things. She breastfeed the first kid and he said he was uncomfortable with it and then she did it again with the 2nd kid without even talking to him about it first. Yeah it’s kind weird he does not want his kid breastfeeding, but it sounds like they had this conversation before and she just decided she did not care and was going to do what she wants.
