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Wife Hides $47,000 ‘Escape fund’ from husband While he Works Two Jobs and Drive for Uber on the side 

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@freddyb3380
@freddyb3380 3 месяца назад
she's not PLAYING devil's advocate, she IS the devil's advocate
@dwightgraham284
@dwightgraham284 2 месяца назад
Facts just say she wrong. Then she say they left with nothing. What women u know that were stay at home wives ended with nothing. If he got money to do that it's no way they leave with nothing. It blows me how they can't say she wrong....especially watching him struggle part
@Chief_KP
@Chief_KP 2 месяца назад
This is CRAZY!! She’s financially cheating…!
@sams.6283
@sams.6283 3 месяца назад
As a woman, I see this as absolutely stealing. She didn’t have a discussion where they agreed that she should have a side fund. That could have been easily discussed. If the tables were reversed, we would have called a spade a spade.
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 3 месяца назад
And she was taking the money that he was earning to put it in her escape account. It wouldn't be as bad if she was pocketing some money from her own job for that purpose.
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
Women file 80% of divorces, so this idea that men leave for younger women when men mostly lose in court is laughable. @@313gonzoify
@wi77iama773n
@wi77iama773n 3 месяца назад
​@@313gonzoify not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@wi77iama773n
@wi77iama773n 3 месяца назад
Even if she had her own job, it's still their money. Unless they openly COMMUNICATED that it was okay. She being sneaky and untrust worthy. Never get married people especially if you don't trust the person you claim you want to marry.
@X-QUIZ-IT
@X-QUIZ-IT 3 месяца назад
women just side with women no matter what.
@KoWright76
@KoWright76 14 дней назад
Facts
@xG1ZZM0x
@xG1ZZM0x 3 месяца назад
Imagine a man had an "Escape Account", watch how fast the woman will want to take it all for herself.
@dairtezescott7383
@dairtezescott7383 3 месяца назад
Boom
@javisantana5429
@javisantana5429 3 месяца назад
Genius!!!!!!
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@lionelthedealswarlock1124
@lionelthedealswarlock1124 3 месяца назад
​@@313gonzoify Since you posted this multiple times here is a reply from @wi77iama773n: Not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@Changeyourstar
@Changeyourstar 3 месяца назад
if anyone should have an escape account, it’s the man because he typically gets wrecked in divorce.- With 50% of his wealth that he worked for going to her plus she’s stealing large sums of money. Wild
@bc7015
@bc7015 3 месяца назад
Erin is the pure Example of the biggest marriage mistake any man in the world would ever do..goodluck to her husband..🙄🙄
@Superpius91
@Superpius91 3 месяца назад
Exactly he will learn with time.
@eastcoastfresco5950
@eastcoastfresco5950 3 месяца назад
That is definitely stealing from the house. Any woman who feels that it’s not need to go check themselves that is definitely stealing….
@sharenahartley649
@sharenahartley649 3 месяца назад
We have to see what kind of childhood trauma she saw growing up maybe she saw someone in a domestic violence relationship and was thinking he was gonna abuse her
@if.i.dusse_somyself7683
@if.i.dusse_somyself7683 3 месяца назад
​@sharenahartley649 does her childhood trauma excuse her behavior? Because otherwise why does it matter? Wrong is wrong
@jaylenreed2313
@jaylenreed2313 3 месяца назад
@@sharenahartley649so that excuses her stealing money from the house?
@jaylenreed2313
@jaylenreed2313 3 месяца назад
@@sharenahartley649so that excuses her stealing money from the house?
@the-lil-x
@the-lil-x 3 месяца назад
Facts
@coxish1765
@coxish1765 3 месяца назад
HOW IS ERIN FUCKING MARRIED WITH HER MINDSET I PRAY FOR HER HUSBAND 🤯
@soufeast_ant6469
@soufeast_ant6469 3 месяца назад
He probably a sucker for
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 3 месяца назад
Co-sign.
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
Simp seasons is all season.@@kirbyaugustine761
@shanebarrett3996
@shanebarrett3996 3 месяца назад
I think it's interesting how the husband never even considered a "Plan B" or "escape account." His wife was his ONLY plan. But her on the other hand.....
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
Men like that are groom to trust women no matter what cause shes his rock. SMMFH.
@lionelthedealswarlock1124
@lionelthedealswarlock1124 3 месяца назад
@@313gonzoify Since you want to post this multiple time here is a reply from @wi77iama773n: Not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@stephonallison3294
@stephonallison3294 3 месяца назад
@@lionelthedealswarlock1124agreed
@myke6135
@myke6135 3 месяца назад
He put his money into "our account". Once the money goes from "our account" to her account. It's stealing. That is not debatable.
@blackfootchata86
@blackfootchata86 3 месяца назад
Facts
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 3 месяца назад
And even if he was abusive, imagine the kind of abuse he would have inflicted on her after finding out what she did with the money. If it was so important to have an escape fund, she should have worked to save up that money in her own account before the wedding day.
@user-sw2wv1zx1t
@user-sw2wv1zx1t 3 месяца назад
@@megalodon1726If he was abusive then it would be 100% justified because it's hard for victims to leave because of threats.
@truthbtold8697
@truthbtold8697 2 месяца назад
​@user-sw2wv1zx1t it still wouldn't be justified because she was still STEALING..and she even said that he showed her no signs of being toxic or anything..SO ABUSE ISN'T EVEN IN THE DISCUSSION
@Charvez
@Charvez 3 месяца назад
The lack of accountability during that escape account conversation is absolutely crazy
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@lionelthedealswarlock1124
@lionelthedealswarlock1124 3 месяца назад
@@313gonzoify Since you want to post this multiple time here is a reply from @wi77iama773n: Not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca 3 месяца назад
Nonhelpmeets
@ahhshytson
@ahhshytson 2 месяца назад
@@313gonzoify lmfao I stopped reading after you said your sign BS
@carloskerrick8101
@carloskerrick8101 3 месяца назад
The fact that they have to argue about something so simple says alot.
@tabmana960
@tabmana960 3 месяца назад
Facts. Disgusting how thr two women try to blame the man
@kiwanbyrd5640
@kiwanbyrd5640 3 месяца назад
If a man took man took money out his wife account to put in his own account for a rainy day he be all types ain’t shit guy
@ExtraordinaryE901
@ExtraordinaryE901 3 месяца назад
Point blank. Conversation coulda been over if they mentioned that
@MinnesotaEverything
@MinnesotaEverything 2 месяца назад
And they claim we’re equal or should be 😂
@Cre8tivezInc
@Cre8tivezInc 3 месяца назад
Rico you've outgrown this podcast 💯
@Z002
@Z002 3 месяца назад
FACTS!!
@pskila
@pskila 3 месяца назад
Facts
@Simone-mf9hi
@Simone-mf9hi 2 месяца назад
No really
@rodetienne94
@rodetienne94 2 месяца назад
Most Definitely. All The Other Women In This Podcast Are Cool With What He Said, Except The Stealing Part.... Bro Please Leave The Show
@dailygrinders89
@dailygrinders89 2 месяца назад
Yeah he to big fa this No Diddy
@williamjohns8624
@williamjohns8624 3 месяца назад
The woman stole from her husband. What the hell are these women talking about.
@patrickredmond8569
@patrickredmond8569 3 месяца назад
The fact that, that demon watch her husband struggle shows she didn't give a damn about him. He should have let her ass get a job.
@stephonallison3294
@stephonallison3294 3 месяца назад
Agreed
@user-rl9nh5ge4y
@user-rl9nh5ge4y 3 месяца назад
If her husband takes her back, he's a damn fool!!! Fool me once shame on you! Fool me again, shame on me!!!
@iaintthereyet914
@iaintthereyet914 3 месяца назад
Fool me three times, fuck the peace sign… you know the rest.
@truthbtold8697
@truthbtold8697 2 месяца назад
​@@iaintthereyet914😂😂😂😂...load the.. let it rain on you‼️‼️‼️
@bc7015
@bc7015 3 месяца назад
The women on this panel are so disingenuous n biased, this is y the conversations go nowhere n yall have low viewership for that reason..but shout out to Rico for being the only honest person..🙄🙄🤔🤔
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 3 месяца назад
He wasn’t just honest; he was logical.
@TheRMCollective
@TheRMCollective 3 месяца назад
They need to find better women. Period I’m sorry these women make this panel look sad.
@nappynezz
@nappynezz Месяц назад
This is my first time watching this podcast. I agree with you, these women are so bias and making horrible takes. I’ll never watch again.
@Robbase96
@Robbase96 3 месяца назад
Marriage is a Bussiness. She was stealing from that Bussiness. Even when he was suffering she never offered. Selfish and Evil. What happened to for richer for poorer?
@Parismc33
@Parismc33 3 месяца назад
That's definitely stealing, no matter how you dress it up. She's a thief and untrustworthy. If he was putting money on the side she would have a fit. Emotional and all that.
@mbkeith4
@mbkeith4 3 месяца назад
It is called embezzlement from the family unit
@coxish1765
@coxish1765 3 месяца назад
How is not downsizing the shady part but taking money from their joint account without him knowing not shady 🤨🤯
@jimscott5673
@jimscott5673 2 месяца назад
When the money changed from their money to her money without telling him it was stolen.
@Robtrill369
@Robtrill369 3 месяца назад
i feel for Rico sometimes 😂🤣
@duttyrajiv
@duttyrajiv 3 месяца назад
Stealing and selfish…this man was injured and not working and also drowning in debt…why wasnt the “escape” money used while he was out on disability and avoid debt…she stole the money with the intention of leaving one day…untrustworthy
@creatif13
@creatif13 3 месяца назад
The issue is the $47K is NOT hers!!! If he worked for it, to provide for her, and she was skimming to set some aside, then half of the money is his!! $23,500 for him and the same for her. That's her escape fund...
@TheReasonWhyAndSome
@TheReasonWhyAndSome 3 месяца назад
Its not 47 grand that she took. She said 750 a week for 5 years 168000 then. 200 a month for 2 years 19200. She only has 47 k left. She even blew her escape account
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 3 месяца назад
She was taking $750 a month and then $200 a month. $750/month for 5 years is $45000, $200/month for 2 years is $4800, total $49800. If the $750/month was only approximately 5 years (say 4 years and 9 months) and not a full 5 years, that would bring the total to about $47K.
@TheReasonWhyAndSome
@TheReasonWhyAndSome 3 месяца назад
she said 750 a week @@megalodon1726
@TheReasonWhyAndSome
@TheReasonWhyAndSome 3 месяца назад
@@megalodon1726 Naw u right I thought she said a week... Just played it back ma fault
@muzic533
@muzic533 2 месяца назад
If she invested it 8% annual gain it would be more
@jasonburney1107
@jasonburney1107 Месяц назад
That’s embezzlement at its finest.
@ENT-ue5rv
@ENT-ue5rv 3 месяца назад
How did we come from slaves and these women act as if a sliver refrigerator is a symbol of how your life is valued .😢
@popchiefa6905
@popchiefa6905 3 месяца назад
Erin is entitled, spoiled and selfish, she always speaks from a personal perspective, I wonder if she would have the same thoughts and opinions if the situation was reversed
@terickastidbits2342
@terickastidbits2342 3 месяца назад
You know damn well she wouldn’t
@etcamp1913
@etcamp1913 3 месяца назад
Actually my husband is also a lawyer, and we both understand how laws work. So, fortunately, we have a baseline understanding and wouldn’t even be arguing over such foolishness. Thanks for watching. We love our fans! ❤
@Superpius91
@Superpius91 3 месяца назад
She is always like that. Me me me typical bw
@clauvensdurace1717
@clauvensdurace1717 3 месяца назад
masculine energy.. She is also trying to create another narrative which is different than what's going on
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
Thats mot masculine energy, masculine energy comes with logic which is doesnt have, pretents she doesnt have or is outright deceptive with a dash of innocence. @@clauvensdurace1717
@Double-R
@Double-R 3 месяца назад
Women ≠ Integrity. Like oil and water
@LzBaow
@LzBaow 3 месяца назад
Put it right next to accountability smh🤦🏾‍♂️
@armandoubisse3506
@armandoubisse3506 3 месяца назад
My biggest disappointment growing up was finding out women are not good people
@gumarozdubar3430
@gumarozdubar3430 3 месяца назад
If marriage is 50/50 …Then was he entitled to the 47K?
@jasonbirchoff2605
@jasonbirchoff2605 3 месяца назад
Yes he is... which is why the escape account idea makes no sense when your in a marriage.
@cheriebenjamin0315
@cheriebenjamin0315 3 месяца назад
Considering she didn’t work it was his earnings anyway
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
Most will transfer the money to their mothers account and im sure the feminist/gynocratic judge will see it as a gift to the mother from the "couple". She keeps the 47000 and still will be able to get the house, child support (if there children) and alimony.@@jasonbirchoff2605
@Icn_atitagain
@Icn_atitagain 2 месяца назад
@@jasonbirchoff2605and that further enforces the fact that she was stealing
@boardervt
@boardervt 3 месяца назад
Another glaring example of his money is our money, and my money is my money. Even though it is literally all his money. Crazy thing is that he’s only struggling because she took $50,000 from him and he wouldn’t be in that situation to begin with if she hadn’t stolen his money.
@KingDeeba
@KingDeeba 3 месяца назад
IT WASNT HER MONEY. create your escape money with your own money. it's still messed up regardless but it wasn't her money to put aside without his knowledge
@KoWright76
@KoWright76 14 дней назад
It amazes me how some women minimize what men do and maximize what they do
@VADATV.
@VADATV. 3 месяца назад
Keep your heart 3 stacks keep your heart, these girls is smart 3 stacks! 😂
@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997
@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997 3 месяца назад
Lady in the white is pissing me off!!!
@nappynezz
@nappynezz Месяц назад
Same. Can’t watch this show.
@kiwanbyrd5640
@kiwanbyrd5640 3 месяца назад
She was stealing…she took money she didn’t work for and put it to the side for herself without saying anything that stealing
@CMGTreyJackson
@CMGTreyJackson 3 месяца назад
All the women saying it’s not stealing is crazy!
@the-lil-x
@the-lil-x 3 месяца назад
She is totally misusing the term willful ignorance to essentially say its the mans fault... Being willfully ignorant is intentionally overlooking facts that negate a point or stance you have taken... What he did was trust the one person he should have trusted... Its the equivalent of a woman getting cheated on and you saying she should of been checking his phone and investigating his activities.. no she shouldnt have to😂
@CMGTreyJackson
@CMGTreyJackson 3 месяца назад
Say it louder for the people in the back
@quisomad15
@quisomad15 3 месяца назад
The women on this show need to be quiet on this type of topics. Jada was the only one that made sense.
@bmmlt1
@bmmlt1 3 месяца назад
Facts
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@lionelthedealswarlock1124
@lionelthedealswarlock1124 3 месяца назад
@@313gonzoify Since you want to post this multiple time here is a reply from @wi77iama773n: Not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@MrJERZEYBOI23
@MrJERZEYBOI23 3 месяца назад
Every man has to kniw every woman is prepared to leave u at any moment so dont get to attaxhed
@bobbywilliams9195
@bobbywilliams9195 3 месяца назад
Telling your husband legally I'm entitled to half of you shit is crazy lol
@Changeyourstar
@Changeyourstar 3 месяца назад
Yo facts, this entitled talks needs to stop. A woman that doesn’t get to work is a good gesture that the husbands earning capability provides. But they’ve spun that into entitlement and narrative like but you wanted me not to work.. b*tch! you should be saying thank you and enjoying the soft life instead of stealing my shit. - it’s crazy to me
@kinggandyel9339
@kinggandyel9339 3 месяца назад
The conditions women make are their preferences. They are frivolous add-ons. That's not what makes a home home. It's what makes women comfortable
@dodgefreeman847
@dodgefreeman847 3 месяца назад
The actions you take to avoid calamity are often the ones that cause calamity.
@themofomayor
@themofomayor 3 месяца назад
She is NOT entitled to half. The RELATIONSHIP is entitled to 100% of it... PERIOD!!! HE put it in.. if its not going to the relationship, HE has the right to take it out. She is WILDLY out of order.
@Changeyourstar
@Changeyourstar 3 месяца назад
These women justifying bad behavior like the Mum did.. this is stealing!
@workouthw
@workouthw 3 месяца назад
Escape money??? Was she held hostage? Does this mean man should have Escape money?
@daquanlogan5813
@daquanlogan5813 3 месяца назад
😂😅😅 you know it hit home when proper articulation goes out the window lol
@courtneybrown1209
@courtneybrown1209 3 месяца назад
Wilful ignorance 🙄? So if he didn't check or asked its his fault smh.
@LzBaow
@LzBaow 3 месяца назад
And if he checks behind her, it's a problem cause "he don't trust her". Damned if u do, damned if u don't🤷🏾‍♂️
@NorbertoIoan
@NorbertoIoan 15 дней назад
A judge would flip. That's stealing 100%. A judge would divide 50/50. Her account included...
@HK-th1sw
@HK-th1sw 3 месяца назад
The white refrigerator arguement is INSANE 😂
@kemodon7926
@kemodon7926 3 месяца назад
I don’t know how they can advocate for her in anyway
@hawhite2000
@hawhite2000 2 месяца назад
Taking things without permission is stealing.
@say_HoN_
@say_HoN_ 3 месяца назад
A lot of ‘if’s to justify someone stealing from the household. 🤦‍♂️ The fact that those who justified it questions if they would do the same thing. Scarcity mindsets.
@kevinaskew7758
@kevinaskew7758 3 месяца назад
The kicker, is that she wasn't willing to use for them both. She flat out refused to even share it.
@johnrobbins3087
@johnrobbins3087 3 месяца назад
I’m with Rico on the Lady Stealing money from her Husband..
@KiaTy91
@KiaTy91 3 месяца назад
As a woman that ended up battered, I wish I would have taken my family’s advice. He was a good guy up until we had kids. Beat me in front of the kids, and I lost them because I ended up being isolated and alienated from my family. Saying not to hope for the best, but be wary and plan for the worst then is how women/men and children end up dead.
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 3 месяца назад
It sounds like you were dealing with a narcissist. Sorry for your situation but women who haven’t even experienced scenarios such as yours use it as excuses to justify ruining their relationships with good men just like in the story. This man didn’t deserve to have his trust betrayed. He did everything right and he was still made to feel wrong. Where are all the good men…? They don’t want to be in relationships because of stories like these. Peace and blessings.
@KiaTy91
@KiaTy91 2 месяца назад
@@kirbyaugustine761 An emergency fund vs escape fund, yea the ladder definitely sounds sinister. However, knowing the statics of children that have witnessed DV and how the probability of them being involved in it again later in life. Is the exact reason I will teach my daughter AND son the importance of an emergency fund. To each their own though.
@user-ej7xe8sr2o
@user-ej7xe8sr2o 3 месяца назад
For One, us as men need to get out this mindset my woman or wife don’t need to work bullshit. No a woman needs to be working just like the boyfriend or husband point blank period! And last a woman needs to be independent coming and going out of relationship. This shit is crazy the world still operates like this!
@eshyne1
@eshyne1 3 месяца назад
Listening to these women makes me not want to be in a relationship smh
@slimerone
@slimerone 3 месяца назад
she is straight up stealing - she was not working he was working. its not her money. leave that bird immediately
@Big-Spoon360
@Big-Spoon360 3 месяца назад
It’s like he’s the business owner and She is the manager. He trust her to make the deposits for the business. She takin money from the deposits and putting it in her personal account. When the owner finds out. The manager says. I was taking money for myself because. You can fire me at any time. So I was making sure I had money for if you fire me.
@jakemccoy15
@jakemccoy15 14 дней назад
That’s so shady!! The fact it’s even called an escape account in itself is all you need to know! 🤦‍♂️
@LaVonWatts
@LaVonWatts 3 месяца назад
It is financial infidelity, point blank. Your productive, growing household should have a budget of some sort and neither party should move money or spend out of budget because that will stress the group. "No one is better than the group" I'd even go as far as saying if you're spending on things or even want things in a marriage that is out of the way is the same. Putting unnecessary stress on the relationship because you feel less than, afraid, or you want something. Count blessings instead of acting on fear.
@kiwanbyrd5640
@kiwanbyrd5640 3 месяца назад
Her bitter as momma gave her bad advice from very start
@lazyeclipse00
@lazyeclipse00 3 месяца назад
His health was suffering, she took years off his life. That is abuse and it’s weird that it’s not looked at that way. It’s also financial infidelity
@blackfootchata86
@blackfootchata86 3 месяца назад
It's sad to see how these women try to campaign with the women actions. If they were the one in that man shoes they would feel differently. It's absolutel complete divorce time, it's nooo way I'm not leaving right got damn now
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 3 месяца назад
They dont see men as human beings, they see men as tools like a disposable hammer.
@darrineaddy2408
@darrineaddy2408 3 месяца назад
That’s not willful ignorance. If I have to go check then that means I don’t trust you so why are we married 14:35
@daquanlogan5813
@daquanlogan5813 3 месяца назад
It wasn’t stealing until she chose not to it disclose it
@Charvez
@Charvez 3 месяца назад
The woman with the green glasses think is missing the point. Nobody is saying you can't have your own or not to take care of yourself. She should not have taken from their finances without the husband knowing... that's the only point she was clearly wrong for 8 years smfh how is this even an argument?
@rafeeqturner1458
@rafeeqturner1458 19 дней назад
Shout out to women that see this as theft and aren't cowards, making selfish excuses for this dishonorable woman's actions
@corneliusking7475
@corneliusking7475 3 месяца назад
I’m waiting for someone ask how much money did she need for her escape plan??? She continued to take… bro that’s stealing.
@freddysamuel7680
@freddysamuel7680 2 месяца назад
That's found on her part, no one should ever get married thinking on divorce that was really the problem. She had divorce on her mind Luke 80% of women today.
@ericperry72
@ericperry72 2 месяца назад
Men remember we are all just health issue or accident away from our wives ready to "escape" from the marriage. Which proves a lot of these women dont understand their wedding vows
@aliblessem
@aliblessem Месяц назад
Taking advantage of your spouse is unacceptable. I know a woman who worked ($90,000 annually), had a live-in nanny for one child, and still stole money for 10 years. Her husband paid for practically everything as well.
@beachboilos8096
@beachboilos8096 3 месяца назад
This is just nasty work. Trust was broken from the beginning and it became betrayal once she started directing money to a separate account unbeknownst to the husband. There’s no defense for this.
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 3 месяца назад
Facts.
@keith647
@keith647 3 месяца назад
Crazy, how can you not see it as stealing?
@courtneybrown1209
@courtneybrown1209 3 месяца назад
But I'm sure if a man uses that same logic to a woman in another situation its being called deceitful or just lying
@313gonzoify
@313gonzoify 3 месяца назад
I am a GEMINI I can understand this a little bit. People are controlling, Gabrille Union said she was the bread winner in relationships and she did what and who she wanted. Men who wives don't work probably leave for younger women on more occasions leaving their wife with nothing but memories. A hard conversation on the money could have been had but I think marriages should have 3 accounts, 1 joint account for bills. How can I buy you a gift and surprise you when you see the money gone?
@lionelthedealswarlock1124
@lionelthedealswarlock1124 3 месяца назад
@@313gonzoify Since you want to post this multiple time here is a reply from @wi77iama773n: Not to be disrespectful, but your comment makes no sense, lacks accountability and have alot of assumptions with no facts to back it up. What does you being a gemini have to do with this? Also you said "They PROBABLY leave for younger women". That's making an assumption and reaching. She is stealing. If she needed allowance then this is something she could've brought up from the jump
@heirbornelite
@heirbornelite 3 месяца назад
So if a man cheats and his wife didnt ask him about it or check his phone she was being willfully ignorant?
@forthesolidones2350
@forthesolidones2350 21 день назад
Exactly why THE MOM should’ve MINDED HER BUSINESS
@workouthw
@workouthw 3 месяца назад
It's stealing. She was dishonest.
@dlbrown8668
@dlbrown8668 2 месяца назад
This is a very important conversation. In my opinion a “rainy day fund” is for the family. An “escape fund” is for an individual to leave. She didn’t agree with her husband to remove money, while still spending money to attend to her personal needs. Bottom line she stole.
@ExtraordinaryE901
@ExtraordinaryE901 3 месяца назад
Sometimes you can skip the debate and trying to understand the morals and just ask “what would a divorce attorney say?” The $47k is stealing and that man is entitled to half of not all. End of story
@CYR1977
@CYR1977 3 месяца назад
Rico need to fly out the coop from these birds.
@londinslife4101
@londinslife4101 3 месяца назад
SHES STEALING . Period . And trying to justify it is insane
@jusgrod2114
@jusgrod2114 3 месяца назад
Did she make him a exit fund 😂
@jeronwilson6286
@jeronwilson6286 2 месяца назад
The fact they tryna justify it is crazy
@kiwanbyrd5640
@kiwanbyrd5640 3 месяца назад
Wow! They really are justifying the woman behavior WTF is willful ignorance??
@LeesaLilHop
@LeesaLilHop 2 месяца назад
As a married woman, i would never hide money. We are a team and we accomplish amazing things together.
@denisebycapricorn
@denisebycapricorn 3 месяца назад
14:30 He's supposed to work 11 plus hours and manage the household. Wtf is she there for?
@kirbyaugustine761
@kirbyaugustine761 3 месяца назад
Co-sign.
@jaiazandapher
@jaiazandapher 2 месяца назад
Wife or not, she was stealing from the household.
@Dimelobee
@Dimelobee 3 месяца назад
Family makes the home not material things
@BoBoAnderson4052
@BoBoAnderson4052 3 месяца назад
Never intertwine your finances & you won’t have these problems
@ikke2757
@ikke2757 29 дней назад
It's absolutely stealing! I am soooo glad these shows exist because it shows EXACTLY how women are! The fact that the women on this show see no problem with this, should be a lesson to EVERY man; NEVER, NEVER, EVER, trust ANY woman! Especially Amanda's true colors came to the light! The fact that she was able to do this for years without telling him, shows how devious and untrustworthy she is! Can you imagine you business partner do this to you!?
@muzic533
@muzic533 2 месяца назад
This is why brothers are leaving
@DSavageGentleman
@DSavageGentleman 3 месяца назад
The woman’s logic is that it’s his fault that he trusted his wife to think she wouldn’t shave money off the top of his income. He should have checked and not trusted his wife??? His wife is disgusting point blank period she watched her husband kill himself working when she was in a position to help
@christopherlewis2194
@christopherlewis2194 3 месяца назад
THESE OUR QUEANZ THO SMFH
@DadtotheMax7
@DadtotheMax7 Месяц назад
Whoever says this isn’t stealing, just reverse it! You wouldn’t like it, PERIOD! If it isn’t stealing why he had to find out about it?
@jennifere6628
@jennifere6628 20 дней назад
The fact of the matter is that she did not feel safe, seen, or supported in that relationship. There is no winner here. Sounds like he’s proving well but isn’t effectively protecting her to the point that she won’t be thinking about life outside of a husband.
@chantal4342
@chantal4342 3 месяца назад
This is why being a SAHP/SAHW will never make financial sense to me. It puts the wife (or partner) in a vulnerable spot that leads to this type of behavior when things go wrong. Ultimately, the couple in question should’ve had a conversation about how they were going to handle money.
@swissgenius7587
@swissgenius7587 3 месяца назад
This beyond stealing this level of deception is damn near biblical
@tobymo32
@tobymo32 3 месяца назад
Fellas, pay attention. They don’t care about you. You only here to be used and discarded.
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