DO ALL TRANS TEENS THINK THE SAME (TRANS GUY REACTS) | NOAHFINNCE 

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@Gen Moon the prices vary depending on the family

I don’t know who signed me up for it but I’m enjoying it so far. Way more questions than answers but still.

It is pretty exclusive in my experiences. Never really met another real life trans so

If ya do soon good luck 👍 😁😁

congrats !!! i wish you both the best 🫶🫶

I wish you good luck!! 🫶🏻

Good luck!

Good Luck! You can do it :)

Jimmy Hendrix

yes!! someone being gnc (gender non-conforming) is so attractive to me. episode #1000 of "do I want to date them or do I want to be them"

Honestly, I'm not just looking for trans people. I'm looking for a good person. As the guy in the video said. If the person is trans then that's fine. I honestly don't care, as long as they're a good person

@@Oliver-ef7lc i was thinking about that the other day and I understood something about me, maybe its the same for some other ppl: I'm attracted (mentally and physically) by what I want for myself, like an inspiration, by something that I have within me but im afraid to let it out; or by something feel is "missing" to me

Same! I wouldn't say that is impossible for me to date cis people again, but T4T is sooo good. I can sure affirm that I'd never date a cishet person, that's never happening. I define my attraction as "anyone who looks gay is hot"

ik this comment is 3weeks old, but i think a big part of that for us is having a partner who can understand better what goes through our heads. cis people will never fully understand what it’s like. so it’s nice to have an SO that does

studio.ru-vid.com/show-UC2ngIq9YI0c31pJ1YWLh69Qplaylists it kinda dose matter, the starting points of stuff- cause then we have made a way to avoid next/younger generation(s) to go through the same. It is and always has been, the mindset of us, the older generation(s) - We all sadly are put through 12 years of brainwashing system and sadly many even more years. That`s why homeschooling children by their own parents - becomes logic and a must. If we, as a mankind, want a real life change, then new generations must be raised up healthy and in one piece - that means = souls no longer mentally broken. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-lfLu1HTnKpo.html We must wake up from the 2 biggest illusions: - Buddishm and athesim - believing that we come again and again to live that same shit life _ glad to say , we don´t, - believing that nothing matters at all, and that wicked is good, because like i said before, nothing matters, no good no bad. - L _ B_G_D_Q_+ - believing, we can change our gender and still be in gender life - as we realize our correct gender didn`t change. Once reproductive tools are let to be cut off, the gender life is also over. Should i continue or was my points clear? The start of what? - the start of destroying our own health: - through smoking, - through drinking, - through willingly and through being deceived - going and cutting off body parts... - through sleeping around. Aren`t we all doing so, because we all hurting? About the confession from mr. Buzz - “the moon visit-er” Not all can carrie secrets to their grave. Some do confess before their time of death. May GOD have mercy to their souls, about that they even dared to deceive and lie to mankind in the 1st place. Truly, may GOD have mercy to their souls. there`s no such things as "gay and trans rights " - there`s only human rights. If you are anything else then a human being, you then have no rights at all. It is the harsh reality of life. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-icSoMwSbFOI.html They are humans, just like we are, and they are suffering both because of their health and the evil governments they live under. A human right is also to get back health: - through needful operations, like the young boy got (yes he lost his leg, but get his life) and as bible does say; it I better to lose a member of our bodies, then to end up losing our life. So, about what so called “trans and gays” suffer from? - what rights have they then lost, for they have choose to be “trans and gays”, not humans. - now let me repeat myself again: if we choose to be anything else then a HUMAN BEING (FEMALE OR MALE), we have then truly lost all human rights, because we shall no longer be humans, for we shall be then “trans and gays”. It is good news, that the young boy no longer suffers, but truly got the needful operation. But yea, a lot of them there suffer with different health problems. Sadly no matter the side of this world, we all live under the same evil governments (biblically; the evil spirits in high places). And the greediness' of us, the humans. And sadly, what they there suffer from now, soon we here, go through also: - different cancers from different poisons, - hunger and freezing, - homelessness, - slavery. Only one that truly can help and heal is GOD Himself. Therefore all of us, those who can help with money also and those who can´t (like me), lets pray, let`s send prayers to GOD through His only begotten son`s name, that all those without a health, shall have it again, those without home, shall have a home, those who hunger, shall have full stomachs, those who are cold, shall be warmed up. In JESUS name, let`s pray. There is no real reason to block our own oxygen. WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, created BY GOD, TO BREATH AIR/oxygen, through our mouths and noses. WE ARE NOT "USELESS EATERS" AND " JUST A BAKTER, THAT CAME TO BE". WE ARE HUMANS, THE CREATION BY GOD, AND HE MADE US ALL WONDERFULLY AND PERFECTLY. it is the old prideful angel, named lucifer, who comes and share lies. BELIEVE HIM NOT!. Have courage, dear soul, have courage to say to lucifer, GET BEHIND ME satan AND NEVER DARE TO TEMPT ME AGAIN. We all catch the flu EVERY YEAR, it is a normal thing, our GOD given immune system MUST BE WORKING 24/7 365. Even though i noticed back 2010 that being sick is cool and okay and being healthy is something to feel shame for, there is still not a single excuse to stop breathing air. WE CAN´T KEEP BEING ALIVE WITHOUT HEALTH. And do say that "OH, WE ARE SCEARD OF DYING" - dear souls, WE ALL SURLY DIE. Romans 6:23 - For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Romans 3:23 - For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Ecclesiastes 12:7 - Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 - But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. (Read More...) John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 10:10 - The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. And, such a deadly virus, the whole human body must be covered up, not just nose and mouth, our skin breaths too. All of our faith is being tested, sadly many did fail and many will fail.

Awh !! I’m so glad it makes you feel like that

@@the_alien_1239 thank you so much !!

@@colineadesyeux I just finished the video and I feel the same, it feels so comforting to know that I’m not alone with all my struggles and just that it’s not just me that wakes up every day and feels dysphoric (even tho I wish no one would go through that), it’s just a comfort to know that I have people that are like me and feel some of the things I feel

@@the_alien_1239 I know right ! One of the worst part of all of this is being alone and feeling abandoned, and that's what anti trans people want us to think, but once you look around, there's actually plenty of people right there that went through the same doubts, struggles and difficulties. Once you are aware of it, it becomes easier, and I'm so glad we're able to realise it like this !

It’s really cool to hear a cis person’s experience! Thank you for sharing!

Holy Fuck that’s a long comment, but in all seriousness your experience is very interesting

That was actually really interesting thanks so much for that I never really thought about a cis persons perspective!!!

The way you describe this to me at least does sound like real instances of gender euphoria/dysphoria. In the end, they are how we feel about our bodies or how we (think we are) seen by others, just specifically geared towards gendered stuff (and not just weight, hair colour, a "silly" voice, things anyone may be self-conscious about).

Thanks for sharing this, it really helps me understand

I can totally relate. Except I don’t have a kid yet, but yeah I think people see my manly husband and assume I’m cishet. For a time though, I had short hair and was dressing more masc and I think people thought I was either a twinky guy or maybe a trans woman b/c I would get weird looks. You just can’t win.

it's hard because when you're a female or male presenting non-binary person, on one hand you really can't blame people for assuming, but on the other hand it's really hurtful and alienating

Oh man I'm also a parent and an afab enby. People absolutely take my gender less seriously because I'm a "mom". I feel your struggle. Hope you are well!

congratulations for coming out! :)

congrats man!

Thanks:)

congrats omg!!! i hope all is well for u

Haha that’s funny actually. Im trans myself and my chosen name is Leo.

This is exactly me and made me feel very seen, thanks 😊

No but what you are describing is literally gender dysphoria. Looking in the mirror and and feeling any level of distress because of a mismatch with the gendered traits you're seeing, is gender dysphoria. Cis women with small hips or boobs, or cis men with soft jaws or extra breast tissue can all feel gender dysphoria because their traits and gender identity are mismatched. The only thing is that most trans people experience this, while most cis people don't. Edit: forgot op is also talking about weight, which usually isn't tied to gender/gender dysphoria.

@@idasvenning3892 That is body dysmorphia. And one of the many reasons it’s hard for some trans individuals to be diagnosed with gender dysphoria. Some therapist think maybe the stereotypical bodies are making us have body dysmorphia and don’t believe that we have gender dysphoria and want to actually be a different gender.

@@idasvenning3892 i think the line between gender dysphoria and body dysphoria is very very blurry

@@nexxius4823 this is a very interesting topic. gender dysphoria is seen as this thing that trans people have that makes them different from cis people. but what is the difference between a cis woman being upset over having body hair, and a trans woman being upset about having body hair, other that the severity of the distress? if a cis woman goes on hormones after menopause because she feels too manly, what is the difference between her and a trans girl going on hormones to feel more feminine? ofc cis people will never understand the trans experience. but why do we only associate hating your body for not being fem/masc enough with trans people, when plenty of cis people feel this way? trans people shouldn’t have to be diagnosed with dysphoria to be valid or to have gender affirming surgeries. because cis people don’t have to be in order to get hormones, or have feminizing/masculinizing surgeries. cis men wouldn’t want a vagina and would dislike their body because of it. so how is that any different from a trans man not wanting a vagina? or a trans man not wanting breasts? idk. i think it’s a nuanced and interesting discussion. i don’t think it’s all black and white

I feel you. I’m non-binary, afab, but have experienced going through most of life being perceived as a woman. But yeah, to me your story sounds like being uncomfortable with sexism and stereotyping (which, understandable and relatable). For me, being non-binary doesn’t really have much to with the way people treat me, it’s all about how I view myself when no one is around. If we lived in a magical universe where everyone was treated equally, I’d still feel the same way about myself.

that's a very real experience and absolutely correct points, but you're a bit confused about how it relates to gender identity (it doesn't). this isn't what "gender euphoria" is about at all, and cis people definitely experience gender euphoria, they just wouldn't recognize it as such

@@buchelaruzit I understand that completely, the point I was more trying to make is that cis people do question our gender identities sometimes and that it’s not just black and white either you love being your assigned gender or you hate it does that make sense? It’s in a different context of course but I thought it was worth sharing

I can totally get behind this, I'm non-binary AMAB and I never like the idea of being grouped in with "the guys" because quite a lot of cis guys can make me uncomfortable and if I get grouped in with them I just feel kinda disconnected even before I knew I was enby cause you don't want to have to fit these preconceived notions of "oh you'll do this cause you're your gender." I suppose this is somewhat on the lines of sexism for you but it still feels tied in to the idea of gender with "just cause we're the same gender means we want to or should mingle". Like no we're individuals and maybe I just like hanging out with anyone who isn't a cis guys except of course in the case of my cis guy friends, those guys are cool.

You can also use the umbrella term "non-binary" if you want, it applies as well. Because you have Trans and under it you have Binary and Non-Binary and under Non-Binary there is Agender and a lot of other things too 😊

hey! i know it's not that simple to change things like anxiety and my one comment probably won't convince you to do anything, but if you're in a safe situation to do so i'd say definitely try coming out to some people, it can be just a few or even one person you're close to, and ask them to use your name and pronouns!! you deserve to be called the things you are :))

And sorry for the whole dang novel. I just don’t hear this discussed or recognized much. And maybe I’m just a complete weirdo. Lol. I do think I may have had a very different experience if I had come of age as a queer person in todays world. I didn’t have the words for so much of what I was feeling or even fully realize that what I reckoning with and figuring out was my gender identity. Because while I’m cis, it was very much a conscious and difficult thing at times for me.

That might have been a long comment but I appreciate it! Thanks for sharing your story, I do agree and I've seen people who just use lesbian or gay as a sort of gender label as the experience they've had is so tied into their sexuality. Gender identity, expression and sexuality might be separate but they overlap a lot for different people, I think it's with a lot more study.

Yeah me too dude

same bro

Congrats!!! :D

Im 11, only my 3 best friends can know my actual pronouns but it’s ok. Happy for you, man

im 12 and non binary and i keep trying to give hints to my family (i came out to one of my cousins a few days ago tho she was super supportive i love her so much) and i was afab and keep begging my parents to get me masculine and feminine clothing and a masculine hair cut (which they suprisingly said yes to the hair cut. my dad just said not too short?)

Same

Fr

same as a 13 year old :) using my dads acount

Aw man y’all are so lucky I’m 11 my parents would never let me and I feel like I hate my body so much because I look at myself and although in baggy clothes I look mostly like a boy I still see a little girl in there and even when I tell my parents like I was so happy someone said I was a boy today at school my parents are like oh no you give off girl vibes or well they just said that to be mean or something and I don’t think they get how I’m trying to come out any tips?

@@Dontclickonthischanneliquit well, it depends on your situation! If you know your parents are a ally of the LGBTQ+ community then its going to be easier (though it may take time to get used to pronouns and stuff, I know this from personal experience) but if they don’t accept LGBTQ+ or are not necessarily an ally then you might have to explain (I’ll give an example of how I told my not so accepting grandparents and you can do the same I did!), however if you are unsure if they are ally’s then ask on their opinion but try your best to not show signs of that more then you have been already! And what I did to help my grandparents understand (I took this from a RU-vid short I saw) is I said “if you, for example, if hypothetically your body was dying and your brain could survive! But it had to go into a female (or male) body.. but when you woke up you didn’t feel comfortable, like a man (or woman) still, you would try to do everything in your power to be, male (or female but I think you understand so I’ll stop saying it) again, and you would try to get hormones and surgery. To be male again. That’s what being trans is like (I think I’m gender neutral so I don’t really know) feeling like the right person in the wrong body!”

@@LeonJaden You cannot get hormone blockers in the UK.

@leon No, you have to be 16 to get HRT, but you can be prescribed hormone *blockers* at a younger age to prevent expression of puberty. Blockers are one of the most valuable tools for pre-pubescent trans folk and its a crying shame the system is so slow that many trans kids start to experience the effects of an unwanted puberty long before they can get blockers to give them the breathing room to be assessed, and to assess themselves, and work out if they want an androgenic or oestrogenic puberty.

That’s really interesting, thanks for sharing! I think it depends on the straight guy too. For example, my husband identifies as a straight guy and I’m non-binary. But he has never really liked it or been attracted to when I’m looking super femme with makeup and such (or really to anyone who is super femme). But when I’m looking pretty masc, he’s still attracted, moreso than when I’m wearing makeup for sure. I think even within the realm of “straight” there’s still preferences of masc or femme for sure.

Im a trans kid, my age is not even considered pre teen. That’s weird since I grew up really fast, being 1,65m and 52kg as an 11 year old is weird, people often think I’m 18 but when I tell them my age no one takes me seriously. I hate my life -_-

Oh !☹

Same i mean literally

i mean cavetown is trans and hes doing amazing

That’s so heartwarming 🥰

Idk sounds a lot like gender euphoria to me

Sameee, also for me it's like people seem to make afab non binary people a meme or "following a trend"

@@mcr_ratboi and at the same time amab non binary folks are treated like they don't exist or are predatory... kinda funny how society even shoves us into binary boxes when discriminating us ;-;

@@erdbar718 exactly, society just loves putting labels and stereotypes on everything

It's hard to grasp because it does not exist outside of your head. You are a human and a woman, with obviously your own unique identity that you may label in any way you want.

@@jbird4478 I get that but I'm not a woman buddy. Being a woman or a man would involve gender and my gender is not female. I do understand that people put me in the wrong box when seeing me ...but to give you an analogy... names. Everyone has a different name and you may see someone and think their name's Jessica and then they tell you their name is actually katharina. Would you just refer to them as Jessica regardless? No of course not. And gender and pronouns should be treated in a similar way imo.

its potentially bad for bone development if you dont have a dominant hormone (t or e) but if you exercise and look after yourself its majority of the time fine! and ur only on blockers without a dominant hormone for a few years

OR LIKE TESTOSTERONE OR WHATEVER IN SWEDEN WE CALL IT THAT YEAH BYE NOW

Yay!

@@ohyeahiexist1372 YES

That's great

What was the ad?

@@DanielShortKing i think it was the prager u one that was talking ab the dangers of putting kids on puberty blockers

I love that

Wow, just knowing that there is a older trans person out there it really gives me hope so, thank you for that❤

What?? That was weird why would they do that??

@@DanielShortKing i guess they preferred me being more of a ‘woman’ then a male. They always asked for nasty pics (ofc i never gave them) now i rlly don’t go into relationships ever and i trust like no one now because that asking for pictures stuff always has happened plus i lost rlly just feeling romantic and or sexual toward someone :,)

@@mysticveiIs ow that’s sad you shouldn’t have to deal with that. I’ve also had people try to kind of “force” me to identify as a woman (I’m a trans guy) it was weird

@@DanielShortKing fr also sucks when u can be gullible but i also knew that’s something i didn’t wanna be but i wouldn’t ever yell at them i’d just get scared or uncomfortable