Get to know the INFJ: Starring Joyce Meng 

Good video, and thank you for outing me as a prostitute.

You were a fantastic bush 😁

We all do it but in our own unique ways 😉

Looking forward to future contents with Jon, ♥️

well, got to be honest, before I took MBTI test and only reading what the 16 personalities were... I thought I would be an INFJ.... but after I took my test, it's INTJ haha... so yeah, I still respect INFJs for sure...

It’s awesome to see Joyce as the interviewee 😊

I also really enjoyed that part of the conversation and I'm still working on it myself. Glad to hear that you've got it under control brotha ✊

@@justcallmejon22 I will say the thing that helped the most was making sure you have a core group of people that you trust and accept you, flaws and all, to talk with when you need to decompress. Working my way up the ladder starting at the bottom rung of "customer service rep" was a struggle and I leaned a lot more than I realized on some key relationships to just help remind me that I'm not crazy when I worked through some of these "client" issues, but also helped to hold me accountable if I went a little too logical with some people and came off like an jerk. My ENTP friend and I started in the same area before he moved off on a different life path and I remember a lot of times when he would basically say to me, "You aren't wrong. You just said it like an asshole," to which my only real reply would usually be, "You know what? Fair," which helped me to adjust my messaging skills. 😆

@Joyce ! You got a new admirer 😉

I love cheese and rice (but not together)! It was fun recording this video and I'm glad I got to show ya'll the more Se side of myself 😅

Glad you enjoyed it! It was just as fun to record the video 😁

I'm sorry but the only fucking insight I see is that infjs are better! Nah I'm joking

Same 🙂

Agreed! It's always interesting to get into the mind of an INFJ 🙂

Way more difficult to talk any other way 😂

@@justcallmejon22 Indeed. Congrats for reaching subscribers goal🥳

I think that's a fantastic thing my brotha 😁

Love my fellow Ni-doms 🙂

Thank you 😅

A lot of INTJs crave your ENFPness so keep shining and you'll attract a mature INTJ 🙂

Cool INTJ HERE! I'm in Chicago! 👋😉

Hope it didn't dissapoint 🙃

@@justcallmejon22 Nah, I enjoyed the video while I was listening to it at work and laughing at the jokes. Looking forward to whatever you decide to make!

I'm glad you enjoyed the video! I can't take credit for anything, Joyce stole the show 😁

Good! Joyce is a funny person 😅

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I reveal all our secrets 😁

Thank you for the support and Joyce did fantastic! Some of the questions came out of left field because I'm naturally a troll and also I had to open up her clamshell somehow. INFJs do a lot better than ya'll give yourself credit for when explaining yourself on the spot. Allow yourself to speak your truth more often, I promise you there are people like myself that would love to listen 🙂

Thank you! I'm sure she'll really appreciate your comment especially calling her 'Royal Highness' 😂

Thanks for letting me know! Link should be fixed now 😁

Thank you for the compliment and she is the nicest person! Sometimes, I can't help but troll and she took it like a champ 😁

You can also be a clam if that suits you better 🙃

INFJs are truly wise and are able to see some of the bigger picture that's beyond their ego. That's why they're amazing and are not fighting to say childish egoic things like: "we're the better NI doms"

It sounds like you had negative experience with INTJs and hopefully I can shed light on your questions. I do want to point out that the awkwardness of the conversation was by design and we both agreed to keep it that way. In regards to your question about INTJs putting INFJs on the spot by asking 'edgy' comments, I recommend looking it at from a different prespective. INTJs will say things or do things that's on our mind, not to get an emotion out of you but out of pure curiousity. Because INFJs have Fe, it might sound like we're trying to make you uncomfortable, but for us, we're just trying to find an answer and in order to get the correct answer, we'll ask it in a way that can be misunderstood. INFJs feeling too deeply is not an issue if you can laugh at yourself, it you can't find humor then it makes sense for a person to get offended. INTJs have always been misunderstood (as much as INFJs) but we find humor in it after a while because we realize that we can't change anything outside of ourselves. So the next time you deal with an INTJ and the INTJ asks you 'edgy' questions, ask yourself whether the INTJ is just curious, because I'm sure that's the answer 90% of the time.

@@justcallmejon22 This exchange stood out to me. As an INFJ, I watched the entire video and didn't feel any sense of you trying to make her uncomfortable. So I guess a lot of it comes down to perception, past experience and where we fall on the sensitivity spectrum (which isn't inherently good or bad). That said, I often get the same "uncomfortable" feeling whenever I'm around certain people who frequently turn out to be ENTJs (confirmation bias?), so maybe everyone has a type they don't "vibe" with. But I think there's something to be said for understanding where the other person is coming from because they see the world differently. Intention is important. It's easy for me to think an ENTJ is rude because I would never say it like that unless I was trying to hurt someone. But to them, that's just how they naturally "get to the point" and talk. If they actually wanted to hurt someone, it'd probably be 10x more severe sounding. So everything is relative, but our perception becomes our reality. I've been trying to come to terms with or better utilize my own sensitivity, which is both a gift and a curse. I can't expect others to match my wavelength, just like I can't force myself to be different either. But I think understanding the other side can help improve my perceptions of people/situations, and also opens up the potential for more meaningful interactions. Seems like the best option, which is why conversations like this are so important. You've been feeding us a lot of Ni dom content lately and I am here for it. In a similar vein, I've also been struggling with the question of "why are we so misunderstood?" This is obviously a subjective feeling, though valid. I wonder if it just comes down to communication and language. Ex. Would it be easier for Sensors to understand me if I used real world metaphors to explain my abstract thoughts? Is it worth it or should I stick to finding people similar to me in thinking? Can you really force something like connection? Am I not being authentic/tailored enough to find the right people who are rare to begin with? Honestly, I don't know. These are questions that continue to plague me. 😂

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If you enjoyed that chemistry, you should see me with my IRL friends. I joke way more off screen 😂

I'm glad you enjoyed the video! I don't think either of the type is better, it's just fun to banter. Trust me when I say that INTJs understand INFJs really well, but we'd rather make ya'll feel comfortable so that you speak you mind than to explain it in an Fe way. You guys are great 🙂

It's Ni magic baby 😉

TOTALLY! I LOVE IT! 🤣🤣🤣

I understand how you feel because it's great when it's great with them. I'm not sure what happened between you and your ENTP but I hope you still at least have fond memories of that person ✊

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Team Joyce!! ✊

Recipe for building an INFJ 😅

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Anyway, I loved the fake infj. She connected with my humor so well. We could go anywhere and laugh at anything. But I found out the hard way tgst…that’s just a thing that she does. And that was a huge turnoff. At the time.

I certainly miss her.

Thank you for sharing your story! I can feel how much you miss her from the way that you described her. Sometimes, good things fall apart and we just have to accept that the only thing we'll have left of a person are fond memories. I hope thinking about this person doesn't ruin your day and I hope you're doing well ✊

@@justcallmejon22 no, no issues. I talk about my x’s often. Some don’t much appreciate or are threatened by it but I think it’s healthy. It’s extremely easy for me(probably us?) to point our attention forward and forget things that happened, especially if we’re the only ones it happened to, snd not learn from it completely, or fall into the same cycle.

I'm pretty sure she's an INFJ because we Ni'd all over the place 😂

Thank you 🙏

Yup! It's feels more natural to Se while standing up 😅

Butttt INTJs love talking about those topics too, so it'll just be a normal conversation for us 😅

Happy to hear that 😀

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