Let this be a lesson, if anybody texts you "can I say something weird" you're about to hear the most diabolical thing you've ever heard in your entire lifetime.
And yet his ability to fill in the blanks is lacking at the same time - the hidden word was "mean" not "mama". No hate on Charlie, the juxtaposition is just hilarious to me lol
@@nurdytyrd3816what I don’t get is women will tell you all the time about how women built like Lizzo are just the most attractive things ever then when you call a girl Lizzo she gets upset
As a mom, if I’m giving away clothes for free to a stranger, I would not drive an hour away to meet them. That is a huge safety concern, especially this time of year. The amount of people that would happily lure someone just to do harm is insane now.
My big takeaway from that whole exchange was if this is how she treats strangers, imagine how she treats her own kids behind closed doors :( Hope they'll turn out ok
Even ignoring the stranger danger element, you shouldn’t do this anyway. If you’ve got things that are taking up space but aren’t needed then it’s a good idea to give them away to anyone who’s prepared to come and take them and in this scenario you have benefitted in some way. But to actually go out of your way to drive somewhere else and give them away is of no benefit when you then factor in the lost time and car fuel etc... there is no benefit, only detriment. The pushy lady was just being a typical me, me, me 2023 scumbag who thinks that they are the main character in a movie and everybody else is irrelevant. I mean, she even offered a whopping $10. Woo, ten bucks! Whoopdy f***ing doo! I’m expected to do you an incredible favour and you’ll generously give me ten smackers. Wow! How generous of you.
@@ellisrichmond243Unfortunately they probably won’t, and due to how much of an impact parents tend to have on their children, we’ll end up with even more idiots in the world.
@@user-ty3lt5sf4w This was my headscratcher too, it's not like the person offering free clothes can't be Sus as well. Both are just having hissy fits imo
Something you learn as a teen is that you have to actually be close to someone before you start casually insulting them. Even the most secure people hate negging and there's a difference between a "cheeky" & a backhanded compliment.
That's not invaluable wisdom. I know for sure that most people didn't learn anything as teens. Look at Taylor Swift. She's dating as if she's in 10th grade again. We all know that Kelce is a violent brute who will throw her into walls when he's in a bad mood, but she's a woman with no common sense, so she doesn't mind.
This is BEYOND a misunderstanding, fat people don't want their existance summed up as "fat". This is so simple and I understand that this happens in satire but this is not that.
@@BusinessZeus yeah the og comment is true but in this case this straight up is insulting. Backhanded compliment AND just insulting because obviously why would you casually call someone fat
@@BusinessZeus some girls do identify with it because it’s so normalized (edit: not saying the guy was in the right at all, but I think it could’ve gone over well with certain types)
@@andorhrusko424 I'll ask you, then. Ever been in a rush to get somewhere and you just throw a t-shirt, forgetting that it's the shirt you used in the night as a cum blanket 🤔 but then... you've left the house and... well... by the time you realise... it's too late... you're on the bus. That happen to you? :3
I'd just like to underline this to drive it home. Don't ever meet in an unfamiliar place that's not a known public spot, and don't ever let someone take you to a secondary location.
Ah I was recently planning on telling the fat beauty at the top of my contacts they were a fat beauty, but thanks to this video I will refrain. Thank you Charles, your work does not go unnoticed!
@@p-__This one bot is very funny. Like this one person has carefully studied the intricacies of Charlie's farts, and trained hard to be able to not only match them, but, dare I say it, surpass them It Is weird, and a bot is a bot, I should not engage But dude, I gotta respect the grind
The second one was just weird. She was clearly dealing with a non native english speaker who needed help, instead she just unapologetically said no, and was kind of a dick for no reason.
it's so wild cause she clearly acknowledges it's an inconveniently long way to go as she won't do it herself, but she expects this stranger to do it for her?
I was called a bad person once, gave someone a car for free, it was high mileage but otherwise running fine. About 8 months later they had some issues and reached out to me to help pay for their repairs, and was angry when I didn't.
NGL the free clothes thing sounded like a robbery attempt. "Meet me half way, we will meet in this place that is secluded enough for my husband to knock you out and take your money and car." The giver of the clothes was smart. It;s not just about not wanting to go out of her way to give away something for free, it's safety measure too.
It did sound like a robbery attempt. With the horrible English and the way she called all English people assholes, I get the overwhelming sense that it’s an illegal immigrant trying to set up a mugging. With the huge amount of crime spikes from these people it’s hard to see anything else. Especially how she tried immediately insulting and trying to guilt trip that lady into it instead of just saying something else like “thanks anyway” and moving on.
@@gijoe13dI’m not from the US but we have this kind of people too. They either want a huge discount on the stuff you sell because they’re a parent or want you to drive your free stuff to them. They’re just entitled. And when you don’t conform they insult you right and left
She says that if she was in that person's position she would drive for an hour to give away the clothes, yet in this scenario she can't drive an hour to come collect the clothes herself?
This may be me reading in between the lines, but as someone who grew up flat broke, it's obvious the beggar doesn't have a car or a way to easily get to the other person's home but are too embarrassed to communicate that and just got angry and insult them instead.
@@AndoBanderinoI thought that too, but then they said they could meet halfway so who knows. Definitely a situation where you get more flies with honey than vinegar because had the issue actually been that “she REALLY needed the clothes and didn’t have transportation” then the lady might have been willing to take the extra effort to help her out from one mother to another. I only say that cause that lady entertained her far longer than I would have and so I think she was waiting to hear some sense from her, but she just got crazier and crazier 😂
When someone says "can I say something weird", the only reasons for saying yes are true, deep friendship or curiosity about why you're about to sever contact.
The ChoosingBeggars really sometimes have me amazed at just how delusional people can be. If someone offers something for free, with the only stipulation being that whoever wants it comes to them to pick it up, you're a delusional idiot if you demand, or even ask, them to deliver it to you.
Romans 10:9 because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.1
I was on a speed date once and one guy opened up with "wow, you look like you've run into a wall!" (I have a short nose). Like I wasn't even mad, just perplexed. What a weird opener to use
I still have no idea how people like that person that wants the free clothes act that way but call out other people for acting the way they did. I swear hypocrisy just isn't a word that exists to them. 1. Wouldn't drive out of their way but claims they would if the roles were reversed. 2. Calls people horrible names but when other people do it, that's outta line. 3. Would pay for the trouble but insults other people for having money.
if you ever worked in retail you will see how much people have no sense and are entitled the fact that they can act like that for someone giving free stuff imagine how they act when there actually spending money
The entitlement of the individual caught me off-guard but then I remembered it's so common now that I was no longer surprised. Not only that, they were also a hypocrite AND racist.
I like how she said "I live further than you" as the reason she shouldn't have to go pick it up, as if for some reason it is a further distance for her and not the seller
Pretty sure she was talking about the location where she wanted to meet up. As in it's not halfway between, but closer for the seller. Easy to laugh when you take stuff out of context. There's so much to laugh at in these as well.
2:03 I think a better counterexample would have been if the girl messaged the guy and said "I just saw a post celebrating tiny penis men and you were the tiny penis man closest to the top of my contacts, so I just wanted to check in and say hi" Pointing out that someone is fat (just like pointing out that someone has a tiny penis) is a simple biological observation that isn't inherently insulting in a vacuum, but it can have negative societal connotations and is something that's considered rude and tactless to point out
Though small penis isn't really something you can control. I think a better comparison would be procrastination. Besides sometimes, being fat could be unhealthy. Though that's if like your over 280 and that's majorly unhealthy to me
@@blankspace2483 Procrastination is controllable for most people, but there are disorders (like ADHD) that make it virtually impossible for some people to remain focused on a task
it's shifting the onus onto her to explain why blatantly stating she's fat is rude. He should already know that. In fact, I'm sure he does...because there's no way he'd say that to a guy.
@@saga685 It's more just him genuinely not understanding how messed up that comment was. Because so much interaction happens online people are having more of a disconnect on what is and isn't acceptable and some people genuinely can't see how unhinged their behavior is, we've seen it so many times in Charlie's vids
I actually tried to read some of these cringy weird texts and i physically couldn’t set through them, that’s when i realized how important it is to have Charlie talking about it and making jokes
@@vsdfggvh164don’t marry someone you don’t love. don’t even marry someone you only love a little bit. If you’re not ready to see this person every single day for the rest of your life then it’s not gonna be happy, sad scary or exciting. Just miserable. It’s the most diabolical societal norm
You aren't wrong, but most of the time, when people come across nut cases like these two people in the video, they just want to see how far/weird it goes so they keep chatting, and screenshotting to then share and get upvotes and karma on reddit or stuff like that
As a big girl…. I have gotten similar things frequently. My favorite was a 40 something yr old man approaching me, age 22, on the train headed to school. He sits down and asks for my number then says…” i find beauty in things most ppl think are ugly”😮
Its a genuine tactic used by manipulative people. They rely on someone with low self esteem, its supposed to make that person desperate for their attention and praise.
Once offered to make a painting for a friend. Before I started the painting, I got what he wanted, what kind of colors would go with the couch and since it was a painting large enough to fit on a flatbed of a truck, I asked if he had a truck to pick it up. He stared at me and then he said it 'you're dropping it off.' 'No, I'm not. When I offered to paint paintings for others around the office, the only thing I ask was for someone to pick it up.' 'I'm not picking it up. I'm giving you the chance to get rid of the canvases you didn't want anymore.' I never talked to him about the painting and the canvases ended up in the dump.