My SECRET Lolita Wardrobe Tour 

Joining in on the "got sick in December and missed out on Christmas coords" gang 😭 January is my favourite time, I adore wardrobe videos especially, blog posts just don't do it for me

after at least a decade of following lolita fashion (and you, lor!) ive finally bought my first two main pieces. the main reasons that kept me from getting pieces are varied (financial situation, confidence, already having too many budget-intensive hobbies, gender, body size and the want to only shop sustainably, locally or ethically produced clothing). thank you for always being a positive but honest force in the larger community! i cant wait to wear my cool new clothing

from the comments I understand that it's Soufflé Song she can't talk about negatively, but what are the unethical business practices they have been accused of?

hey lor! my name is Elizabeth and i am an 11 year old lolita from the uk, i just would like to say thank you for making content like this, its really boosts my confidence to go out in lolita and wear it more often. Thank you lor! keep up the great lolita vids

Actually, after about 7-8 years of following and lurking in the lolita and ouji fashion communities (and you, of course!), I have finally bought my first main piece! I was lucky enough to find a dream print that was still available for preorder, and I even was lucky enough to get some of the matching headpieces and accessories

Hope you're feeling better soon! My partner and I love your content, & we're sorry for all the year-end trouble! Please take care of yourself Lor, we'll be here when you're back to 100%!

This year I wanna do a reverse and actually get less dresses. What i mean is specifically writing hard to obtain pieces that I really really want and not just buy things impulsively. This can also help me cater to my personal style more accurately. i noticed that i now struggle with coording the pieces that i impulsively purchased. I hope my other fellow lolitas out there can achieve whatever goals you set for this year 🙌

That red dress you wanted to style for Christmas could make a really cute Valentine's day look!

I love the idea of Lor’s non Lolita friends coming over and seeing her pastel closet, when downstairs it’s like Lor’s alternate gothy persona hehehe 🤭

Happy New 🎉Year everyone!

So many of the dresses in this wardrobe are so beautiful!

EYYY it's always a lovely day when lovely lor posts!!

Love the video, I hope you get to feeling better soon!

Love your channel 🖤💯. I hope you feel better soon.

Omgggggg I was waiting this wardrobe tour since so many times !!

Hope January is better Lor! Wishing you a full recovery soon!!

Happy new year lor! Its funny that you think wardrobe tours are boring bc I LOVE them haha

Happy New Year, Lor! I hope that you are feeling better, and that January goes a lot smoother than December. I've been watching your videos since I first joined the fashion a few years ago. Your advice on versatility us always in the back of my mind when I buy things for my lolita wardrobe, so thank you ❤ (Also, I love both your sweet and Gothic wardrobe. Its so inspiring)

I haven't tuned in in a while, but I hope you feel better soon! Happy new year, everyone! 🎉

I wish you a better month and a better year!

I’m glad you’re back and I love all your gothic lolita dresses. I’m working on my gothic Lolita wardrobe. I all ready have 2 dresses and 2 dresses I could style in a Lolita way but still a couple more dresses I would love to get. Im still working on getting black velvet dress and a long black dress.

Happy new year!! Can't wait to see what you make this year, Lor 🥺💕

Happy new year, Lor!! Thank you for what you do! I’ve been a longtime fan of lolita fashion since falling in love with the aesthetics of singer Kanon Wakeshima in 2015, but I was only financially able to start getting serious about it the start of last year 2022! And it’s all thanks to you and many other lolitatubers that I was able to research it so thoroughly and have such a fantastic start. This year I hope to wear lolita more confidently and publicly, as well as get a bit more involved with the community and develop my coordinate-making skills better. I hope that you and everybody else have a great 2023! 🖤✨

Happy New Year!!!!

I’m trying to get my first coord before I go to college this fall!!My college actually has a small Lolita community and I’m really excited.

Happy New Year! I got sick with the same thing in December of 2021 and a out-of-season tornado hit my area at the same time. Knocked the power out at my house for four days. Getting hit with that coupled with a natural disater was something else. That sucks that you got sick, but I hope you are feeling better now. This past year has been really rough for me, but I'm hoping the next one will be better. One of my goals this year is to finally take the leap and actually wear lolita. I've done one attempt many years ago, but I've been mostly orbitting the fashion for over a decade.

Happy New Year!! That's sad to hear about Soufflé Song. Right now I'm trying to focus on shoes and blouses in my personal wardrobe. Before getting more serious into fairy kei, I would tend to get sheer blouses, but now I'm trying to get more pastel opaque blouses. I also need to add bags to my priority list.

I'm working hard on diys for coords- I'm planning on dyeing one of my dresses, I've got a neck ruff in the works for a clown coord, things like that are what I'm really focused on this year!

I watched your videos awhile back, never thinking i would get into the fashion. Now here I am with my first jsk on the way lol!!

Always loved that orange clown dress. It's in my wardrobe too! One of my favorites.

Happy New Year everyone plus I’m so happy to have been a fan of your content for a long time it been helping me get better in dressing in lolita coords ,Let’s hope this year is better also your videos have made me gain confidence and happiness ♥️🦇☺️ I recently got some Vintage hats that I got as Christmas gifts that I might use for Lolita coords . I do dress in whatever I like too but I hope you feel better soon and sending you support and love and hugs ❤😊🦇

Happy new year! ✨ I will have to work on my sweet lolita wordrobe this year becaus most pieces I got 5-3 years ago sadly don't fit me anymore but I'm having a hard time letting them go. 😢Hopefully I can rebuild the sweet part of my wardrobe after that bc I enjoy both sweet and gothic lolita. 🎠

Love the blue hair💙

I really want to focus on getting more accessory colors into my wardrobe this year. I also need to finish rounding out my shoe colors!

Happy New Year! Right now I'm slowly getting out of lolita and more into otome, vintage styles, and dolly kei. I still use some of my pieces but one of them ended up in a thrift store giveaway bag. So someone will get a taobao classic lolita jsk with cherubs on it lol

Happy New Year Lor ⭐🌟✨⭐🌟✨⭐🌟✨

Hugs for you! I enjoy your work so much, I'm sorry December was such a crap sandwich, and I hope that this year treats you well!

Poor out-of-breath Lor. I, too, got the HOPPITS in 2022, ironically after leaving my job in retail where I was exposed to the public on a near-daily basis. Sadly, I haven't been able to purchase any Lolita pieces since 2021. But when I can, my focus will be on staple pieces like blouses and shoes so I can have more variety in coordinating the few dress I own.

Happy New Year 🎊 I’m on a quest for two pieces, Angelic Pretty Happy Garden in Sax the lower waisted cut, and Fairy Butterfly Alice and the Pirates, I’m also missing the skirt for fantastic wind magical detective but that’s not a huge problem.

Thank you for sharing.

I’m definitely looking for more accessories and a staple white blouse. But I’m focused on gothic Lolita right now. I do like sweet too though

At this point in time im mostly working on collecting a variety of accessories in (shudders) lavender. Im getting my first purple dress and its quite the challenge

the dress at 9:25!!! it looks just the the samantha american girl doll og meet dress!! I wish u remembered where u got it lol

This year I desperately need to get new shoes and petticoat. My mom, positive vibes to her, made my first one. It was lovely, but I've had it since middle school so now it's flatter than a pancake. What I'm debating on getting is old-school-style main pieces in black, pink, and maybe sax blue because they're more casual, versatile, and generally paired with minimal accessories, which would be good for college. If anyone has any recommendations as to where I could get JSKs of that sort, that would be appreciated.

your audio sounds great!!

yes i missed your videos!

I’ve been following lolita for over ten years and just started collecting pieces this year. I got a bunch of basics, shoes, three dresses, a petticoat, blouses, but I haven’t worn a complete coord yet. I do have everything to put one together though. I am just figuring out what I want my next move to be. I bought a lot all at once so I want to take a break from spending on lolita. I have been keeping an eye out for pieces on the secondhand market though, specifically there is a unicorn print from meta I like to look for even though I’m not ready to buy it yet. I love metas plus size options!

comfort is such a big thing for me as well haha- im trying to update my lolita neocities with all my new wardrobe pieces/a new wishlist, but in terms of the fashion itself, i'm eternally on the hunt for better legwear. It is, unfortunately a bit tricky finding more gothic-themed legwear at larger sizes (yidhra is SO close but some of their tights are just slightly too small on me) so I'm at a point where i'm thinking of getting some lace and just following some diy guides for socks

I'm really new to wearing the fashion and have 3 main pieces (2 classic, 1 gothic) and am trying to find blouses and accessories that fit that aren't just white. I tend to wear all white bar the main pieces because I'm nervous about using other colours

wow!! new years day dress :)

blue hair is you're colour! you suit it so well

I'm currently trying to round out my wardrobe with things like shoes & headwear. I'd like to style the pieces I acquired last year in different ways! I mainly go for sweet but i'm not trying to limit myself. My lolita wardrobe reflects my regular wardrobe - there's some burgundy, some black, & plenty of pastels.

I'm currently gathering (and making) items to accompany my very first lolita dress, Violet Fane's Ginza Kissaten in Matcha Green. :)

I lean towards classic. I've mostly been focusing on accessories, but I do have some dresses I'm on the look out for, of course. I wanted to get an ita bag in a design I liked, a few more shoes, jewelry, brooches, rosettes. I'm trying to keep myself away from buying more dresses unless I really, really like the print.

I’m working on plus size legwear!! It’s fucking awful and I hate just wearing plain color tights 🙃

Hey! Shadow high Heather making an appearance! wonder if Lor has anymore RH or SH dolls

Great video! Where is ur bear hat from??? Its adorable!!!

I’m new to Lolita so I don’t have many things, I’m only getting main pieces like blouse skirts or dresses

I'm working on my old school wardrobe (only have a few things that aren't old school). I'm broke with a capital B because of the energy crisis so I don't have money to spend right now but if I did I would buy more shoes. Gov has put a cap on energy prices starting this month so it will be easier to save for hobby related expenses. Somewhere this year I want to buy a new serger but the one I want is around 850eu so that's still a big blow to the wallet. I wish everyone a happy new year and I hope everything goes well for everyone.

My lolita goals for the coming year are as follows: 1) Either get more comfortable wearing wigs or find better ways to do my hair--I'm okay with it being either one, I'm just not happy with how my hair has been looking and I don't like it with coords. 2) Get my first brand piece, preferably an old school Meta piece. 3) Personally, I'd like to become more creative with incorporating lolita into my daily style and incorporating my personal style into lolita. I know some people have mixed feelings about whether you're "supposed" to do that, but I'm gonna. 4) Get my first pair of rocking horse shoes. 5) Attend at least a couple meetups (they all happen at least 2 to 5 hours away from where I live so it can be a little hard). 7) Get more bloomers (different lengths/colors). 8) Get a tea-length petticoat and a short, low-poof petticoat for different dresses/looks. 9) Red tartan. 10) Repair all the pieces in my wardrobe (lolita and otherwise) that need repair that I've been putting off.

I love watching these videos because I like to self insert myself and act like I have all these beautiful dresses 😭

Happy new year !! My current goal for my wardrobe is actually wearing it and not watch it from afar.

So sorry you've been suffering from the 'rona, and have had a rotten streak of electronic luck! I hope you have a full recovery!

How do you do the white eyelashes? I really like the aesthetic of colored lashes!

i stumbled on your channel a few weeks ago while looking for border print fabric recomendations and lolita fashion uses those so much that most of the results were lolita related. i mostly do history bounding of 1890 to 1900 and cottagecore. i started sewing my own clothes and one day i want to make a few lolita pieces to mix into my wardrobe 😁✨ my goal wardrobe is a mix of steampunk (focusing on 1890-1900), witch and happy go lucky cottagecore/goblincore girl? chaos but my flavour of chaos and i think parts of the lolita aesthetic could help me get there, like the trims and lace mixed with the belle epoque silluette and the earthy nature colours of the cottage/goblincore ?

currently working on getting blouses but i want ones that are colorful not black or white and thats proving a challenge

i also got sick on christmas like i was just in bed all day and it kinda sucks but oh well

I need more blouses for sure and I don't really have lolita outerwear like jackets etc just things that kinda fit.

I'm working on getting more accessories, especially monochromatic ones so they can have more versatility. I'm still exploring my personal style but it doesn't really fall into any of the three "main" categories so I have to be a little more creative about jewelry and headpieces

I am currently working on socks and accessories. I intend to start fixing damaged pieces.

I've really had to control myself with what pieces I buy. I have 1 dress and 3 jsks, and a handful of blouses, but I know I'm going to have to alter them all once I get top surgery, and I'm trying not to get anything else until afterwards so it'll just arrive fitting correctly. I totally could have had a full closet by now, but insurance is dragging their feet 😒

Where did you get the top you're wearing in the basement wardrobe segment? I love that whole coord!

Violet Fane baffles me as well but despite that I own 3 dresses and a skirt from them. I love their style I just...don't know how to describe it or catalogue it

Something that struck me about this video is that you don't mention cold weather appropriate pieces. What do you wear when it's cold? I usually need a long sleeved top + a sweater + a cardigan on top in order not to die =D

At the moment i really try to find dresses that give me "THE lolita" vibes. Like many taobao dresses are cute, but i don't want just cute dress but one that really feels like "yes this is lolita". Like AP but in cheaper lol

It's really hard not to support a brand if we don't know what it is or what they did. I'd give the dresses to the thrift store? I loved the audio quality in the beginning, and I hope you feel better soon!

Shame about soufflesong 😢 they have a really cute bunny print that I wanted

I don't know if the brand she's referring to is Soufflesong or not cause I recognize one of the blurred photos from their website. Which has me a little sad cause I like their brand but now I want to know cause if it is them I don't want to continue to support them if so. Also what's the unethical practices?

I have that striped Bodyline sailor dress and love it. It's well made, easy to take care of, and washes well! Great for Action Lolita!

Putting this here to edit later I like being early

What about planning some valentine coord with Miss Danger?

-+gitsforfits- Time 10:03 *The Violet FaneⓇ JSK "Puppet Maker," @LovelyLor, probably falls under Gothic Lolita due to doll body parts.* The Lady SlothⓇ JSK Time 10:34 probably falls under Classic Lolita.

I wish idodeclare would respond to the messages I've sent them in the last two weeks, I ordered from them early December and no updates from them on when it'd ship out, they've only publicly mentioned shipping out preorder items. ;(

Those Violet Fane dresses are definitely gothic 100%. Just because it's vintage themed, does that mean it's not gothic? No. I actually think a lot of what is gothic is vintage/antique. I mean if you look at gothic origin like in the old architecture not much can be more "vintage" then that. And antique dolls, oh man yes! Especially dismembered ones. lol Also gothic has a lot more colors than just black and dark red is so perfect.👌 Just like in classic styles, gothic can have many sub-styles of it's own if you want to sit around categorizing them.

How is the mannequin styled? Like it looks like it has a petticoat but not sure

"Audio source wouldn't fit in my basement" sounds like there's a giant microphone off camera

i missed out on christmas/winter coords mainly due to either work or the passing of one of my best friends. the timing was horrible because as im deeply mourning this really painful loss i have a bunch of lolita packages arriving😭

Right now I'm looking at more gothic things.

I’m sorry but is 9:29 an American Girl Samantha Parkington cosplay?

The puplet maker dress to me seams goth (pun not intended but I'm leaving it). Im not lolita but I am a full blown goth and all my goth friends love vintage mocob dolls (myself included, I plan on getting a doll leg tattoo). However, I dont know if that's just me and the friends I've made.

I would be happy about being closeted if said closet was like this

Umm hello no hey uhh hii im rlly new on this im 12 and just got my first lolita dress im asking if there is anyone that have bangs and is not good to handle new things like when something you normally do and that change but thw question was it hard to get bangs bc its such a big change soo……

the audio in this one sounds very strange and has something on the high-end that you may not be hearing either because of the illness or your headphones or both. i can't really think of how to describe it but it sounds like something on the high frequency range is clipping but the rest isn't? hopefully this helps with your audio mixing for future videos. I also noticed a lot of inhale on the audio in the basement clips, not sure why that got picked up by the mic so loudly. I think there may be a way to edit that out with a filter or you may just have to do more manual editing to cut it down.

I am super surprised to hear that my lolita dress has been redeemed. Can somebody tell me about their experiences with them?

So who is that company? I'd love to know. The one Lor can't talk about.

Lovely, do you wear a petticoat beneath Lolita dresses?

Is she talking about devil inspired?

Let's be honest. People need good info.

You do still have a secret! Your wigs!!! Show us, tell us I need to know

I wanna buy Lolita dresses, I live in USA New Jersey. Idk from where I can buy nice quality beautiful Lolita dresses that is not 100,200$ .