Do I still want DREAM DRESSES from 5-9 YEARS AGO? 

Do eeeet :D

omg please make a video on that!! that'd be so cool! love your stuff

Aw sorry to hear that I would love to watch it if you re-filmed :)

Aaaa id love a dream dress video from you ♡

ooooh do it!!!!

I feel this exact same way about dressing in anything pastel and kawaii. I feel better now tho. Plus the thought of being a cool kawaii old lady makes me happy

I'm 41 and dress kawaii. People often confuse me for someone in their twenties, anyway but even if I looked my age I think it would still be ok to dress youthfully. Do what makes you feel good!

Iam 30 and do i stop np

I wore NOTHING BUT LOLITA for middle school and got terribly bullied, so I gave into fear and stopped for high school. I may have looked like everyone else in high school but that didn't make me friends, it didn't stop me from getting picked on all it did was make me depressed because I was wearing fashion that I didn't feel pretty in. I didn't feel like my true self therefore I couldn't BE my true self. When I got married at 19 my husband came across Lolita fashion and bought me a dress. This made me confess to him that I used to wear this fashion ALL the time and that I missed it. SO I BOUIGHT LOLITA AGAIN. I'm 31 years old today as I write this, I have a 10 year old daughter, I'm a teacher and I have been wearing lolita fashion ATLEAST 4 TIMES A WEEK even to the grocery store, walking the dog, parent meet ups ect. I get weird looks, some ppl don't want to be near me but MOST PEOPLE LOVE THAT I LOOK PRETTY. 90% of the time I'm complemented and maybe asked why I'm wearing a wig or a "fancy outfit" I have had a few close friends confess to me that my being "dressed up" makes them feel terrible about themselves and their own appearance. Basically that sums up the whole being scared to wear a fashion that you love because you are aging. I struggled with this a few years back when I wore nothing but Sweet Lolita I am 4 foot 11 and because of health issues I look like Tinkerbell. When I wear Sweet I look like my daughters sister and can get the free meals from the kiddy menu. This bothered me ALOT in 2019. I hit a low point I felt like I was failing my daughter by wearing Sweet everywhere and being mistaking for a child. But I LOVED WEARING PINK. So once again I stopped wearing something to please another and once again I fell into depression. Long story short I had to deal with being a mom and wearing the fashion and I did. It took my daughter asking me to twin Sweet Lolita with her to an art gallery to realize I was being STUPID. I love wearing Sweet, my kid doesn't care if I do, my husband loves me no matter what I wear so why was I so concerned about what people outside of my close knit group felt? Wear what makes you feel happy in. (As long as you wear something!) in the end your mental health is more important than other peoples thoughts of you. Also, I bet you look amazing in your coords.

Honestly, I see lolita working for any age! Like even a grandma would look perfectly fine in it.

It's validating to hear I'm not alone in this haha I've been told by people who missed the tumblr lolita fashion days to "just get over it" or "it's not a big deal" but it's tough to separate those image associations!

I'm not super into lolita fashion lol. If it's ok to ask, what happened?

@@sweatyskeleton7390 sissies mostly. 😶

@@pinkyinkybubbles6487 wait what?? Like the fetish?

@@kitty..f yeah the fetish

You are never too old for lolita! I'm in my mid 40s and only got into it when i took a month long work trip to Japan 2 yrs ago! :)

That’s awesome!! I would LOVE to become a print design for Lolita dresses

This episode inspired me to design my own print while I watch it c:

I feel this 😢💔

i feel you

same 😭😭😭😭

Yall should learn how to sew :3 ♡

@@cozymoggele sewing my own sets doesn't fully slate the hunger for professional ones :'3 i can spend a few hundred dollars on material and time, and it still won't look like the highly detailed Princess Chronicles sets I long for. It's definitely the main way I can participate in the fashion, but that doesn't mean it' s a 1 to 1 replacement for ready-to-buy stuff ♥️

I'm so grateful for your support! I have lots of videos planned!

@@LovelyLor you forever have my support! you’ve had it for years. you live up to your name. can’t wait to see everything you have in store for us. 💕🥰

A beginner here same girl same

Same here, I was a teenie-weenie 14yr-old when I started searching for lacy/longer skirts and found lolita.. But the cupcake shape never really tugged on my heartstrings... There are definitely some darker or Victorian-ish lolita pieces I would wear proudly but I'm definitely not lolita myself.. Still, I like Lor and people who talk passionately about their interests, that's why I keep coming back xD

I appreciate your support and educating yourself about lolita fashion regardless! It's really nice to hear and also helpful for the community for more people to understand it even if you don't choose to wear it! I am so thankful for watching my videos and supporting the lolita comm with a willingness to learn about it!

I am really grateful for your support and it helps for people outside the fashion to understand it too! It makes for a more accepting place for people who do wear lolita fashion! Thank you for being here, watching my videos and helping support lolita fashion by learning about it!

@@LovelyLor Oh I absolutely love it! I'm going to school to be a fashion historian and I've always viewed history as a puzzle, so it's super important for me to get all the pieces, and as we all know there's nothing like a primary source. Our clothes show us who we are, and I think even subcultures are going to be so important to understanding our world someday. Plus there's something just...so tangible about clothes. You feel a connection be it the piece is centuries old or just a few hours. There's something special about those divers and the work that goes into putting it all together.

i mostly wear pastel goth but sometimes i enjoy a little froofy poofy pink dress so i can kind of relate

hahahahaha thank you I didn't get it cus brainfog XD

I was like, "crawfish? Shrimping?" 😅 Oof.

My brain went to shrimp then shrimp d*c*

i went on tumblr to look for shrimp ... it was just yummy recipes and cute fanart I'm scared now

Wow! That’s so kind!

I hear you - I'm disabled with a fixed income too. Man, I'd kill for some of this stuff...but price is the least of my worries with a lot of it. :(

Oh yeah, the second hand market in lolita is absolutely a key part of the community, nothing would be the same without it.

sooo gorgeous! and the little alice in the bottle! im obsessed

same lol it took me so long to realize loll

I feel this. Me exactly 💔

I absolutely hear you, it's like, with a shape like mine it's good luck finding anything even CLOSE to my size.

I wear lolita and I have a ton of Pintrest boards too lol!!

Ooooh these are all gorgeous

Yes, me too. It's so beautiful. 😭

Oh my gosh thank you for watching my old videos! It seriously really helps! I'm so thankful for all your support!

No problem! Your responding to my comment just made my day a second time!

She's going to re-release it for the final time soon. So be saving 😘

I've been looking for that dress for so long as well, and a few years back I actually found it but back then our countrie's teeny-tiny lolita community completely dissolved and I didn't want to pay a significant amount of money for a dress I wouldn't have any event to wear to...needless to say I deeply regret not buying it :'D

I still want the Milky Planet skirt in Yellow, I almost bought it once but another expense came up. It’s one of the only yellow things I want.😩

I'm so glad I saw this comment, I've been trying to remember the name of that print!! Those super sweet candy prints are my weakness