Today we're gonna be taking a look at a case of main character syndrome of an entitled person who demands Chinese takeout food at a wedding Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
"Obligatory Invite"😮😂 im sure she brings a lot to the table..the wedding wouldn't be the same without her..😂😂
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This “ women “ is tripping. She doesn’t even understand wedding etiquette. Her child was born out of wedlock obviously. She thinks the wedding is all about her.
I love her response video.. she started blaming trauma for the responses. But started talking about her issues with her sister. Couldn't help but notice the brother getting married, while she showed up with a child and no husband or even boyfriend... am I the only one surprised she's alone?
Bringing your own food if you have inconveniences is just giving respect to your host . The groom is her brother and the wedding planner is her sister. She's the worst of the worst. She's so toxic that i'd cut ties with her if she was in my family. Trying to ruin her sister's business is the last straw !
She strikes me as the kind of person who gives Christmas presents with expectation of getting something of equal or greater monitary value instead of giving a present to be kind and generous
She is entitled and obnoxious, no doubt. That being said, the wedding organizers (her own brother was getting married and asked her what she wanted to eat and her sister was the coordinator) should have arranged for different dietary choices such as vegans. She even told her sister that she's vegan and the sister still refused to have a vegan meal available for her own sister! That's mean!
@@sachinnair91 she's the only one with that dietary restriction from what it sounds like, so she'd be picking up her own meal. 🤷♂️ IDK if she wanted to make sure her kid ate she would've picked up her own food
The fact that it was her BROTHER'S wedding and her SISTER was the wedding coordinator didn't help...it actually made her behaviour 1000 times worse!!! Was a spoiled and entitled brat she is.
Exactly what I was about to comment. They had SOMETHING for her to eat. Look at her…she’s just picky and probably one of those vegans who don’t like vegetables or healthy things. They eat nothing but junk food but just not of animal products. I’ve met them. Lol
Probably right. When I went to my sister's house to show her my ring, her face got really forlorn and 2 weeks later she finally said yes to a dude that's been asking her to marry him for 20 years. I'm like OH so NOW you wanna say yes to him. Not cuz you want to but because you didn't want to be the last of the 6 of us to be married.
‘Chinese food’ is super specific! Why didn’t she say exactly what on the menu she wanted??? That would have been a million times easier! And….she could NOT pick up her own food? That’s already paid for?? She’s absolutely looking for things to be upset about!!!
I'm vegan, but I'll take the mushu pork, and sweet and sour chicken, and brocolli and beef, and chickenpot stickers, and kung pao chicken, and orange chicken, and BBQ pork ribs." Looks to me as if she could live a month with no food and be just fine.
Looking for a return on a gift is not a gift... she's talking about investing. It's not 100% her fault, though... she was just born in modern-day America. Sad thing is she has a child and has no idea of how childish she sounds. Good thing about her posting this is she's about to learn consequences and "might" end up becoming a better person.
I’m a vegan and almost all catered weddings have a vegan option these days. For the rare occasions when they don’t, I just bring Cliff Bars and eat a salad. Expecting the people putting on the wedding to go get you food from another restaurant is totally crazy.
So many levels to this. First of all, I have literally never heard of a wedding accommodating individuals like that? Like, if you can't or won't eat anything on the menu provided you're supposed to bring your own lunch, no?
You never met my mother. When my sister got married, her wedding was done in a Chinese theme including the food. As the server passed out the various dishes, my obnoxious mother started complaining about the food. She didn’t want one of the dishes and started complaining to her husband (her 2nd marriage) that the server gave it to her on purpose. The sad part is, it was all caught on the wedding video forever memorialized! 🤦🏻♀️
She was attending her own brother's wedding and her own sister was the coordinator. She told her sister that she's vegan and still the sister refused to have a vegan meal ready and told her to pick up her own food. That's mean!
@@edzhead22 omg the stories I could tell you! Here’s 2 of the best. My grandparents (father’s parents) bought a double house. They lived upstairs, we were downstairs. Sometime around when I was 10, my grandparents GAVE them the house free and clear. Didn’t charge them a dime. My mother turned around and wanted to charge them rent! My father said absolutely not. I still have trouble wrapping my head around that one. When I was 17, in my senior year of HS, she pulled me outta school to get a job to pay rent. She couldn’t wait till the end of the school year. I put myself back in, dropped my electives, changed my schedule, went to school in the morning and worked in the afternoon so I could graduate with my class. Here’s the kicker. They had no mortgage and no car payment - my father sold cars and got a new car every year from the dealer - didn’t pay for so much as an oil change. Those are your 2 biggest expenses. House and car. They didn’t need the money but she always acted like we had one foot in the poor house. She did so much more…When she died, I never shed a tear.
My niece just got married and she told the venue my little family of 3 is vegan(we didn’t ask for anything special), and they so accommodating & supplied a delicious veggie for us. It was thoughtful and lovely.
I once went to the wedding of my husband's, childhood friend. They invited a lot of people but only provided one bowl of punch and some a small assortment of sandwiches. The food was gone in about 10 minutes with less than half the guests fed. I didn't get upset or mention anything to the bride groom and I certainly didn't bitch about it online to strangers. When I got too thirsty, I left to get something to drink and a little food. When I returned 30 minutes later, the entire venue was cleared out. Shortest wedding reception I've ever been too.😂
She literally failed to mention it was her own family who was the groom and the coordinator. This is family drama and she made it out to be something way different. She had to know that story would blow up. Very calculated.
Maybe she deserves a break. It's obvious she doesn't know wedding etiquette, probably because she doesnt attend many of these kind of events. Likely the only wedding she ever gotten invited to is from her brother. Gosh, I wonder why?
Typical lame shaming tactics, then they use of identity politics, so she doesn’t appear like a sister whose butt hurt that her brother got married before her. Your presence at a wedding is not a gift. Plus she kept talking about how her meal would’ve only cost 20 bucks. so she would’ve only given a $20 gift?? She doesn’t celebrate him. She wanted to be treated special at her brothers wedding. Like it was her day. Very self-centered, and entitled. This is what privilege looks like.
"Why would I do that that doesn't even make sense to me." Well making someone order you Chinese food at someone else's wedding doesn't make sense to me so there you go.
Yup, that's insane. Imagine if multiple people had similar "restrictions" and just randomly requested some specific ethnic cuisine. What wedding coordinator is going to have time to go pick up an order from a Chinese restaurant, Italian restaurant, sushi restaurant, middle eastern restaurant, etc. That's insane. If you're vegan, just eat the vegetables that are available, because I'm sure there were some vegetables served.
@@user-nd3tg5zn1b nah, her scope of responsibility is not endless. This issue is between the marrying couple and their caterer. Generally, the caterer would be the one to just whip up something to satisfy any guest with dietary restrictions. If the caterer is unwilling to do that, it doesn't somehow become the coordinator's responsibility to act as a doordash driver to go pick up a bunch of food from random restaurants because certain guest just feel like eating something different than everyone else.
Some venues don't allow outside food, but in your case many places will allow it if you call ahead and ask politely and offer to give them medical documents :)
I was pescatarian for a few years and also following biblical dietary laws... my brother catered his own wedding because he owns a catering company so why not... the food he was serving was not food I ate. It wasn't "kosher". So I was told to pick up something I'd eat and his company would prepare it for me. So that's what I did. I stopped at Publix, picked up some salmon and brought it with me. They prepared it n I ate that. No big deal... 😊😊😊
The fact it was her brother getting married and her sister coordinating it makes it 100 times worse that she wouldn't make that one stop to help out. Also, the fact she announces so proudly that her attendance was the gift screams that she was either planning to give no gift at all or was looking for a reason not to give the gift to them which is exactly why she wouldnt pick up the food. She created her own excuse. Also, if the sister coordinating the wedding was at fault, why punish the couple? Because no gift was the plan all along!
She creates her own problems and then blames those problems for being a problem. She lives her life in a vicious circle of self sabotage she then blames that, for being so unpleasant.
My son has an eating disorder (Sensory Food Aversion). He is limited to about 7 things he can eat...without violently vomiting. He's 24 and never had a burger, chicken, pizza...NOTHING. Whenever he is invited somewhere..like a wedding, he will advise people NOT to pay for a plate for him because he will not be able to eat it and he doesn't want their money or the food wasted. He most certainly would NOT demand they serve him buttered popcorn rice cakes for him. (That's one of the few things he can eat). He will flat out say..hey don't order me a plate, I am coming to celebrate with you. How entitled this woman is!!!! Rude af too!!. My son also doesn't want people feeling like they have to do anything special for him. As for the gift issue....omg She obviously has no idea what a gift is!! A gift is something you give..with zero conditions. I am a Virgo...and I cannot even with this twatwaffle.
@@sachinnair91 He is 6', 215lbs, offensive lineman in football..lol. If I told you what he eats EVERYDAY..you would be shocked. He never even was able to eat a piece of his own birthday cake as a child. Now he can eat yellow cake..no frosting. He eats peanut butter, honey nut cheerios..dry. milk on the side, saltine crackers, buttered popcorn rice cakes. His dinner is gerber 2nd foods turkey and rice, squash, green beans. He has tried to eat "real food" since he was a baby but if he doesn't vomit from the smell, he will from the texture as soon as it hits his mouth. He eats some fruits..apples, banana and peanuts. You are right..he's been healthy for all of his life. He drinks a lot of milk, water and he's recently found he likes green tea. We were at a loss when he was little and we tried introducing solid foods. He was formally diagnosed at age 5 and took part in a study at Children's Hospital of the DC area. His siblings don't have the disorder, in fact my younger son eats anything that doesn't eat him first.
Her child didn’t have anything to eat because of her refusal to pick up the food and her forcing her ideologies onto her kid. She should be pointing the finger at herself
oh my goodness - folks, this is how a generation of kids raised on CRT thinks - that her brother's wedding, with her sister being the wedding coordinator - calls anyone who thinks her demands are ridiculous "rooted in patriarchy" and "colonialism". These key phrases they've been taught don't make sense in most settings - in this setting it's just ridiculousness. She has so little self awareness that she is clueless about how entitled she is behaving. There is ZERO personal accountability, ZERO humility, ZERO empathy in her thought process.
"I'm not the caretaker for my brother, asking me to do extra labor is absurd" I find that line so ironic as nobody asked her to do extra labor for anyone else except herself and it was actually her demanding others do the extra labor on her behalf.
Although a mild inconvenience, she said herself that they are surrounded by Chinese food places, so getting it herself should not have been a big deal. I would have thought that making the day special for her brother and his new wife would take priority.
She's never getting invited to another wedding again. Even close family are going to ignore this type of crazy, it's not a good idea to invite this kinda drama to a wedding. Pampered, spoiled and completely insane.
The truth of the matter is she is bitter. No one has ever proposed to her. She is a single mom, never married tossed around by low value men (that's all she can get). These kind of rejects end up getting very bitter.
If my brother or sister had asked me to pick up ANYTHING on my way to their wedding, especially my special order food, I would say “YES and do you need anything else from me?” She’s a piece of work and I feel sorry for her brother and sister for having to deal with this narcissist all their lives. And, girlfriend? Relationships are NOT transactional like you said. They run on mutual love and because of that love things tend to level out. I can’t imagine spending my life nickel and dime-ing my friends and family. Wow.
@AliciaNash2013 exactly! I am a Virgo with Celiac and am always prepared to not be able to eat at events. I really just want everyone to enjoy themselves. It's my issue and not theirs to bother themselves with! Definitely MCS with that one! She must have some sketchy rising sign there!🤣✌️
She wasn't a part of the wedding and was only a guest and i think she just wanted to be an ahole Because her siblings all were "more important" to the occasion than she was
You do realize that vegan food has some of the most unhealthy food. French fries are vegan, and so are oreos. Almost all chips are vegan also. So the stigma that being vegan is healthy is very wrong.
The update makes her behavior even more selfish and narcissistic. No gift for her own brother’s wedding! The wedding coordinator aka her sister asked her to pick up the food on the way in and she couldn’t help. Yikes, she’s a pill.
Oh my Lord. I have a horrid wheat allergy--you know what I did for my brother's wedding? BROUGHT MY OWN FOOD in a sealed container. It was over an hour away and I had to do my own hair and makeup, get my mother and grandmother ready, and spend the entire day in high heels and be nice to people I hated. But I did it because I love my brother. NO, a wedding gift is not freaking transactional, especially for a sibling. The hell?! And what is she giving by being at his wedding exactly? Her glowing personality? *eyeroll* With family like that, who needs enemies is right. The more videos of wedding guests acting like this, the more and more I'm convinced (when the time comes) I'm having a tiny little church wedding with as few people as possible and everyone else can stay the hell away. I'm not dealing with this crap. Oh my God.
Right?!?! This was so seriously ridiculous that I could only laugh at it…and do you have any idea what the hell “the patriarchy” or “colonialism” had to do with her dinner? LMAO!!!
@@evandaqgibson Celiac disease Google is free This is what they mean by the future generations failing basic reading comprehension Congrats you’re just as lazy as the rest of the Zoomers and Alphas
Yea this bothered me too! And sounds like she’s imposing a vegan diet onto her child… children shouldn’t be vegan they need the nutrients from meat… and this is coming from a vegetarian lol 👋🏻 🌱 like what the hell.
I'm vegetarian and on holidays my family doesn't make sure to have enough options for me to eat well so I just make my own stuff and bring it for everyone to enjoy. I'm used to going out to eat with people and many times only ordering sides or an appetizer due to where I live not always having vegetarian options in places. It really isn't a big deal. Times like that aren't just about the food you're eating but mostly the time you're sharing with people and making memories with them. If you want to be included more then having any special sort of needs like that are your responsibility and it's just kind and polite whenever someone makes sure you are accommodated. She should have been grateful they were willing to order her something separately. I would have felt like a burden if it were me and would have happily picked it up myself. Also you give a gift because you want to make someone happy, not because you're going to get something out of it. What a brat. I wouldn't have a relationship with her if she were my family member.
Sooo... all of her siblings are involved in the wedding but she ... can't even pick up her own take out.. because she drove 5 hrs and blah blah blah... She's ridiculous. It's her siblings for fucking sakes.
5 hours? Wherever she was traveling from, I guarantee you there was a Chinese restaurant nearby. And an extra 30 minutes or so to pick up YOUR food on a 5hr trip should be no biggie.
It is because of people like this that people are so hostile towards vegetarians and vegans. I have gone to so many weddings and parties where there are absolutely nothing that I can eat. If they ask me about dietary restrictions, I tell them but know that 99% of the time, I will get nothing to eat. I take my own food for potlucks and eat before I go to any get together. If they asked me to pick up food - I would definitely pick it up. Just to be helpful! 🤷♀️ Also Chinese food? That is her vegetarian option???? That definitely wouldn’t be my first option!
OMFGGG!!! She GENUINELY THINKS that the relationships with people you are SUPPOSED to LOVE are based on TRANSACTIONS!!! OK so, actually, this exact mindset is being sickeningly normalized in modern society. Seriously, girlfriend, get ready to LOSE *every single relationship* you EVER try to have in life!! 😵
If another wedding comes up send her an invitation to not show up…her child’s father got away from her and she’s going to the wedding alone…no surprise there
What, the “I only watch crappy preachy series because I want everyone to think I’m woke” vibes? Or the “it isn’t bastardizing a beloved childhood show, you just aren’t smart or woke enough to get it” demeanor?
@@cynthiaholland13 Actually, no. It sucked because the creator, rather than clean modernization of classic beloved cartoon characters, decided to go for tearing them to shreds and remaking them into pseudo-progressive bastardizations that may as well have no reference at all to the series they are from. A good portion of it is Velma not so subtly hating on Caucasians, men, and straight people. Why would the presence of black characters make it suck? Seriously asking. Cuz that’s a dumb reason to dislike a show.
Her presence is your gift? Well thanks princess…What a friend/sister lol but Uuuh does she know chicken broth etc are used in nearly every dish. How is Chinese food vegan? Anyone?
To expect a chinese place to accommodate that your vegan diet is crazy.... definitely had fish sauce or oyster sauce, or chicken stock, and cooked in same wok..... with a diet so strict, it seems insane to expect the world to adjust to You..
I was waiting for someone to say this! Thank you! Made me think of my kosher father ordering Chinese food. Dad, there's pork in the dumplings and fried rice.
She wins the award for biggest narcissist. I'm sure that would actually make her happy. Her poor child had a mother that thinks love is transactional. There is no good outcome of that.
Plot twist. They asked her to go pick up her food so everyone else could relex and de-stress without her presence. They literally arranged for the food, she just had to pick it up on her way. And no, the gifts aren't to offset the cost. Traditionally, it's gifting the couple items to start their new lives.
My son has a food allergy & I learned a long time ago that people can’t always accommodate his restrictions. We have had to bring or buy something that he can eat on several occasions. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming & it’s childish to expect the bride & groom to remember your food preference when they have so much to do.
Shoot they ordered & paid for the food they just didn't have the time to pick it up so they ask her to pick it up, probably because she hasn't lifted a finger to help plan the wedding, simply because it's beneath her to do so. She should've just picked up her free food and been done with it and above all else SHE SHOULD'VE KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT!
That's the thing about being a kind, generous, loving, human human being. Relationships don't have to be transactional. Nor are they always balanced. Sometimes you carry the weight & other times the other person does. That's what you do in relationships. It isn't any wonder there is so much disconnectedness between people these days if this is the mentality of our newer generations. So very sad ..... IMHO it would have been no skin off her nose to stop & pick up her food on the way to the wedding, and it was the right and decent thing to do given EVERYONE ELSE WAS BUSY!!!!
She had to have gotten pregnant through ivf or osmosis because I don't know of anyone who could listen to her entitled mouth give minutes, let alone have sex with her.
