Disrespectful Daughter Wants Mother To Stop Using Her Child Support Money On Her Other Siblings

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Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of 8 At The Table! In this installment, Erin The Renegade delves into a compelling topic that emerged from her group chat. Tune in as we explore a scenario where a 16-year-old girl expresses dissatisfaction with her mother's allocation of the $1,900 child support money provided by her father. The mother, in turn, uses the funds to support the entire household and her other children.
Joining the conversation, Amanda offers a perspective asserting that a child isn't an adult and believes the mother has the right to decide on the fund distribution. On the other hand, Rico and Romeo seem to lean towards the idea that the child should receive more.
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@Rbhawk3rd 7 месяцев назад

This blonde chick would have an entire different perspective of she had to pay child support and the father was using her money for his new wife's kids

@GradyBrown-i3m 7 месяцев назад

You bet

@donaldhopkins1476 7 месяцев назад

Exactly

@GLRWIN 7 месяцев назад

Exactly

@Nick_legit_910 7 месяцев назад

She probably relates to child support recipients on a personal level because ain’t no way she’s thinking logically

@rohall5060 7 месяцев назад

FACTS

@ashhdollars4780 7 месяцев назад

I went through this as a kid .. it’s not spoiled it’s the mom using the child as a means of income rather than working & supporting the family they laid down & made . My mother never worked & always said I felt entitled to child support.. it’s manipulative &’dismissive

@lalabaker1920 7 месяцев назад

I am sorry that's unfortunate 😔

@lilliewalker2413 7 месяцев назад

Agreed

@CougarLyfe 7 месяцев назад

Hi Ashhdollars! How is the relationship between you and your mother now?

@McStrokeAvision 7 месяцев назад

Yup bro they use these kids like crazy. It’s either pimping the system or pimping the present father

@tita8202 6 месяцев назад

@@McStrokeAvisionor mother basically using the custodial parent.....

@drewgonzo3530 7 месяцев назад

I have two children. At the age of 5 years old, and the other at the age of 1 year old. Me and the mother separated. I took the children with me. An agreement between us. Months later, she tried taking me to court for child support. Even though I had custody of the children. Lucky I had a good lawyer. I end up with full custody. She has visitation. I asked for NO child support from her. 15 years later. She's a drug user and currently in jail again. The children have been successful in life. I'm 99.9% involved in their lives. Thank God I have done a good job so far.

@Nut-Geb-Shu-RA-Nun 6 месяцев назад

I'm so proud of you! That's dope af! Why nobody liked this comment, but me? People always doging dads, you're doing phenomenal congratulations ❤

@winlea78 7 месяцев назад

“It’s hard to have respect for someone who’s DOING NOTHING” That’s the truth.

@rohall5060 7 месяцев назад

Then that's "MOST" women on CHILD SUPPORT period

@meaux-kneaux 7 месяцев назад

$1,900 in support a month is wild! Btw, its CHILD support, not SPOUSAL support!

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

It is at this point, look at those situations where theres a prenup but the child support is 100K per month.

@vanessawilson107 7 месяцев назад

I just said that to my boyfriend while we watching this . .

@mustent5713 7 месяцев назад

That's just rent money

@anabana538 7 месяцев назад

Literally. Atleast it covers the monthly rent amount. @mustent5713

@coofox123 7 месяцев назад

Let’s not forget… BOTH parents should be contributing HALF to the child. Dad should not be paying 100% of everything the child needs. So the 1900 the father is paying should be enough to cover half of the child’s expenses AND funds left over for the expenses that are not considered a necessity. The money the father pays is for HIS child. Her poor decisions should not cause her daughter to go without. She didn’t make the poor choice… her mom did. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@edwardgilbert3232 7 месяцев назад

Exactly, thank you for saying what most judges won't. Women have to pay their fair share also, if it's all on the father, then he needs to have full custody.

@TBS_24 7 месяцев назад

Wow... a highly attractive ABW publicly putting integrity and the welfare of children over the wild hyena cult agenda. Must be in that 2% of ABW that are actually marriageable. Much respect to you.

@MyUnCool904 7 месяцев назад

If I'm giving you 1900 dollars a month apparently my child need to stay with me if you using my whole 1900mfor household but realty of the matter is that your not using the whole 1900 for housing if so where do the mother work do she have a job am I literally paying your entire rent because if so my child mightest well stay with dad

@LD-iz3kz 7 месяцев назад

The blonde head host seems to take this personal, it appears to hit close to home for her. The point is: kids eventually grow up and figure their parents out. Very good and important topic.

@ashleyrandskylar2 7 месяцев назад

Preach

@isiahdixon3701 7 месяцев назад

I know that blonde is spending her child support on herself not the kid lol

@rohall5060 7 месяцев назад

FACTS

@RanejahHopkins 7 месяцев назад

That girl is 16 , she’s old enough to be able to have a conversation with her mom about how she feels without being called disrespectful! Like he said it’s only disrespectful when they call you out in your bs people can’t handle the truth especially from their child

@rdelacruz8949 7 месяцев назад

We learned from Kevin Samuels that anytime u challenge a woman's wrong and trifling ways, it's considered disrespectful

@VerleanHurd 7 месяцев назад

@@rdelacruz8949 The same can be said about a man. Keep the same energy.

@Tony_Wes 7 месяцев назад

@@VerleanHurd it doesn't sound like the case in this story. the girl came up to the dad about the money and he gave her the real. He did not give her a hard time on this question.

@VerleanHurd 7 месяцев назад

@@Tony_Wes it in this case, but it does happen. Like I said, keep the same energy.

@McStrokeAvision 7 месяцев назад

My son 8 fam he came to me asking me for money which I willingly give to him anyway. I have 50-50 custody and still pay 1000 a month. I told him look son I have to pay my own everything right? I don’t get help from anybody. I told him you get 1000 dollars a month from me I showed him my check. I said every 2 weeks you get 500. Ask your mother for whatever you need. You have money from me every month. These women can be wicked as hell bruh. She’s 16 some people are talking like she’s a toddler. She’s a young adult. Anything to keep up their evil charade.

@PH-jo8yz 7 месяцев назад

Lady with blonde hair, she is that little girl's mom. Feeling entitled to that child support money. Her daughter is calling it like it is. Like hondo said, she saw mom make some mistakes.

@GradyBrown-i3m 7 месяцев назад

I agree that blonde selfish entitled woman is a shame and terrible influence on younger women. Also she does not get it the money is for the child. I bet blonde spend her children money on Ray Ray and stomach ache in return they sweat that blonde wig out lol

@solodolo6291 7 месяцев назад

she's far from a "lady"

@Bighurt8223 7 месяцев назад

The one with the Blonde hair use her kids money on herself listen to her talk

@user-xh7bx9bd1u 7 месяцев назад

I promise you!

@marvinmackey4111 7 месяцев назад

Exactly

@justmeandmydog7 7 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 look at her face ,she in her feelings

@goodfellatv313 7 месяцев назад

Fax

@tone12682 7 месяцев назад

Her whole vibe was " I can't spend this on myself" ?

@Nick_legit_910 7 месяцев назад

If you getting $1900 a month for 1 child and your funds are too low to give that child a portion, that parent is financially irresponsible. The kid and father would be better off if she lived with him

@bonnettjenna 7 месяцев назад

Someone please ask the blonde girl if she has a child that she receives child support for because she’s definitely giving me those vibes

@jamarjohnson6077 7 месяцев назад

Facts

@jamarjohnson6077 7 месяцев назад

I cannot take anyone seriously rocking a blonde hairpiece

@rdelacruz8949 7 месяцев назад

She is either a single mom or was raised by one. Which shows in her twisted statements

@RR-sp2op 7 месяцев назад

As long as the mother isn’t buying things for herself. Calculate the cost of clothes, food, electricity, phone, gas, rent/mortage per monthly for this 16yr old, her portion. Do u think $475 per week covers that?

@RR-sp2op 7 месяцев назад

Simple math, calculate the total house hold expenses and get ur answer. The mortgage is $2,000 her portion from her dad is $500 leaves $1,400. Food for the month??

@Iesha_j 7 месяцев назад

She doesn’t necessarily sound like a spoiled child. From experience, my mom had 4 kids 2 fathers and my dad was the only one who paid child support. In addition to her income(9-5 job), child support was used to support the house and all 4 of us. When asking for necessities or school related things I would go without. I would be forced to ask my dad. He would come through for me but it then became excessive to the point he asked “Did your mom get the child support payment?” Now I never asked my mom what this young girl did but I for sure thought it. lol I wasn’t stupid I saw what was going on. I saw my mom’s situations but …. As a child you will wonder why do I have to suffer for your choices.

@Tony_Wes 7 месяцев назад

I had this same thing happen. I wasn't scared about asking my mom about the money lol. When I got about 15 my mom gave me the money but she made me pay a bill. I didn't sweat it because it was enough for paying the electric bill plus enough for some cash in my pocket.

@BNezzy 7 месяцев назад

the blonde woman gives off more spoiled vibes than that kid in the story! lol

@anthonyharris2407 7 месяцев назад

That child will be out of that house in 2 years and this is the mothers chance to save that relationship cause it’s about to be a wrap

@simonedanzey9226 7 месяцев назад

In nj if you go to college you still get child support 😂

@thehulk1177 7 месяцев назад

@@simonedanzey9226Not always, in some states you only have to pay if the parents were married. Otherwise, diploma or age 18 whichever comes first.

@VerleanHurd 7 месяцев назад

@@simonedanzey9226 If so, the money will go straight to the adult child.

@davoneallen4014 7 месяцев назад

As a dad I would be upset if my lil girl not getting what she needs and some of what she wants. But the other 2 kids is benefiting from it

@mrbrooklyn23 7 месяцев назад

This is the biggest issue with child support. Some women use child support as a way to support their lifestyle. If a woman is receiving child support, it should only be to support the child that the father has with the mother. Using child support for another man’s child is disrespectful

@edwardgilbert3232 7 месяцев назад

Exactly, sir, I don't know why people don't have the common sense to understand that.

@iamkelsyk9455 7 месяцев назад

I’ve read this story a little while I’ve seen this video. The girl is asking for stuff like pizza and to get her nails done, which she SHOULD be able to gift.

@mrbrooklyn23 7 месяцев назад

If the child gets 1,900.00 a month and can’t get pizza, something is wrong! That’s what the child support is for! Child support should not be used for other kids that don’t belong to the father! Child support should not be used for the mom’s lifestyle! It’s perplexing that women misuse child support and are still able to receive it. The abuse of fathers needs to stop! Child support should not be a punishment for failing a relationships!

@JeremiahHarris-ke3we 2 месяца назад

@mr.brooklyn23 u are correct it suppose to be for the kids not to the mother.

@JeremiahHarris-ke3we 2 месяца назад

And she was supposed to do her part too not just for a man to pay for the child only.

@hustlesoldseparately7988 7 месяцев назад

Let's do the math. $22,800 a year. The average American makes 45k. So tell me again why this is not enough money for a 16 year old.

@ShixB 7 месяцев назад

The person who makes $45K isn't paying $22K in child support per year.

@Tony_Wes 7 месяцев назад

@@ShixB he's talking about for the person receiving $22,800 a year on child support.

@sceptre3524 7 месяцев назад

@@ShixBdelete this, NOW!

@str8visionatl 7 месяцев назад

I would be pissed if i was paying child support and my money was going to someone else kids

@aliciaburgess3824 7 месяцев назад

It amazes me that nobody every asked what about moms half on the child’s care ? Dads paying child support does not absolve mom from being a responsible parent and cover her half of that child’s care.

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

To women it does but hes still a deadbeat because he should be paying more.

@marlak4203 7 месяцев назад

Yes. A NUMBER of questions are to be asked so that you have context.

@Summers_Room 5 месяцев назад

The lady said she’s taking care of the house hold which indirectly benefits the other kids

@ericb7776 7 месяцев назад

Blondie is the type of woman who would argue against mandatory paternity tests.

@hamidbashir2095 7 месяцев назад

All you gotta do is give the girl 150 per month so she can learn to budget and save in a bank account …. That’s parenting💯

@dccooper355 7 месяцев назад

150 a week. That still leave mom with 1300 of that child money

@meaux-kneaux 7 месяцев назад

You think that would happen? 😂

@BarryBlockZay617 7 месяцев назад

That's not enough. Tf is 150 a week? she's 16

@marlak4203 7 месяцев назад

Some would say the girl is old enough to work herself so maybe that would do something. Lol. But 2 more years and this is done anyway.

@VerleanHurd 7 месяцев назад

@@marlak4203 Getting that kind of money for child support mean the 16 year shouldn't have to work. Mom need to get off her a$$, and get a job. Btw, also keep her legs closed.

@damianbarnes2717 7 месяцев назад

The problem is that. The child support meant for 1 child. Is used to support and provide for a household of 4. And her father is essentially paying child support . For children that aren’t his. Because the mother needs that money. To support a household of 4 .With the money that meant just for the daughter.

@marlak4203 7 месяцев назад

Yes and if everyone would be real about it, they would too. All we have to do is look at the real world. If this is between a well to do man and a poor woman then, of course. If she is well to do too then the child is correct. We don't have context of what is really going on because we don't know if the child is just a complainer or if they really do have some points.

@janetjohnston1702 7 месяцев назад

@@marlak4203 The mother said it's her child support money and that should tell you all you need to know.

@mineandmine4528 7 месяцев назад

Child support is for the kid not the mom and her other kids from a different dad.

@BRI2020-d8x 4 месяца назад

Difficult one

@mineandmine4528 4 месяца назад

How is that difficult?

@drexq_477 3 месяца назад

Now, you see, that's where they get all of this stuff messed up. When the child support is for the child, and the mother is keeping the money for herself and her needs, it is wrong to take child support from the child.

@mineandmine4528 3 месяца назад

@drexq_477, Facts

@RT-xj9im 7 месяцев назад

Blonde hair wouldn't be saying that ish if she was paying $1900

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

Yep, if it was the other way around, they say how sorry he is and how he NEEDS her.

@hamidbashir2095 7 месяцев назад

She can become an emancipated minor and get the whole $1900 and get a part time job and be doing great for herself, on her own 💯

@truesistertalktv4873 7 месяцев назад

When you become an emancipated minor, you are telling the court I am self sufficient, capable of taking care of myself.

@rdelacruz8949 7 месяцев назад

Emancipated minors don't get child support lol smh

@ahah99 7 месяцев назад

Right 😂@@rdelacruz8949

@hamidbashir2095 5 месяцев назад

@@rdelacruz8949 Facts…. But a real dad is gonna keep sending her that bread until she is 18. So she can build up some savings💯

@vidalsipe4021 7 месяцев назад

I hope blonde girl heal before she ever have kids cause feeling a 16 year old cant have feelings and express them is wild

@Bizzle369 7 месяцев назад

The blonde girl doesn't like kids and her mother ain't shit

@ChanelStar1 7 месяцев назад

*If I received child support, I would split the $$ between the child, a UTMA account and an insurance policy*

@quonjulio1014 7 месяцев назад

Sometimes you don’t even have to split it id just ask my mom for whatever I needed

@Nut-Geb-Shu-RA-Nun 6 месяцев назад

529

@mikeballard3512 7 месяцев назад

In 2 years that $1900 with no longer exist, then what? Like I pay child support, utilities isn’t apart of expenses because that isn’t the child responsibility as a child. Without a child, there isn’t no CHILD support. Simple! Child support considers childcare, extracurricular activities, etc… not adults bills.

@janetjohnston1702 7 месяцев назад

Indeed! If you are a responsible adult you already pay your bills and when you have your child, it changes nothing since you still have to be responsible for yourself & the child just benefits from it.

@mineandmine4528 3 месяца назад

@mikeballard3512, Facts! Children can’t live on their own. It’s the parents job to put the roof over their heads. No reason why the child should pay for that roof and utilities. That’s moms job not child job.

@teamlou5357 7 месяцев назад

By law if the man pay child support financially the father is meeting that need for the child. He don’t have to do shit else unless he wants too.

@indianajones443 7 месяцев назад

Technically you're right but that's not an option for a good father. It's inevitable that you'll have to buy clothes and toys for your house And do things with them.

@terrencemcphail5782 7 месяцев назад

i pay 750 and i get my daughter every weekend and entire summer, she needs things when she with me but it is what is, im good, but i dont mind helping bm cause i make way more than her and that 750 i dont miss it. Im debt free have 4 cars own my home and married with no kids at home(other than weekends and summer).

@christopherlewis2194 6 месяцев назад

No a good father don't mean get used@@indianajones443

@mineandmine4528 3 месяца назад

@terrencemcphail5782, Your daughter will forever be thankful to you for being there for her.

@heerosagayuy2143 7 месяцев назад

The daughter should just go live with her dad. That’s one less mouth to fed and that’ll show what the moms really about plain and simple. Rico is 100% on point people really should think: do you respect your parents because they are your parents or because they are someone worthy of respect?

@BrianG803 7 месяцев назад

1900 is decent. A 16 year old has a right to inquire because the father doesn't have anymore to give. It's not fair if the money is going to the other kids

@TridentShield22 7 месяцев назад

More than decent that's alot

@sonnyqsoul 7 месяцев назад

The child is obviously not being spoiled if she's being honest in the text. That money is supposed to go towards her, not her siblings. Her mother's bills should be paid for by her mother's earnings from work.

@honeychick4ever280 7 месяцев назад

Facts 💯

@lashundaj8546 7 месяцев назад

Agreed!

@BRI2020-d8x 4 месяца назад

She just can just proportion the income so the child benefits ie if she had 3 kids £633 would go towards her rent / mortgages and the rest can go towards after school activities and junior savings

@asaadbrown1958 7 месяцев назад

Blond hair too emotional she gotta be using all the BDs money for the other kids 😂😂😂

@King32028 7 месяцев назад

Blonde hair is being disingenuous. At 16 you can give 200 out of the 1900 and be fine. 1900 covers my mortgage, car insurance for 3 cars, cell bill, and almost a months worth of gas. Almost anywhere in the US with reasonable living accommodations that amount greatly helps with shelter costs. That's reducing the home cost over head but she can't give the child 200 a month for spending? There's something else wrong with this equation.

@mineandmine4528 3 месяца назад

That $200 mom is using for herself. Not the child.

@caryjones7987 7 месяцев назад

Ask one of those women, if they had to contribute $1900 and the father they're paying can't cover 100% of his living expenses and he dependent on the that money they provide, she would have a problem!! There are women across this country that depend on child support as a petty payday every month!

@MrJamesJamesJr 7 месяцев назад

They keep talking about $1900 as if that's 100% of what the child is entitled to. If the mother is not contributing $1900 as her half, then she should lose her driver's license and be jailed just as the father would be.

@kwietsturm4735 7 месяцев назад

Just to add to this point, the combined income of the mother and father is counted. Also, the noncustodiel parent should not be forced to pay more than 1/3 of their gross income. There are other factors added into the calculation for the other children. Without knowing the formula, I estimate the combined income is $136,800+.

@indianajones443 7 месяцев назад

And have her credit destroyed.

@worldsalike7298 7 месяцев назад

I do not agree with you. When you lose your license, that does not mean use your kids child support to fix something that is not his/her fault. Coming from a father who pays child support, my son's mom does not put his money to help him. His mom divide his mom on everything except him. My fiancee and I are the ones who provide clothes, food, transportation, entertainment, parenting, mostly by me. As an adult, male and female should be held to the same standard on parenting. If the father pays child support, even if the mom is the custodial parent, she must pay child child support too. What ever happened to having equal treatment under the law???

@worldsalike7298 7 месяцев назад

By the way, the blonde is a person who would go to court to complain that child support is not enough no matter the dollar amount. Let's stop feeling bad for irresponsible women who don't do either end of the deal. My son has been telling me he can't wait to move back with me. He's fourteen and she thinks he's a fool. She has two other children who have one of their father is not there for her. I feel bad for that one child.

@talibahonyebuchi9980 7 месяцев назад

NO, Mom should bill the child for her hours mothering full time (cleaning, transporting, cooking, sick days off work cost, charge for attending school events/sport activities, etc. Most men can't afford a Nanny who is provided room and board and a $2 000+ check, medical, retirement fund.

@ImagesByMel 7 месяцев назад

Why is the lady going so hard for the mom. It seems like it’s hitting home for her!

@joybell995 7 месяцев назад

Because she’s a mom and she demands a certain respect from her children. Some parents let kids say anything to them and some don’t.

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

But the BS can only go on so long; women defend single mothers no matter how disgraceful they typically become. Shes okay with getting that child support to buy Gucci shoes and bags but that child better stay in a childs place if they ask for something. In other words the blond is okay with that baby mama BS.@@joybell995

@zerobe49 7 месяцев назад

@joybell995 or she could show her that savings account she shouldve been using the money for

@AndrewSquires01 7 месяцев назад

Bc she was told the same thing when she asked where her child support money at from her mom

@McStrokeAvision 7 месяцев назад

@@joybell995nah it’s because she’s silly just like this girls mother that’s why the girl is mocking the mom for being a failure.

@anitaneal1779 7 месяцев назад

$1900 every month the girl should not want for anything. It’s her money period!

@truthbetold9257 7 месяцев назад

Was this blonde chick raised by a single mother or something? This woman is spending child support on other kids! How does the blonde chick not have a problem with this!

@tradersexclusive8887 7 месяцев назад

Rerun this interview and have random fathers call in to give an insight on this please! This could be a moment of truth

@annaallen2454 7 месяцев назад

child support is not supposed to cover everything!!.. if you didn't have a child or children you still have to live and pay rent and all the other bills ..

@Houdini313 7 месяцев назад

“I don’t understand how there is even two halves to the conversation” she don’t think she can be called out by anyone younger than her or 18 and under.

@xavierfrederick1970 7 месяцев назад

The child is not disrespectful if the father has no issue taking care of his child then let the child live with her father & you take care of your other children yourself

@ctbxace6675 7 месяцев назад

The way all 3 of them looked at her when she said it ain’t for the child 😭😭

@ctbxace6675 7 месяцев назад

@unknownindividual7036 definitely is

@maxcenevil 7 месяцев назад

That was wild

@hamidbashir2095 7 месяцев назад

The woman in the Grey…. Has a broken mentality. The fact that she couldn’t even realize that the child deserves a portion is so sad and lame.

@patienceslueue3100 7 месяцев назад

For real, she forgetting to know that 16 year old need alot these days, they need their hair done and nails

@hamidbashir2095 7 месяцев назад

And need to start saving for their first car, money the dorm room necessitates in 2 years… etc.

@JohnnyBryant-m1k 7 месяцев назад

I Agree with That.

@dpanman 7 месяцев назад

Couple of them in the comments too. This is why younger guys need to take note and protect their seed...

@chellwilliams1907 7 месяцев назад

That lady with the blonde hair is one of those parents who lives off the good parent's money for his child to take care of the other men kids! She's seems the type to spend the money on her hair & nails

@CokiColours 7 месяцев назад

It’s the girl in the blonde slow or something? Lol I’m not understanding what she’s not understanding. She’s going to be one of those parents that they are talking about smh. The mom dead ass wrong!

@BlackRane82 7 месяцев назад

She may be that now, sounds and looks like it

@rdelacruz8949 7 месяцев назад

Don't ever take anything that comes out the mouth of a sista with a blond wig seriously

@lashundaj8546 7 месяцев назад

😂she sounds like she doing the same😂

@shonb9933 7 месяцев назад

1900$ and no allowance is insane

@McStrokeAvision 7 месяцев назад

Prime example how a lot of these women use their children as a stipend to fund their life. 1900 for one child is more than enough. I pay 1000 on top of just doing stuff for my son on my own and I have 50-50 custody. A lot of these women are poor excuses for mothers yet nobody wants to have that conversation. Him and his daughter are being used by the mother to compensate for the lack of compensation she gets for the other children which isn’t their fault or business. The daughter has to suffer for the mothers poor decisions. She’ll be championed as a great mother though by society despite exploiting her own child.

@edwardgilbert3232 7 месяцев назад

Rico hit the nail on the head, a lot of women wouldn't be able to survive without the money they received for their kids, yet they swear they are bread winners and the best parents in the world.

@PH-jo8yz 7 месяцев назад

I pay less than 1900. I'm sure my bm would go crazy if our kid wanted to live with me. Simple because they start to add that money to there personal expenses

@Rbhawk3rd 7 месяцев назад

They also don't work and live off child support and govt assistance. Yet, they'll be the first to say they're strong and independent😅😅😅

@ashleyadekweh5351 7 месяцев назад

And no, it’s not normal that mom treats her daughter this way. Regardless of the fact my mom never treated me this way body should treat anybody like this. He sent money for his daughter. Were is the accountibilty for the mom and the other baby daddies

@edwardgilbert3232 7 месяцев назад

@@PH-jo8yz facts

@edwardgilbert3232 7 месяцев назад

@@Rbhawk3rd absolutely

@josephmorales8275 7 месяцев назад

i feel like if my kid says that she always gets told no i should raise hell in the courts and renegotiate the living situation

@lashundaj8546 7 месяцев назад

That part!!

@hamidbashir2095 7 месяцев назад

The parent needs to work, the child support should be supplemental income.💯

@gertrudefarmer6643 7 месяцев назад

But how is it that you know the mother doesn’t work

@andregrey7668 7 месяцев назад

This episode is the reason why I keep my meat in the freezer and never take it out to thaw and spill my milk in the wrong bowl….

@upnorthsociety6146 7 месяцев назад

CHILD SUPPORT. Money too SUPPORT THE CHILD.

@gertrudefarmer6643 7 месяцев назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@lalabaker1920 7 месяцев назад

Lol at her ring falling off. But yes, she wasn't making any sense.

@BNezzy 7 месяцев назад

she doesn't make sense because she herself collects child support and operates like the mom in the story. She tries to defend the mom and justify her, during the conversation there are several points which show she spends child support money just like that mom (look at her cheesecake factory example) (or look at her thoughts in regards to left over money).

@flashstone595 7 месяцев назад

90% of these child are not benefiting from child support

@MAlexanderBrown 7 месяцев назад

The welfare mentality. Child support isn't supposed to cover everything. Women, when you're a single parent, you need to provide for your child and other children as well. One child's father isn't supposed to be providing for the other child.

@McStrokeAvision 7 месяцев назад

Exactly what it is that welfare mentality. Someone else supposed to cover all their bills and responsibilities or it’s never enough.

@MR.ALLOUTPRESSURELA 5 месяцев назад

Lady in the blonde is the type to scream it’s her money & in reality if the father pays that much the child should be entitled to at least $1000 a month.

@LaNita144 7 месяцев назад

It isn’t always an unruly daughter.. Many times a MOTHER, is envious of her🤷🏽

@Nut-Geb-Shu-RA-Nun 6 месяцев назад

Facts

@teannaworld8102 7 месяцев назад

$1900 A MONTH is gold!!!! If I’m getting $1900 a month my child def wouldn’t want nothing. I don’t even get child support or even help from my kid father and he don’t want for nothing. Boy barely hears no

@Tony_Wes 7 месяцев назад

Shit I'm sure that's a mortgage for you lol. Covering for everything else would be easy.

@talibahonyebuchi9980 7 месяцев назад

@@Tony_Wesso, you don't have a mortgage? 4-5 bedroom home in a decent area is more than $1,900.

@BaqiRants 7 месяцев назад

The woman with the blonde hair is the perfect example of what’s wrong with a lot of these mom’s mentalities in today’s society she’s sitting there playing like she doesn’t understand what the rest of them are saying knowing damn well she does Child Support is money due to help support the child that it has been ordered for by the courts if anyone looks up the court documents in one of the forms it specifies who the child support is for and it has the child’s name and it’s signed off on by the judge so just in legal standing that money is for the child listed not the household and not for other children from other dads but too many moms out here look at child support like it’s their money hence the reason why the mom in her txt said My Child Support

@Ammie-y1y 7 месяцев назад

💯💯

@ashleyadekweh5351 7 месяцев назад

If I’m listening correctly, a young woman (16) is not being respected correctly. Let her live with her dad.

@hbcumaker9182 7 месяцев назад

If your 16 is spending 30 a day, you are a lazy as_ parent and are teaching your kids how to be irresponsible.

@sherwoodwalker573 7 месяцев назад

In two more years it won’t matter. Mom is in for a rude awakening.

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

Yeah if the girl stays with the dad then that exposes the mother for the clown she is.@@sherwoodwalker573

@terrencemcphail5782 7 месяцев назад

@@sherwoodwalker573 yes and i hope so

@talibahonyebuchi9980 7 месяцев назад

Yea, let her live with Dad and if it doesn't work out.....teenager can kick rocks!

@DailyLifeofTink 7 месяцев назад

To the girl in the blonde hair, I have a mother that got child support and would say no to anything I liked and asked for. And would only buy us what she wanted us to have. Check yourself

@shawnstallings2459 7 месяцев назад

This girl on the show will CLEARLY take money for her own person expense from child support

@justinrobinson404 7 месяцев назад

Amanda seems like she mad this whole episode, you was spoiled by your parents you don't understand child support it's to support the child not your other children

@tyquanjordan 7 месяцев назад

I wonder what household they live in $800 a month for food is crazy😂

@terrencemcphail5782 7 месяцев назад

capping straight lies i eat grass fed and my family dont eat 800 a month in food. We eat well at home dont eat out but we eat good.

@talibahonyebuchi9980 7 месяцев назад

Yea, but your personal chef and maid (Mom) has not been paid! Men love to minimize the unpaid work Moms/females provide

@TheMainMan364 7 месяцев назад

It’s 100% possible to have 800 for groceries. It depends on how many family members you have

@tru_king24 7 месяцев назад

@@talibahonyebuchi9980an yall love to make it seem as if being a mom especially one that doesn’t work is a bigger job than men goin out in the world every day doing dangerous jobs 😑 being a mom aint a damn job i neva heard a man say “ being a father is an unpaid job “ cuz men know its just a responsibility if u dont want it dont have children literally that simple

@talibahonyebuchi9980 7 месяцев назад

@@tru_king24 It's a much harder job and that's why most men don't do it. Worker get breaks, lunches....zooms with babies get No breaks. I've done both and a job is easier, but you wouldn't know this because you've never done the stay at home job! Miss me with your BS!

@mhenderson9865 7 месяцев назад

This is infuriating.... Why in world would the other kids benefit from the father of one. He didn't adopt the other children. They aren't his. The other fathers should be covering for their kids... Period. This shouldn't even be an argument.

@BlackRane82 7 месяцев назад

They need to remember sometimes the dad pays more than he may earn

@duranjohnsonjr.9383 7 месяцев назад

Stop the Bs!!! So I got 2 kids by 1 woman. They are 1 year apart. I was giving my bm $300 a week plus giving my kids $50 to $75 each every week so the didn't necessarily have to ask her for spending money. I also bought all shoes and paid for extra activities like sports etc... But when they did ask her for money or something she would tell them to go ask me. How in the hell I do all that and you tell my kids to go ask me for shit. I found out she was using my money for nails, trips and buying shit for other men. Got evidence!!! When I changed how I gave the money she flipped out and also started struggling. I realized that without me that house would barely make it. My kids didn't even know I was giving their mom money. They thought I was a dead beat in a sense.

@Ammie-y1y 7 месяцев назад

She Probably Told Them That 💯💯

@ashhdollars4780 7 месяцев назад

Rico is 10000% right I was the child support kid

@jeyhundo3039 7 месяцев назад

@Amanda I tried to work it out with my ex-wife to pay her a certain amount for my kids, and because she wanted more, she put me on child support. My stand is that if you want to put me on child support and I'm forced to pay the amount. I'm going to pay that amount that's being enforced, nothing more because some dads not on child support exactly spend more money on his kids. I'm not on child support now, and I spend more ways on my kids.

@dmoney1745 7 месяцев назад

Child support is intended to be used for the care of the children involved. It can cover the child's direct expenditures, such as food and clothing. It can also cover a portion of household costs, such as the house the child lives in and the car the parent drives the child around in. Child support can also cover transportation expenses for the child, including car payments, fuel, bus fares, and other costs associated with getting the child to and from home, school, family visits, and other places and activities. In Ohio, parents are required to support their children by paying for their child support until they reach the age of 18, or until they have graduated from high school.

@kutlessjones 7 месяцев назад

Child support is based off the fathers income not how much it cost to raise a child 60 cents of every dollar goes to the state.

@Bighurt8223 7 месяцев назад

You want the money for yourself it’s for the child

@PH-jo8yz 7 месяцев назад

That's why the blonde hair lady mad

@ReenieG1UK 7 месяцев назад

Child should live with dad now and save mother all the trouble she appears to cause her. Mum can focus on the siblings. Blondie would do what this mother is doing. I got a lot less child support but it went into a savings account for my child and I worked full time to cover daily living expenses. When she needed driving lessons, car etc.. That money covered those costs.

@TalentedMisterHeat8 7 месяцев назад

@43:40 Getting send to school with $30 a day for food, and saying that wasn’t enough is definitely spoiled😂😂😂

@terrencemcphail5782 7 месяцев назад

600 a month is 30 a day 5 days a week during school

@anthonyperez6906 7 месяцев назад

Doesn't matter how much the daughter ask for the money is for the child not the mother

@TalentedMisterHeat8 7 месяцев назад

Actually, it does matter how much the child ask for, even though the money is for the support of the child. @@anthonyperez6906

@siannmclaurin9513 7 месяцев назад

Me and my son’s father had a bad break up & he still isn’t on legal child support because nobody wanna go through that shit. But he pays child support every 2 weeks

@drennignacia6724 7 месяцев назад

We started getting CS when i was 15 and bro was 11. I was given the card. I split it evenly between 2 and we gave a portion to ma for bills. It paid for our trips and snacks. When she got a man we still gave "rent" but started completly shopping and cookin for ourselves. We made 300 a piece work for us for the entire month til next check. We had to learn to budget or skip minor activities for dances or bigger trips. Parenting had been over for a long time.

@taylorgreg752 7 месяцев назад

If the mother was working, this wouldn't be an issue

@kendrajones6212 7 месяцев назад

I feel like the mom is being selfish and the lady in the grey is selfish too! At 16yrs old she entitled to some of the money. She has a life too, and if they mom has a job and not given the money to the daughter is selfish. At 16 yrs olds she should receive at least 500$ I’m just saying

@rgs1106 7 месяцев назад

Doesn’t the mother work as well?? She should be paying for her household with her salary and not his. That support is for the need of the child not for the mother bills…

@ladyb1281 7 месяцев назад

Thankyou!!!

@timjhonson3792 7 месяцев назад

That's 16 year old girl is 100%. Correct that money that her father is sending is for her. Not for her the house spend that the house utility using everything else and then take care of the other kids that this woman has buy. Another dude that's disrespectful. Your father should come and remove that 16 year old girl out of that house. And see what the mother. Is going to do to compensate that money

@davonlatimer8256 7 месяцев назад

To many broke females in the comments. My baby mother gave my daughter the the card soon she was 16

@Ammie-y1y 7 месяцев назад

That's What My Sister Did For My Niece

@jamespurcell1138 5 месяцев назад

but does all those things equate to 22,800$ a year. A lot of grown adults barely bring that home. let’s be real here!

@ericb7776 7 месяцев назад

Stop giving women full custody of children.

@kathleenwhitley7114 7 месяцев назад

And why does this blonde chick keep judging and telling what this girl is doing. she doesn't know what this girl's doing? Does she live with this girl. No, she doesn't, but she keeps saying how she's entitled and disrespectful. How does she know she doesn't even live with her.

@k.esperanza2390 7 месяцев назад

Sometimes like in my instance, I've paid for things already as a mother of my home to have things out the way, whether it's bills, clothes, shoes, activities, etc. Now the child support comes and I move accordingly, how I please because I just got PART of my money back. That's why it looks like momma is getting her hair and nails done or whatever... Now when the CS doesn't come, at least she's already paid everything and will have to wait until her next paycheck. This is most women's life with CS. If she has her children living in a nice neighborhood it costs. If she had them living in high crime where she saved money, they'd be wanting to move. Living costs money!!

@Originalblacklily 6 месяцев назад

But you’re only supposed to get PART of the money back. Both parents support the child.

@KingNidus 6 месяцев назад

$18 an hour. 40hrs a week. Minus 18% for taxes. Is $590. That times 4 weeks in a month is $2300. Y’all telling me kids cost as much as a having a job??? lol dude in shades too real. Shout out to him

@BayBay337 3 месяца назад

Facts

@essencegibson8623 7 месяцев назад

Truth hurt mom. She wrong

@alexbostic6529 7 месяцев назад

I pay child support and still give my daughter the "Dad can I get Money too...Mind you... my ex wife makes 7k a month... I make 2k.. shit ain't right!!!!

@TalentedMisterHeat8 7 месяцев назад

Wow 😂😂😂😂 Amazing how the blonde chick in the beginning of the video, was saying that the 16 years old a girl was mature enough to see the wrong her mother was doing. Then at 1:03:58 in the video she picks the age of 13 to say that kids can see through their parent’s games and misdeeds. Just another case of let them talk long enough and they will contradict themselves every time to protect the sisterhood 😂😂😂😂

@DJLisha 7 месяцев назад

Dude with the Fabo glasses is ignorantly loud and wrong 🙄

@Efwaiaye 7 месяцев назад

How? Explain

@brainpink68 7 месяцев назад

He’s 100 percent right groceries should only be 200-300 for a 16 year old monthly, if the parent don’t know how to budget that’s their fault, there’s a reason why grandma and mama had coupons, it seems to me the mother is living above her means and her child is insurance. The little girl peep and she is not jacking that, the child father is skittle petty though

@camelarollins 7 месяцев назад

The girl with blonde is mad as if they talking about her… I mean if the shoe fits😭🤣 The daughter isn’t disrespectful at all.

@realdj3bka40 3 месяца назад

The girl is 16 years old! She's old enough to understand that the things that she's receiving are not adding up to what her Dad is paying. She's old enough to realize that the mom is using the money that's supposed to be for her on other things that she should be taking care of with her own money.

@siannmclaurin9513 7 месяцев назад

Blonde use her child support on herself 😂 give that girl her money, she should at least have $800

@cojackkrew 7 месяцев назад

Lol 📠

@gabiwilli7674 7 месяцев назад

The mother should be showing her and teaching her how she can now do for self... And father should be showing her and teaching her how to do for self.........

@poindextersheelturn436 7 месяцев назад

That sound good but the mother is taking advantage of the situation, and many are trying to get the mother out of accountability. Its one thing to do for self but what that got to do with people taking advantage of yo?

@AndrelSaunders 5 месяцев назад

This the best conversation you guys ever had. Actually constructive

@ChanelStar1 7 месяцев назад

*Kids only see what they are exposed to. I encourage everyone to have an adult conversation with their parents when they are about 30, you will have a different understanding.*

@camelarollins 7 месяцев назад

Why? because that’s when they see you and respect you as an adult?! I’d say the same things, if they’re not gone. Just because people are young, doesn’t make them blind to right from wrong. Do what you’re supposed to when kids are kids and the feedback you get will reflect that. Some kids are real life disrespectful but some parents just aren’t parents.

@ChanelStar1 7 месяцев назад

@@camelarollins *In my personal experience my parents were young and had no real guidance(parents not present) so they were just figuring things out. There were certain things I feel like I should’ve been taught growing up but I was raised to be a princess and when I got to college I struggled. After a conversation with my mom everything made sense. Also I was in honors classes since I was six and did not get into trouble.*

@GirlDadYoutubeChannel 7 месяцев назад

Hello, this came upon my feed. Obviously, the father is responsible enough to pay $1,900 a month in child support, which is the same father who is responsible enough to have full custody. This is foolishness and nonsense. Any National Study you research supports fathers are better stewards in parenting their children period. I guarantee you that the father wouldn't have to spend $1,900 a month on one child because I raised four adult daughters!!! The Black women with the Blonde hair stop making up shit, a 16yr old child is living exactly what she is talking about, stop diminishing a child's experience when her father would do a better job in his household!!!