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@@cestlamaude6465 no. It’s not. And if it is so what? The labor is worthy of his hire. Dr Phil or Oprah should not charge either right? Advice is a business that pays in kingdom ROI. Stop hating on Godly advice. “Sis”.
@@Trunk874 instead of assuming I'm hating, Why don't you research this channel and see how he once told a someone "shut up ho". Some men are genuine with the advice. Others are simply regurgitating what others have said to build a following and make $. I love the advice, but I am discerning with whom I receive it from. Be blessed sis.
@@Misskitty550 no trial and error at some point u have to be held accountable for your decisions we cant keep using excuses like trial and error or im only human especially when you're entering into situations with the same outcome each time at some point when are u going to say im a willing participant in the foolishness and actually correct the behavior if we are in repetitive situations its not the men fault its ours bcuz we obviously haven't learned a damn thing from the previous one and the one before that etc...taking accountability is key and then take inventory of what u allowed and accepted and then set real boundaries and stick to them thats why so many are repeat offenders of the nonsense bcuz they have no boundaries or dont stick to them once u set that up and actually live by them u will save yourself a world of hurt bcuz u will know not to wait around any longer hoping or wishing for that person to conform to your vision of a partner
@@letrice2892 I get what you're saying! But I'm not talking about accountability. This is after you take accountability and learn the lesson. I'm not disagreeing. It is about what you are willing to put up with... what works for you may not work for me. As soon as I see red flags, I'm out of there. Knowing is half the battle.. WISDOM is Applied knowledge. There is nothing new under the sun. We all have choices and at some point we are no longer victims, but volunteers. You can choose not to play!!! Know better to do better. Women HOPE that a man is the one. HOPE will get you caught up each and everytime.
This is why it’s important for women not to open her legs you never know men’s motives ... if you close your legs you keep your power . You don’t deal with certain things and only pay attention to what they do not what they say .
True. Last week this man texted me everyday and called me beautiful and asks his my day going . But I don't fall for that crap anymore. One thing I do now is get straight forward with he questions. You will learn a lot by his answers to your questions. I ask this guy how does he feel about no sex til marriage. He told I'm better off getting a dildo because he don't masturbate and watch porn. He said if he dating someone no sex isn't an option. Then he was like hell no why would I wait for marriage? Guess where he is now? BLOCKED! I am not playing these games with these grown boys. My blocked list getting longer and longer each day.
@@urbanq432 I just did this! I'm not the one AND my block game is strong AND I got about 5 interview questions that you MUST pass to even keep a conversation going with me AND I'm still not sleeping with ya unless we married.
Exactly my soon to be ex husband is now on about 12 dating sites. Still can't find one to fill my shoes. He cheated so I changed my locks and put him out and never looked back nor am I looking back. Sending text that I'm special to him and that he loves me. I didn't even respond because he had it good and decided to indulged in fornication. Now he wants to get back with me "HECK NO" Good luck trying to replace me. I'm gone and not looking back.
All this is so true! Most men who claim Christianity just like women run away when it gets biblical. Especially when fornication comes up. They act like that’s not for today😂😂😂😂😂
Indeed. I was drawn to a man bcu, he was always posting things on ministry and outreach, always posting fb stories about being in service. In all his pictures he always puckers his lips, shirtless pictures to show off his mural of tattoos on his chest and back. We started casually talking he knows that I am a believer also. I hinted about living a Godly life and he has flipped it around saying that I MUST ne be referring to myself on that issue yet every extended conversation we've had ALWAYS revolves around sex or is sexually charged even when I bring him back to non sexual topics he keeps taking it there. Asking for pictures, saying that he can't wait to see me because of what he wants to do to me in the bedroom. I was very disappointed but not surprised. All that stuff he posts is all for show. I was straight out about walking the walk and talking the talk. He finally agreed with me but I haven't heard from him all afternoon when he was blowing up my phone for 2 days. It's SAD that this comes from so called 'Men of God'
Love-bombing is the practice of overwhelming someone with signs of adoration and attraction. Wow, sounds wonderful, doesn't it. I mean, who wouldn't want to be love-bombed? Who doesn't want to be showered with love and affection? Who doesn't want to be adored and desired? But the truth is that love-bombing isn't about love and affection or about being adored and desired, it's about being secretly manipulated and controlled. And here’s the problem: because not every romantic is a narcissist or a potential manipulator or a potentially abusive partner, it can be really difficult to recognise that you're being love-bombed rather than loved. What constitutes love bombing? Love-bombs are actions such as flattery, compliments, romance or promises of the future designed to gain your love and trust. Once that trust is established, the love-bomber is in a position to manipulate and control you. You are no longer in a mutually respectful relationship, because the love-bomber has power over you. Being loved is wonderful; being love-bombed is a red flag - watch out for it.
@@sandramsimango9526 .. You are 100% correct. Good grief. .. Guess I shall just stay home and read my books. Safer that way! .. These guys have so much game now!!
The first thing men ask is “what kind of man you want or looking for? I always say I’ll know him when I’ve spent time and we put in effort then I make my judgement on my own. After I say that they always say well ok then. Lol I don’t have time.
We know what we desire. They want to 20 question you. One guy said wow you waited two years to date. Well it is a whole virus. That ate up a year. All women are not desperate. Being alone and single can be fun and freedom. All women are not the same.
Listen to What! He’s saying! Men won’t allow you to say NO! Remember, the young woman that was attacked and bit on her forehead in NY..all because she politely declined the offer of a thug to buy her a bottle of wine. It’s a new world my Sisters..
It was her right to tell a stranger no thanks, or say nothing, act deaf. Of he keeps reply, keep moving say nothing it's a trap. You can't talk to grown man w/ all his friends around. They arrested the guy in an incident w/ his girlfriend n Bklyn about 3 days ago - look at God! - men today are lashing out often & are jealous of you as a woman because they are too lazy to be productive ☝️🤔- stay woke, watch out!!
Yes, but sadly most women are just as lusful as men are , there are men who want to wait until marriage as well. I've been celibate for 8 years now .when I get married my husband will be the only one discovering my pearls .
This trend has been happening for decades. Ladies check your WiFi connection with these men, if you don’t get a clear consistent connection, no need to be confused when you get a signal. 🙏🏽
@@keisham162 Right. I used to talk to a guy back in the day when I was young and dumb and he hung out with his boys every day. I always thought it was so weird and I would never entertain that mess in my life now. Even at a MUCH older age I think that same group of guys still hangs out excessively so evidently they don’t even grow out of it lmao. In my whole life I’ve never seen women do this, I know I don’t.
Men that are manipulators will ask this type of question: "what turns you off about men" or "what did your last boyfriend do that you don't like?" I never answer this because they're trying to find out what not to do so they know how to better manipulate you. I always say something vague like "well it's different with each person"
Yup! I was a “Brandy” last year. Bleached this mans whole apt up for lying and playing games. I was fooled and I’m not proud of my actions but he deserved it
Women the battle is the Lord's NOT yours concerning men. If YOU allow the Lord Jesus Christ to bless YOU with the HUSBAND NOT BOYFRIEND because the Lord Jesus Christ is NOT APART OF dating one man after another man after another man etc... Jesus is NOT the author of heartaches, drama etc... Jesus Christ Blessings are GOOD and to those that have Him as their Lord and Savior. On your own your fighting a losing battle.
This is all true. I am a plus size woman and I realized a long time ago that men would approach me because they thought I was desperate and do anything just to say I had a man. Then they get pissed off when they realized I did not have low self esteem. Their red flags show pretty early. If being the nice isn’t really who they are they can only pretend for so long and those red flags start to show. Coach you are spot on with the they will test you and see your response and determine if they can push any further. I tell them no sexual innuendo, sexual talk/comments or text from the jump. I find that if they are already trying to slide that in then I know what they want. Usually once I stop that they lose interest and move on. But they will come back and try again. I’ve chosen to just remain single. I will go out on a date but they usually ruin it somehow. Put your energy into yourselves ladies. Love yourself so much that you don’t need their love or attention for self validation.
Those are NOT Alpha strategies. Alphas are mentally and emotionally strong men who believe in providing and protecting. They LOVE women, not hate them. Please stop confusing true Alphas with bitter betas.
Definitely alpha strategy channels. Older men teaching younger ones to treat women like crap. I heard very disturbing things over there like never complimenting the woman. They even said little girls try to manipulate men. They hate females with passion. It’s scary
@@Childfree334 you are preaching to the choir. Those MGTOW/RedPill/PUA RU-vid channels are who hijacked and twisted the true meaning of ‘Alpha’. And they are infecting the weak minds of many broken men by attempting to change the narrative of how real men should conduct themselves.
I have been abstinent for 6 years and proud of it. When you know better you do better?, ladies KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSE. I have dated within the Six years and was engaged to marry we ended the engagement it was so easy to walk away. , we both choose to say abstinent till marriage. My co workers ask me where do i find these men that don't want sex 'my respond is they want sex ,but I'm not willing to give it. 52 years old
Women need to stop laying on their backs. Don't play with this men, date with a purpose and keep God in the center and believe me his true colors with shine. Please stop telling men ,what you desire because he will show up playing the role. Once he gets what he came into your life for, he will bounce to the next woman. Also, women read the book title: The little boy in me becoming the man God intended. Purchase: Amazon. A good read , about grown men still a boy within.
I have had exactly one sexual partner. I don't sleep with just anyone and sex is something that I can easily live without. He starts getting pushy I am gone.
I agree. 100%. If we aren’t on the same page about that then move along sir. There are plenty out there that will let you test drive for YEARS fueled by hope.
Sometimes men date women that are out of their league. Sometimes men date women that they can't afford; then when when money runs out, the 🍯 runs out, and the next go round, they take it out on the next one. Thanks for the warning ⚠️
This is so true. My ex when we were 19 he told me he had to put me on hold for another girl. he told this girl there is nothing going on between me and him so I left. Years later I believe I was 28 he found me. he told me he has been looking for me I guess they had broken up but I didnt know why.. But at this time I was in a relationship and had kids. Three years later The relationship I was in ended and he contacts me again. He told me the girl he wanted to put me on hold for cheated on him and lost his baby and also his parents died. At first I told him that I'm still having trust issues because he has hurt me in the past. I was so in love with him . So when he told me he putting me on hold for that girl I was so hurt I cried for days. Now I'm 33. I slowly let my guard down. And when I felt comfortable the panties came off. blah blah blah. then the phone calls and text stopped. Sometimes he will pick up when I call but then he drop out call for other people call. he would say hold on and never call back. I tried to tell him how I feel but he just yell and talk over me and try to flip the script and he blocked me. now we just dont talk anymore. Even though I still love him I'm glad it's over. I don't regret going through this cause it helping me better read men. After that other guys have tried to talk to me but I be asking questions to find out what their intentions are. Some are easier to read than others. Some I had to dig deep to find out their intentions. as soon as they mention sex it's an automatic block. One dude I ask him about marrying before sex. he said hell no. lol. I was like ok. next. and it just dunned on me when he said they preying on heavy set women..i am a heavy set woman. But i don;t give these dude money. another ex found me but he was talkin bout he on child support and struggling and he want to build a relationship with me again. you know what i did? BLOCKED!. Not my kids no my problem.
Girl me and you are the same age wow funny how we have similar experiences my ex just called me after months of not speaking I went off on him because I went through some trauma and when he came back into my life I explained to him that if you're going to be here be here don't just say you are he asked me to marry him and out of nowhere he disappeared but he called me at exactly 2:22 a.m. in the morning yesterday after 9 months of not talking smdh he said he was checking on me wow 😡 but I'm in a relationship with someone I really care for but even with him I'm being careful because he triggers certain things that my ex did to me so now I'm just trying to focus on loving myself I can't afford to go through any more pain men don't understand that you can literally cause a woman to have PTSD when you put her through way too much crap
@@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves men do understand they cause trauma and PTSD they just don't care. But you stay safe, keep protecting your heart and just pray for them. Sometimes that's all us woman can do for these men is just pray for them and move on.
this is terrible, but, I am glad you found a way to assert yourself. I see a little pattern here: they called when their lives were on the downside, looking to use someone in enough time to feel better about themselves. lol. The audacity.
@@lovingme1st973 not true. Although I know some women who became homosexuals because they were disappointed by men. But then it is also the men's mistake. :)
So, does that make you any less of a homosexual. Regardless of how you came into being in a relationship with the same sex your still homosexual. I'm guessing these men are homosexual because they were so disappointed in women.
When I started dating in the 80's, men were playing this game back then. So sad, it's worse now. The sad thing now, the men over 50 behave like this. Watch the man's behavior. It's true, don't talk too much about yourself in the beginning.
I started dating in the 80's too. I raped raped at age 19 and again at 26 from being alone in a man's home that I had just met. I wasn't taught how to date so I had to learn through trial and error which can be fatal. I never went to another man's house until this new years eve. And this man I've been dating for 11 months at that time.
Yes, this is especially done by men over 50. It’s extremely disappointing for any man over 50 (heck, over 40!) to ghost, lie, fake charm, and act like a player. I’m over it.
You are very brave sir. You are not affraid to speak truth. Alot of black men hate black women. Also self hate of themselves. Thank you for your honesty.
Got it: No giving up the banana pudding till marriage, no long phone convos or house "dates"in the dating stage, no falling for love bombing and sweet talk, no talking too much and giving them the info they need to manipulate me with. My finger will be ready to hit the "Eject" button at the first sign of foolishness.
The two thumbs down people must be low value women or grown boys😂. Coach keep preaching facts and reading people for filth who deserve it. I'll continue to stay single until I meet a true quality man who stays the same 365 days a year. 💯
Coach Rod I think I know the RU-vidr you’re talking about that teaches men how to disrespect women. I’ve seen a couple of his videos too. He always rants about “Alpha & Beta males”, “Fellas keep on your purpose” & ect. What’s sad is the comments & how men tell him “Thank you, you’re the older brother or Father figure that I never had” & ect.
@@InquisitiveOne247 I agree with what you said. But some men have always mistreated women besides on social media. You see it in movies, certain music videos/artists have done it. It also happens at home with not seeing a father or male figure showing love to the mom. And older men telling the younger generation to not trust women, get money, hook up with women & ect. I feel these are some of the reasons why some men don’t want to get married anymore.
@@courtneycouture3386Ive found that dating 7-8 years older helps me. I'm 34 and the older generations aren't nearly as jaded due to social media. Jaded over other things yes but not these wanna be "alpha" males. Also, there are good ones and they aren't online they on their grind! 🙂
You are teaching, Coach Rob. There are too many men now who only want sexual partners but not life partners, and more women need to more love and value themselves through their relationship with Christ.
It’s always been this way it’s just that social media makes people more accessible and people are more brazen because they can pull their antics behind a keyboard.
Let's stay prayed up everyone that we do not be victims of this dangerous game of what certain type of men are playing. God will block evil behaviors, deceitfulness and temptation of the devil in various forms walking the earth🌠thank you friend for helping us all with this valuable knowledge
Men have been doing this in the year of 2020,2019,2018 and so on. They didn't just start this in 2021. So sad. But true. I will not date a man until he gets counseling. Period. Point. Blank.
He has some key points...it's alot of grown boys out here that's why you have to get smart and listen to key words in there conversation ,and stay off your back because men can be so convincing with the right words
And to be honest a true alpha is not that guy on alpha male strategies that's teaching them beta males on how to become one a true alpha male protect an provide an leads
I can attest that this is true. They can often be so charming in the beginning. And thanks for the tip about staying on the phone too long. I've had them want to keep me on the phone for hours and even sleep on the phone. Then you have so called dating coaches telling us we are supposed to give up what is most precious to us right away all because we are not virgins. It is so confusing.
To them, they think if you arent virgin or your a single parent that you should just resign yourself to being the town bike! NO... They're so fricking gross. Then they get mad at you for rejecting them, lol
This is right am lucky my grandmother and dad instilled this on me since I was 12 wat this man is saying is actually true.after my hubby passed on I started dating again and trash is what I can say some men are. A month ago I kept telling this man am not going to his house but he kept pushing just waiting a week and calling about the same issue I had to warn him if he ask me about Netflix and chill I'll have to block him . But then his tru colors came out after that 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This really has awakened me...makes me want to delete the dating app off my phone...but I am trying to be positive...ladies, we gotta be protective of ourselves
You aren't going to delete no dating apps. You love all the free attention and free validation you get from those thirsty beta men. There are little to no good men on dating websites. All those men coach is taking about are on there looking for 1 thing and i think u know that
God bless Coach Rod for warning women! Ladies take your power back and stop sleeping with men!!! Stop wanting and needing them period because they will NEVER LOVE US IF THEY HATE WOMEN!
Men start out going out of their way to get women to pay attention to them. When she finally starts to care, he suddenly wants to put in little to no effort. It's a sickening game.
Coach Ron I’ve left my situation this past weekend, no warning, had my plan and left. I’ve been watching your channel for 2 weeks solid now and I left him for good. Thank you for your work it’s very much needed and I’ve been applying!
Thank you for speaking on thee “alpha male strategies” being taught nowadays. I was discouraged because what is taught goes against what it means to be a high value women. The sad thing is my brother was the one who recommended the channel to understand what men want..
You spoke facts the first 5 mins of this video. I’ve found a lot of men don’t even like to admit they date/court woman... Will create whole dating profiles on an app but when you ask em what they looking for it’s ‘vibes’ and they just chilling... it’s very.... weird I want better for my brothas 😭
🤣🤣😂😂"your old fashion, get yourself a man girl" hahaha the phone call conversation. Coach Rod your videos gotten me laughing thanks. Hehe. I shared with my friend yesterday your video and told her to follow you. I like this one cannot wait to watch part two.
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