Guarding Your Heart in Marriage

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The bible tells us to guard our hearts right? Well, how often have you thought about how to apply the principle to your marriage relationship? There’s temptations everywhere. From ex’s, to co-workers, to pornography, even bitterness and entitlement can harden your heart towards your spouse. Let’s chat about how to keep our hearts soft towards God and each other.
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@myronedmond9500 Год назад

I once changed my Barber because the way he would speak about cheating on his girlfriend and going out to clubs and everything else. I had to stop getting my hair cut by him because I didn’t like the mindset I would leave with when I was done. Finding a good Barber is hard finding a good influence is even harder

@angelawalters7661 Год назад

Solid words my brother if more men would take that approach then they would fall into less temptations.

@iamdallasforte Год назад

I did this just cause of how he would talk about women in general. I was more so careful about who put their hand on my head.

@dorothy7782 Год назад

Yes, it's important to be aware of people that put their hands on you, especially in areas of the laying on of hands during prayer.

@brijjorinje7834 Год назад

I had to do the same for my son. Did not want him growing up around this type of mentality

@MokaMama_ Год назад

This!!!

@Amber_AB_Boyd Год назад

“Don’t fall in love with someone who does not love Jesus!” Thank you Preston This blessed me.

@newulove809 Год назад

Amen

@audiannichealing Год назад

Amen sister in Christ

@Jessica-ob9zp Год назад

Amen.

@lazarusfowsta Год назад

I fell in love with and married someone who no one could have told me anything other than she “loved Jesus.” She did me worse than any other woman other than the woman before her that I could have sworn loved Jesus.

@shayshay8119 Год назад

Amen

@chrislacy1990 Год назад

“There’s a difference between your wife wounding you, and your wife triggering wounds that you’ve never dealt with.” - Preston Perry I ain’t even married yet, but that made me say “Amen” and “Ouch.”

@jld4870 Год назад

Profound and anointed.

@sharigrant1319 Год назад

Thissssssss!

@ChrisTeeO. Год назад

@chris but why you not married tho? Ha What’s good! I’m 12 years down and 4 kids deep ikr? but I’m saying …what if marriage is the place when everything that you been putting before that decision is granted..

@brooklynstabile8957 Год назад

🔥

@e.wilson9613 Год назад

Amen.

@KaylyaP Год назад

“He may not be romantic but he’s responsible” I liked that I never thought about that in that’s way

@essences_ofamber Год назад

That's a whole word!!!

@vakashibise Год назад

Right!!! Just yesterday I was telling my husband just how unromantic he is, yet I've heard from my family and friends just how fortunate I am to have a husband that is so responsible. My goodness, Holy Spirit is calling me to order at this point because he's currently sleeping and I'm mad at him for something else 🥺 Let me go cuddle with my man 🫣😅😊🩷

@rosilandmalone5421 Год назад

Yeah, yet the flip side of that, WE are paying bills...

@rosilandmalone5421 Год назад

Disappointment without healing (thyself) and/or communication and/or therapy.

@brendarewan7441 11 месяцев назад

Why can’t he be both?

@shanarraturner908 Год назад

Bottom line: human relationships are ridiculously complicated. Jesus come get us 😭

@rikim1693 Год назад

I feel you..Im laughing.

@bavinclinton4542 Год назад

This is so true. In hindsight Christ died in order to mend our relationship with God the father. The thought of how relationships are hard with our fellow beings, should point us to the cross.

@elenam9435 Год назад

So true!!!😄😄

@simonebiggs7726 Год назад

Gold 🤣

@dtwhoibe2005 Год назад

😂

@wayNAY87 Год назад

The part about women withdrawing emotionally was incredibly insightful

@billystevens6076 Год назад

Yeah very interesting. Thanks for sharing Jackie

@IamBecomingHer24 Год назад

Yes! Very ❤

@ddgs07 Год назад

I’m married & do this whenever my husband wrongs me…..I know I really need to stop

@seld6019 Год назад

YES!

@ayeshamonique298 9 месяцев назад

And very true lol

@FG-ej1xd Год назад

It's so weird how Jackie articulated PERFECTLY how I felt about adultery. I always felt like adultery was so juvenile especially on the basis of "my feelings are hurt". It's like a tantrum.

@ericaleah5547 Год назад

I think when you get married there should be an understanding that the marriage is between God and the TWO! No excuse..deal with those wounds and weakness!

@spndrtwentythree5239 Год назад

Exactly its a little man or women that's getting in their feeling because they didn't get what they want.

@ABrown-hs7fy Год назад

I think in some cases that's certainly true. However in some cases that hurt is also tied to an unsafe feeling/ memory. Not condoning. Just saying sometimes it's a tantrum, but sometimes you are running for your life and as you're looking back over your shoulder you run into that trap the enemy say on the corner for you. Regardless of what it is my God can get you to an honorable place.

@lbee8247 Год назад

@FG but God sees our sin the same, our reasons just as petty. I think some self righteousness comes in when we think our reasons for sin are more reasonable than other people's reason for sin. We tend to use a different measuring stick for our own sins and reasons for sins than the measuring stick we use on the sins that others commit to our hurt.

@FG-ej1xd Год назад

@@lbee8247 oh I never said anything alluding to this sin being somehow worse than others I just simply said this is how I felt about it. Of course sin is sin and wrong is wrong but breaking a spiritual and legal vow you made to God and your spouse because they hurt your feelings is still childish to me. Again not saying it's a worse sin. All sin is the same

@Pia-jy2oh Год назад

The fact that Preston called the devil a lame is hilarious. We already know the devil is a master manipulator but whenever you guys talk about him, it's always how we refer to a deadbeat dad or a trash friends or a narcissist. You put it in a relatable form and I love it.

@Alettierrr 6 месяцев назад

That made me laugh too😂

@desireemiller2656 5 месяцев назад

I love his BOLDNESS.

@tamikalove2658 Год назад

MY GOD THIS CONVO😭 Jackie: the way we treat our spouses are reflections on how our relationship is with GOD...so deep and true! I'm a believer and my husband is not and sometimes the way he treats me is like 💨 another story. Moral of the story! 🚨TAKE HEED SAINTS DO NOT MARRY ANYONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE JESUS 🚨🙏🏾

@lalavargo Год назад

Truth! Learnt that the hard way...

@ae7091 Год назад

Praying for you and your marriage🙏🏾. God can do ANYTHING!!

@LaYoutuber954 Год назад

Yup same … but I met him when I was in the world …

@cieraevette Год назад

@@ae7091 Amen

@lbee8247 Год назад

@tamika Love I am saved and my husband is not. On top of that my husband was raised as an only child and on top of that he doesn't feel remorse, is grandiose in all that he believes of himself, never sees anything wrong in himself, lacks empathy and everything he does is for show. We have been married for over 25 + years. God saved me in our first year of marriage. But I can say God has filled my heart with the love of Christ for him. And continues to. I am surrounded with healthy, godly relationships. We have raised amazing, now adult, children. I stayed on my knees praying and I still pray. I messed up a lot. I left a lot in the beginning, even after being saved. But I would never leave now. My joy is in Christ. And I have more than I deserve. My husband has been a blessing inspite of himself. I pray you can have the love of Christ. The forgiveness of Christ. My children don't have to be split between us on holidays. We show up together in all their needs and events. My husband was a good father. He had issues but he was present and God used his grandiose personality to bless the children. We stayed together and we are building a legacy. Divorce hurts the whole world and the whole world is better when we choose loving others more just like Jesus instead of being self focused like the world. It is hard but being conformed to the image of Christ is a painful process that leads to real joy.

@Eringobraugh771 Год назад

"I can't guard myself and love you at the same time." And that whole part about how women withdraw!! 🔥🔥🔥

@zarmoultrie Год назад

Okay!!!!

@shemillmcleod4941 Год назад

@JessicaJacob Год назад

Whew it was heavy.

@lyndan3946 Год назад

A whole word

@ToriCGCC3 Год назад

This was sooo true and sound

@savfaithcalhoun Год назад

I love y’all’s discussions because it’s like y’all are discovering revelations AS y’all are talking. Which makes it feel authentic, like y’all leaving room for the spirit to speak through you and not sticking to a planned discussion. Love y’all so much.

@WithThePerrys Год назад

It’s true. We have a sense of the general ideas we may or may not discuss but we go into it really open to how it’ll all play out. - Jacke

@annies9633 8 месяцев назад

This is the comment!!

@T-She-Go Год назад

I’m not married but I feel blessed by this 🙌🏾🙌🏾 “Don’t fall in love with someone who isn’t in love with Jesus” amen 🙏🏾

@TDGiddens Год назад

I love how you look at your husband. You have so much respect for him…for each other. I love it. Congratulations on being an example to other couples.

@dexterjweaver4812 Год назад

Good convo!! Married 22 years and counting! I approve this message!!👍🏿👏🏿🙏🏿

@julius_lewis Год назад

That part about stirring our affections for God is SO real. Reading the book of Revelation and gaining a deeper understanding of how our Warrior King Jesus pursues us, literally made me want to love my wife better. I want to better resemble Christ to her because in doing that I am making her safe (protected), seen, cared for, pursued and loved.

@amohelangjanekhoboko6056 Год назад

As a young single woman, all I want to say is thank you. Your conversations are liberating and so insightful. Thank you for walking in purpose and the truth of Jesus Christ.

@tebohohlalele1245 Год назад

Amen

@demikamoreland4729 Год назад

This a hit 🎯,This what I was trying to say but it came out in rage ,Lord help me to good to my Boaz

@dorothy7782 Год назад

"The heart is above all things deceitful and desperately wicked who can know it".(Jeremiah 17:9). We must all guard our hearts ❣️

@alyssiaparker1256 Год назад

As someone who is about to be a newlywed, their videos have really challenged my perspective on marriage and my relationship with God.

@lyndan3946 Год назад

Changed to what area? Making u rethink marriage?

@bthechurch7877 Год назад

You are blessed to have nuggets like this to lean on...TRUST ME!! Keep close to God and take all this in and guard your mind and protect your spouse-to-be and your marriage.

@bthechurch7877 Год назад

Been married for 28 yrs this April but we are stuck in a bad place. A lot of what you talked about regarding triggers, hurt, develope a reverence with God, withdrawing from your spouse 🤦🏾, choosing friends (family) who don't add gas to the fire but water it out was soooooo spot on. Wow. I could identify with everything. Thank you for articulating these issues out loud in this platform. Now I pray. I know it starts with me.

@annt651 9 месяцев назад

Praying for you. The devil wants to see your marriage destroyed...pray as you learn, the Holy Spirit will help you to implement the changes on your own attitude and action that will change the atmosphere. Not easy.

@lmichelle80sbaby 8 месяцев назад

Praying you and your spouse take this lesson & do the work together. Also pray yall get a support system of friends that can help guide & give strength where it's needed 🙏

@frumpusnumpus Год назад

Love the part about friends and their role in helping you guard your heart. I'm definitely guilty of joining the criticism of a friend's spouse when they complained. Lord forgive me. I will be more mindful to lead them in prayer rather than giving them debate pointers. 😂

@SherelleUribe 6 месяцев назад

I can no longer sit and watch any of their content without my pen and notepad on deck !! Thank you Jackie & Preston for sharing, and thank you Holy Spirit for speaking to my heart 🙏🏾

@danielarriaga162 Год назад

No lie Preston and Jackie are some real ones! I'm so happy God showed me these 2 individuals they are so honest and transparent which is very needed nowadays!

@carolynsinclairmccalla Год назад

I love how you both show honor to each other as you disagree. There is a naturalness, but it's more. It's love in action. It's a decision beforehand in motion. Glory to God!

@malu1034 Год назад

This topic deserves more than 30 minutes. So good, Perrys.

@taneshiao9337 Год назад

Soon as Preston said guarding your heart means not putting yourself in a position to choose sin over righteousness i got out my notebook. The wisdom 💡

@pearlieloves8263 Год назад

God is providing His children with tools and resources to reference before and during marriage. God is such a good father and it’s truly an honor to know better, before evening doing. This content is priceless Perry’s.

@MarriageInsideOut Год назад

Such a rich discussion on so many levels!... Definitely a reminder that marriage (like our walk with The Lord) is a process that requires DAILY dedication and work. Like Preston/Jackie mentioned, "the grass is never greener on the other side"... rather, the grass will be greener where you water it! 🙂 Also loved the point about surrounding yourself with solid people who can encourage and help hold you accountable... this is something we've really seen the importance of in our marriage (and personal lives)... it makes such a huge difference. Thanks again for another great episode, fam! 🙌🏾

@sharibarnes5982 Год назад

Are y'all gonna write a book together? Asking for the people, this was so enriching. My pastor has always said my wife is the benefactor of my relationship, love and commitment to God.

@Bamboozlela Год назад

I’m half way in and I’m ready to cry, thank you Father for correction and showing me ways to get myself better. Thank you Perry fam for this ministry because it helps ❤

@nsofwacb4715 Год назад

Jackie is spot on about withdrawing emotionally. It is difficult to love your spouse because you are emotionally checked out. Spot on Jackie, I couldn't articulate better what you just explained.

@bthechurch7877 Год назад

💯💯💯💯

@mrs.latoyamelvin652 10 месяцев назад

I’m experiencing pain in my marriage, my spouse seems to be assigned to operate for the God thats against me & I hold my peace & stay praying, I guard my heart day in & day out & I’m growing tired & declaring for Intercessor’s to pray with me for the hands of the Lord to fight against whats fighting against me & bind off all entities & principality’s thats attacking my marriage in Jesus name 🙏🏾

@annt651 9 месяцев назад

Recommend that you start praying for your husband...Try Stormie O Martian' s Power of a Prsying Wife

@LottieB-xu4sp 8 месяцев назад

I'm too in this same battle . 😢

@CandaceLeAnne 2 месяца назад

My heart is with you. What did you mean by “my spouse seems to be assigned to operate for the God that’s against me?” Only say what you’re comfortable with and feel led to share. I asked so I know how to pray with you.

@awalkofgrace6703 27 дней назад

I understand you but this conversation has brought me to start from the source :ask God to talk to you about the situation and reveal to you your own heart …

@LaYoutuber954 Год назад

It took me 11 years in my relationship and maturing from an 18 year crazy girl to a now almost 29 year old WOMAN to really understand, digest and accept allllll of this and what God wants and designed marriage to be .

@afuadankwaahowusu699 Год назад

Ditto!

@Babyboy_Matt Год назад

Getting married in less than a week, and I’ve struggled with lust issues in the past. But as I’m getting closer to my wedding I’m taking the fight head on full force because I refuse to let those issues follow me into God’s covenant. This video is very encouraging and Very! Very! Helpful🙏🏽y’all pray for me

@knelson2019 Год назад

Praying for you and your spouse! Praying that God will continue to strengthen you in your relationship! Congratulations!!!

@christianmari87 9 месяцев назад

I hope there’s an update of victory for you!! And if you could let us know how to pray if this area has still been a stumbling block

@Babyboy_Matt 8 месяцев назад

@@christianmari87 Hey so update! So since getting married, God has opened a new world for me and my wife to experience the beauty and ecstasy of marriage. It’s truly amazing ✝️💜In regard to my lust struggles, I was clean from lust issues about 4 months in, then I let my gaurd down a couple times and got hit with every temptation you could think of (it was quite the spiritual attack). I fell short once and from that point on, the gap got smaller and smaller. From months apart it turned into weeks..etc.. I willingly opened that door again and I definitely wish I hadn’t. But I always find myself getting back up and praise God I have a loving and supporting wife who keeps it real with me but also shows me grace as I navigate and learn through this journey. So yes, still a prayer request i can definitely use more self-control with my eyes.

@Babyboy_Matt 8 месяцев назад

@@knelson2019 Thank you ! God has definitely strengthened me and my wife in our relationship. I’ve seen both of us grow in ways like never before and it’s a real beautiful thing🙏🏽

@christianmari87 8 месяцев назад

@@Babyboy_Matt praise God!!!! 🙌🏽 🏃🏽‍♀️ He is Good! This just made me so happy to hear! Pray for me and my husband, as we are almost 6 years in and the enemy is trying to entrap with lust as a coping mechanism for things experienced with family, church hurt, job loss, etc. We are physically separated but emotionally still together and want to come back, but there are things to work on for both sides. There is a calling to ministry and I want to see it come to fruition

@moduol1832 Год назад

You guys are a beautiful wise, smart, intelligent, intellectuals and great loves of our Heavenly Father!! Thank you guys for your faithfulness and these wonderful conversations! ❤

@CrownMeQuita. Год назад

I love the community that you guys keep with each other - the friendship that you hold within your marriage is evident in this video and it’s beautiful!

@miiotv Год назад

THIS!! 🤍 they give me u gotta feed my mind vibee loveee 😭 LOVEE IT SO MUCH!! An example of when God is in the middle…

@CrownMeQuita. Год назад

@@miiotv Yes Lord!

@jrhorne83 Год назад

Why is adultry always assumed that "the mistress" does what the wife doesn't? I think that is too easy a cop out (sometimes). Sometimes the wife could be doing ALL she can to "fulfill" her her husband but WE (the husband) are so selfish we want more. I am speaking to pornography as well as adultry. ***Love what you guys are doing - keep it up please***

@Rebeccakisosondi Год назад

Yes! Most cheaters are just awful people who have no character.

@bedelicioussoapsandgifts5818 Год назад

I agree with you.

@kay22100 Год назад

Well no wife is perfect so there will be someone who may be better than you in some areas. You may be patient, she may be more patient. Just one example . Still no excuse to cheat. God does not excuse cheating even on a bad spouse

@ladydee9624 Год назад

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@nadirashabazz1033 Год назад

Right. Most wives arent lacking anything, like u said a lot of the men want more.

@JIJII420 Год назад

I love the balance of how Preston called out men's behaviour and Jackie did equally with women. That was a healthy conversation.

@Gintoki_Madao Год назад

She didn't

@latoyaamb3r 9 месяцев назад

@@Gintoki_Madao she did multiple times.

@betterbecausebookclub8732 Год назад

When she said a woman will remove her energy and place it into something else like her job. I’ve caught myself doing this and will put extra energy into my kids.

@MyahDBoss Год назад

Same 🥴🥴🥴

@U_neekliss Год назад

I think we talk a lot about infidelity in men but it happens in women as well. The unaddressed trauma that a woman has experienced from her father from molestation to neglect can present itself as promiscuity and/or porn addiction too in the hopes of receiving the love or intimacy she never felt she received. Society has made it cool to entertain uncommitted sex but it's really a bandage to receive intimacy without the possible pain of rejection. At the root of it all, I believe guarding our hearts is transforming the mind to see ourselves as Jesus sees us, worthy and valuable of Godly love.

@queenruth_morgan Год назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾 y'all preached in this session. In our marriage, we're trying to unlearn some things, going back to our past and dealing with those things that really hurt us and ultimately made us into a person we don't want to be. I agree with you that submitting is really hard cause sometimes I see it as you wanting to be in control, and I'll shut down. So dealing with that. But also men/husband do at times take their wives submitting to them to mean, you have to do what I say at all times even if it's wrong. Forgetting that the woman is also human, an individual, she has her goals or things she wants to do for herself. Unlearning the way we show love, as sometimes we can be insensitive, and don't regard each other's feelings and how we want to be loved.

@elormadih9138 Год назад

If the man loves, submission will come naturally i believe

@autumngatlin Год назад

seems like every episode is about something I talk to my husband or mom about weekly so I know the Holy Spirit is moving & renewing the minds of God’s people. y’all are the best at simplifying complex conversations, may God keep covering your family ♥️

@phyllisbelieves8148 Год назад

This was sooo good! I was married for 13 years and divorced for 14 years. I’ve been having the urge to marry again, but have the fear of it being a repeat of the first. As I let God lead me into a healthy second marriage, He is showing me my “blind spots” so that I won’t repeat those things in the next marriage. Your video is so insightful and encouraging. Though no marriage is perfect, I love how you allow God to work through the imperfections that exist within each of you, to create perfect and pure love through Christ Jesus! Please keep the videos coming❤️

@lue745 Год назад

You guys are fighting the good fight. You're young, intelligent, energetically willing to do what thus saith the Lord. You guys could be doing anything else but you've chosen to educate folks by using you've gifts and talents. Amen 🔥 🔥 🔥 keep fighting

@michellecherry9965 Год назад

I ain't even married but I just love how yall interact and these deep conversations are just life!! Ty you so much for your dedication and obedience to the Lord it's much appreciated

@leonorahiris3407 Год назад

Also women will put their energy to the kids more when they close off to protect themselves from rejection

@joanewuruje7055 Год назад

Jackie and I act the same when watching movies then. I pause movies just to analyze a situation and it becomes a sermon 😆 I always see beyond every movie I watch, even cartoons. There's always a real-life lesson I take from them.

@jazzimilz Год назад

I JUST preached on guarding your heart out of Proverbs 4:23 last Sunday. Wild. Timely. Loved this!

@newulove809 Год назад

Amen Jazzi

@audiannichealing Год назад

Amen Jazzi

@erikataylor5286 Год назад

So did I!!!! 😀

@jazzimilz Год назад

@@erikataylor5286 GET IT!!! 😍

@joannapilgrim Год назад

Lord, knows I needed this today. I'm a woman married in holy matrimony and got a comment from a married man that made me think and stay away from him. Lord, help us to honor You first above all and in all things for Christ' sake. Amen

@kevinkkirimii Год назад

Guarding your heart = Self control - a fruit of the Holy Spirit

@Mystylemyrunway2 10 месяцев назад

I love the conversation about guarding our hearts. For me because I love God I guard the heart of God. Because I guard Gods heart I equally guard the heart of my spouse. I constantly consider if certain actions would break the heart of my spouse. If certain actions would break my spouse I would turn the other way….and I never ever want to damage the heart of my spouse. So In essence breaking the heart of my spouse is breaking the heart of God. I’ve been married 43 years and we dated 8 years prior to that.

@breaunarawls7555 Месяц назад

This is so so needed like on repeat type , also for me at my age my friends are limited and married friends are even fewer . You all for me right now are my example i’m submerging myself in my bible and also coming to this channel with ppl who resemble me and also who are living out the words of God in Christ in a true, honest, realistic and healthy way . Thank y’all

@brittneyperkins4704 Год назад

I am snapping my finger the whole time feeling this conversation 100%! Amen! May God keep us holy and blameless until the coming of Jesus Christ!

@mwangomuntembakondolo Год назад

Guarding your heart is self awareness 🙏🏿🙌🏿 well said.

@perscont Год назад

First time I'm watching you guys. Never seen such an exchange of energy and/ or words between two people before... I will definitely try to find That Kind of Communication from now on. Meaning I'll start working on me getting on that level.

@SheryllMonique 7 месяцев назад

Amen! Shout out to my bill paying, loving me like Christ, husband of 21years!!!!

@knelson2019 Год назад

I definitely will pause a show to share a quick sermon! And Preston hit on something, I noticed whenever the enemy is attacking our marriage really hard, I seem to get so much more attention from men wanting to soothe the things I'm currently upset about in that season. I'm grateful for the holy spirit for the discernment to see when the enemy is trying to deceive me! Everything about this is wholesome!!! Keep doing what you're doing Perry's much love!!!!

@chicanasc4201 Год назад

“Thank you for bein a friend!” - Golden Girls theme song 😂 That being said, I love you for quoting C.S. Lewis! I am so glad I found your channel. I’m Catholic, and I support your ministry. I think God led me to your channel to help me personally on my own journey to be closer to Christ, but also possibly to help me reach a loved one for whom I’ve prayed because she is struggling with her faith. God bless you and keep up the good work!

@TheVersatilitiesOfJayyy Год назад

"The way I treat my spouse is literally an outworking of what I believe about God". I'm not even married yet and I felt that one. My Gaaaa

@kahundumatengu3543 Год назад

This was highly encouraging. 💜Making the effort to see the good in your partner is also away to guard your heart.

@judythomas6320 Год назад

Definitely I have learned to look at the good in my husband and not focus on bad and it works out well

@nahambohilma8598 Год назад

@@judythomas6320 wow ,💯💯❤

@suzanneclaiborne3265 Год назад

So, so good!! - There’s a Difference between your spouse wounding you and your spouse triggering wounds you never dealt with before! It’s such a blessing to hear two people articulate and gifted with words have these insightful Christ-centered conversations.

@lolom166 Год назад

This was articulated so well! Thank you both for these conversations.

@shawniquamcadams Год назад

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Jackie hit it out the park with the fragility and analysis on weakness!!! #Facts

@jasming8893 Год назад

Wow this really ministered to me as a single woman praying for a godly marriage. Love the depth/ intellect and space to counter thoughts and the basis be relationship with God

@nicholeleon3736 Год назад

Y’all are so incredible. Thank you for this conversation ❤

@snecele913 Год назад

Thank you for the conversation. You guys say things that I think about a lot of the time. I really appreciate this 🙏 ❤

@AimeeBeeluvz Год назад

I'm not married, heck I'm completely single but I'm so glad I didn't skip out on this! Such truth and Wisdom. Thank you sir and ma'am!

@joannemccray7907 Год назад

This is amazing. I vote a full series on biblical marriage.

@shekinahwonuola Год назад

So wholesome! I wish I could like this a million times. Thank you. Thank you! ❤️

@hopefulfilled9519 Год назад

This right here!!! Is worth so much! I’m so happy that God is speaking through you guys

@natashasarasky2842 Год назад

This was such a real and mature conversation on guarding your heart in marriage ❤ God bless ya and your union !

@dr.b7754 Год назад

Great messages here. They are talking about what we call post associative trauma. This is huge in the Black community.

@shekiamerriweather5087 6 месяцев назад

Timely truth! Thank yall for open dialog ❤

@rasheemlea2010 Год назад

There is SO MUCH wisdom in this message!

@Ittakes365 8 месяцев назад

It’s a blessing I found this channel ❤

@shauna-gayescott4089 Год назад

I am really thankful for this episode, I experienced emotional infidelity before my spouse and I got married. This was iniated by me and the process was so bitter sweet. I am really happy that this transpired before we proceeded to tie the knot because it brought alot to our attention that we both never really discussed about our own insecuritiesand past traumas. All the points spoken about in this episode was heaven sent and facts straight from the mouth piece of God. Thank you so much Jackie and Preston!!!! This is so good.

@mcneilla77 Год назад

Amazing real discussion and topic!! I have throughly been encouraged to guard my heart with my marriage!

@ArieLaura Год назад

This is a whole Word! 🙌🏾🤍 Thank you for this, fam! 🙏🏾

@slbllc Год назад

Thank you guys. I just recently watched the Jakes, "Winning at home" and I must say that married couples need more transparency like this. We need godly wisdom in this age. For those of us that had previous trauma like molestation, growing up with addicted parents, poverty etc. it can be hard to discern the proper way to handle a spouse in communication. This helped tremendously. I subscribed in hopes that you guys do this often.

@kvonyajordan Год назад

ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES !! SO MANY NUGGETS TO DIGEST AND KEEP!

@krupaabrokwaa Год назад

I didn't know I needed this but WOW I needed this!! So true about guarding our hearts even in marriage where vulnerability and openness is promoted!

@shelonda7615 Год назад

Awesome and encouraging word!! I thank God for the impartation of wisdom from you two!!

@themasterspiece5669 Год назад

This is seriously so good! I have truly gained so much from this, I relate to you Jackie in the things you was mentioning. Thank you Preston for a man’s point of view! Thank you both so much I enjoyed every minute of this! 🙏🏾🔥

@fruit032 Год назад

I really love this episode. I've been married for 10 years and we're still learning

@tonibates5341 Год назад

This is awesome!!! I’m so glad and blessed I’ve found you guys🙏🏾🖤

@CN82100 Год назад

This is a beautiful and very true conversation. Thank you so much 😊

@ragstoroyalty Год назад

This is so key in a union with God at the center, guarding your heart and setting boundaries can set the line straight and keep others from crossing it. If y'all can, it be great to have a discussion upon the topic of setting boundaries in a marriage

@mechelleburgess429 Год назад

Thank you for making vocal your commitment to God and extending your conversation to others; I appreciate and honor God in you both. God Bless you with more of His Wisdom and content to help us think of our eternal souls.

@TexasChamp26 Год назад

We need more of these types of convo’s 🙌🏾 Y’all spoke to me on this. Thank you god for bringing me here.

@closely-stitched4088 Год назад

These conversations are sooooo needed and too often overshadowed and/or avoided💛

@amandaecheona1457 Год назад

I needed this! I did not do this nor understand the negative consequences. In the beginning of my 10year relationship and would recommend this to everyone in a relationship, deception is so sneaky. Kill pride every chance you get and allow your love and respect to flourish for your selfnand those in the relationship

@joyh.729 Год назад

Great conversation! Thank you for giving me, as an unmarried person, insight into what marriage could look like by sharing your thoughts and experiences both individually and as a couple.❤️ Please keep these conversations coming!

@JC-pu3vl Год назад

Thank you for all the recent content you've been putting up. It's great how open and honest you both are! There's a lot of wisdom to learn from these videos.

@Brandibell121 Год назад

My God!!!! Y’all was on it today and this was filled with so much truth and wisdom🔥🔥🔥

@jazzylagrant13 Год назад

This is GOLD! I’m a newly wed and this has blessed me. Sharing this with my hubby. ❤️ Thanks for your continued obedience bro/sis.

@rudonikki8489 Год назад

Omg this episode was🔥. As i single person, i learnt a lot. I always look forward to the next episode because i know they is something new i will learn. Keep doing the work of the Lordt Mr and Mrs Perry, 🤩.

@goldenbear4849 Год назад

So appreciate you two and these conversations ! Good good stuff 🔥!!!The Lord Bless you and Keep you and make His face shine upon your lives and family 🙏!

@ShoshanahDeborah Год назад

“There’s always something good, that covetousness will keep you from seeing.” Preach!

@TheBenitaAngela Год назад

This was goodt!!! And timely!!! SN: Golden Girls = “Thank you for being a friend….”

@nerd-tastic3622 Год назад

I think the weakness of stepping outside the marriage can go both ways, it can be a boo boo on women as well for the same reasons that was given for men. I love hearing you two talk.