Are you a jealous person? During this Girl Chat, the hosts are keeping it REAL and opening up about what makes them give the side eye. When it comes to her hubby Vince, Tamar admits she’s possessive and proud. Watch!
Yo Adrienne cracks me up! When she was talking about being jealous of her husband being overly kind to women she was like "she's not thirsty." That got me dying!😂😭
Thank you! She describing the difference between jealousy and coveting. Tamar probably doesn't know what covet means therefore completely missed Tamera's point.
912nelle More like different feelings. Jealously is resenting someone for having something you desire because you feel they do not deserve it, but you do. Coveting is just wanting what someone else has.
S White Actually they are different. Envy is when you want what someone else has, but jealousy is when you're worried someone's trying to take what you have. An example would be if you want your friend's new convertible, you feel envy. However if she takes your husband for a ride in it, you feel jealousy.
S White no Envy is when you are envious of materialistic things such as grades, Cars etc and jealousy is when you are afraid someone else will take a very close person to you away from you
lmao though - yes, i have to say adrienne, that was really well delivered. i'm snickering my ass off just from your delivery. i know this is kind of a foolish made up segment, but that was funny adrienne.
They're mistaking Jealousy for Territorial. If he's already your man then you're territorial, but if he's not and you see him out with his girl then you'd be jealous of her cause you'd want what she has.. They confuse the words. 🙄
Well even if you're a couple you could still be jealous because you're maybe insecure in your relationship or he's a douche and does things that makes you jealous..
Jealousy is what Adrienne & Tamar were describing, not so serious "playful" jealousy. What Tamera was describing was ENVY, that's the kind that eats you up. Jealousy and Envy are completely different things.
Jealousy and envy are synonyms……they mean the same thing. Straight from the dictionary jealous- feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages. and envy-a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck….but not very often do I agree with Tamera there are levels and usually someone whose REALLY jealous does do harmful things to themselves or others. They show it on tv A LOT there’s always a jealousy plot line in a movie and it’s always negative lol
I think Jeannie meant, that she's jealous of her Mum loving her "son" more than her daughter.. I get that. I used to get so annoyed, when my Mother would be really nice to my friends, but shout at me in the next sentence^^ doesn't happen today anymore :)
..... seee I've done the territorial thing and it gets annoying because you be talking to the bartender/waiter/whoever and you might just be making polite conversation and suddenly you feel a hand around your waist and your man is lowkey glaring at the dude and you're just like "bruh. He's just doing his job." Smh
These 5 ladies were IT for me. So glad y’all posted the full videos. I really miss the 5 of them, been huge fans of each of them when growing up. Tamar: personal music, “Braxton Family Values” show, etc. Tamara: “Sister Sister”, “Twitches”, the reality show w her Tia, etc. Loni: Stand up comedy, “Soul Plane” movie. Jeanie: “How Do I Look” show, etc. Adrianne: “Cheetah Girls”, 3LW, music, etc.
I legit feel like anyone who likes drama in their relationship feels that their relationship or maybe their own personality in the relationship is boring without it.
Jeannie looks so high fashion and edgy today!! Her whole look is giving me life! And I wouldn't mind my man being a little territorial but definitely not jealous! There is a big difference, and I hope for Adrienne's and Tamar's sake that they mean the former and not the latter!
In my opinion, a jealous boyfriend is an INSECURE boyfriend. If he has you, he should not feel any way about you talking or having conversations with other guys. That is simply not cute at all. Next thing you know he's putting you down and it can become worse for there.
It depends how the reaction is..If the man is grabbing on your wife and trying to get her attention that is different versus them just having a conversation. jealousy is a crazy thi g to be..when there should be trust no matter what
i am not the jealous type and I HATE jealous men. it's such a turn off and it makes me angry when a man is Jealous however I am territorial and I love a man who is. You can be territorial without being jealous. Jealousy is from insecuity and being territorial is from protecting what is yours from predators.
I'm the typa guy that if you try to control me or manipulate me with jealousy (trying to make me jealous or being unnecessarily jealous about me) I will call you out on it and say basically that I don't like it and you need to stop. If you don't stop, I will break up with you. It's not a game that I play.
I made a very good point to my boyfriend the other day when he saw a guy looking at me. He said "I'm a jealous person." And I told him "There's a difference between jealous and territorial. Jealous is when you want something you don't have (like Tamera said) Territorial is when you have something and don't want anyone else to try and take it from you.
I Have a feeling Adrienne learned a lot about true love and relationship through Tam’s relationship and honesty. They have what we all aim to have and pray for. ♥️ and now Adrienne does too. Happy to see so much growth with these ladies
so why are there so many bitter comments? did you really need to point out adriannes armpit chub and bash Tamars husband... jealous much?? so Unessasary..
It's so interesting to watch these videos years later knowing how things turned out. Tamar's and Adrienne's responses just show that they were not getting the attention and love from Vince and Lenny so they had to play these games to get some. Games aren't healthy period.
To me, jealousy is that of petty fleeting emotions like when you see someone get a new phone and you're like I can't wait until I get mine. It's nothing major. On the other hand, envy is a higher degree of jealous where you feel so much resentment that you are willing to act on it, whether it be harmful or malicious. Does that make sense? What do you think?
Not to be funny but I have never heard any of my sisters or any female in general say that they find Vince attractive. So I really don't know why Tamar goes so hard for him. As if there is a line of females waiting to be with Vince. Jealously is natural feeling. But be careful. Some people go to far with it.
She is just scared that someone is gonna run up on him, and play the same games she did when he was TAKEN. She has proudly admitted to doing so, and what comes around goes around so basically she is trying to secure her financial stock before someone else does the same thing she did....SMH
Lets not forget folks that Tamar's relationship is the longest lasting one on this panel...by 4 or more years... Vince is a grown ass man and he chose Tamar just like she chose him. For those who dont know what that feels like I apologize... Multiple husbands and sperm donors can be really exhausting im sure...kudos to the women and men that find someone regardless of what they look like... Sidenote: im tired of these trolls talkin bout Tamar because she got a man with money...lol if i had to choose from man a with or without... Id definitely lean towards with. Especially if he's treating me right and loves me as well...vince had a girl before tamar so for all those saying nobody wants Vince...his track record proves otherwise. Any woman who doesnt get jealous when another woman tries to talk to ur man is a damn fool and aint really in love. Call it what u want, jealousy,envious,coveting its all the same feeling. U see something u dnt like and u feel a certain way. Tamera in my opinion acts as if she has complete control over all of her emotions and I do not believe that to be true. At the beginning of the season when they were conversing about checking up on their men she admitted to going home and seeing something on Adams page and going off on him. My question is why would she feel the need to do that at all if she was really secure. Ijs. She admitted to doing it and felt stupid afterwards when she told him about it...but she still felt compelled. We all do things in light of our emotions. To act as if we do not is phony to me. I love Tamera a lot but she isnt fooling me.
Are these girls serious? Purposely trying to make your husband/boyfriend jealous? Why? That just seems so childish to me, like something a 17 year old insecure high school girl would do. I don't know maybe I'm the weird one but I just don't understand that. I have always said some women play to many games in a relationship and this is what I mean, if something your spouse does makes you uncomfortable how about you tell them instead of playing these games. I also agree with Jeannie, I would not want a jealous man because the root of jealously is insecurity and I don't want an insecure man. I didn't realize some women actually want drama in a relationship but I prefer mine to be peaceful and happy.
Please we all say that until ur man steps out on u for whatever reason and u find out...men are notorious for being liars...so they can make u feel secure by just saying all the right words...thats y women are so devastated when they cheat...its lie after lie after lie and u trusting that they love u enough to never hurt u. Its been proven time and time and time again...there are men and women out there who are very trustworthy and pride themselves on being so...but to act like there isnt another side is naive and unrealistic ...and tbh u dont always know who u gt until u know.
It's kinda of a thing if you keep him worried about you then you don't have to worry about his eyes on other people. Trust me it works. How women go out and they men eyes always wandering, never had that problem. Keep em on their toes.
I intentionally tried to make an [ex] boyfriend jealous quite a few times. Looking back on it, I know that it was my own insecurities and the fact that I was the envious one. It led to nothing but distrust and complications. Stop while you're ahead. I was a teen at the time though, so I know that sense of maturity wasn't fully there; however, if you're an adult, that mentality may not be appealing to most.
Girl it isn't just a Latina type of thing, because clearly Tamar just said she likes that too. I love Miss Adrienne but this "Latina" thing is killing me.
Well actually there's a thing in literature and Latin America culture called MACHISMO, Just as she noted, and it's a strong idea that the man must be comfortable in his masculinity and be overly aggressive when it comes to women. Not like American men it's almost 10x worse most specially highlighted in a book titled Chronicle of a Death Foretold. Like if your sister wasn't a virgin before marriage, it would be her brothers job to go kill whoever took it and legal systems would permit it. It's literally her culture so no, she didn't really go overboard using it. Just you guys wouldn't recognize her point without knowing the history behind it.
Alexus Cumbie That has nothing to do with my point. My point is that she always says stuff like "I don't know if this is just a Latina thing but...", and follows on to say something that obviously has nothing to do with just being a Latina. Hints the comment i made before "I don't know if this is just the Latina in me, but I like to get new things, i brush my teeth, i eat, and I have hair". I never made a statement about her point. My response was solely based on the fact that Tamar clearly said that she does/likes something and Adrienne made her "I don't know if this is the Latina in me but...", statement again...*after* Tamar confirmed that she likes the same thing. There is "machismo" in almost every, if not all, culture(s). Anyways, yes, she does go overboard with the Latina thing.
I agree she goes overboard but no, the idea of machismo started in latin America culture way before it became ours. Men and women weren't equal but we were in a more romantic state of mind. In this particular instance at least, she had a reason to use "its just a latino thing..."
Alexus Cumbie It isn't just a Latino thing though. Once upon a time it may have been just a Latino thing, but now it isn't. I stated what it was that I was referencing. Tamar: It's real cute when he's like, "Who is that? How you know him?" Adrienne: "I like that...". Tamar clearly said that she thinks it's cute when her man gets jealous a certain way (she then gave an example of the type of jealousy she likes her man to show). After Tamar's statement, Adrienne said that she likes that (which shows her agreement with Tamar), but then continues on to say her infamous line "I don't know if it's the Latina in me..". Adrienne then goes on to say that she likes the thing that Tamar likes...Meaning that it indeed isn't just the Latina in her.
Not at all trying to be racist so nobody come say otherwise BUT I swear Jeannie (when she imitates her mum) sounds exactly like my nail lady and I cannot stop laughing. She's awesome!
***** Ugh, you're so ignorant. What she said wasn't the slightest bit racist or offensive, as she was just making a connection between Jeannie's fake Vietnamese accent and an actual Vietnamese accent that she heard spoken by someone else in a nail salon. What you said was just offensive is and made no sense so please do us all a favor and log off, have several seats, and get your life.
***** Dude, are you just going around commenting on the things I've commented on and disagreeing with everything I say? This is the third time I've seen you comment on my comment.
Jealousy is pretty normal I guess especially if you really love and care your partner. But it gets ugly if it's too much. Like if she doesn't want you to hang out with your friends because there are other girls in the group. She even gets jealous when you hang out with your girl cousins. My brother's gf is actually like that and it's very annoying.
I swear Tamar is wearing that Freetress Equal pre cut lace Bentley wig. (Look it up) That bish is thirty five dotllarssss... gurl I know u got it better than thatTTTT #noshade #lookforless #pluckthepart #concealeronthatpart #needssomeswisslace
***** lol oh yeah I forgot about that. I like the idea but it looks like they literally sewed two diff color wigs together. Lol. Im really feeling Jeanies hair. Sophisticated and edgy. Tamar needs to fire her hair stylist/wigologist :(
I am jealous of a few things: 1) that Adrienne beat me to my local zoo and skinned a peacock and wore it, 2) how Loni managed to swipe a giant Rolo from my local convenience store and wore it as her weave, 3) how Tay-Tay beat me to the table cloth clearance bin at Marshall's and made a dress out of it. These ladies show up and show out! OOOP!
I thought I was the only one that is so annoying. "Us Latina" "I am a Latina" No one cares we are all women at the end of the day with similar experiences and feelings. It just has this air of being better than which is bs!!
Oh please. Let her live and represent her people and culture. You can't be living in 2015 and get annoyed when people talk about their culture. She's proud! Let her live!
I agree with Jeannie. Jealousy in a man is SUCH a turn on, but I don't want it to get to the point where he's too controlling and it ruins you day, your night, etc.
No. I think Tamera is different and doesn't want to put herself out there. She doesn't feel the same and there is nothing wrong with that. She was the same way before she got married to Adam on the reality show.
seygra20 But Tamera has never said she had a perfect relationship with Adam and that's why they broke up before they got married. Idk why people find it so hard to believe that they are some men and women out there who don't thrive on drama and negativity. Tamera and Adam have a mutual respect for each other and that is what is lacking in a lot of relationships today and that is why the divorce rate is so high.
Tamera has Integrity, in this clip. She doesn't act like a child. She behaves like a grown woman. I do appreciate their honesty about their feelings though.
@ Aria Scott, you have got to be kidding if you think no one wants Vince. He may not be the best looking man in the world but he is not the worst looking either. Putting all that aside , this man has millions of dollars and you think no woman will go after him. SMH. Sounds like you drinking too much Hateraid ,or Jack Daniels or something.
Tamar seems like the most jealous person of all, jealous of Lonnie talking to Vince, jealous of Jeannie(no need for explanation), jealous when Adrienne's loud mouth takes the spotlight off of her, and jealous of her sisters specifically Toni saying she didn't owe her success to her for giving her a platform.SMH
The smirks and the stares are an indication of jealousy, especially when she does it to Jeannie. Lately, she keeps cutting off Tamera. She has been interrupting Adrienne since day 1, and the DIRTY LOOKS she gives to Jeannie every single day.
It’s offensive to me if my man is not a little territorial of me. Not in an extreme unhealthy way but in a shes my queen and I’m going to protect her kinda way. It’s a sort of respect for your woman type of thing to me. For example, I had a boyfriend once who told me to hang out with his best guy friend without him once and even though I am not a disrespectful type to flirt with my mans friends or any other guys, I took offense to the fact that he would be okay with me hanging out alone with his bestfriend or with any guys and did not feel any type of way about it. Made me wonder about what he might be doing to be ok with this. Mind you his friend was a flirty type and I was usually nervous around him. Why even put me in that position? As my man you’re supposed to protect me from that. Never happened and I broke up with him for that. 👑
Thank you Tamera for not acting like an insecure woman. You shouldn't have to TRY to make your man jealous, nor WANT to. I couldn't help but think of that Nick Jonas song "Jealous" during this clip ha.
Love the way adriene speaks.. And d fact that may be she doesn't even notice it.. Same with each of theem.. Of the real.. N that's what makes them so admirable
In featuring Ms. Tay Tay's ensemble today! I love it! 😍 I love the wig too, and I'm all for a vicious side part, but it looks like Terrell shifted the part over a lil TOO much to the side. Otherwise, the loose deep curl pattern is everything. I think the black really fits her.
for me it's kind of confusing, so if I'm with my man at some type of event and I see a friendly guy who comes up to me and we're just talking doing our thing, and I notice that my bf gets a little jealous, i like it cause I think it's sexy, but if it gets to the point where it causes a fight over the guy just staring at me... than I'm not playing no more. Because all you're really showing me over this fight is that you don't trust me, you have NO self control, and you're just straight up possessive. There is a limit when it comes to me...
I swear Andrienne and I are kindrid spirits. Usually everything she talks about as it pertains to men and our relationships with men, i have ALWAYS agreed with her. And i do think it HIGHLY possible that its a latina thing. I looovveeee the natural smell of my man, and i DO want to take his last name if we get married (doesnt mean im not proud of mine), and i loooveeee the whole machismo thing when a man likes to (subtly) make it clear that you are his. Obviously, any man that is CONTROLLING though is totally different. thats not what she means.
it's not a Latina thing because Tamar said she also does it. Tactics like what Adrienne does are usually done by women who are extremely insecure so it's not because you are a black or white. Women love attention more than others
noneya123 It's only Adrienne that says that and it's annoying. I understand Latinas do not get a lot of recognition because they aren't a race but damn she needs to stop being ignorant like how many times she's going to tell us that she's Latina
Jealousy is a precursor to lack of self confidence, not to be confused for arrogance or self centeredness which also lies within insecure people. Bottomline, a secure person has no need to incorporate tactics and tricks like jealousy or any other unnecessary drama to gain attention from their love one.
making your man jealous is dumb! jealousy is when you think someone will take what you have, and if you're in a serious relationship, your man should be confident that you guys love each other and are fully committed to one another. if you want your man to be jealous, then maybe you should be with the other person instead? wow, i'm 17 and i have more sense than them.
I really want to take these women to church for deliverance. Jealously is cruel to the grave. The spirit of rejection is real. I want my man to be jealous, so I can feel wanted. Tamera I applaud you
Don't these people know English!? *jealousy* is when you don't want other poeple to have what you have *envy* is when you want something that other people have.
***** yes they're talking about jealousy in a relationship first which is fine, but when Tamera starts talking she messes everything up and no one corrects her.
Carissa99Xo wrong, tamera is right. Jealousy is when someone dislikes you for having something they want, it's a resentment u feel towards the person. Research it
Damn watching in 2022 and thus is a totally different Adrienne. She sounds so disfunctional here. Interesting how much they all evolved and how much it can affect you when you have the right or the wrong partner. Lenny Adrienne was a slightly toxic drama queen because she was insecure and unhappy. Look at her now. And don't get me started about Jeannie, biggest transformation ever she is so happy and confident now. Tamar, well she definitely hates Jeannie that is even more obvious now looking at the old videos. She is definitely all of it, jealous, envious etc.
I love me some Queen Tamar, but when it comes to relationships, Miss Tamera is ON THE MONEY every time! She's a great balance and counterpoint to Loni and Tamar, and a good articulate communicator for Jeannie's view.
I honestly love how committed and territorial with her man. anybody can tell that Tamar cares and loves him and they've been together for 10+ years, so what do you expect?! they're still together, happy and in love and the same goes for Tamara and Jai's marriages
