Does More Experience Make You a Better Lover? | Blindest Date X Solfa EP.3 

종교가 달라도 결혼가능한가?(상대방은 바꿀생각없음)

"종교가 있으세요?"

상대방의 겉모습이 기린으로 변해도 사랑할 수 있다 / 없다

낮져밤이 vs 낮이밤져 사형제도찬성 vs 사형제도반대 개고기찬성 vs 개고기반대 안락사찬성 vs 안락사반대 고양이 vs 강아지

돈이 억수로 많지만 나이든 시람 or 돈이 없지만 젊고 아름다운 잘생긴 사람

Masum. Tbh

얼굴도 엄청 이쁘신데 굉장히 바르게 앉으셔서 옆모습 볼 때 마다 앉은 자세도 이쁘다고 생각했는데 외국인 눈에도 그랬나보다

Fr. She is so elegant I can't.

I was honking the same thing 😭

Thinking* lmaoo

Daniella C same WAHAHAH

Same

Guys will always be down for pussy

I didn't get it so are they going for a second date or not???

zii neeb, no it's straight to the bedroom for these two

Your pfp is just... whew chile😍

Not her tho Girl be cute af n quite aware actually

Yeah, gotta be patient 👼🌻

JaneySims tf ? How can u say that based on some questions stu

What? How shallow. So you can’t be open minded? You need people to have yo exact same opinion as you or they’re not good enough? That’s laughable.

Too good for him? i’m sorry but no, they’re both good in their ways, just because his opinion isn’t the same it doesn’t mean that shes too good.

Nobodys too good he has his opinions and is right in his mindset.And also people don't understand this thing- Giving opinion and acting on them is a totally different thing i can also go there and say these ultimately pleasing things to impress somebody but in actual life scenario most of us fails. Lemme give a good example- One person is half dead in a street and if someone calls an ambulance then it will be too late only thing that can save him is if someone carry him/her in the car how many people will be ready to help ? I bet only a percentile of them. Same happened to my mom in real life she met with an accident and nobody tried to save her all gathered around and did shit nothing, then a military person passing by carried her to the hospital if it would've been late she would've died . Now make these people go into a show and ask them this question they'll say bla bla yea i would help her to get to the hospital so to hell with this, saying something and acting upon it is like fire and ice.

Well this might not even going to work once they date each other lol.

맞아요 두 분 모두 멋집니다ㅎㅎ 여성분도 본인이 비글미 라고하셨지만 속은 진중하고 깊으시다는게 느껴지네요~

그래도 남자가 최소한 생각은 하고 사는사람이네요. 사회적인 이슈에 대해서 최소한의 문제의식등등을 자기 주관대로 생각이 있는거 보면요. 학교에서 때리면 안된다 라는 부분에서 자기의 생각도 예를들어 설명할줄알고. (여기에서 남녀의 학교가치관을 보는 시각이 서로다르다는게 확 느껴지네요ㅎ 여자는 여자다운 시선이였고 남자는 남자다운 시선이였습니다.) 정말 놀줄만 아는 날라리들은 문제의식 따윈 없고 그냥저냥..생각없이 사는데. 솔직히 남자 잘생기고 잘놀게 생겨서 골빈사람인줄 알았는데 의외로 생각이 있어서 놀람..ㅎ

여자다운 시선은 어떤거고 , 남자다운 시선은 어떤건가요 ㄷㄷ 비꼬는게 아니라 정말 잘 모르겠어서

임건형 저도 진짜 공감해요 ㅠㅠ 거기에 또 공감이 달려 있구... 씁쓸하네요.... 또 예민한 사람 취급 당할까봐 가만히 있었는에 ㅠㅠ

그쵸 .. ; "남녀의 학교 가치관을 보는 시각이 서로 다르다는게 확 느껴지네요" 라는 문장도 잉 .. ? 그냥 A와 B가 생각이 다르구나지 왜 저기서 남녀가 나올까 싶었어요 저도 스스로 예민하다고 생각하진 않는 편인데 .. 남자 여자 투샷만보이면 남자는 저렇고 여자는 저렇구나~ 이게 좀..ㅋㅋ

요즘세상에 순결이 왜 필요하냐 경험이많으면 서로가 좋다

@@user-gq5ls8vd6q 이건 궤변일수밖에없는게 이성이 우선시되는 현대사회에서 무조건 본능을 끌고와 일치시키려는거아님 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 암튼 페미든 반페미든 공평하게 뇌를 잘라낸듯

순결이 참 신기하다 ^^ 가치관 차이인지는 몰라도 황금률에 어긋나는 가치관을 다수 포함하고있는 사상은 맞는듯 ㅎㅎ 지들이 순결을 원하면 지부터 순결하면 되지 뭐하러 쳐한데 그냥 마음맞으면 피임잘하는 조건으로 떽뜨한번 하면 되는거고 안맞으면 헤어지면 되는거고 참 그거가지고 ㅈㄹ하는 유튜브 한남이랑 문제의식이랑 설득을 할생각없이 불평만하는 넷페미나 공평하게 뇌가 잘린것같다

순결은 같이 중요하다. 다만 생물학적으로 남여의 차이는 인정해야된다. 차별이 아닌 차이. 남자일 수록 스스로에게 사랑하는 사람에대한 예의와 자격이 있는지? 무책임한 사생활이 과거라고 미래는 다르다는 믿음을 줄 수 있나. 자기합리화일뿐. 비록 순결하지 않더라도 순결한마음은 잃지않고 책임의 무거움을 가지는게 상대에 대한 믿음이고 예의고 스스로에 대한 자격이다.

여자와 남자 둘 다 순결하지 않아도 되고 혹은 둘 다 순결해도 되고 그런 걸로 이래라 저래라 페미ㅜ얘기 언급하면서 부들부들 거리지 말지 브탇이야

Katerina yeS that’s riGht

Exactly!

Katerina well even beautiful people struggle to find good partners

@Talha 😂 wtf not all

@Talha in a another video of this blind date there was a question about this and you should really see the girls reply 😂

그니까요 ㅋㅋ 여기 댓글 보면 완전 다 성인군자임 ㅋㅋ 어떤 가치관이라도 부정적으로 봄. 뭐 어떻게 살라는건지 그럼..

격공

공감합니다

공감해요!!

ㅇㅈ 성숙한 척 오짐 ㅋㅋㅋ 만나보면 연애고자들 많을거같은데

Ik And the guy was really choosing the things I didn't want him to choose like where he said teacher should hit students 🙄 BIGGGGGGGGGG TURNNNNNNNN OFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

Well she did say she wants someone opposite of her. And in those gray areas they were able to come to an agreement

I don’t think it’s just physical attraction. you can change someone’s views if you share your own and I feel like he was able to rethink his own answer after he heard her telling her thoughts on the given issue. I think they understood each other and could accept each other’s different views, that’s why they both chose O.

korea loves appearance so that’ll never happen lol but you have a good point

That's another rule here

wow, yes, that would have been interesting! I think this was the video I liked the most. I've been interested recently in Korean culture and I want to know how they think, but I know it's hard to judge from just a bunch of people. I was wondering if this could be scripted, could it be?

Hello there! :) Just out of curiosity, why would that be an interesting question?

I would like to know too ^^ He said it's okay for a teacher to slap a student if the student is being extreme. So the gender or the sex of the teacher or of the student wouldn't matter. If not, it would by hypocrite to say that.

It's just regardless not irregardless in the instance you stated. I also think it would be interesting to ask him about the abuse of that violence. I know Korean dramas don't always depict things realistically, but in certain instances I've seen teachers hit students imo undeservedly so and people acted like it was no big deal. Although I agree to physical punishment if the parents agree to it I would urge a contract to be made if it was my child so there would only be certain circumstances where it could happen and only with a call to me first if it can be helped. It would be interesting to hear his reply though.

my thoughts too lol they just decided to overlook the differences even tho some of them are pretty huge like the family vs work one, i feel like thats way more impactful on a relationship than how involved someone is in gender issues or other stuff, yet they decided to give it a go

yea full 180 wtf

Just how I would describe him XD

Don't be an extreme person, he talks about his thoughts and I think it is respectable

I shouldn’t laugh at this but... 🤭🤭

yep it's all good better than any korean criminal movie I watched lately and that unpredictable ending😉

shocking. Wow, in the west? I don't think that this is even a question...

In a sense of way, he's not. This is so common in nowadays in the west that kids r being spoiled too much and giving too much lean ways. Everything the teacher is to blame for nowadays even when the student isn't getting good grades. Sad changes to this society, just my opinion.

eyang7 A kid doesn’t learn from a punishment, you’re just teaching him to retaliate more. Be a good model and don’t punch the kid back and lecture him well. Kids are not bad or good, just simply amoral. Most of the time they don’t have a good guidance to take lessons from. Have some empathy, dude.

@@clarissacochon7584 have empathy? Haha this is y kids nowadays don't learn bc they think they can do whatever they want and thinking that they have the rights just bc they r kids and becomes bullies. They more u give them the easy way, they'll think they can do anything and get away with it. Guess u haven't seen enough of kids or people being bullied.

eyang7 Not hurting them physically doesn’t mean that you’re spoiling them *Face palm* You obviously don’t get my point. Bye man. Ain’t arguing with you anymore.

All answers?

@@mogroot5790 (imma keep it real for ya sista) generally, his answers were trash. I lost it when he said work is moe important than family, and putting yourself first instead of anyone. Like WTF. what happiness comes with empty success? Money, bitches, materials can only last for so long until you get sick of it and want real attachments and real people that loves you FOR REAL. Honestly this dude is really ehhhh. He was a good 8 but his ethics and morals made him a 5 LOL.

vi phan um tf, you ALWAYS put yourself before others

sunmibot I have a different opinion about that. If u care for someone that is. If that’s person’s a stranger of course imma put myself first. That’s all.

Agreed!

dowezee Its just for mature relation 🧐

Nope. That's very human.

dowezee It goes without saying that it was the reason she picked him in the first place..although i hope it’s gonna work !

Opinions changes.

"I picked him because he looked calm" lol who is she kidding, just admit you thought he's attractive

보수적인게 아니라 서구적인거지 멍청아

@@notthing4636 우와 똑똑하당

@@notthing4636 ???????

@@notthing4636 -찐-

not thing 와 개똑똑해 ㄷㄷ

알파쥬 ㅇㅈㅇㅈ 두분 만난다면 너무 잘어울릴 듯 ㅠㅠㅜ

결?이 비슷한 사람 인것같아요!!

이분은 계속보이시네ㅋㅋ

이미 여친있고 저분은 유튭동료라고하셨어요

That's how most women date nowadays anyway...

"extremely attractive" uhm that's a stretch

Art Lam to korean beauty standard

Attractive? Lol you'll find much beautiful men with much much more pure heart.

Pradyumna Dongare physically

i agree with this comment 100% . Thank you for saying this

aya shaff it’s an opinion afterall, everyone is allowed to agree or disagree but calling him a psycho or sick simply doesn’t make any sense. We know nothing about what he has experienced, we just saw a glimpse of conversation through a short video. Is stating an opinion deserve such resentment? :)

@@sooa2241 I agree with him about the punishment. I don't want to see students hitting teachers. I've seen too many incidents of students disrespecting teachers. Not that I wanna see teachers hitting students.

trueeee

I agree with you. It's really true that if you have nothing good to say just keep it by yourself. So sad that most people here are bashing him for his opinion that makes him look like a dangerous man which is not good. I hope people stop being judgmental, besides we really don't know who he really is.

그게 일방적 소개팅이 추구한 바지

그건 맞는데 그래도 그 주관을 강요하진 않았기 때문에 좋은 사람이라 생각되요

저도 남잔데 이 느낌 좀 받네요. 여자가 청순한 분위기에 의외로 개방적이시고 여러 입장 유연하게 공감하는 편인거 같고 남자는 좀 자기 틀이 확실한 분 같애요.

남자분 도인같음 절제력 지릴 듯 뭔가 멋있

IKR make it make sense

🏃🏻‍♀️

But there’s not girl has to be experienced he says just experience is not important

for reaaaal tho OML

and he doesn't want her to come to his house too, he is hiding something! lmao

Peachy Jam I don’t wanna sound weird but it was actually quite hot when he did that

SaraK IKR 😂😂

Peachy Jam yeah that was creepy

I caught that. He’s not the guy for her. He definitely has a dark side

"Yup that's me" is it just me or did I here the end of 'That's so Raven' theme song Lmao

옳은 말씀입니다

그게 그짓거리 하면서 본인들도 상처받음.

yea violence doesn't solve problems. There are other ways to handle the situation like sending him to higher authority and talking to the student face to face.

Its not really violence. Violence is hen you do it with a bad intent. When I was out of line or when I acted bad my dad and mom would give me a swat to set me in line. And that discipline made me who I am today. Love them and they love me and never once did I think that they didnʻt just because they slapped me

I don't think he supports hurting the students but just a temporary pain for discipline. I wouldn't support it but I get why.

Rapa Pu Paternalistic violence is still violence. The teacher or parent might think "this is the right thing to do" - but is it really? If they were calmer and more rational in the situation would they still be so willing to turn to violence? Self defense is a different issue but that was clearly not what the guy was talking about. As a teacher or a parent you should be the better person. Assault never justifies assault, and rage only starts a cycle of rage. A child who attacks others probably grew up in a household which normalized violence. But there's proven better ways to fix behaviour than to stoop to the same level as an immature child with a developing brain. That's why therapists exist.

Well I think you are misunderstanding. There’s a difference especially in Asian culture. He’s not talking about violence or abuse. He just means like a little spank to tell kids what you did was wrong like how parents do when their kid takes a cookie when they’re not suppose to. He’s not talking about just beating a kid....

Ikr?

hmm I think it`s really important that you know about Korean education system if you wanna understand what his purpose of that question. In Korean nowadays, offenses committed by juveniles rise a lot so many ppl bring up necessity of physical punishment. problem is that many teenagers already know they won`t go to jail even they rape someone or kill someone.

almost over 10 years ago, there are no student can swear teacher. if they did, everyone think they are really incorrigibleness garbage. and teacher can beat them to make them men.

@@piribuisaman2673 shit, that's messed up.

@@piribuisaman2673 I personnally think if you beat a kid for saying something rude or swearing at a teacher, yes they could become disiplined, but they could also be emotionally scarred if they're especially fragile people or if the beating is extreme. Also by beating children to displine them, you're indirectly implying to the child that its okay to beat other people, which it's not in any way (verbal, physical, etc.) to do such a thing in such a harsh, violent way to teach someone a lesson, at least in my opinion. By the way, I totally get the cultural aspect and I'm in no way arguing with you, I just want to continue the conversation.

뭐가 현답이야 저게 ㅋㅋㅋ 부모가 그거 알고 체벌 있는 학교 보냈다고 해서 정당화되는거냐? 맞는게 아이들이 맞는거지 부모가 쳐맞냐? 부모가 동의했으니 괜찮다고? 아이가 부모의 소유물이냐?

@@user-rc7du6up9m 이게 맞지 ㅋㅋ 뭔 현답이야 ㅋㅋ

사고방식 그냥 지적인 척하는데 전혀 아닌 사람임 ㅋㅋ

애초에 그런 교칙은 범법행위입니다. 체벌은 법으로 금지 되어있어요.

@@havewe6059 애초에 체벌이 법으로 금지되어야 하는 행위일까요? 체벌의 장점도 분명히 있는데

Most of Asian Girls Put Family First, born in Strict family I have seen my Korean , Chinese friends Even though M Indian, It felt Same at least in Mentality of Girls to Choose over life partner.

@@sasmalprasanjit2764 Actually nah its just that girls personality and most women in korea stands for feminism and dont think women should be the one who take care of household and most of them dont even want to get married korean girls are smart and well educated they dont want to stick in home and take care of their children and husband No offense to girls who likes to take care of household tho

Shawn San Nicolas or they liked the way they both think? if two individuals agreed on everything, the relationship would get boring, i think, they would be happy together because theyre both open minded but think in different ways, which means they could have fun discussions and see why they disagree with each other. but you’re right that they’re both attractive ^^

I think they don’t have a lot in common and by the way there faces looked when answering it didn’t see they had much chemistry

바나 They disagreed on some of the most important topics so they probably won't take each other seriously or at least they shouldn't.

i first place she chose him because she found him hot, the whole grounded thing was an excuse cuz how would she know? and you can clearly tell that his eyes lid up when he saw her, so yeah they were willing to compromise, they even admitted it when the other person was wearing headphones(its all because of the psychical attraction) cuz they clearly want to bang each other, but a relationship based only on psychical attraction wont work

And that's the type of thinking that makes it hard to have discussions in this day and age. None of their answers were related to bigotry or breach of human rights. Such minor but kind of life pivotal ideals. For example, the guy talking about "always look out for yourself" will learn as he grows up that that doesn't work at all and is not practical. That's like going on dates but separately at two different restaurants every single time because you're only caring about what you want. That's not a relationship. Disciplining students physically, they were already reaching an ideological middle ground and when we was explaining herself, you could see him going "oh yeah" in his mind. Etc. Nothing dramatic here really.

Agreed.

seconding this lmao, ty for your viewpoint.

Chris Lee 기획은 solfa님 일꺼에요 solfa님 채널가서 영상 많이 봐주세요 ㅎㅎ

남녀평등X 성평등O

@@user-vx3yc4lj2p 알려주셔서 감사합니다^^

@@haru-tc6th '남녀평등' 이란 용어가 구표현이긴하나 실무노동사전에도 나와있고 '성평등' 은 유엔산하 UNDP 에서 GDI 란 개념을 만들면서 나온 말입니다. 그러므로 틀린 표현이 아닙니다.

@@HAJAGU 남녀평등('남'성을 우선 명시) 성평등(모든 gender를 포괄함,명시적 선후성 또한 없음) 그래서 '성평등'이란 표현이 더 낫다는 이야기 아닐까요? 즉 틀린건 아니지만 질적으로 성평등이 더 나은 표현으로 생각하셔서 고쳐주신 의도로 해석됩니다

이거 빨리 업로드 해주세요 항상 잘보고있어요 ㅠㅠㅠ❤❤❤

몰랐네요 댓글이 없었다면 갑이 낸 질문인줄..

댓글을 안보시고 영상만 보시는 분들에게는 출연자분들이 낸 질문이라고 오해할수 있는 여지가 생길 수 있을거 같아서 영상에서 어느 타이밍에서든 알려주시는건 어떨까 의견 내봅니다~

영상에 자막을 다는게 어떨까 싶네요 댓글 다 보는 사람 많지 않을텐데 ㅎ

역시 페미 온스타일

결론 : 외모가 짱~

서로 다른 사람에게 자석과도 같이 끌리는게 아닐까요

ㄹㅇㅋㅋ

다르니까 더 재밋죠 ㅎㅎ

걍 두분 다 외모가 끌린 듯ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

She was to good for him? How?

Mogroo T watched this a while ago don’t rly remem but like she was genuinely sweet?? And didn’t wanna beat kids up - not saying he is terrible though

vivi kench Lmao facts

vivi kench pic oh, that’s what you meant then you shouldn’t have said he’s attractive you should’ve said he’s sweet cuz that made me get the wrong idea. like she looks too pretty even tho he’s still attractive LMAOO sorry

I wanna date her she’s so wise

김다정 깊이 있는 남자들도 많답니다~ 보통 유쾌해도 정직해서 여러 여자와 연결고리가 없을 뿐이죠. 여친과 오래 사귀죠.

즐거운하루 당연히 사람에 따라 다른건데 제가 남자 여자 구분해서 언급한 것이 잘못된 부분인 것 같아요 ㅠ! 지적해주셔서 감사합니다~!!

누구든지 확고한 신념은 있다 없어보여도

20중반부터는 연애관련한 것 뿐만 아니라 여러 가치관에 대해 확고한 생각이 없는 사람이 더 드물어요. 여자하고는 많이 얘기하고 지냈지만 남자랑은 진중한 얘기 잘 안 해보셨나보네요.

주위 남자들을 좀 돌아보셔야할듯

권혁 저도 느꼈던 점입니다! ㅋ

It's differences in culture. For instance, in most other countries, they think it's deplorable the amount of power police officers have over civilians in America. I personally agree that teachers should have the ability to punish children physically (not abuse) but that they should have training. Teachers in SE Asian countries are also held to a higher standard than the ones in America and the stakes are a lot higher (some teachers even get assaulted by parents) and can have their careers ended for doing deplorable things. In America, we have a shitty system where teachers are so hands-off that they lack any sort of empathy towards students and gain tenure and sit on their asses without actually imparting any life lessons on the students.

megamyou personally I just wouldn't want someone else hitting my son/daughter

Same I wouldn't want a stranger spanking MY OWN child. My child's MY responsibility they have no right to lay a finger on my daughter or son.

I definitely see what you're saying. I completely agree because I would teach my children to be respectful and good human beings. If anyone lays a finger on my child, who I know I raised correctly, I would be furious. However, if some other child were to assault my child, I would be furious that the teacher did nothing about the children that were not raised correctly and who need that type of discipline in the classroom. Especially if my kids were at school for 12+ hours a day as they typically are in SE Asian countries.

megamyou you should beat a kid or even hit them. It can cause emotional and mental truma, my friend gets scared and flinchs every time someone towards her in a fast motion or raises a hand near her since her parents hit her as a child for “discipline”. There is no benfits in hitting kids unless you think scaring and Traumatising them is a good thing

ok white boy

Orca Gang im not white though

my bad

Thats what I think too. He was judging her so hard. And even when she called herself an idiot he laughed like he agreed. He just wants a hookup

Daniel Ginting Agree, they had pretty different values so I was actually expecting them to switch Thier lights off

왜 관계를굳이 빼려고하는거임? ㅈㄴ노이해

성관계는 꼭 필요하더랍니다

관계도 연애의 일부 아닌가요 서로 좋아서 하는거고 서로 하고싶어서 한다면 아무문제 없다고 생각하는데 거기에 사랑이 들어있지 않다더라도 서로가 욕구를 충족한다는 부분에서 아무 문제없다고 생각 사람의 3대 욕구중 하나인 성욕을 아무렇지 않은걸로 표현하는것 자체가 모순 사랑없는 관계를 관계가 아니라고 생각 한다면 맛이 없는 식사는 식사가 아닌게 되고 제대로 자지않은 쪽잠은 잠이 아닌게 되는건가요? 그저 3대욕구중 하나일뿐이고 배고파서 밥먹는것 잠이와서 잠을 자는것과 다를것 하나없는 거라고 생각합니다

하 난 남자말이 너무 멋지던데 아직까진 한국에선 걸레소리 듣는 게 많더라

남친도 아닌데 아무나 막자고 그러면 걸레맞지. 우리가 말하는건 정상적인 연애에서의 섹스를 말하는거고 걸레는 말그대로 걸레지.

사람마다 보는 기준이 다르잖아요 ㅋㅋ

@김호인 이새낀 왤케 꼬였어

@@user-rr4dn7mx9l 자기소개 그만..

@Chimaek 이런데 나오면 한마디도 못할분... 남까는게 삶의 낙이자 전부인 그대(물론 인터넷에서 숨어서만)

해석 : 잘생기셔서 내 마음을 차분하게 만들 수 있게 생겼다.

How does almost everyone here have an EQ below 10? Until the last question was asked they were 100% going to say Yes

callmeateSobie sorry but going with someone who actually thinks that hitting students is a good thing ? There are limits. Not everybody can have the same opinion. But there are opinions that should just not be accepted such as thinking that hurting others is a good thing. If a guy says that he agreed with pedophilia, would you say « we all have different opinions and it’s less boring to go with someone with a different opinion »? 😂

@@sob9334 Let's see it this way. They go out, live their life ( let's not say they will break up.. Even though it's a total failure if the guy puts work before family as she puts family before work. She will never get his full attention and maybe the pressure on him will be to much.. Or she will want someone who is on the same side with family) but getting over it... They make it work in some way.. And they get married and have a child. Hop, there you go, another problem.. your kid comes home slapped.. Or hurt in any way the teacher wants. As she said family is important to her, and I doubt she will let her child be hurt by a stranger or agree with him to let her child be though that way. AS NO ONE SHOULD AGREE WITH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! Adult or not, child or not, women or men. No one should be hurt. Especially for a stupid reason as learning. Because if you hurt someone in order to learn instead of making him understand the beauty of it, then it is a stupid reason.

nothing wrong with going out to eat. if you can afford to do that frequently it's amazing

I dont think it particular is a problem...Considering im sure neither of them are teachers and dont plan to. They wouldn't really have to deal with that problem later... Opposites attract. You think you want someone that See's things like you but then you may be bored or get tired of them or blah blah whatever the case may be.

Chloe Lee lol. Same, girl. Same.

I totally get that 😂

Same 🙈

Wanna go on a blind date? :D

HELLO MY FRIEND! YOU'RE NOT ALONE

Word :)

To be honest, physical punishments are quite effective.

RY 82 And killing a murderer is quite effective compared to have him in a jail cell.

Drexpz are you comparing naughty students to murderers? Are you delusional?

@@ry8246 I agree that physical pinishment sometimes can be effective (obviously used occasionally and lightly) but that's a choice of the parents. And I think it's enough, i don't think it's necessary for teachers to have that power too. Can't parents teach their child how to behave in school? yes. And the cases of students who are that rebellious with their teachers are very few and a teacher can deal with it in many other ways without using violence. Plus try to imagine a teacher physically fighting with a teen in a classroom: quite educative uh?

진짜여자 진짜괜찮은듯

전 학생이 선생님께 욕설을 하고 뺨때리고 그랬다면 체벌이 가능하다고 봐요 선생님 인간이고 누군가에 부모님이고 누군가에 자녀이기때문에 마땅히 맞아야할것은 맞아야죠

선생님이 학생의 손바닥도 못때리는거임?

@@user-ur6pf4nw2b 요즘 못 때리자나요

@@user-wf5kf3tm2s 분명 선생님도 인간이지만 학생이 때렸다고하여 선생 당신도 똑같이 때리는건 그닥 좋지못한 교육방식이네요 체벌로 해결이가능할거라고 생각하는것 또한 구시대적 발상이죠..

저게 이쁘다고? 개 별론데.. 진심으로 발도 못생겼고 .. 걍 내스타일이 아닌건가 말하는것도그렇고

김2 니 여친보다 이쁠듯

시노자키 아이 닮음

와 맞네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

김2 개나대네

True but she prob has hope of changing his perspective on things and help him realize what he's missing out on

Hannah Luc He seems extremely stubborn and very into his own beliefs. I really don’t think she’s going to change him at all if that’s her plan lol

yeah, but she said she wanted someone different from her

mmaposer You didn’t respond to me, but I also doubted her a lot when she said “I hate phrases like ‘men should be like this’” when he asked what she sides on when she talks about that. Truthfully speaking, when girls are with their friends, they will always side with their own gender. And when guys are speaking amongst themselves, they always side with their own male gender too. I don’t believe she hates phrases like that. Every woman talks about guys and what they think they should do and so does every guy about women. It’s normal and it’s natural. She just wants to appeal to him so much that it’s obvious Edit: BUT not all women are chameleons thinking of only their “target” and creating a scheme in their head lol. that’s just maybe your warped opinion on your own experiences or on what you’ve seen in this video.

mmaposer lol no

Mate literally 95% of people think about themselves before others. He's being honest. It's rare to see people who legitimately think about others before themselves.

You'd rather have a simp lmao Not every guy is a perfect family man right away, how would you like it if I judged your maturity when you're still just a young adult? Come on bitch, you're not perfect either lmao the point is they liked each other enough to have an intelligent conversation. So stop telling people to run. Lol

she said she wants someone opposite of her 😆

Maybe it will. It's more fun if he's/she's opposite of u. U can experience things that u haven't before and get out of your comfort zone. It won't keep things bored so it's gonna be something new everyday

Lol, you're always popping out of nowhere, Woojong.

But i think that those 2 have very big opposing differences. The questions that were asked weren't easy to answer. He wasn't asking like what's her favourite color or food. Maybe the attraction would be enough to hold them together early on but in the end i think that those people are too different. He could've asked her better question to determine if they would get along very well.

She wants an opposite personality-wise, but they are more like opposite principal-wise.

Angello Castro the thing is, yes they didn’t agree on most things, but I think they both appreciated each other’s thinking and ability to express their ideas. I thought she would say X tho lol

Angello Castro that’s not true at all. Choosing different options won’t affect how much they like each other. It was fairly obvious that they really like each other but I’m sure that the last question almost changed her mind

Angello Castro right

WHAT?? no it wasnt. quite the opposite. 2 people who have an opinion? check. both attracted to each other physically? check. good level of eye contact, both clearly appreciated each others opinion. dude, you need to learn a lot and get more confidence if you think this was a train wreck.

S E X

Then learn korean

Ritzzz yes me too. I wonder what they say. I wanna learn Hangul

some of the comments are hilarious..one folk was like "they dont match each other at all, but in the end they just went for each other because of looks... just forget personality everyone " ahahha

@doomscyte 그쵸?! 저두 몰라요... ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Mizzanonymousx hey can u pls tell me the name of the girl in the vid or her instagram ? Ty

이아란 말 그대로져. 요즘 젠더이슈에 관심있는 남자 많이 없는 게 사실인데 젠더이슈에 관심도 많고 편견도 많이 없으신 분 같은데 요즘 보기 드물죠 저런 분.

@@user-jr2eg9sn4h 말그대로

이아란 그저 성비 말고 젠더이슈 해결을 위해서 노력하는 남자가 남성의 대다수가 되나요? 영상에서 저분은 젠더문제 해결을 위해 굉장히 노력하고 많이 공부한 걸로 보이는데, 주변 대다수 남성들은 그렇지 못하잖아요. 젠더이슈 기사에 댓글을 다는 성비만 높지 거기서 그 흔한 메갈타령 빼면 정상적인 댓글은 얼마나 남죠? 남자가 젠더이슈에 민감하고 남녀평등과 사회속에 만연한 여성 혐오에 대해 이야기 하면 너 메갈이야? 하면서 그 무리에서 이상하고 유별난 사람으로 낙인 찍고 있는 것이 지금 대한민국 남성들의 현실 아닌가요? 오로지 기사 댓글의 성비만으로는 이 영상에서 나오는 남성분과 같은 남자들이 대다수이다, 라고 이야기 할 순 없을 것 같네요.

동우 맞는말만 하시네요

@@user-so9ef8fp8g ㅇㄱㄹㅇ 반박불가

박채린 학생 체벌 해도 된다고 생각하는 사람이 멋있어요? 제정신아니시네..

@@papajones2418 남 가치관을 그렇게 함부로 단정짓는 행동의 잣대로 들이밀지 마세요 사람마다 가치관은 다양하고 그 사람들에 가치관과 신념을 통합하여 사회를 개척해 나갔죠.. 즉 사회도 사람에 일방적인 생각을 통해 세운 곳입니다.. 그래서 저는 그렇게 생각해요 누구에겐 저게 안좋은건지만 누구에겐 저것이 좋은것일 수 있다고.. 사람들은 항상 생각하죠.. 저건 이렇게 하면 안돼! 이건 이렇게 해도돼!! 라고.. 생각해보세요.. 그것이 과연 모두에게 이득이 될 수 있다고 생각하시나요? 항상 내가 무언가를 이루려하면 또 누군가는 그걸 통해 또 무언가를 잃죠.. 사람이란건 자신한테 속해있는 단체와 나 자신 즉 개인을 중심으로 움직이는게 인간이라고 생각하거든요.. 그래서 전 누가 맞다 틀리다라고 생각하기 싫구요

Andrew Kim 말안들으면 몇대 줘팰수도있지 ㅋㅋ

결승전은 섹스다

외모는 예선, 가치관은 본선, 섹스는 결승,,,시발,,, 소크라테스랑 플라톤이 여기있네

모

처음엔 외모 사랑을 하고난뒤는 전혀 안중요한거같음 사랑하는 사람은 세상에서 젤이쁜걸

Yeah he makes NO sense at all

Exactly! Physical punishment is a terrible way to teach a child. I was physically punished and that turned me into a rebel. When I was punished, all I could think about was how I wanted to hit them back and it filled me with negative emotions, hate, and anxiety. You want to peacefully make them understand what they did wrong, why it's wrong and what they can do about it. Beating them up won't help them focus on understanding those issues. If a kid is willing to slap a teacher and that teacher spanked them, the kid could just hit them back. There's already a ton of school shootings happening. You don't wanna anger a kid who is capable of slapping a teacher.

he scares me honestly

eh, i was physically punished and I turned out completely fine. There just has to be a line drawn on when it is too much

Amen. Finally someone said it

저도 서로 가치관은 딱히 안맞는데 외모적으로 마음에 들어서 마지막에 불을 켠것 같다고 생각했어요

원래 연애란게 타협입니다~~가치관이 딱맞는 그런 사람은 거의없죠 다르게 살아왔지만 서로의 가치관을 존중해주고 한발 양보하는게 연애 아니겠습니까

저도 그렇게 느꼈어욤 ㅋㅋㅋ

둘이 생각은 완전 반댄 것 같은데

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이쁘기도 하지만 자기중심이 잘 잡힌 분 같아요

얼굴도 생각도

이성경이랑 손..그 우리나라 체조선수 섞은 외모시네요 ㅋㅋ