Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else. You are doing great work. Hats off to you Very very realistic
Har cheej me kuch positive hota hai. Feel like a free bird life and be happy. Vaise bhi relations me kuch nahin dhara if they are insensitive to you. Jab jarurat padegi to aap jarur yaad aaoge.
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है, आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है, मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है, ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो, लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता। मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है। बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Agar bina husband ke kisi ke ghar jaayenge toh pehle puchte hai kyu nahi aaye ?😅 Ab bole to bole kya kare toh kare kya 😂😂😂 Akele jaana normal karna hoga sir yeh bhot zaruri hai 😊
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.