Has This Woman's Desirability Decreased? 

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As someone said. Lizzo is considered a ten and is considered beautiful on Social Media. When a man says to a woman she reminds him of Lizzo, the woman is highly offended. Sums it up.

A woman I know at work casually mentioned the “loser” her daughter was involved with. I asked her why losers are only men - I’ve never heard the word loser associated with a woman. The thought had never occurred to her before.

I'm not physically attracted to obese women, that's my preference. I told this to a woman at the bar who was trying to get with me and she said I was fatist, I replied "no mam your the fattest".

In my 60 years on this planet, I've learned one thing. You can't tell a woman anything and have her understand it. The best you can do is write it down, give it to her and wait a week. If she doesn't burn it, there might be hope.

Women have no problem telling their husbands that they're losing attraction for them and that guy will try his best to lose weight and get himself into shape. But if a guy says the same thing to his wife, she'll use shaming tactics and gaslighting to justify her laziness and unfairness. In short, this is selfishness and inconsistency which in my opinion are two of the things that break up marriages.

“In a world of starving dogs, there exists no bad meat” -Christopher Belt

Dated an overweight girl that got mad after she got a gym membership and I asked her if she went to the gym. Seriously. Another overweight girl wanted to date me and I told her that she needed to put in an effort to lose weight. I do cardio several days a week so I was not being hypocritical, and she was super insulted and ghosted lol. Whatever

"It used to be commonly said that a woman who thinks she is too good for any man "may be right, but more often-she is left." -F. Roger Devlin

Men underestimate their value while women overestimate thiers. We've reached a point in society where a 4 thinks she deserves a 10 guy and they think just having a vaj makes them wifey material.

Right on! A large part of the issue is most guys will sleep with anything when drunk & it makes these mingers believe they can have their pick. Someone wanting to have sex with you isn't the same as someone wanting to have a long term relationship & a family.

What I like about being a man is that you are responsible for all of your own actions. If you want to be successful, athletic looking, intelligent, no one is going to tell you that you are perfect as you are, but hit you with the reality. I've lived in that reality in my past 10 years, and as I realized this, I went from being a pathetic looser, to someone, who easily passes all the points that women has on their list. Being accountable and taking full responsibility over one's life is the best thing that can happen to a man imo.

It’s sad that so many women act so childishly. Men are told to be responsible. Women are told they are never responsible.

This female ego really comes out when a women is rejected, even by an attractive man. They just cannot stomach the idea that a man doesn’t want them. Once you understand this though, the shaming and tantrums become meaningless and don’t effect you.

Remember that Twilight Zone episode where that kid from Lost in Space (Billy Mumy, "It's a Good Life" S3, Ep. 73) played a kid in town that everyone was terrified of, because if you said or did anything that displeased him, he'd make you "disappear." If he wasn't in too bad a mood, and you apologized profusely enough, he might just narrow his eyes in that "don't let it happen again" kind of way. To me, that describes women today. You don't dare do, or say anything that might displease them or they'll send you to the cornfield or make you take a dirt nap.

"feeling trapped is a symptom of codependency.....we are choosing not to see choices" Today, i pray for everyone who feels trapped from having a healthy and loving relationship.

To be honest, I'm so frustrated with dating both online and offline most of the women I've dated offline and online all are overweight, have kids and are entitled to a free meal cause in their words" I've dressed myself up for you". I'm just so done with dating.

It's refreshing to see guys really speaking up like this. It's getting kind of ridiculous. And channels like yours are great for men's self image and self worth. I'm excited that I'm practicing SR and working out and leveling up in life. My business is set to take off soon and all the stars are aligning. All because I've become more focused by eliminating dead weight from my life.

Ex wife spent years telling me and the kids that kindness was the most important virtue with related platitude signs all over the walls. Meanwhile was a raaaaginng bish every single day. Take her own advice

Even if I am into chubby and plump women, even I got a limit for what I find attractive

I think women have been like this for 100 years, but social media has just exposed it. I can remember the exact moment I realized there was no correlation between a woman's looks and the looks of the guy she thought she could get. I was about 17, and dumbfounded.

This man has taken the words out of my mouth. Big 👍🏻

The new way you advertise your patreon is insane You bring in the conversation so naturally that it doesn't feel like advertising at all By the way, his patreon is totally worth it and insanely cheap, I heavily recommend it

I feel like the way Alexander gives out quotes that a woman may feel is pretty understandable. You might think he's just being goofy, but he's trying to talk like a women, even if it means he has to pose like one. I like that approach

When I was younger I lived in a houseshare and the women used to think that them just living there made the place tidy. That women do not make any mess at all. They did no housework as they assumed only men made mess and they made the place tidy by just existing there.

If anyone has any mindset that their gender is superior, that by definition is actually sexism.

I'm 43, dated a cute 23 year old woman and the reactions I got from female friends and siblings was very interesting. As if I was a dirty old man for being attracted to youth and beauty 😂

I am 26 and i completely gave up any hope of a relationship, the burn isn't worth the reward. I either have the feeling that i am just a random clone in the army of trooper that run them over, or they think that we can live together when i workout 2 hour 6 day a week but they barely walk themselves and will hate the fact that i like to move a lot.

When it comes to women ,"Your Boos Mean Nothing, I've Seen What Makes You Cheer"

ngl I wish I had all that irrational self-esteem, to me if a woman is not ugly, fat or has kids I already assume she's out of my league, somehow.

Surprise everyone.

"Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20-39, 43.3% among those aged 40-59, and 43.3% among those aged 60 and over." These are statistics put out by CDC, not some dating expert. "The prevalence of overweight and obesity were also related to level of educational attainment among U.S. adults, especially among women. The prevalence of overweight ranged from approximately 60% among women who had not finished high school, 49% of high school graduates, down to about 29% of women who had earned post-graduate college degrees " Then consider "While the stereotype is that women are the ones who want to get married, the truth is that they are one who want to get divorced when things aren't going right. In fact, studies show that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. When accounting for just college-educated women, that figure jumps up to 90%." Surely men, there are pursuits that have a better ROI than dating women.

I feel entitled to not care about women that i am not attracted to or interested in. I accept my responsibility of being shamed for it and won´t give a damn about it. Just stay away from chicks that believe you, the man, has to carry them through life for free, as if this is your only purpose to exist. There are sane women that aren´t that messed up in the head. And that is coming from someone that will obviously be labled as s*xist and misogynist, and i wear it as badges of honor.

Message received perfectly well here because you are right in point with this one Mate. Truth should never be suppressed to save feelings

Maybe, the issue is not simply a matter of lacking attractiveness. There may be a heavy dose of cultivated repulsiveness that goes unaddressed.

Makes me remember of Patrice O'Neal's train accident joke 🤣😂🤣

Women's ranking of men is more harsh than it's ever been. Tough times.

Strong points and very interesting comments on this video. Might stay here for a while…

Well received, bro 👍, Because it's the truth!

I’ve seen dozen of women say they can’t wait to put on “happy weight” in a relationship. U feel it’s disrespectful to stop trying once you have a partner.

Alex, this is my favourite video so far.

I want to strongly reemphasise a point I made in a comment on another video before: You¡ Alexander Grace, are doing important work! You really changed my world view! I was tending to close myself off, depressed about my perception of the world. You show(ed) me that there is a way! So seeing you getting depressed with the state of things is obviously sad, but also understandable. Most of the effect you have, you can’t see. I truly believe, you can trust, that the message will spread. «Change can’t happen over night» Maybe not even in a whole generation. But you are speaking up! This is invaluable. It’s a harsh reality, but sadly some of your emotions (even though indisputably valid and very understandable) take away credibility for some. There is maybe one idea I could offer: I think it would be good to make a video that summarises your work, I feel like you are getting into a cycle of repeating yourself, and in doing that, invalidating your work a little. Sort of like a maga project, a meta video, playing all the cards you know against (or with?) the algorithm. Maybe even on a different, new channel (“untainted”, if you will). I would be interested in a discussion (I just wanted to offer, I know you are probably busy [at the same time I think, maybe a part of the busyness might be a rut {if I’m not overstepping here}]) though I know I am no expert in any ways.

People can either put themselves in their place or let time do it for them

Another interesting video m8t. Well done

Alexander, that was well said Bro🙌🏻

Such women who _constantly_ need to repeat to everyone "hey, I'm gorgeous. I'm _gorgeous._ You got that?? Gorgeous!! And did I mention how gorgeous I am??" do NOT in fact have a high self-esteem. They just want to bully you into affirming them, but they'll never be satisfied no matter how many people they bully into compliance because deep down they know the compliments aren't genuine. Which makes them even more angry, bitter and self-hating.

Is it just me or is it that whenever you talk about "low quality women" they always correlate with narcissism?

Well said!

Well done Alexander. You have taken on a difficult issue and I admire your guts to do so. Accepting reality is a difficult thing. Women are born millionaires and lose their wealth (looks) over time while a man must create his value (wealth) in most cases. It is not fair it is just reality.

Pretty good video and understanding of what's going on out here. That is how I perceived this one.

Alex spitting the truth again!

4:18 I would argue it's not extraordinary self-esteem, it's extraordinary levels of narcissism. Beste Grüße aus Berlin, Rekko

The pink nightmare. So much for a peaceful sleep tonight. Growing up, I was told to look at the mother's of my dating interests. The mothers were a portent of how the daughter was going to look in X number of years.

yikes that woman acting like a black woman is disgusting.

Simps flooding their pics with fire emojis and heart eye emojis and sliding in their dms inflates their egos beyond repair. they confuse men wanting to empty their sack for actually wanting them lol

Keep saying it man. I am one of the guys bold enough to say men have preferences too. Although I usually have to preface this with the preferences of women so the proper perspective is established first. I reserve the right to find some women more attractive just as women reserve the right to find some men more attractive. Men and women have different standards for what makes a partner attractive and that's okay. I refuse to let anyone tell me what I "should" be attracted to.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

Alex, just putting this out there, you have some good points. I remember Pearl making a response video to your one way street video. You should mix in with that crowd to see if you gain more popularity

The average woman wants a man who is taller than her, stronger than her, smarter than her, richer than her, funnier than her, have a more stable temperament than her despite being shorter than him, weaker than him, dumber than him, poorer than him, more boring than him, and more psychotic than him. And she's worth it because she' thinks she's _the prize_

Good video... Actually think it goes beyond just women. I forget what it's called... "award culture?" Where everyone's a winner? I'm almost certain I've seen studies that suggest high self esteem (not sure it it's only unearned self esteem or self esteem in general) tends to bring out anti-social tendencies in people? I think this was studied in younger kids. The more self esteem, the more abrasive their attitudes? I'm not using the exact terms since I don't recall it exactly. But essentially a legion of people that think they're awesome are much more likely to give their perceived "lessers" a really hard time. That might all be obvious, but... interesting to see this parallel. Never really considered it before.

I love these "how I looked when I met them" videos, because mostly the guys stayed the same while the women got fat. I always laugh about those simps. Women are disconnected from reality, because of many reasons, one of them being that they lie to each other. Itscomplicated channel said it best. Men often insult each other without meaning it, while women often compliment each other without meaning it. Which results in men being checked on the regular, while women never get checked. It also means that men have better friendships, while female friendships are all fake. Women dont like women, women dont like men, so why should men like women? It's stupid. Lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rate, while gay marriages have the lowest. That's all you need to know. Women are just bad at relationships and always dishonest.

How this video will be received: By men: This video is just what I needed! I'm going to hit the gym, and get my life in order to level up! By women: Know your place, man!

Accept reality even when it is painful. Know thy worth, be a friend to oneself, have boundaries standards, listen to your internal compass, do not look outside of oneself for validation.

So true alexander.👍

Every chick actually thinks they are a 10 😂

nailing it

Une femme a mon travail a ce comportement: l'évolution de son regard traversent ma silhouette, mes bonjours restent sans réponses. J'ai refuser de lui louer mon appartement. Ma raison: elle a toujours eu à ma rencontre un sourire immense, le sourire d'une personne qui se sait supérieure mais qui accepte avec joie la charge de communiquer avec un immondice, car c'est la rançon de sa supériorité.

Knowing your worth goes both ways

It happens to both women and men, but it looks worse on women for two reasons!: 1. Men are supposed to be "masculine" and women "feminine" the harshness of the aging process is less apparent on the masculine then the feminine. 2. What a man can do for a woman is apart what makes him attractive. ( this doesn't apply for every man, but could for any man) using his resources to protect and provide a better life for a woman can compensate for physical short comings. Woman generally don't have this asset. These aren't big advantages but they are advantages.

Good video

Unless you have no standards, we all rank each other for different purposes. That's the very definition of prejudice. To assume that it's somehow immoral to do so, for anyone, is absurd. It's just how we build comfort for ourselves. It's innate.

This is why I am going to recommend passport bro life to my son.

Anyone know how to find the original clip used in the beginning?

I would love to see you show up on the @whatever podcast panel.

Love your work Alexander! Thought for you: "Women have the unfortunate (manufactured and therefore toxic) mix of inferiority and superiority complexes." Discuss!?!

PREACH IT! 👏

Cosmetic companies are responsible for much of the image problems that women have.

These guys got no self respect

These women have lists of all the things they want in a man, that same woman thinks she doesn't have a single thing she can improve on then in her 40s wonders why she's alone while raising her standards the more undesirable she becomes. Its damn hilarious.

4:18 I had to cover the left side of my screen with my hand, Alexander, why do you torture us like that?

Damn straight.

A good indicator of what a woman would look like as she gets older is to look at her mother. If the girl is slim and pretty but her mother is fat and ugly, that's not a good sign.

Very thoughtful and insightful but... they just don't care. So it's time to leave them behind and look abroad or not at all.

I think most women know exactly where they stand and most of us adjust our expectations. I still see fat ugly, bald guys get young girls because they are providers. Women please get your own money and date in your lane. If anything I used to date down and those men are not kinder, just less attractive. I now date in my lane, no lower or higher. So much work went into finding ,my self esteem. Men get old too, my married friends complain their husbands need a blue pill as early as 40. Women can go 7 rounds way into our 50's and 60's. Men may not want older ugly women and that's fine. But, women want an exciting sex life for as long as possible. That's why you see older women with younger men. They can offer more in term of boosting their self-esteem. My guy is six years younger, never been happier. When older men can't rise to the occasion they blame their wives for aging and not being 20 anymore.

Female hierarchies, like any social structures, can vary widely depending on the context. In many animal societies, including some primates, there are established hierarchies among females based on factors like age, social alliances, and reproductive status. In human societies, female hierarchies can manifest in various settings such as workplaces, social groups, or even within families. Factors like leadership qualities, interpersonal skills, and shared goals often influence the dynamics of these hierarchies.

I didn't know i had this opinion of weight until my ex put on 60 lbs in a year due to relentlessly snacking at night. She was fit-thick when i met her, but a year later i was struggling internally with the fact that i was losing my attraction for her. She lost the weight a year later, because she was done with me and was getting fit for the next guy. As she became more fit, my attraction increased but it was too late by then for her.

Is she older than yesterday? Then yes, her value decreased. Take it up with your maker, ladies. I don’t make the rules.

Average woman in U.S. weighs over 165 lbs. Thats way too heavy. Women should not weigh over 130 lbs. at most. There are some things we have no control over but people can control their weight. Sweat hog women need to just cut the carbs down to almost nothing (just eat quality meat and saturated fat). You will not only look lots better but lower insulin resistance, reduce hunger when off the carb roller coaster and lower your all cause mortality risk. High quality animal protein, saturated fat, butter and eggs are dense packages of high quality nutrients that will not be converted into fat and stored in adipose tissue like carbs (sugar).

By putting yourself out on social media makes you a target for ridicule, no matter how special you think you are.

I hear a lot about women with far too much pride given their lack of appearance and good qualities. What about the girls who were ugly ducklings or not the hot girls in high school, but now they're swans who still have low self-esteem, and feel grateful for any attention from creeps and losers. How can they be helped? I know a girl who is like this and she's making the worst dating choices. Note: I'm not interested in her. She is a relative.

On that last point: I'm still juggling whether it's narcissism nurtured by our culture or if it's in fact something more innate in the fairer sex.

Answer : Yes

As a psychologist you should understand the function and worth of illusions. I love myself such illusions as it makes the live more ejoyable. I agree it does not help to reach a real relation, but if this goal is anyeay out of reach it is a good alternative to live with ilusions..

Been there done that have a t-shirt 👕

Yes!

My wife is 67, she brought her weight way down, she walks every day and I adore her for that and I'm trying to reciprocate.

Yes, exactly

Without a doubt, yes. Women's value has reduced considerably. Most of them are narcissistic and shallow.

Amen.

This whole concept didn’t really sink in until I read Mark Manson’s book Models. Society has been uplifting women’s value for ages because they are the most reproductively valuable individuals whether they’re ugly or beautiful. Men are perceived as dispensable for the fact that it only takes one man to impregnate countless women, and our physical strength advantage makes us the better gender for protecting the tribe. Men being disposable in battle is a worldwide norm and it goes back eons in our evolution. Society relies on women being protected and uplifted for maximum reproductivity. As many women as possible.