Sorry to say but the story sounds really fake lol How can the Imam's wife be your bestfriend and you just met him through asking questions at the mosque? That doesn't add up! Where was the best-friend when you two were having deep conversations? Did you not know the whole time that the Imam is your best friends husband? I call this bull lol Good entertainment tho
This isn't fake. Well, it could be - but I've dealt with real life cases with women in the community who have had affairs with imams & other types of community leaders. Open ya eyes fam. This stuff happens.. A lot.
idk if this story is per say fake but no joke the mosque my friend goes to the imam had to leave bc the affair was caught...idk if its the same ppl i guess this stuff lowkey happens then again imam's are just human too so
Sarah Amine Subhaanallah, shocking. True imams are human but an individual that is in a position of islamic leadership should show more restraint. May Allah guide and forgive us all for our shortcomings.
It would be great if you could text her & ask her what happened and what she did? I AM SO CURIOUS TO KNOW!!!! you need to have a 2nd video where you give her the updates.
u sound like a gossip girl. this is her own personal experience, perhaps she doesn't want you 'keeping tabs' on everything she did because it's a very sensitive and embarrassing thing to confess. her story is not some kind of tv show...that u need to know what happened next. I'm not being rude but show some decency and respect
The title itself shocked me, not sure why though. An imam is a human too not a higher being, but their role in society makes us think they are. Goes to show how a person with knowledge can blind us into not letting us see their true colours. The saying 'Don't judge a book by its cover' couldn't be more true. Only Allah knows who we really are...
An Imam in most schools of thought should be of exemplary character and the amongst the most pious of the congregation. Should the Imam be an open sinner (which this one will become eventually without a doubt) the prayer of the people who will pray behind him will become invalidated. What I'm trying to say is that the role of an Imam is of high responsibility and never should be taken lightly.
Whether this story is true or not does not matter. It's a great reality check for all muslims who may be in similar type situations (talking and seeing each other in private) to avoid it, because no one, including an imam is free of the Shaytan. The Prophet (PBUH) said "Whenever a man is alone with a women, the devil makes a third" (sahih bukhari). In this particular case, the Prophet (PBUH) says, "Do not visit women whose husbands are away, for the Devil circulates in you like your blood.". So this Imam needs to check his knowledge, because in this circumstance he is lacking.
Yes!!! Omg thank you! So many people disregard that Hadith and then this type of crap happens. And what you're saying is true but an imaam is held to a higher pedigree than an average Muslim because they should have that knowledge. Wallahi these are things that Allāh warned us of that will happen before the Day of Judgement. May Allah guide them. Ameen.
I'm reading through these comments and damn, you guys have one of the best, most respectful fan bases haha. With lots of diverse opinions and people! Reading the comments and watching you guys has been thoroughly enjoyable. Even though the topic is disturbing af lol
I'm trying to justify the Imams actions but it's not possible he's supposed to be an Islamic figure and behaves in that manner I'm sorry it's appalling it's like a doctor harming a patient instead of treating them
All I Kelli thinking I'd that he better not be a coward and take responsibility for his actions and not just leave this woman to deal with it all by himself!
I agree with you too +shakirahlbaad like mistake is a mistake and don't just leave that gurl and be with your wife deal with this and be happy InShaAllah everything will be alright these people who had dot. This I will pray for them InShaAllah and make it easier for them Ameen
+HaHaLooLoo Because really I'm not supposed to judge anyone and justifying his actions would I suppose not make it as bad in my eyes...if that makes any sense
Saja 25 the one at the mosque I've gone to? Yes, I believe so!! That's the crazy part😅 (ofc we didn't find out until later, and I cannot confirm that this was EXACTLY the same case. It's not like imma go up to Sheikh & ask him). But the possibility is hilarious 😂😂😂 ... wrong, but hilarious!
+hafff Because of this video or the contents of the email\/?? Cheating has been going on for centuries, even in ''religious'' communities, and cheating isnt a sign of judgment day.... so no.
yh I was thinking the same thing tbh but it might not be them who made it up. The person who sent the email probably did in order to be featured in the video because Sid didn't seem convinced at all when Dina was reading the email hmmm idk
1) Imam needs to resigns 2) Move to a farrrrrrr away place 3) Tell his wife.... and possible divorce her (she will probably want one) 4) Girl cheater needs to get a divorce from her husband 4) Girl cheater needs to move faaaarrrr away with Imam
So all of a sudden the imam's wife is the girl's bestfriend.. So the girl had an agenda to go to a goodlooking imam to talk abt your problems who is also your bestfriends husband. Hard to believe this story lol
bro, I couldn't stop laughing. they need their own show, like right now! I'm a Christian but I find these Q & A's so interesting and this one is hilarious.
So sad, she should call an elderly person and have a private meeting with her husband incase things get heated. 2. she should cut off the Imam. He is actually not considered as the father by law according to some scholars. 3. She should sincerely repent to Allah for her mistake and all the people she hurt. 4. Take the baby and move away from that place, if possible alone or to a relative. 5. She should invest in her single motherhood life before she decides to marry again. 6. Focus on learning from her mistake, and the triggers that illuminate her weaknesses and lead her to fitnah.. I feel like crying, this is soo sad... so many lives destroyed by this.. but Allah is the Most Merciful.. All the best
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY MANDEM SHOULD LOWER THEIR GAZE LOAL ! SECOND OF ALL IF THE SISTER HAD PROBLEMS THE IMAM SHOULD HAVE CONTACTED A WOMAN TO HELP HER NOT HIMSELF, AND WHAT KIND OF IMAM GOES TO A WOMANS HOUSE FOR A "COFFE"
What the actual fuck did I just listen to? A story about a married Imam who cheated on his wife and couldn't control himself and a married girl who cheated on her husband and couldn't control herself! I just still can't believe this kinda stuff happen in a muslim community. 'Speechless.'
People commenting saying it's 'fake', are you not aware of the story of the pious man who fell into sin and died as a sinner? No human is perfect, including imams. I find some supposedly 'pious' men creepy.
Does anyone actually believe this? At the start she said she met the imam in a community party, which imam goes to a mixed community party unless they're a disco imam
The story is quite specific. I'm pretty sure the spouse of the imam might figure it out if she watched it. Because: a) her best friend is pregnant b) she is having marriage problems c) if she was at the party she might have seen them getting along.
Not all women notice their husband "getting along" with other women. Especially since he was a so called "sheikh" she wouldn't worry or think he was flirting since he talks to men and women on a daily basis
+Talha Rehman They might have made it up but if you scroll down, you would see other people saying they also heard about stories of Imam's doing this. So either way, it is something that happens in the society.
A lot of people are saying this email question might be faked by whoever sent it, but this situation isn't impossible in real life and whoever sent it might be even more hurt reading the comments. Its an extremely messed up situation but in the end no human is perfect. I honestly believe the wife of the imaam and the husband for the woman should probably file for divorce if the imaam and woman want to be together. Of course, the situation is different if the imaam + his wife already have kids. I just don't understand why you would sleep with you BEST FRIEND'S HUSBAND. I probably couldn't stay friends with someone after they did that to me...may Allah help them resolve this issue.
I wish you guys would do a whole video on cheating, and tell the truth of it. I hate how our society views affairs as sexy, forbidden, dangerous and glamorous, or a fun way to spice up your life, when in actuality it tears people and families apart and changes you to your very core irreparably. We need to change the narrative on cheating!
I don't think this is fake I've actually heard many situations of things. We are all humans and we make mistakes. because he is an imam he is seen as perfect.
no need to swear. and im talking to this person who doesnt know the actual people going through it he or she doesnt need to get so riled up on someone elses life who he or she hasnt met. i wasnt telling the couple wh has the baby to chill.
You two are so wise for your you g years. As a Christian I totally agree- part of modesty is not putting yourself in private situations with members of the opposite sex, and texting is private. it just allows too much room for sin. Praying for this young lady- this is the kind of situation where violence could break out- a husband scorned can be a rough situation. May God have mercy on them.
+Zainab Altamimi Y r u only blaming the imam. The girl is at fault to. Both of them are. He shouldn't have suggested privately talking and she shouldn't have agreed. There could have been alot more people who could have helped her with her problem..maybe her best friend.
+specially her Sadly I don't think it is a troll. The problem with our Ummah today is nobody wants to face reality. These kind of issues sadly do happen in this particular world today. We're so close to the akhira and we were all warned that things like this (and much more absurd) would happen. If we were told that there would come a day when a father and his daughter would willing sleep together (as one of the signs of the day of judgement) then I could believe something like this.
+Ruby's Vlogs I do agree with you, but it's just the way it plays out seems to be really staged. inshallah it's not true anyway and may Allah protect us all and guide us to the right path
People are wondering whether it's a fake email or not, that's not our problem, because stuff like this is happening in our ummah! Trust me, we should focus on bettering ourselves and try to avoid it instead of saying it's fake.
OMG! I kept gasping with a hand on my mouth until she finished the story! how did she invite him in when she was alone? how did he accept that!! and how did she know its His child! I'm mind blown may God be with them.
My husband always says that opposite sex can never be 'friends' only acquaintances that's where you should draw the line. You should never allow to get into deeps meaningful convos which may lead to the development of feelings. You have plenty of females in your life to seek advice or chat to such as mum, sisters, grandma or aunts who you can chat to etc if you don't want to chat to your wife.
i am so so sorry dina, but your make up is looking flawless???? i reaally want to know the bronzer and blusher you have on right now! and the brush you used to put it on! i swear i cant stop staring and thinking of it!
Not fearing Allah is also a horrible thing. this was a sad video. No matter how pious we are at the end of the Allah tests and put you to trail. "Islamqa.info" your question for islamic rulings. in sha Allah
+Pedo Muhammad You are very pathetic hiding behind a computer screen, Calling the prophet disgusting things. Some scholars say that Aisha was actually over the age of puberty, and was 19, this was several thousand years ago- and even if she was young he waited until she was the age to consumate the marriage- he would not have been the only one, across many countries this happens, older men with younger girls. Society was entirely different that time and what happened was years ago. You have no right to judge.
This is what happens when people do NOT fear Allah. If you take a look at today's society you'll find that many avoidable sins are easily committed due to carelessness and an imbalance of fear and hope. Then these smaller sins eventually lead to bigger sins. Fear of Allah is necessary as it does not only prevent you from sinning but also connects you with your creator so that you become closer to Allah. It also leads to Modesty in it's purest form. Some people are also shy. This is actually not a bad thing because Shyness also leads to Modesty in it's purest form. Many people today have too much Hope but not enough Fear. The lifestyle which many people follow and live in the West is evidently clear of this fact. And so this is an imbalance. To become a perfect believer, one must maintain a balance of Fear and Hope. May Allah help us all to achieve this balance purely for his sake, inshallah. Ameen.
Subhan'Allah the title of this video actually made my jaw drop. Once I watched the video I found myself continually saying Astagfirullah. This is SO sad and SO messed up. May God guide them both I really can't even believe this is real.
Sid an Dina, i really like your videos they seem very helpful to some audience but i feel lately that you guys have been really like putting down the person coming to you for advice, of course they know what they did was wrong why else would they come to you for advice, they don't need to be told anymore about how wrong they've done ( like come on the guys an imam, he knows, and I'm sure she knows) but instead of giving her advice you spent majority of your video bashing her and telling her what she did was wrong and how its such a big sin, i know it maybe hard to feel bad for her but she's aware she made a mistake, thats why she came seeking advice and the advice wasn't all that great thb
That's exactly what I felt! I kept cringing because they were being so condescending at times, especially the whole 'you were selfish and you've ruined lives' part. I'm sure she knows what she's done, she just asked for advice, which could have been summarized in a minute or two without seeming so shocked. Like, I know it must be a shock to them but they can't just say things like that about someone else's life so openly. They were literally treating it like some juicy story ('are you ready for the next part?') She must've been a huge fan if she specifically asked for their advice, and I can't imagine what she would feel having to listen to some of the harsher comments they made in the video. May Allah help her.
Hanna, who are YOU to judge, who are THEY to judge? they are there to give they're advice and not to reprimand her for what she did, like i said before she knows what she did THAT IS WHY SHE CAME TO THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE
WRONG ADVICE: first of all you should have an abortion 10000%. Don't ruin your marriage or your best freind life and marriage and heart. This truth will NOT set you free but further destroy your life. The community will shit talk you endlessly. Your family will be so embarrassed, the butt of jokes and so humiliated. It's time for damage control. You wanna raise a bastard baby out of wedlock? That baby will have the worst life ever and shit talked endlessly. You will stop the affair, decided wether or not you want to continue the relationship with your husband. If you decide to break it off then you can now decide if you want to break it off with the imam or stay with him. If he wants to get divorced you guys can purse your life. If he wants to continue his marriage then you should let him go. Do not go and destroy your so called best freinds life with a baby it has to be the step mother too! How fucked up.
Honestly I agree It's her buffs hubby I'm not even going to go along with the whole imam thing Cause that's making this guy seem like a distant figure Lets just call it what it is U cheated on ur best freind with her man It's sounds much more real and Jerry springer esque But not it makes so much more sense They probably low key had an attraction for a while She would obviously know her best freinds husband husband well enough And I'm sure they both mingle as couples So it's not really a random community "imam" But more like a not so distant - distant freind These things are so common I hear then often It's not even about how or what or why or when it happened We're not here to live in the past or reprimand her We must listen to the facts and point into the least stressful most win for all situation Which is break it up Shut your mouth And get an abortion And play it off like oh I had a miscarriage And let everyone live their own lives without the mess The shock stress trauma heartbreak and betrayal is too muvh mess for all parties to deal and get scarred by And sometimes ignorance is bliss Don't think ur self less by keeping the baby Ducking everyone over And thinking u took the moral high-ground
nunu hong the problem with that is that she won't be the only one dealing with the problem then, it's not like when the baby is born, she'll be the laughing stock of the community and her child will be considered completely clean. My mother is a divorcee and I know for a fact that there will be a guy that I'd want to marry but his parents will say "her mother is a divorcee, what if she divorces you too?", the child's life will be affected too. There's a reason abortion is allowed in islam within a certain period of time. People want the woman to see the face of justice after all the injustices she's done. What about the injustices the baby will face once it's born? And I know people will reply to me saying "those people don't have a right to say anything", just because people don't have a right to do it doesn't mean they won't, unfortunately.
I don't care if it's real or not This is just plain messed up stuff like this happens in our Ummah we gotta stop behavior like this don't people realize you have got to face and answer your LORD. May Allah guide us all.
True story : one of my friends is from Kuwait and one time she was visiting me in London and we went to Selfridges to shop, then suddenly I see her lowering her head looking on the floor like she didn't wanted to make eye contact with someone, she looked embarrassed ,then I asked her who was it and she said to turn my back and look at the person. I looked and it was a guy who you could see he was gay, , then she told me it was her local masjid imam. She was shocked and didn't know what to do, to tell or not.
