When I was 17 I had a 33 year old coworker who constantly made passes at me in the break room. I was very uncomfortable. One of my friends who worked with us stupidly gave him my phone number. I had another coworker who was a grown ass woman in her 40's tell me to "stop teasing him, stop acting sheltered and let him take you to dinner." My dad being my dad, decided to take a second job at the same supermarket and the coworker suddenly stopped calling and harassing me.
the creep who harrassed you is the worst person in this situation of course, but jfc that coworker in her 40's sounds straight up evil. disgusting that she was condoning his bullshit and even siding with him. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
Her being underage was such a curveball. This got so much worse the more it went on and this is genuinely scary that there’s people like this everywhere.
Even without the statutory rape, this stuff sucks so bad, i once hung out with a guy that immediately got super clingy and wouldn't take no. Blocked him on everything. Messaged me on a brand new acc after like 6 months and was civil , seemed like his shit was more together. Mf shows up outside my place while I'm asleep. Hours of nonstop calling, messaging for a whole weekend, blocked again, keeps calling at odd hours in the night after that. Blocked all private numbers and finally the coin dropped and I stopped getting contacted. Some people are just born insane.
Being a woman (or even underage girl) is exhausting. Somehow, the catcalling was worse when I was a minor and it’s subsided now that I am an adult woman.
YES you give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they think you are an adult until you turn 18 and suddenly most of the creeps disappear and you realize they were intentionally targetting you BECAUSE you are a minor.
Same. I was never harassed more than when I was walking home from the bus stop in my school uniform. And that was in a “safe” small rural village. Can’t even imagine how scary it would’ve been growing up in a big city.
@@Kikua1612I’m so sorry to hear this, it must’ve be absolutely horrible:( it’s truly sickening that these deranged lunatics think that they can do whatever they want😞 hope ur okay now tho
This is so true. The only stalker I had was when I was in high school. He harassed me one day walking home from school in a tank top and I saw him everywhere for a year. Thankfully he lost interest in me but it was so scary.
my dumb teenage self that had serious daddy issues felt complimented by the guy that seemed a little older than me that talked to me while I was working at a resturant. I treated it carelessly and chatted with him pleasantly, until my other female coworkers and older female manager who'd worked in the resturant business most of her life found out because he started asking about me constantly and trying to get my work schedule when I wasn't there. They explained to me how bad it was, and it turned out he was way older than me than I thought (30s when I was 16 and i thought he was in his 20's) and shut that shit down; they hid me in the back of the resturant any time he came in and told him I'd quit, and I didn't have much social media at the time. I was incredibly super fortunate and will be endlessly thankful to those ladies.
@@JordanLalonde-1993you are allowed to have pleasant chat with your coworkers, and he should not have felt “led on” she was 16 which is underage. If you feel that conversation is leading someone on then you have serious problems
The thing is, as someone who used to be a teenage girl, it wasn't even a curveball. I assumed she must be, because this kind of behavior was extremely common when I was 13-19 but seemed to drop off pretty dramatically after I hit 20-22.
How on earth did they manage to persuade a fellow employee you'd quit? How can you consistently keep two employees away from each other because one is a PREDATOR?! That guy should have just simply been dismissed on the grounds of inappropriate conduct.
The fact that he uses the fact that he knows her address as a ways to keep her silent proves he needs to be in jail. If he is allowed to take it his anger on her, he will. Lock him up.
That's public information. It's normal to look up someone's address on Google or in the yellow pages because we're curious beings. When we're first getting to know a girl, we want to know all about her socioeconomic status, interests, hobbies, past relationships, etc. It's human nature.
I’ve been having issues with my own stalker and have court Monday. The police have told me that even if I do get a restraining order, that it is just a piece a paper. I live in a red state, I’ve been told by multiple people including the police to get strapped and look up the self defense laws for my county
To add more context to the Riley Whitelaw story I actually went to the same school and lived in the area at the time of what happened. While I didn’t know her very well, the story hit the school and community extremely hard. So much so that the school and community stopped going to the establishment and had it closed down for 3 months. However, the business is still open and everyone I know despises the establishment and pretty much refuses to go. This was mostly due to how terrible the management was and how little they did to prevent the situation. The situation was on going for a while and they still did nothing. Basically when the coworker reached his breaking point he piled up boxes in the back room to cover the cameras and stabbed her. Then immediately after fled the scene and tried to escape town. Thankfully police caught up with him after a warrant was put out for his arrest. The entire situation was incredibly messed up. It was one of the hardest things to see when during my graduation seeing her mother accept her diploma. There are still flowers being placed outside the establishment to this day to remind everyone of what happened. Thankfully some good did come out of the situation and a scholarship was awarded in her name. Sorry for the long comment, just wanted to add my 2 cents on the situation.
Hopefully the establishment shuts down, they need to pay severely for not only failing one of their employees when they could have helped, but has the audacity to continue their business with the same conditions, because I’m certain they aren’t gonna learn from this.
@@bluu6452 …….how the FUCK is it a different case when this is a comment left on Charlie’s video where he literally said what happened to the girl he was talking about. Oh, silly me, we must have watched two entirely different videos~
La dulce e inocente rubia se encontró con la pelirroja y la morena entregadas a un salvaje revolcón lésbico. La rubia era tan inocente que les preguntó que estaban haciendo. Ellas respondieron que eran deportistas y se entrenaban en lucha libre olímpica. Le aseguraron que era muy divertido y le ofrecieron participar. La dulce e inocente rubia estaba dispuesta a apuntarse, pues parecía divertido, pero dudó un momento porque intuía que aquellas dos no le estaban contando toda la verdad (una cosa es ser dulce e inocente y otra muy distinta ser idiota) La pelirroja y la morena no la dejaron elegir y la raptaron, la metieron en su cuarto y cerraron la puerta. El viernes, los tres primeros asaltos de "lucha", la rubia fue una victima fácil, pero a partir de ahí, la "lucha" fue mucho mas igualada porque la rubia no era tonta ni miedica, y aprendía rápido. El sábado las batallas de alcoba fueron encarnizadas y sin piedad, pero el domingo por la mañana, la dulce e inocente rubia se había vuelto tan dulce como la guindilla y tan inocente como una madame de burdel. La morena y la pelirroja se pasaron toda la tarde del domingo a merced de una hembra superior, que les había demostrado que era la campeona de "lucha" de aquel torneo.
So my first job was as a nursing assistant when i was 18. i had to help shower a 6'5 (im 5'5) much older guy in his 60s at an assisted living. Man didnt have dementia and was still strong, he just used a walker for stability. he came on to me very aggressively. He kept trying to have me help wash/touch him inappropriately when he could 100% do everything himself. my job was just to be standby, and make sure he didnt fall and get hurt. I was timid and intimidated by older men but still refused. Then once i went to grab his clothes, when he was still naked, he slapped my butt and asked "you like that? I can do it some more". I already had some trauma so i literally ran out of the room and told my slighty older female co-worker who took care of the rest. She encouraged me to talk to management because that wasnt ok. When i told my manager all she said was that the residents have all the rights and i just had to take it. This isnt completely true, she just didnt care and didnt want to do more work to address it. Luckily my coworkers made sure i didnt have to go in his room again but it was a real eye opener to real life. Most managers do not care about their employees. They care about what affects the bottom line and what threatens their business. You have to learn to speak their language or navigate it to get results. Its been nearly 10 years and have experienced similar (worse) situations since and can handle myself better. But this one sticks with me because i was a kid and "the system" let me down because it was built against me. It showed me how communities rally and protect eachother in crappy circumstances too though. Now i do what i can to protect the younger girls. ❤
I’m not a lawyer, but my understanding is that if you’re a woman, you should never have been expected to shower a man to begin with, that job should have been left to other men, while you only help out the lady residents with that sort of thing. So not only did your manager let you down by not doing her job, she broke the law by giving you an assignment and putting you in a position you should never have been in to begin with. That alone is a very strong case for a very serious lawsuit, even now.
@@ladyalicent705this unfortunately is not common practice in healthcare, especially assisted living. Given that CNAs/Nurses are usually the ones to handle these types of duties, the mainly female demographic of nursing, and the shortage of nursing staff, it’s just not sustainable to do it that way. It’s common practice to not separate patients receiving care by sex of care providers.
I've been stalked before in college, and it's terrifying. This guy who I didn't have a single class with found out my schedule, my name, and my private social media account (which didn't even have my name in my bio or username). He would follow me around campus and when I told people they completely brushed it off or laughed about it. Nobody takes this stuff seriously and it makes me so sad that people have died bc of it. I stopped going to that school but for the remainder of the year I constantly carried around pepper spray and had a high voltage taser in my backpack at all times.
A taser is good enough. You don’t need a g*n to defend yourself when you need to, just fight like it’s the last day of your life with whatever you have. Even a full water bottle works.
It’s one thing to have this conversation with a woman, but it’s another layer of degeneracy to do it to someone who’s underaged. This isn’t worthy of a block, this dude needs to be reported and put on blast
@@emma6648”people” not just “men”. i’ve seen countless news reports of female teachers getting arrested for engaging in sexual activity with minors. take your generalization elsewhere. edit: at first, the above comment only said “men”. however, please do not come for some people in the comments. the misunderstanding was resolved. i think we can all agree on what both people stated and i hope no one gets taken the wrong way.
I’ve never understood the lack of control and heinous actions some men have. That guy just didn’t back down at all, he just was always on the attack in such a non cool and very disturbing way. Got a message saying she was going to report him to the police and he dropped her address saying to basically shut up and do what he wants. This guy needs to go to jail before he does something horrible to her or someone else.
I’ve always thought that some women are exaggerating their claims about men being disgusting rapists and all that. I’ve always seen them as just a bunch of crazy, modern day feminists. But the more I hear about this kind of creeps and more I think about how awful such an experience has to be for these women…I mean…how else can they view men?
There are two kinds of guys: Those who a girl has shown interest in, but is completely oblivious to the "obvious hints", and those who think a girl is "playing hard to get" by getting ignored
I'm a guy. And I recently just had a co worker like this. He would constantly hit on all the servers and text them outside of work trying to get them to date him. He always got shut down and still persisted. He even told a 17 year old he had a crush on her and would wait till she turns 18. I'm a bus boy and so was he. One day he said he accidentally bumped into a customer and grabbed her boobs. And was like bragging to me about it. Dude was a creep. I reported his ass.
If you're a supervisor, always make sure your workers are getting home safe, especially if they sometimes need to wait for their parents to arrive to pick them up. Even if you live in a safe area or a small town, it's important to remember that people like this are lurking everywhere. I live in places that are pretty safe, but even when I lock up I notice cars lingering in the parking lot or someone hanging around all by themselves in the back alley behind the shop.
Nah that’s each persons own job, take care of themselves. If a child is so young you have to watch them get picked up out of the door, they just need to go to school. That’s elementary child activities
Lol when I was teaching, my heat/A/C was busted (room was regularly 94 degrees fahrenheit) for YEARS. One of the iterations of repair people coming to address it occurred over the first few days of school, DURING my classes. While going over the syllabus, curriculum and answering student questions, I shared my work email for students to contact me. Well, about a week later, after the repair people had finished work and gone on their way, I received a random email on my work account. Apparently one of the repair guys took the liberty of recording my email address and thought that because I had been polite to the repair team, that meant it was fine for him to steal my contact info and ASK ME ON A DATE. First of all, I didn't even know WHICH repair guy it was - that's how little we had interacted. So that's creepy right off the bat. Second, he knew what he was doing was inappropriate because he secretly took my contact info, _and_ used the line I kNoW tHiS iS uNcOnVenTiOnAl..... If you knew it was inappropriate enough that you pointed that out _and_ felt the need to steal my contact info, you shoulda kept it to yourself and moved on. Bitch, it's not unconventional; it's rude, weird, unprofessional and entitled as fuck. He even followed up with lines like "I wish I had a teacher like you in high school, maybe I would have liked science more". I felt so violated and disrespected on a number of levels. I never responded, and instead immediately forwarded the email to my principal, who is the most incredible, bad ass admin I could hope for. She handled it immediately and assured me that individual would not be allowed back in the building. Thank f*ck for having admin and coworkers who back you up and maintain a safe working and learning environment 😤 ETA: I was absolutely paranoid going in and out of the building for a few months because I was afraid of retaliation. People who pull those stunts tend to be poorly adjusted when it comes to understanding and respecting other people's boundaries. Hopefully he was a harmless idiot, but far too often it's so much more. Better safe than sorry.
I don't know how an email can make you feel violated But if you reported it as spam (I assume it was Gmail) then Google would flag his email for OTHER people and he wouldn't be able to send emails properly
That guy is delusional, deranged, and dangerous. He shouldn't be allowed to roam free as that kind of threat to her or any other women he may decide to creep on. He'll end up stalking her. That poor girl.
She could have just responded and told him bluntly that she was not interested in hanging out with him or being his romantic interest. So many of these Gen Z women have grown up on the internet and think it's normal to ghost or ignore people. If you ignore your boss, you get fired. In the old days, if you ignored your husband, you'd be reprimanded and put to chores, the sphere of domesticity and all that. In some ways, the internet has really inhibited communication.
@@Zenigundamnah nah nah she said “please don’t text me if it isn’t work related, I’m not interested” and it doesn’t matter what she said SHES A MINOR!!!
@@Zenigundam She did tell him she wasn't interested. She didn't even need to do that; she owes nothing to a creep who snooped through work documents to get her number instead of just asking her for it like a normal adult human being.
@@Zenigundam Let me make this abundantly clear to you; No one is obligated to respond to you, especially if you pulled their phone number from a source that isn't them or their friend/family. That is genuinely psychotic behavior, and I, nor most people, would respond to a random number saying hello via text; I sure don't. Also did you even watch the video? She rejected him like 3 times in a row, I guess for people like you, it's in one ear and out the other if it means you somehow get to blame the victim in some way, shape, or form.
That or is it an attempt to scare he person since they feel endangered Just cause the dog starts barking on you when you corner it doesnt mean he bit people before
I have a similar story that I don’t get to tell much- I’m a professional gigging musician. The type you see on a Saturday evening at a kinda nice restaurant or Sunday morning brunch at the country club, not anything badass or whatever. It’s an unconventional job where I work weird hours and have to seek out every single day of work for myself. This was when I was about 19. I got a DM from a nice restaurant in my city asking if I’d want to start a residency there. Of course I was thrilled, it would lock in not one but multiple good paying gigs at once. They ask me to come out one morning when they’re not open to look around at where would be best for me to be set-up, get the vibe of the place, etc. I show up at the allotted time and the owners don’t unlock the front door, a handy-man/assistant of theirs does. He didn’t speak much English but I happened to speak his native language fluently, so I just spoke his language to make it easier for both of us. (I guess this was seen as interest..?) The owners had got caught up in a meeting and couldn’t make it out then, so I was free to go. I gave him my business card and asked him to give it to them- just polite business practice so they’d have more of my contact info and maybe feel like they know me a bit better. He did give them my business card, and I heard back from them later that day and we started planning when my residency would start. Job secured. Then I got a text. A vague “Hello” from an unknown number. I ignore it, bc who answers that?? Then the number calls me a day later. Then texts me again. And again. And again. And says “I’d like to be friends”. (Mind you this man was probably in his late 30s-40s.). I finally texted back asking who it was. It was the assistant I had given my card to. He had taken a picture of my contact information on my business card before he passed it off. He kept calling me at random times (I always declined) and sending random “Hi”s. After about a week of this, I finally replied again and asked him to please stop contacting me, then blocked him. I brought this up with the owners of the restaurant and said I wasn’t very comfortable playing there and being around him multiple evenings a month if they didn’t talk to him about leaving me be or something. I lost the job. I ended up out a few thousand dollars. TLDR; If you’re a woman, don’t include your phone number on your business cards. Please just use your email. I had to get entirely new business cards printed.
It's scary and horrific how common this behavior actually is. And I'm extra surprised her job did nothing to help. It's their job to provide a SAFE environment. I had an incident at my job a few years ago and the company was so fast to act that I didn't even know there was a threat until it was already solved. To preface, I work at a very popular US grocery store chain, and about 2 years ago, I had discovered that one of the men in the deli department lived in the ame apartment complex and me. Granted, I was never really scheduled around the same time as him. If we did work together it was maybe 1 full day a week and maybe some shift-change hours where I'd be leaving while he's coming in sort of thing. I actually swear to God I don't even remember this guy's name at ALL. That's how little contact we ever had. I had moved to an actual house a ew weeks later, since we found a great deal on a place nearby. So we werent official neighbors for too long. A while after I learned we lived in the same complex, my HR manager comes up to me and she says "I know you live in the same complex as this employee, and I know there's been an incident. Are you ok?" And I, baffled and confused, said "no nothings happened." I had no idea what she was alluding to, and I was really really confused. But I brushed it off cuz yknow sometimes you get weird employees that are just sort of mean or whatever. I thought it was something like that. The following day, my store assistant manager pulls me aside, and says "Hey, I 'm not supposed to say anything, but I can't let this go and not tell you. (deli neigbhor's name) has been saying really disturbing and perverted things about you. We've fired him and banned him from this store, but I want to make sure you're ok and safe." I was really shocked, and stunned to the point where I couldn't even ask what exactly was aid. To this day I'm not sure, except that it was sexual in nature and so bad that the company had to let him go before I even knew what was going on. I want to reach out to that manager and ask what happened, but I'm also scared to find out because that's a really big reaction, IMO, for some just basic "oh shes hot, i'd fuck her" talk. Something made them worry. :/ Maybe I'm reading into it because I was decent friends with the manager before he left. But I've also worked in places that sexual harassment is usually ignored, so....I worry a bit. I'm just glad i moved before any of this came to fruition.
The sad part about this is in the comments of the reddit thread, there are multiple people talking about being in a similar situation and going to thier family for help, only for the family to blame the victims for "leading someone on". Such a dangerously toxic mentality that can lead to deadly consequences.
You realize SA, harassment, all of this bs is the rule not the exception. I've actually lost count at this point. I'm glad people are finally realizing how widespread of an issue this is, but we've been screaming collectively for decades and nothing has changed, if anything it's getting worse.
@@baboon1233 even tho that might be true, which in my experience it isnt, you can ask every female in your life about overly creepy situations and you'll hear every single one of them name atleast 1-2. Woman dont openly speak about it to guys unless you ask, which is also the reason a large portion of them are hostile towards overly friendly guys and label things as "creepy" when the intention might not have been creepy.
as an 18y/o girl who also works at walgreens, the case of that girl and her coworker always scares me so bad. it came out on the news after a 16y/o coworker of mine was abducted after her closing shift and went missing. i almost quit bc of that and other harassment of my female coworkers and the managers didn't seem to give a sht about any of it. big companies can be so evil
as a 19 y/o who also works at walgreens as a shift lead, I usually have to close with only one other employee who’s already received a sexual harassment complaint, and has even said suggestive stuff directly to me. It’s so bad that I don’t even like to have my back turned to him.
The sad thing is that threats and stalking isn't really punishable. This is why so many women have such a hard time dealing with stalkers because the police don't really interfere unless something is actually done.
True, the other day i was watching a report on this woman that was relentlessly stalked by a man for literally 4 years, she had to change her phone number tens of times, she moved apartments etc, but he always managed to find her so it got to a point where she was scared of ever living the house. Eventually the police got on the case, she got a restraining order, and they put one of those ankle bracelets on him. She was given a device connected to the bracelet, and that device would get a notification if he ever approached her location (which he wasn’t allowed to do). Since then he literally approached her house 30 times, every single time she notified the police, and they still didn’t arrest him. He’s still out there stalking her.
i worked at taco bell when i was 18 years old, and was sexually harassed and abused there and unfortunately not smart enough to report or do anything about it. good for her for knowing the line, and what to do when it's crossed ESPECIALLY being under 18. she handled that like a boss!
I was in a male-dominated workforce, and there were a few guys who got every female's number from the contact sheet and just spammed all of us with "hey wanna meet up" messages. It got so chaotic that one of the more insistant guys got fired because he crossed so many boundaries. I will never understand why we need to share contacts with everyone at work.
When I changed phone contract a few years ago, I got offered a second SIM card and number for like, an extra £5 a month. I took the deal and figured I’d put it in my old phone and use it as an emergency phone in case mine got stolen or broken etc. Instead, ended up using it as a “work” phone and it was an absolute game changer. Could turn it off when I was on holiday without losing access to my phone, could share my number at work for arranging cover without giving my actual phone number. I’d heavily suggest everyone get a work phone or if you have dual sim, use one as a work number.
@@tauraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa also use it anytime you have to use a phone number for a cv or a website sign up, all the telemarketing calls do to that phone now
I knew Riley in High School, one of the chillest ppl ive ever met. She was an awesome painter and got paint to paint stuff like album covers, murals, and t-shirt designs. I moved a couple years before her death cuz college but i still took it extremely hard. In light of the situation though Colorado passed a bill to child victims and witnesses of crimes anonymity in public records nicknamed "Riley's Law". Its so weird to see my favorite youtuber talk about her but its good to see her story stays alive. anyways, i miss u riley, that shirt u made for me is still sick asf :)
I work as a supervisor, and seeing this kind of shit makes me viscerally angry. If one employee is making another uncomfortable (I.e threatening, stalking, unwanted advances, etc.) It's the employers responsibility to put an end to it and should fire said employee, and notify the police if it's happening in the workplace. Ensuring employee safety and well-being should be a top priority for supervisors and managers. Nobody should be afraid to go to work, they might dread having to work, but not be in fear of interacting with coworkers or superiors with a power trip.
@nilzatron that's true. The first shift supervisor where I work is a creep. I don't think he makes employees uncomfortable, but that's just because they don't notice him ogling them. I think it's unprofessional and disgusting behavior, but I really can't do anything until someone comes to me with complaints. Otherwise, I'm just making accusations against another supervisor, which would be seen by my boss as baseless without properly documented complaints. It really irks me dealing with these bullshit office politics.
When i was a manager at dollar tree (I was about 20 I think), I gave in and gave my number to a coworker. He'd text me multiple times a day without me texting him, asking if I were okay, why I wasnt texting back after SO MANY TEXTS. It got so bad I had to tell my boss, who then told him to stop. I later found out that he was a fucking pedophile and sex offender, AND MY BOSS NEVER FUCKING TOLD ME. It grossed me out and I left. Never said a word to that stocker again.
It was one thing to send messages beyond her literally shutting it down, like it became cringe and embarrassing to read but then the fact that these messages became quickly disgusting and flat out unhinged... the fact that these people exist is sad asf
That case where the girl was killed actually made me cry back then. I can't imagine the fear she felt as she realized she was about to get killed by the man she had been reporting. Terrifying.
Riley White-law was a year below me and we both went to the same school, I never knew her personally but I saw her around a lot. she was from what I saw and heard from others when she was still alive, a very joyfull person and always able to make everyone smile, she tragically passed a few months after I graduated from the same school. and a lot of friends I have knew her and still struggle with her loss and struggle with depression because their friend was taken. She meant a lot to our school and to hundreds of people. I wish I would have known her but I still take it hard because having a fellow peer killed is hard.But thankfully they passed the Riley Law was passed to protect future children in these similar situations to keep them safe from the public
Yeah so theres this girl who was a supervisor at my job and im a delivery driver and she had a crush on me and so instead of asking me for my number she got it from a binder in the office and started texting me... also happened to 2 other people who worked at this job who she also had crushes on. Some people just dont understand boundaries.
At the warehouse I used to work at we had a teenage girl and her mom that worked there, the mom in the morning and this 17yo girl in the evenings after school. The rest of the second shift staff was other high-school boys, or 20 somethings like me and my manager. Except for on Mondays and Wednesdays. That's when we would get this part timer in his mid-late 40s, and all he would do is try and talk and complain about having to work. And when he wasn't complaining, he was being a creep to the 17yo girl. He would only do things that had plausible deniability, like dropping his punch card on the floor behind her so he could try and look up her skirt. Or always wanting to help her in the narrowest aisles so they would have to squeeze past each other. One night his car didn't start, and I had just happened to stay late. If I didn't, the only person that could have given him a ride home was the 17yo since our manager walked. When he mentioned his car not starting, he looked at her and smiled, but before he could ask for a ride i immediately jumped to my feet and said "I'll give you a ride, blank said she has some errands to run after work and the grocery store closes in 30 minutes. Let's go." I've never seen someone look so annoyed and disappointed in my life.
That definitely would not have worked on me. I would have found a way for the young woman to give me a ride, and you would have had to back off. That middle-aged guy didn't have it in him. It's all about how badly you want something.
This started off semi funny but turned quickly to being seriously scary. I feel so bad for her. Edit: Yeah y'all are right, it didn't start off semi funny. Just down right pathetic.
yeah, until the jerk off story I didn't think it was that bad - a bit creepy and obviously lonely but not stalker level - then POW, complete change to terrifying.
This happened to my boyfriend when he worked at Domino’s. His manager was a gay man and he always made gross comments to him AT work, even touched him in weird places and rubbed his back?? AT THE STORE. And he couldn’t go to anyone about it because he would have been fired. Disgusting how people in the workplace can make it so unsafe for people.
Had this happen to someone close to me, he asked for her snapchat ( him being 25) and her being 16. He asked her to go hangout and smoke with him outside of work and she had to block him because he was making advances at work soon after , thankfully he was soon fired ( for stealinh ) and they did nothing about him being a creepy dude
In a way, she’s lucky that he outright threatened her because then the police can actually act. Often creeps like this are more subtle and the police cant do anything because being creepy isn’t a crime. They have to wait for things to escalate and hope that the victim is okay/still alive
In most cases the police only really acts if it gets to the point of "physical" violence etc. Even threats don't necessarily make them act. What she at least can do is a police report, a report with her workplace management and inform her close friends and family
Hey Charlie. We actually live where the crime occurred that you brought up. My kid knew her, we were right there by that store, the entire situation was so horrible and there were a lot of management involved that they actually knew about the harassment that had been ongoing for a long time and did nothing about it. It was preventable and a terrible tragedy that haunts a lot of our community here. They wanted the entire place torn down. The company kept removing all the flowers and gifts we and the community kept leaving there. It was an awful tragedy. The amount of people who mentally unstable, and those that just think that kind of behavior towards coworkers is something the victim is "exaggerating"about is astounding.
How the fuck were they allowed to do that? And why? How do they benefit from this? Usually these situations can be chalked up to "company want money" but how in the hell can this do anything but lose them money?
@@monkestan9433because they have money and the victim doesn’t unfortunately. It’s not as easy as taking a few people to court. It’s very expensive and that’s not guaranteeing a win. Our laws are also a joke, murderers straight up get away with it because a lawyer can say “Well technically your honor, I made it tf up” and if that shit can slightly sound convincing and it fits well within the laws then boom. If you can find a legal loophole using that phrase then they would-then boom! Person freed even though they commited a violent crime. Because of a “technicality”Our justice/judicial system is joke.
@@monkestan9433companies cover shit up like that all the time because 99.9% of the time it doesn't end in murder, and they probably don't want to go through the legal jeopardy of either being sued by the victim for sexual harassment or being sued by the person they fired if the accusation turned out to be false and they were wrongly fired, so they just go with the easier option that doesn't involve having to hire and train a new employee and hope the victim doesn't have the time or money to sue, which is a high likelihood. A lot of victims probably don't even know they can seek legal action, and legal action against a large company is time consuming and expensive. There's also a bias in the people making the decisions; a lot of the time the answer is simply sexism, aka the belief that women are too sensitive or that it would be cruel to ruin a man's career for "making a mistake." But mainly it's just that companies will ignore most problems under the assumption that it will resolve itself most of the time, and if it doesn't then they'll just spend the money on damages rather than preventing it, because it might not end in disaster and preventing it would've been money "wasted." If it seems ridiculous that they'd ignore something so obvious, you'll be even more horrified to realize that the only reason we know about cases like that is because it actually ended that incredibly badly; a whole lot more criminal negligence happens in workplaces that never gets brought to justice because it never ended in a worst case scenario disaster. We're all just assets to them, if some assets get damaged in the process then that's just business, they can budget for emergencies but god forbid they spend extra money to prevent disasters when they might not happen anyways.
Yes this is also why you should NEVER give out your coworkers info to ANYBODY regardless of who they say they are. Young women have been killed by that happening as well, creeps learn their work schedules and stake out the building looking for blind spots to ambush these girls. It’s terrifying and deplorable.
This dude gives me "my expectations are way too wacky from watching too much porn" vibes. First he tries to be overt with his sexual advances by telling her some of his thoughts about her, expecting her to be so uncontrollably turned on by it that she would throw herself at him. And then he tries to blackmail/threaten her into hooking up with him by leveraging personal information against her, another common porn trope.
@@BlackRaven000please don’t act surprised. However if you’re honestly surprised that means you’ve still got some innocence and I truly hope you keep it that way
Are you unaware of something called “cancel culture” this mentality has been in the cultural spotlight of the west for the past decade, literally nothing new
we live in a diverse society, people don't think there wrong based on how they think and there mindsets. And they don't want to admit there wrong as even admitting your wrong will still get you cancelled, addressed, and harassed daily. Look at Miniladd
You are correct that people need to know this kind of thing happens, but it is not a thing that nobody is talking about. At the start of every job I had to a 4 hour training that clearly includes sexual harassment training and consequences. Even on a societal level, who isn't warning others that there are predators that exist in the world? Sounds to me like just talking about these things isn't stopping them.
I love the fact that Charlie is activly asking for being sued from these clowns beacuase he is well aware that he would send them to the shadowrealm at the actual court
my gf was victim of this. I can from the bottom of my heart promise you it’s because people don’t do enougn about it when it happens. they shrug off people’s weird behavior enough that that weird person feels they can do more and more until they’re full on delusional
When I worked in a grocery store one of the employees started getting stalked by another employee's druggie son. He get her number from his mom's phone and started sending her weird texts and asking for nudes and shit. But at least the HR actually did something and put a stop to it and the girl's fiance worked with us too so she had some sort of protection from the situation if he would've decided to get violent. The guy would come to our store and sit at the tables for people to eat and and he would just roll new cigarettes from cigarette butts he found in the front of the store. Creepy and gross AND terrifying.
How many female teachers were arrested for raping boy students in 2023 alone. Female aggressor domestic violence has skyrocketed since gays are more open allowing lesbians to feel more safe to report their partners abuse. It’s gross the exaggeration and manipulation that women try to still purport the fairer sex troupe and that they are not dead equally as digusting and violent and abusive and shitty humans. Humans are shitty in general and women are not exempt. But moist is blue, he won’t ever report and be factual and actually tell the truth that female aggressor domestic violence cases are skyrocketing since gays are more accepted now. Female domestic violence perpetrators have gone thru the roof in the last decade. Grow up people. If soooooo many men were the way you try to make it sound then that would include your own father and brother and past and current boyfriends too. Funny how you women don’t ever include your own males from your family in these stats. Right? Somehow they are exempt from allll these bad men, all me. Except for the ones that are related to you I guess. 🙈🫣🤣🤣🤣
As terrifying and nauseating as his text were, I’m glad he texted her this instead of telling her in person. If anything needs to be traced back to a possible suspect or motive (if God forbid anything terrible ever happens) he’s already incriminated himself on her phone.
So tbc here you've gotta think like a predator to avoid them. That being said, thinking like a predator. This would make her more of a target because she comes with a built in known suspect. If I'm a rando victimizer, not too picky. I can go after her, be evil. Boom! Cops waste a bunch of hours pursuing this guy.
@@Blanch590 I mean it's the publicizing of the issue alongside her identity and locale that's the threat in my post. There are likely others too but a target with an obvious suspect who's not you, is a target worth pursuing for some predators. It's the knowledge she's had documented history of problems with another person. The fact there is for sure a suspect who will be investigated primarily with full force is the driving factor. That's guaranteed free time after the act, can't ask for a better situation.
i’m 19 but i’ve been working at the same place since i was 16, one of my managers has always been weird and creepy like that to me and added me on snapchat when i was underage. anytime i blow her off abt that stuff she gets more strict against me and shit.
Real bluntly, this is an HR department issue right away. She MUST reveal all of this, the very first time he contacted her, and told her that he misused the contact list, to contact her privately. There is no way she should have remained silent. Those contact lists only exist for on the job communications about job related issues. That means after work hours texts are a big no no. As soon as he revealed his sexual issues on the texts ,she needs protection from him. This guy needs to find another job, somewhere far away from her.
To put it bluntly, alot of these issues don't even make it to the HR department. Their brought up to the boss, the boss ignores them, and something happens because of it, ALL THE TIME.
This exact thing happened to me once. A coworker got my number from the office at work and asked me out. To make matters worse, the person was a convicted felon, one crime was a violent crime, and the other a sex crime involving a minor. I don't even know why Five Below hired them😬
Because it’s a shady workplace a lot of workplaces r to shady and have criminal backgrounds so they can hire criminals and all that its stupid but that’s the world we live in where everybody is allowed everyone to do whatever tf they want
I'm not surprised that it did. You're an attractive young woman with a distinctive style. We like girls who go against the grain; it's like exploring uncharted territory. And with that, I've subbed to you.
@@Zenigundam You just lumped yourself in with the pedophile. I can’t fathom why you would do that, unless you can relate. I sincerely hope that is not the case.
>sexually harasses and stalks his underage coworker >threatens to go to her house if she ignores or reports him yeah, I think the boys in blue could at least pay a visit to him with these kinds of texts. of course, it would be up to the coworker if she wanted to press charges, but the fact is that he now knows where she lives.
I was 17 working at McDonalds, he was like 25... Kept offering to massage my shoulders, wanted to have my number and tried to convince me to go hang out with him at a shisha bar, even after I told me I was 1. underage and 2. didn't smoke (with strangers non the less) another guy once asked me how old I was and when I told him he said something like "oh, so three months untill you're legal", another guy got fired for making offensive and sexist jokes about the female coworkers and when he was telling me about it in the breakroom, he kept asking me where I live and joking that he's going to stalk me home and beat it off at my bedroom window.... At least I was 18 that time around :/
Yikes I'm sorry you have to go through that grown adults really need to stop using the almost of legal age as an excuse to go after someone that is still a teenage kid
I live in Colorado Springs about 6 minutes away from the Walgreens where that murder took place last year. Crazy to hear Charlie talk about it, really rocked my community hard. Thanks for bringing awareness to these despicable people and encouraging victims to take action!
@@user-mt5lj8ot3hsome people look at the comments while the video is in play, and they don't get to the part where it is brought up. you need to chill lmao
@@Dasistriteit'll start off as texts until he actually acts on it(which he will since he literally had her ADDRESS). He literally was exposing himself by saying he was jerking to photos he took of her behind and that he wanted her to be his b__ch. Once again, HE HAD HER ADDRESS. HE KNEW WHERE SHE LIVED. How smooth is your brain?
When I was trying to save money for college, I took up a second job over the summer to make more money. I worked the opening shift at this second job (I was there 4:30am-11am), and there were usually 2-3 of us in the early hours. I was 18, and had a coworker in his 40s who would always go out of his way to talk to me, even moving from where he was supposed to be to loiter around my area. He followed me on social media and would text me things like "good morning sunshine" or "you up?" late at night (so cringe from someone old enough to be my dad). He even started sending me pictures of his body. I would never respond, but I thought it was kinda funny at first because of how weird it was. Then I realized that when we went to work in the morning, I would wait outside the back door in a dark and nearly empty parking lot for the manager to let me in, and that I was super vulnerable if he ever actually wanted to hurt me. Luckily, I was able to quit almost immediately, since I still had the other job and places were desperate for workers at that time. I never told my coworkers why I quit, because I was scared if they fired him he might try to take it out on me somehow. They were all a lot older than me anyway, so I doubt he would do the same to them since he seems to only like high school girls. After I quit, he texted me that he was "sorry if he scared me", even though I'd never responded, meaning he knew what he was doing was weird enough for me to quit over. Scary!
@@leonardosantuario3346are you the creep in the video? Otherwise, why would the commenter even give a modicum of a shit that you, master of the internet, didnt ask how a random stranger on the internet felt? Grow up and get some self awareness, dude.
I used to go to school with Riley at air academy. It's such a sad and disgusting story, she was such a great girl with a bright future but it was cut sort in the most grotesque way. People need to take things like coworker harassment seriously
For all my fella homies out there struggling to talk to girls, this is your competition, this is how low the bar is, as long as you're not this guy you're already doing better. Edit: Wow, I did not finish the video before writing this comment... point still stands
I first worked in fast food when I was 16. I can’t tell you the amount of creepy, disgusting, and horrible people you get. You get poked and “complimented” all freaking day. Meanwhile, management does nothing and will sometimes even instigate it. To anyone who manages to read this, do better than I did. Don’t just give up, quit, the job needs you more than you need it.
As soon as it was mentioned that they worked fast food, it all made sense. I haven’t had a single restaurant job, that didn’t have some creepy ass middle aged man trying to get with all the poor high school girls smh.
One got fired from my work for hitting me on the a_s with a pizza box. Same place kept the guy that threw me and my roommate around because I wouldn't sleep with him. So I quit instead.
Good point. Was thinking about how delusional he got to be to think that he will get away with it and not loose his job. But who cares too much about such job anyways. The next one is probably waiting in line of sight of his current one.
This! I’ve worked fast food, and oh my god the kinds of creeps we had! I used to have to bear the brunt of sexual jokes/scapegoat so my underage colleagues wouldn’t have to deal with/interact with it or the creeps telling the “jokes”. If it wasn’t the employees, then the scuzzy customers sure didn’t help. My general manager was a victim blamer, and only my manager below her actually dared to kicked employees and customers out if they pulled that bs with the underaged employees. Ugh, when I think back I get so pissed because of how disproportionately treated the feminine workers got treated there (we were literally given all of the chores, the boys never had chores or never had the same type of chores, and that’s not just me complaining- there were days when the girls in cold kitchen or grill had to stay behind and clean but the boys never did, ever. And no, they didn’t have unloading jobs either! It was franchise and the owner and general manager decided all lmfao)
@@danap472”Waaaah girls had to do more chores than guys at my work” Meanwhile men account for 96% of workplace fatalities and are being sent off to die in wars.
This also happened to me, not to the extent of looking through records to find my number though. I asked management to change my shifts so I wouldn’t see him but nothing was done. I ended up quitting and deleting my Instagram etc. to get away from him. Such an awful experience that I hope no one to experience. Stay safe and speak up
I’m a minor and have been working at my job since the literal moment I turned 16. Fast food is ROUGH- not because of the work itself but the coworkers. Throughout my year or so of working, I’ve worked with around 6 or 7 people who are basically (or LITERALLY) pedophiles. Many of them have made advances on me that I dismissed because I was a goofy stupid 16 year old and just thought I was overthinking it. A couple of them would openly talk to me about their s3x lives and k1nks. Bro what? I’m literally a child??? You (an adult) should not be talking to a CHILD about that stuff??? One of them would “jokingly” make s3xual comments towards me. Like- about me, right in front of me. I have only started setting boundaries a couple of months ago and boy has it been rough. Ive never EVER made ANY advances towards ANY of them. Like I haven’t done anything other than being nice and doing my job. Thats it! It’s like- is all of this even worth the $10/hr minus taxes? No- it’s not. 😐 No, but this is so scary because I can literally see one of my coworkers doing this shit. Apart of me still thinks that I’m overthinking things but I’m more aware now. Sometimes I even blame myself for the comments he makes. Like- maybe I shouldn’t have been so nice? Or maybe I should have set boundaries sooner and not let him push those boundaries. Ehhhh WOMP WOMP!! Anyways!! Hot take- shouldn’t have ever gotten a job as a child. I don’t care about “real world experience.” Real world experience shouldn’t be getting harassed by pedophiles. 😐
Just wanted to stress that you're not overthinking it and none of what they say is your fault! Ever. Creeps will read into politeness to find stuff that isn't there no matter how you act towards them. If you haven't already, tell an adult you can trust about it (doesn't necessarily have to be someone else at work), so you don't have to deal with it alone.
Nothing wrong with getting a job as a teenager - it simply shouldn't come with any unwanted advances/insinuations. Setting boundaries is good, and a real good habit to get into early, and you need to continue to have those tough kind of conversations early and often. As soon as someone says something that makes you uncomfortable, you need to let them know you're not comfortable with that kind of thing. If they persist, go to management. Any manager worth their salt will take things seriously. These people don't need to be your friends, they're coworkers.
I used to work in a fast food restaurant without proper management. I kept on getting scheduled with a guy that I reported for being a creep/a**hole. (He kept on making distasteful remarks about my sexuality and my friends, "pranked" me by locking me in the freezer, didn't do the bare minimum of taking orders...) I decided to not show up anymore if I was going to be alone with him (i called beforehand to inform of my absence) and my boss told me she would fire me if that behavior continued. Told her once again, "don't schedule me with him, he's a s*x obsessed creep who doesn't respect boundaries", she didn't listen. I quite three days later. Didn't show up to my last shift which, once again, was me alone with him. I later learn that one of my ex-coworkers also got harassed by him (same things), but the management still did nothing.
@@baboon1233 call it a prank if you want, but being locked inside a freezer for 30 minutes (with only a shirt on) isn't very funny. I told him multiple times to stop, he never did. Also, have you skip the part where I talk about him being a creep? A s*x obsessed creep? S*xual harassment isn't a prank. I didn't just leave because of some so called pranks, I left because of a guy that couldn't understand boundaries and management that did nothing.
The nature of his texts alone were disturbing and then once you realize that it’s a minor that he’s sending this stuff to makes it completely horrifying.
A guy I worked with recently did this to a girl who worked with me. He got hauled in the office and was fired immediately for it. He stalked her for a few months and only stopped when she quit and moved towns. Really really unsettling and very disturbing coming from somebody who knew him and the girl personally for years. Never knew he’d act that way.
Its scary how disconnected some people can be, all the while being relatively close to you and talking like a normal human being. I always try to talk sense into them but it gets really disheartening realizing how many people have one foot on the ground and one in the crazy-pool
This makes me feel extremely grateful for my workplace and manager. She told me one time she hired a guy who seemed nice, but once they met up for orientation he was super sweaty. He wore really weird clothing and just overall made her uncomfortable with how close he kept getting to her, so she fired him on the spot. She also considered the fact that most of the workers at the time were 15 year old girls and didn’t think it was safe/would be comfortable for them. Even at my location (all college students) she’s extremely aware of who she hires. & even stopped scheduling one of my coworkers with another coworker who made her feel uncomfortable.
Oh man, when I was a manager I made sure everyone knew that if there was a customer you didn't want to serve for similar reasons, I had their back. I get paid more (not a lot, mind you, but more) and was always ready to be the bad guy to the creeps.
People who refuse to accept being ignored as an answer are impossible for me to understand. If they were interested, they would've taken the time to respond. It's frustrating to see this sense of entitlement where they expect others to prioritize their needs above everything else.
@@ionasmith1998 No. Ignoring someone is just a way of protecting yourself from hostile people. Sometimes telling someone that you are not interested in them can escalate the situation. Doing this sends a clear and direct message you don't want any contact with them.
@@ionasmith1998nope no one is entitled to anyone’s time. Everyone knows when you’re ignored the other person clearly doesn’t want to talk to you so you should have a brain and take a hint.
@@ionasmith1998 No one is entitled to anyone's time, if someone feels uncomfortable responding to a message they got from a stranger who shouldn't even have their number, then they have full rights to ignore them. Plus, some people are unhinged and get real nasty when rejected and it can get scary really fast. Ignoring them is the best options sometimes because giving them attention can fuel their fantasies.
I also don't understand that. I can't be bothered to hold my phone in my hand if someone doesn't reply me right back, those people literally write countless messages for days if not weeks without receiving any answer. Doesn't it click in their head that there will be no answer?
This is some serious stuff. I had a girl stalk me after meeting her on Tinder a few years ago. You don't know how bad & uncomfortable you can feel until you have someone stalk you & I'm a guy. This is some serious stuff & my heart goes out to her
also yeah, I want to get a job and I'm currently 16, but I'm also kinda afraid because of guys like these. I've already had adult men be creepy towards me and I want to literally unalive them, but I just can't. I hate pedos so much
One of my best friends had a similar thing happen to her in college, she was a student worker and he was an employee working in a different department, but in a shared office. He would send her really gross and explicit messages over social media and she repeatedly expressed how uncomfortable these messages were. When she reported him, ultimately the disposition by the university admins was to schedule them so they don't work at the same time -- in order to accomplish that, they let him continue to work as normal and to cut her hours in the office, as well as restricting her from speaking about it. Lord forbid the university's name get dragged through the mud for something like this. Instead of losing his job, he got a slap on the wrist and my friend had less money to take home for the rest of the time she'd worked there - and was forced to keep quiet about why.
so I just read more into the case, not saying that the manager was in the right or handled the situation well at all, but it said that riley(the girl that was killed) was taken off the schedule when she brought up the fact that he made her uncomfortable and that the manager talked to him about it, and that a few weeks before the murder she said she wanted to work more hours and was fine with working with him again, and then thats when it ended badly for her, but like i said, he probably shouldve dealt with this whole situation better and should’ve more than likely reported this to authorities
I've spent most of my career in grocery. It's EXTREMELY common for these creeps, men AND women, just stand there and stare at young people.. or ask about their personals at the register IF they worked there.. these creeps will at any chance stare, touch, or just unnecessarily approach you or your kid just to get mental shots for later.. it's disgusting and rampant in our society.
How many women teachers have been busted RAPING BOYS in just 2023 alone?? Female aggressor domestic violence is SKYROCKETING due to the fact that it’s not shameful to be gay anymore so female partners in lesbian relationships are not afraid to go to the police and report domestic violence anymore. And Mail partners are also speaking up recently in the past few years and reporting their female aggressor abusers as well. the statistics of female perpetrated domestic violence has literally gone off the chart in the past five years because it’s finally becoming acceptable for gays to be out in the open and not afraid to go to the police and report the violence. And I haven’t even gotten to the subject about how many mothers have killed their infant daughters . Let alone girls in grade school and high school that pick on and abuse the nerdy and dorky girls and bully them. If even half of the statistics were true, that women try to purport that you all have been victim of some sort of assault or sexual assault crime. Then the numbers would be so high that that would have to include your own father, your own brother, your male, friends, and your past and current boyfriend as well the way you all make it sound like , so many men do these things. It’s hilarious how gross you exaggerate and manipulate and lie.
Worked in grocery for 5 years and you're right. I was a minor when I started, wasn't when I ended, but that didn't stop people. And I'm a guy. My wife, then girlfriend actually got sexually touched by some guy at work. Unfortunately, I wasn't there at the time because if I was then I would have made sure it ended as quickly as it started.
I work at a lottery desk and Im 21 but I got a baby face that makes me look 16-18 range. The amount of creepy old men that implied they would buy me if they "won the jackpot" is disgusting.
This reminded me of this one story a woman posted on reddit. This guy that she worked with would write every day into these notebooks what she was wearing and depraved and creepy comments about how they were going to be together forever. He had over a hundred notebooks, and I'm pretty sure he labelled them "Our Love Forever". He ended up getting arrested thankfully.
This genuinely bothers me so much. So many men will read or listen to stories like this and still blame young women for being too provocative, too nice, or just accuse them of lying. Accuse us for being over reactive, or dramatic. When if you ask almost any woman in your life, she probably has a story similar to this. I do, almost the exact same, where I was 15/16 and my coworker who was almost 30 had stolen my number off the contact list and wouldn’t stop bothering me about letting him come over to my house to “play video games and hang”. This man also had a pregnant girlfriend, who was just barely 18. And when I told my franchisee, I was straight up told “I’m really sorry, I’ll talk to him but there’s not much else I can do, we’re a small team”. I asked that we don’t get put on the same shifts and was told that was impossible. Despite the fact this guy was hired well after me, and was still within his probation period, and also sucked at his job. He did eventually get fired, funny enough not for being a fucking creep on the only female minor in the store, with witness testimonies too. Fucking frustrates me so much. I’m aware it’s not all men, I’m dating a wonderful man who would never do anything to harm anyone. But it’s enough men that the fear is still valid, and should be taken absolutely seriously.
I mean imo best option in that case is get your brother or some other man who cares for you to talk some sense into them. Personally if someone did that shit to my sister they'd probably be in a casket
@@lukasg4807 gotta be carful when doing that as that can end violent, and most likely can be seen as justified self defense if not thought or have action applied smartly.
I worked with a girl who was getting harassed and threatened over the work app and he would just sit outside her house. She went to Hr multiple times and after the third time, they made her part time and made her night shift (even though they’d still cross paths between shift changes) instead of firing him. Which the workplace rules says you can’t use the work app outside of work unless it’s work related. So instead of firing him they made her situation worse
I worked at Lowe's and a coworker developed a crush on me. I didn't even realize she was flirting because technically she had a boyfriend (in prison) and I had a gf; my gf was pregnant and she had a son. She got promoted to the same level as me and was used to people doing whatever she said because she was mean but kinda cute. One day she told me to clean the womens' restroom and I was like "Fuck no, you go do it, I helped clean the mens'." A few days later I got jumped in the parking lot when I got off work. They dragged me out of my car and stomped on my face until I was unconscious. Woke up, police were lazy and told me they'd never find who did it so I should just sign a paper saying I don't want them to investigate. I couldn't remember how to sign my name because I was concussed but they said that it's okay, just draw a squiggly line on the line and that will be enough. I took 2 days off to recover but got back to work as soon as I could not realizing this girl was behind it. Her best friend sent me a picture of a bunch of guys and asked if any of them looked familiar. In the middle was the guy that pulled me out of the car. That was the angry girls' brother. That's when the friend told me that she thought there was something romantic going on between us at one point because she had been talking like we were getting together. The store manager asked me to keep it quiet and not tell the police and that they'd take care of it. I had to beg the friend to give a statement to management, had to document every interaction, had to take different shifts to make sure she and I were working together as little as possible. At one point we overlapped and she told me to do something and I told her I wasn't and she said "So you still didn't learn your lesson?" After a month of "investigation" Lowe's determined there was nothing they could do and we'd have to start working together again. I called the cops and they said since it'd been so long they weren't going to do anything. I called out whenever we were supposed to work together and got fired. A few months later, someone showed me on Facebook that this girl and one of our managers was now in a relationship.
I hope she has the resources to move. If she lives with family, I hope they do decide to change properties. I hope they sue the work as well, likely settling out of court. At least to have the funds needed to keep everyone safe and cover related expenses including lost wages due to all of this. If it's an apt, typically the management own other complexes and [given the circumstances] should be allowed to move to another one without penalty. The only reason I know this at the drop of a hat is because I had to do the same thing for very similar reasons.
yeah espically since by context of the text messages this a man in his very ealry 20s so if he doesnt get arrested this could be a long many victums rampage of a monster
@@nitrothief6857 yeah very true. I wonder if an arrest would scare him enough for him to change and not do this kind of thing again. I don’t see him getting much if any time for this incident.
