This is Tracy's third marriage and all she wants is to feel sexy in her dress but her entourage is not very supportive of the idea. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
calling her a black widow, he doesn't even seem to LIKE her. why the hell do people bring assholes like that to their bridal appointments, or even let them in their lives?
Disturbing how the "stylist" said she needed to have "dirty" white, called her a "black widow", constantly talked about what was "appropriate", just because this was her third marriage... Does he even know what kind of garbage is coming out of his mouth? Does he know what he's implying about women and their worth being tied to purity? It's disgraceful
Agreed. I mean my mom has been married 3 times. 1st one was abusive. 2nd one died on New Years Eve but was slightly manipulative. And 3rd one. To me was abusive even though she says he wasnt. He laughed when she had a miscarriage...
@DangerouslySpooked No one decides whether you are pure. Also I dont think its fair to deem someone impure just because they divorced. You do not know their history. You should not decide that for them.
Note to stylist Will: you just kissed your career goodbye. Everybody can see bride Tracy is petite. Your dress choice did not flatter Tracy's figure, stature or personality. Your comments about Tracy, "dirty down" and "black widow," were not only unprofessional, they show contempt for women in general. Bye Felicia!!
Looks like he despised the bride for getting married for the third time, so he wanted her to wear something that looks bad on her. At least this is what I feel.
This stylist is obsessed with the fact that she's "dirtied down" as if she don't deserve to feel beautiful and special, I don't like his opinion on women.
He's probably that special kind of sexist that thinks of women like objects. 'Oh, you've been married how many times? Ugh, you're like a dirty old dishrag!'
@@zoeoxley7710 all they're saying is it doesn't give someone a free pass to treat women like dirt just because they're a gay man. I've experienced a lot of misogyny and sexual harassment from gay men over the years who act like it's fine because they're not attracted to you, but it's not
Well, where I'm from I would say that we have reached some sort of equality. No one give a damn about "purity". - But most of us have a hard time drumming up much excitement about planning or going to someone's 3rd wedding. Usually the small talk at the reception will be about what money was spend this time round and how long we think the marriage will last.
@@checkmattee222 You are free to think so. But do let us know what "small talk" you overhear next time you go to a wedding, where one or both have been married multiple times.
@@hildajensen6263 Sounds like where you're from has a lot of toxic, smallminded people if you think that kind of talk is appropriate or normal on any wedding day, let alone one for a third marriage. Either that, or you're trying to convince yourself that being a toxic asshole when you're supposed to be supportive is okay.
He likes to think he knows what tf hed talkin bout but nah when you're the only one with a 3 out of all 10s...re evaluate your life...atleast he finally came around and saw she was happy
some ppl think being crass and rude... or saying offensive things gets them attention..think theyre being bold while they are actually making fools of themselves
When I hear the term “black widow” mentioned for a woman, I either think of Debbie from the Addams Family Values, or a old depressed woman, which none of those descriptions fit this woman.
when we she walked out n he first saw her in the dress he seemed like he liked it… everyone approved n he changed his mind 😭 honestly seems like he just wants his opinion to be the loudest/ heard
@@WitchyPoo411 im sure her other husbands didn't both die rhat would of definitely been mentioned as a storyline in the show as that shows for good television
We can all agree that the stylist sucks but can we all agree that the mom is so sweet of the second bride. She literally cried for both dresses her daughter tried on
This stylist obviously disapproved of a 3rd marriage, and he seemed determined to undermine her choice no matter what she liked in any dress. To put her in a dress that clearly overwhelmed her petite stature, including a black sash, unquestionably displayed his distaste for this woman and his intent to sabotage her joy was blatant. I hope she fired him as soon as they left the shop.
he probably actually wanted her in the traditional ivory chiffon short straightline dress/suit that's used for subsequent marriages. I don't know the story behind their relationship so possibly there is a reason for him disapproving?? I don't know
I had a college professor who had 4 happy marriages. Sadly, all her husbands passed away from health issues, but I was always shocked how people treated her! Everyone has a different life experience. I used to nanny for a young mom who’s husband was an abusive piece of trash & she broke down to me one day. I recommended she leave him. I found holes in their wall when I went to pick the kids up at their house & it looked as though the house had been torn apart. She went through two more relationships before getting married again. She’s now with a wonderful man who adores her children as his own & treats her like a queen. Everyone has to find their own way. It isn’t black & white in marriage or relationships in general.👏🏻
he's not a real stylist. She's taking the bridal experience a bit far and hiring a 'stylist' is part of that experience. However, she is neither rich nor famous. She probably advertised on Craiglist and he worked in a jeans store for a few months. Or he's some acquaintance who lives down the street
Why does she have a stylist when she's only got a $2,000 budget and he obviously doesn't know her or care a stitch about what she wants? I would have told him to leave the salon and he can be surprised on the wedding day.
he wouldn’t even becoming to the wedding. i wouldn’t need him reminding every guest “this is her third wedding” and pulling a face like he did this whole appointment.
Stylist needs to shut his mouth about it being her third marriage. Who cares? Let the woman be happy. It's her life and her decisions to make, she doesn't need someone telling her she doesn't deserve tow war what she wants because of his own ridiculous opinion
Not only shut his mouth but improve his fashion sense n focus on how to style up his client with their dress choice, instead of picking the awful dress for his client
The dress that her mom made for her first wedding is so special! It's gorgeous and completely different than any other wedding dress. The sheer sleeves, and that bow!! I wish they had put in more pictures of it.
What? Was the black sash meant to publicly brand her as “impure”?! Is is trying to warn the fiancé that he’s getting “tarnished goods” or something? Seriously people need to rethink their ridiculous ideas that a woman’s worth is tied to her “purity” or that it should dictate what she wears. He made me so mad. Like, just no 😤
That stylist was annoying. He made her put on that giant mushroom dress then said the one she liked was too big? It made no sense. and the marriage number doesn't matter. it's her wedding and she deserves to be happy
His comments were not helpful, kind, or appropriate. If he had an issue with her marriageS, it should have been kept to himself, or asking her privately much earlier if he had a true concern. Typically, second and third marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriages, but I sense whatever the issue, the discord he was drumming up came from his ego.
The "rating diamonds" idea is kinda cute ngl. The first bride looks so excited, and it kinda annoyed me that the "stylist" wouldn't shut up about it being her 3rd wedding. As she said, the wedding number shouldn't matter, as long as she like the dress and the experience.
What's the point of hiring a stylist if a) you completely disagree with all of their fashion choices and b) they're not going to support you and are going to cut you down for having a third marriage? I'd have sent him out ASAP!
She's lovely. Some people struggle to marry once and she married 3 times! Good for her. She seems like a bright woman that does not settle for less than what she deserves 💅
I've been married 3 times. 1st time started dating a friend of my brothers my Sr. year of HS because my BF broke my heart. Got preggo & married at 18. Was married for 16 years & had 2 BEAUTIFUL Daughters. Married at courthouse but renewed vows on 10th Anniversary & had a ceremony in the church we attended. I did not have a "traditional" wedding dress. It was tea length & wedding-ish/Mary Poppins-ish. He turns out to be gay (KNEW something was off) 2nd Marriage - right after my divorce was final pretty much - didn't know how to be alone nor really wanted to be. We were married 5 years. Had a small wedding in the church chapel - I had an ivory 2 piece wedding dress. (BOTH of my dresses were made by my Loverly Aunt! ) I did not want the divorce but he did. (We are friends now but that took a while). He had 2 girls, I had 2 girls, we had 1 boy! My oldest Daughter is almost 35, youngest Daughter is 29 (yest. 9/27), & Son is 16 (9/7). WOW! After we were separated for a year & divorced 6 mos. guess who contacted me & we started dating? YEP My HS BF! We married 1 & 1/2 years later. I took that year and a half in between husbands 2 & 3 to LOVE myself, be myself, be BY myself, like myself, bought my own home, got a great job, relied on God & was just STILL. I was happy! Hubby 3 & I both had already experienced having a wedding & didn't want one. So we eloped! We chose to tell no one except my Daughters. Had the entire package at a B&B owned by a Preacher & his wife! I had a lovely blush pink & Ivory tea length vintage dress that I paid $120.00 for. We will be married 9 years on 11-21-20. Just because someone is on their 3rd or more Marriage doesn't mean they can't have a wedding & wedding dress though. It is up to the couple what THEY want & they should be supported!
@@Rosemary-ql4hk And it ain't over yet! In 2015 Hubby at the age of 50 had a hemorraghic stroke and is paralyzed on his right side & had brain damage from the burst blood vessel or the surgery to stop it. I quit my job to stay home & take care of him. Gov't does not pay a spouse to care for a spouse. They did tell me though that if we divorced I could be paid for being his care-giver. We survive on his disability. Life is full of ups and downs & loop de loops!
the way he treats her like damaged goods or used property because it’s not her first wedding...... once again women are NOT objects that lose value according to how many men they’ve been with
When the "stylist" is confined in old wive's tales box, you need to pull him out before his career ends right there! Style is art, these rules dont exist
I love how he says monte’s pick is overwhelming at the bottom when his dress pick was overwhelming all over and plain awful! He says he’s a stylist but has a diy haircut with target shirt and jeans
Did that „stylist“ really call the bride a black widow? His attitude was awful.... how does he get paid .... Wear what you want at your wedding, it’s YOURS, not your family, or the rest of the bridal party or friends and most definitely not someone that is introduced as „stylist“.... color, shape, glitter, sparkle, veil, it always depends of (current)trends and personal preferences, to feel confident and beautiful
Stylist keeps on saying "its your 3rd Marriage" Wtf?? Can you not constantly remind her of that? Weddings are a special moment! Regardless of how many times!! 😤😤😡😡
@@nightlysobbing you said "after 3"? But nonetheless its still is absurd why cant the stylist just support her.. for me there is No importance on how you should be reprensented by "a gown" like color and what does it have on there.. Because its a reminder of your past. Would you like to have your 2nd, 3rd or more wedding to have that moment where its a symble of your past relationships???? We're on the 21st century already..
@@user-kg7cc3nt6t I understand. The stylist definitely was being a bit of an ass. But that does not diminish the fact that marriage is a lifelong commitment and no one should be proud of being married 3 times.
@@nightlysobbing Life happens, and someone's worth is not determined by the amount of times they (didn't) get married. The stylist doesn't have to be an ass to his employer.
I can’t with the stigma of just because someone has been previously married, or over 40 for example, that they don’t deserve to feel special & beautiful. Boils my blood. Third time is a charm girl!
The second bride in this clip, I wish she chose the first dress, it just complimented her so well like that dress was made for her. The second dress looked like it was someone's first time making a wedding dress. As for the first bride she was so beautiful in the pictures they showed of her first and second wedding. And this part of the first bride's clip made me laugh when the stylist said she needed a off white wedding dress because she's dirty now, and how the bride wants a sexy over the top wedding dress. But at the end of the day, the bride can wear whatever she wants, if you don't like it, be glad it's not your wedding secretly.
Apparently the stylist isn't aware of the fact that calling a woman A BLACK WIDOW MEANS SHE'S KILLED ALL OF HER HUSBANDS BEFORE. I hope she fired him as soon as they walked out the door of Lori's bridal salon.
Can someone please explain to me why her “so called stylist” of hers keeps on bringing her down talking about “it’s your third marriage” “you’re a widow” 😤😤
Both brides chose perfect dresses for their individual figures and desires! The stylist acted his part for the show's script, but was truly only concerned with her happiness! Lovely! 🥰
