Esther Perel Q&A Part I: Jealousy & Modern Relationships | @PineappleO 

She had me at "Trust is a leap of faith. Trust the ability to live with what you will not know". Wow. Dont think twice, watch it!

She is a Philosopher of our time!

She’s so authentic I love her.. if you really act on what she says your relationship will blossom... she’s the best!

I've been watching a lot of her videos and work, I'm single right now, but I need to have a better knowledge for my next relationship.

Someone once told me "Jealousy is fear of losing what you have ( or who you have to somebody else)" and "Envy is when you want what someone else has"

I love Esther Perel. The cameraman not so much.

This was a great way to listen to for long term relationships. The work home balance segment opened my eyes particularly to the laziness that creeps into long term relationships. As a man I sometimes forget I need the same if not more genuine game I had when I won her to keep her. But, at the same time I can’t expect her to just because I do. I always say, “Love is hard work at home.”

Brilliant human. I love her mind.

Thank you for sharing this!

She's the best

Excellent!

I love this woman 🧡🧡🧡

thank you for uploading this beautiful peice.

This lady is a genius!! 👏👏💃💃

Wow spot on and direct clear and calm. The end music was a bit hard to not judge😂

It feels great to be kicked out onto the curb and wander about finding my one individual thing again that makes me feel so content. To walk, to wander about with no expectations again, really feeling my world around me and simply reveling in the observations outside of myself again. I return always to love and I stay with love, in it’s original loving place, deep down inside myself. No matter how treturous things got in my relationship, no matter how much vulnerability, shame, guilt, strength and solutions I managed to gain... I still feel I lost nothing at all after being kicked to the curb, let go, broken off, tossed away, forsaken, cast away... I don’t feel negatively about them. I chose to keep loving them and learning from my mistakes. They...... Simply became numb and shorted out from all the mounting stress, pain, confusion and strife. Which I have caused. I love too intensily, I become too dramatic and way too jealous, but there are rich lessons in all of that. Just be by yourself and don’t get in the way again, life is short and I’m almost near my mortality anyways why not just let it all go? Walk gently, even more than before, hang my head low and let all the tears drain out, till I feel light enough, to rise again. That is the true power of Love. You can’t get too high, but you certainly can sink real low. - Vi An MUSIC

She is the best! Always learning from her.

Thank you for sharing this✨👌

Hi Olive. A great episode. I really enjoyed it.

I wish I got my intimacy back to normal. I am neither jealous , nor envious. I cannot trust as a result of all the hues of this crime. Thank you. Take all that you are given. The whole thing.

So true about leaving left overs when my family deserves my best.

Damn damn damn, so many truths.

Valid

Wow. Big wow.

Amen

1:50: it is quite literally insane for any person to imagine that one other person can be their entire world, or that they can be the entire world for another person. It’s a really poor strategy for long term companionship.

I love this GILF!

Inspiring. Just a bit distracting when I kept mistakening that man didn't put his pants on.

My Lady was controlling me through "jealousy " !!! Holy Crap !!

She said jealousy is an erotic wrath. Not breath as it was subbed.

We love God, we are not jealous that God loves all of us. We don't expect or negotiate with God to just love one person. That's deal and not love. Don't be jealous, be love.

Americans doesn't prioritize love. Makes sense why the Divorce rate is alarming.

Someone to rewrite the question pls.?

She had me at, "Jealousy is an erotic wrath." 🤔🤔💖

My husband is one of those people who works a lot and gives everything at work and at home he just wants to be. I'm the exact opposite, my work is pretty dull so I concentrate everything at home and on him. How do we find the ballance?

I’m envious of her name - not what she does . OBVIOUSLY

"erotic wrath", not "breath".

My wife (together 40yrs ) will not talk about her deepest feelings with me .😢 becomes unbelievably defensive brick wall😢

Anyone know where I can find the rest of that last topic? The balance between putting others first and yourself first?

great to hear Esther Perel, but felt kinda invasive filming others attending!

Is getting possessive to a certain limit is healthy or its completely unhealthy in a relationship...??

UGH, when the subtitle is incorrect. Subtitle : Jealousy is an erotic breath. What she actually said: Jealous is an erotic wrath.

Part 2 of this interview is here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SypiRlkFWdg.html&t=

The "sex is premeditated" comment leaves me with a question: How do you balance that with not making your partner feel pressured so they end up thinking "well you're only after sex right now"?

Yeah, like her for a lot od bright words, but after nun 1:30 I decide to skip. Imho it's just a question of personal style and attitude. Closeness and distance have both it's pros and cons. Don't belive in an objective truth there, but if it's fine for you where you are: congraz.

She said "jealousy is an erotic wrath" not "breath"

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

hmm

Religion and Hollywood is to blame for a lot of that

That guy forgot to wesr his pants?

Me to movement

Lol

Erotic rage - not envy.

Maybe use a tripod next time. Your hands is shaking making it hard to concentrate on what she is saying .

"Queer relationships"

Gender roles will not change. It can be seen in Sweden, the most gender equal country in the world. The career choices of Swedish men and women became the more "traditional" the more freedom of choice and equal opportunity came into place. In other words, if people have freedom of choice (including financial security provided by a social safety net), women will do female stuff and men will do male stuff.

Why is everything erotic to her? jealousy: an "erotic wrath", privacy: "erotic space". She's becoming a charlatan as she grows more famous.

What a horrible filming of a wonderful Esther