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“If your man still ain’t come, there’s still more work for you to do” 😩 ohhhh I felt that. And I know exactly the work I need to be doing 😞 time to be obedient!!
“Your single life has to be so amazing that someone has to convince you to be in a relationship.” TG👏🏾 Really in a season of being more consistent on my exercise, eating and undertaking the tasks in my business to take it to the next level. It feels so much to do! It can be overwhelming tbh. But it’s so true. Sometimes, I wonder if this is why God hasn’t sent me my husband yet.
Been single for a year. Some days are harder but one thing I learned ladies is that you don’t need outside validation to feel good about yourself it must come from God and within. Once you focus on yourself you will experience so much peace. As women we all want to be adored by a man but God already adores us!! I had a lot of things I had to change about myself and couldn’t see it because I was so focused on all his faults not realizing I needed to change too. Be blessed!
The Five F’s: Freedom Focus Family Finances Friends Single is not a curse. When the time is right it will happen for me to marry again, something I said I wouldn’t do again.I’ve been truly busy with writing my book and finally working on my business. You have and are a blessing to us all. We appreciate you Bro. Tony more than you know. Much Love ❤️ . Be Blessed!! The Blessed Tribe!!
Fancy Pants i was going through the same thing and then God showed me how to communicate through these relationships with friends and also we can share our knowledge and help them without overwhelming ourselves. Just like Tony is doing here. He’s on assignment and giving knowledge. Sometimes our friends are assignments. It’s our job to balance through while also enjoying our alone time.
LaFenice Forbes lol I’m the same way so I’m agreeing. I block everybody but then i had to say now Tiffany wait. Give knowledge and keep it pushing. You’re absolutely right. Under no circumstances will we allow the foolery
nikki0327 and so we can meet in public, then I go home and they can go home, and the next day, or whenever, to have hopes of meeting others, and that's enough.
If you are single like me God is positioning u for something better and what's for u like Tony said don't settle for less get what's only for u specifically for u what God has for u it is for u!!! 🤗 Thanks Tony as always!!!
How come no one ever talks about how a woman can be doing all the right things focusing on herself staying busy praying and believing and the love never comes? Speak on what to do when God says no despite the desire of your heart for love.
Summer Gunn the truth is that the vast majority of us will never find true love. It’s a horrific truth to swallow. I believe it will take about two or three generations for this dire social issue to be turned around. I’m 31 and I have NEVER been in a healthy relationship. I’ve truly given up and intend to fully focus on my education and son.
I'm so glad someone had the guts to ask this and keep it REAL!!! I'm convinced that some of us are not destined to be coupled up. As painful as it is, we have to come to terms with this reality. 😔😕
I’m over 60 and NEVER had the pleasure of being in a healthy relationship too. GOD blessed me with three wonderful children. But by faith I’m not giving up on my future husband GOD has for me.
I really needed to hear this. I'm 29 and I've never dated. I felt unwanted for years, but I now realize that Jesus is fixing my heart and mind..not only for my relationship with Him, but with myself. Now, I'm just chilling and building..I'm ok with God's timing.🙌🏾
I’m 29 and haven’t been in a relationship either. I think the grass just looks greener on the side. I’ve come to accept that God has different timing for different people and his timing is always right.
I started dating at 26. My first adult relationship. I am disabled. I wasn’t even looking. He came to me through a mutual friend. I was working and wasn’t focus on a boyfriend. He out there patience. I’m 36 now. I had 2 adult relationships but patience is a good thing to do. The last boyfriend drove 4 hours to see me too.
I have no business here.. but I’m here for it! 😩😂❤️ Being single was/is dope! It’s just YOOUUU!! No questions, considerations, compromises🥴...Y’all better live your best life before you’re snatched tf up 😩
This video was such an inspiration. I am 41, single, no kids, multiple streams of income off someone else's job. Been flirting with starting my own training and development business. Be blessed!
I’m coming up being single for 6 years. I was fine the first 3 years but now the loneliness is bothering me. I wish I had a group of friend girls around bc that’s the issue too. I get friends that keep me around but then dump me when I’m no use to them anymore.
Hear that! The friends will come, I’ve been getting out and about doing the stuff I like to do like skate, paint, cycle, write, meet up is the way to go!
I work in the UK. I'm a nurse at the Emergency Department and I have this colleague who is 7 months pregnant and is still working. I said to myself, I will never marry a man who will allow me to be in a position. Meanwhile even during this COVID-19 crisis and she's 8 months pregnant she's still working! I wonder what her husband is doing in life? Ugh dusty! I'd rather be single!
I am such a Home Body. I am a nurse in a busy ER in Atlanta , and after working 12 hour shifts 3-6 days a week, all I want to do on my days off is stay in. I need to get out and mingle if I want to meet a mate.
Be blessed tribe! I will be totally honest and say I was thinking something was definitely and desperately wrong with my life since I'm 43 and single. No children, never been married. I was close. I was engaged but my fiancee passed away. It took GOD to instill in me my season of singleness is beautiful and I fell in TRUE LOVE with the TRUE KING. I can blow this comment section UP with all He has taught me. Earthly I'm single, but from above in Heaven, I'm not single. I've been chosen.
The word “impossible” can always be seen as “I’mPossible.” All things are possible when you put God first. Single or married, young or old, always stay strong through Christ Jesus! ❤️🌹❤️
Be Blessed. Life is very different when you have never been single. Ladies please understand it is nothing wrong with you, God create us all in a perfect way. We as women sometimes pray for a mate...….we end up with "WHO SHOT JOHN AND FORGOT TO KILL HIM".....A MANS REJECTION IS OFTEN GODS' PROTECTION.
And those familiar spirits try to attach to you.also dealing with the spirit of rejection. Its alot. But i walked away from alot so called friends. I need Godly friends that love God the way i do
Imagine being in the wilderness running and your future husband is running thousands of miles behind you. After a while he sees you, his future wife, ahead of him. He keeps running, but at this point he is chasing you. Eventually you slow down a little and you catch him. In the end, you both run into a beautiful paradise made for you to thrive and prosper. However, if you both didn't run out of the wilderness together you wouldn't have made it to paradise. Ladies and gentleman get yourself ready and enjoy your life. Your future partner will eventually come. Thank TG.
I use to feel that way a lot when I first got divorce years ago . But with school and work my kids that’s what keep my mind clear and going to church was the best part about it 💯❤️
Being single is not a bad thing. Sometimes it's time for us to grow and there may be things we need to work on before we can be in a relationship. I've been single since 2000 and honestly, I love being single. I'm very independent and I don't feel like a man can complete me. I complete myself. I place God before myself or anything else. God bless you all.
Rt at the moment i have 2 fractured ankles... Healing nicely... Will start my walking program when it's nicer out... Lose 10 more lbs.. Down 30 so far... Will work on my Brain and Brand !!! Be Blessed y'all !!! 💙💚💜
So true!! I love dating myself 🤗 going to breakfast or lunch, rollerblading at the park, hanging at the bookstore, going to church, etc!! I’ve started building my brand and all! Life is amazing 💪🏽💖
This is good Tony! Coming from a 27 year old single woman I approve this message! I was just talking to someone about this. Actually these are the very things that should be a 🚩to men who are seeking a real woman. If she doesn’t possess these qualities, she is NOT ready. Preach brother I’m woke!
This is so good! So many people are throwing their lives away in the wrong relationship. Putting their future on hold just standing still. I'm thankful that hasn't been my experience. I have spent more time being single than in a relationship, but my life reflects that. I still don't feel as great as I believe I can be, but I'm in a great place!
WHEN I TELL YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I was so down today, questioning myself about the standards I have and being single but this was so encouraging to me. It kept me with my persceptive. So glad you listened to the Holy Spirit and spoke on this topic! Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins!
You have no idea what your words mean to me. I just want to thank you for allowing GOD to speak through you because some of us need it. This was a complete eye opener. No I’m not lazy but I am going to go harder. Thanks Coach!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Tony, you and your wife are so lucky to have each other. I'm in the process of getting a divorce after 9 years. A disrespectful man with no ambition, goals, or values isn't for me. His word means nothing to me anymore.
I think God is being real with me and is telling me to get my sh*t together. 27, almost 28, been single my whole life. After the pandemic is over, I'm hitting the gym and putting 10000% in self improvement. Everyday is such a struggle, I wanna die everyday. I just want to be loved. My family doesn't love me.
Invest in exercise but ALSO see a nutritionist AND have a solid blood test. It took me until I was 36 to be able to consistently lose weight because my attempts to eat healthy still had too much hidden sugar and not enough iron and potassium. I'm 40 and gyms aren't reopening until next week... but I'm STILL dropping sizes. You're in your TWENTIES ... you can do this! Also, if no one has ever told you: YOUR LIFE IS VALUABLE. You are not here by mistake; your life has value and purpose. In 8 billion people, YOU ARE HERE BECAUSE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HERE. Keep pursuing your life until you REALIZE this truth for yourself and find out all of WHY (hint: you are going to need all of your human lifespan, so plan on living a long time and enjoying it)!
This video is my favorite. Not taking the rest you made for granted but this touched many nerves for me. I've been selling myself short. Thanks Tony. Time to do better! BLESSED TRIBE.
Be blessed. Thank you Tony! Focus on your purpose, how you can serve others, have fun, spend time with with God, etc. Enjoy your single season ladies!! It’s not about just having a partner. While living your life the man will come.
I believe the elderly understand the meaning of being alone and are satisfied with having a campanion with no intent of being married or spending day to day with someone.
Wow, so I just found Tony but man I been telling myself this for a long time. I see so many unhappy relationships and I've told myself that I will work on myself and when the time is right...love will find me.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." Robin Williams
Yesssss I’m here for this!! “If you don’t have you a voice memo app, you don’t have a phone 😂 you need to get you a phone, a smart phone, you got you a slow phone 😭😂🤣”
Amen, (Self love) (The five 5's) Freedom,Focus, Finances,Family Friends The three (B's) Brain,Brand,Body In the most of your path stay focus and work on you, in due season and time everything else will fall in place amen, Sumitt your prayers faithfully with all supplication. FAITH& TRUST THE LORD ALMIGHTY ONLY!!!
So many jewels in this video💎💎... I had to comment... Brother Tony you are a blessing😀!! May the Most High continue to bless you and your family! Thank you for helping me recover, rediscover and get it together!!
His body look like i chiseled him with my hand 😂😂😂 I honestly feel like I’m the one you’re speaking about when you say she’s not ready. I have several things i need to complete, but i was hoping God will send him on the way there. You hear meeeeeeee lol okay Lord.
I love this mans videos, whenever I’m feeling sad or lonely I have to come here and get reminded of a few things lol and the plus is that he is high key a comedian. Sometimes I be laughing so hard you would think I was in here with a group of friends but nope just me lol
With internet, everyone has the capacity to excel in any domain, learn what they want, and now everyone can work from home. It’s infinite information out there, it’s just distractions and choices that separate the successful from the impoverished. Another thing, everyone writes now, so the authors market is congested and competitive. You have to put in more work than all the others that have already surpassed you in order to not get left behind.
Thanks Tony. God does work in mysterious ways. Last night I was in my feelings about being single and this message showed up on my RU-vid when I needed it. Your message uplifted my spirit, giving me a new perspective and focus. I can't thank you enough.
THIS RIGHT HERE.... I don't know who needs to hear this but this ALL THE WAY spoke to ME!!! Lately I've been running around here feeling sorry for myself--I'm usually upbeat most of the time--but I been letting the fact that I'm single, lonely, and no prospects get me down. Tony spoke directly to my SOUL in this vid! I have the degrees, a home, a job... BUT I also have a book in my spirit I haven't written yet, a non-profit I would like to build, people are naturally drawn to me to counsel them, and this body could use some work... AND I know I don't get in God's word like I should. MERCY!!! This vid brought the clarity I needed to turn within and work on me. Thank you Tony Gaskins! Please keep doing what you do!!!
I read 'Single is not a Curse' years ago and it blessed me. I've been single a looonnggg time and I enjoy my own company, but it's rough not meeting someone who understands me and shares my values. I'm still working on my brand, but thank you for this as it's a reminder to be more diligent! Sometimes I feel like he's somewhere prolonging the process by not being prepared himself 😩 ::sigh::
So 20 mins into the video and I had to join the bless tribe. I am bewildered as to why this powerful video got so many dislikes, its ludicrous! Tony is teaching us, teaching me how to workout at home, how to enjoy my own company, how to build myself, how to be a better version of myself, all FOR FREE!! What is wrong with people. He is under obligation to none of us to be doing this, but for some reason he does it anyways, EVERYDAY!!! And we wana be mad because he's telling us the truth. I know its hard to hear but the message that is hard to hear is often best for us. So thank you Mr Gaskins for ALL ur wisdom and kindness because its kind to help people u don't even know.
I definitely needed to hear this because I had a situation early this morning & I was crying out to God about what I had going on in my life. God spoke to me through this video & it’s not that He don’t always guide me, I was just in a whole other space that I’m not normally in. Thank You Tony Gaskins
i'd been considering microblading for a while because i started losing my eyebrows in 2012. i contacted someone a few years ago, but didn't go through with it, because i thought i wanted something natural -an eyebrow hair transplant - which is EX-PEN-SIVE. a few weeks ago, you said, "go ahead and get that microblading." well, i looked back into it and after a consultation at a medical spa, i made my appointment! the way you said it was so casual and "just get it out the way-ish." i thought, "yeah, just do it. stop playin'." excited is not the word, because i don't feel that giddy about it. i guess i feel accomplished to have taken a step in restoring my confidence. thank you.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾stay busy ..find something to do..Having a relationship with God right now is all i need..pic up a hobby..read a book. Treat yoself pamper yo self..probably best ro be single all this stuff going on..Keep hope alive sis..u got this💪💪💪❤❤❤❤
Shawnni J I flip flop between how you think as well. It's like God doesn't want me to have a relationship with a man. But then I say," Naw God wouldn't do me like that. He just doesn't want me to have just ANY ol man." It's hard but I pray everyday for who I want and who I would like to be. Stay busy with work, church and family. I have friends, crushes, all of that! I enjoy life but it always seem as if something is missing. I talk to God daily. Building my closeness with the most High.
@@06181975tcs you are so right I do keep busy a lot but it gets me so overwhelmed when I half to deal with my autistic son by my self and no help so I think that's why I feel like this it's been an on going thing for me I pray and do read my bible
BROTHER TONY! THIS VIDEO BLESSED AND CONFIRMED SOME THINGS I'VE BERN STRUGGLING WITH AS A SINGLE WOMAN WITH NO CHILDREN.BUT I SEE THINGS NOW CLEARER THANKS TO THIS AWESOME MESSAGE! BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Thank you Tony! I’ve had some struggles in my single season, and this is exactly what I needed to hear today! Took plenty of notes, and creating my day schedule right now! #BeBlessed 🙏🏾
