my family would never forgive and forget .... just saying ... whatever you do and did they would say it 2947219046914 times if they got mad or angry about something !!!!!!
Sid is right some people's morals are none existent. You can talk until your blue in the face to some people and their attitude stinks regardless, why would that guy think it was ok to post nude photos of his X girlfriend, he obviously had no respect for her for her from the start to think of such a sickening thing after they broke up. If you ask me his friends saw those photo even before they broke up, he's not a guy to be trusted. Shame on him and guys like him, it's just to bad the girl had to find out what a snake in the grass he was after sending him nude photos, I'm sure her heart is broken but she needs to hold her head up move on knowing their are people you can't trust in life. I don't believe in an eye for an eye so I would avoid him and move on with my life, his time will come when he meets his maker.
I couldn't agree more. What better way than to put your trust in Allah the all might. We all know death is going to reach us and I hope he gets done for when he meets his maker far worse than what he done to this girl in this dunya.
Even if you're MARRIED it isn't a good idea to send nudes, simply because your phone could get stolen or your backup hacked. And if you don't trust the person enough to be married to them and make that lifetime commitment, then you shouldn't trust them with intimate photos!
When you send nudes between husband and wife the pictures are better get deleted after. Some couples live long distances from one another and pictures is a good way to stay intimate when connection is not well enough for video chat ....
I would DEFFO go and get him kicked out and then go to the police. What an absolute idiot! If you can't handle the consequences for cheating then gong do it!!
This entire story is messed up! He was dating 4 other women, breaks up with them, asks back this Muslim lady, who then proceeds to send him a nude picture on SnapChat, of all places. She willingly ignored all the red flags. Well, all i have to say in response is, You reap what you sow. In life there are consequences for every action we take, be them good or bad. Let's just hope he doesn't do anything bad with the pictures (meaning pass them around as a revenge). Also, don't let him threaten you in the hopes of forcing you to remain with him. Move on and let this be a major learning experience. *shakes head*
+Aksum አክሱም ፣ ንግሥት and how many did she send him? After the first picture she would get a notification telling her that he took a screenshot. Did she keep sending more after she knew he was taking them?
DON'T TELL THE FAMILY! Repent for sending the nudes in the first place and ask and pray to Allah for justice, as you were wronged by the ex-boyf. No need to tell your parents and unnecessarily worry them, there's a reason why Allah tells Muslims not to expose their sins if it doesn't bring about any good!
Right if that was me my parents would have beaten the shit out of me and lost respect for me and though they would eventually forget it's still not a good look
College isn't just 18+ people leave school at 16 to go to college instead of 6th form.. so if your friend is under 18 and he's passing around "nudes" of her, that's considered child pornography which obviously is a serious offense.
But the really isn't that many people who leave school at 16, she doesn't sound like she's 16 most likely an adult 18+ but I was thinking about that child pornography part too
TheDiscoMermaid There are, I myself decided to go to college rather than sixth form because my school didn't offer the subjects I wanted to study. And there were plenty of people my age
12:58-13:11 best advice. i love how they're non-judgmental. most people would be like omg i can't believe she did that and wouldn't address the situation and solve it like you two did. amazing. love you guys. you're teaching so many little ones on here that THIS is how you go about solving a problem, and NOT by judging and ignoring. and to take it lightly, no matter how extreme it can be. because life is stupid, and we shouldn't be so dramatic.
both look more beautiful since being parents. Dina is just glowing and looks stunning her skin is amazing Mashallah. May Allah protect you both from evil eye.
what goes through someone's mind when they send nudes? and if there are good reasons behind it, why do people not think about the possible negative consequences behind it? *edit* someone who is sober, not manipulated (their own will), etc...
Well that's like asking why do couples in a relationship wish to see each other naked. It's a small leap to send someone pictures if you aren't there in person. And it's so easy to do
Pierzing.glint1sh7 I understand that, but I don't understand why people don't think about the consequences. Surely there's a chance that it will be leaked? I think it's just really dumb. There's nothing wrong with patience. What I think is even more stupid is when they take nudes with their faces on it - why?????
***** Religion doesn't change a couple's human desires for closeness, intimacy and tendency to objectify each other. I strongly disagree with this idea that Muslims should be expected to transcend their humanity when we're of course as fucked up as anyone else sorry for my language i'm a guy btw, if it means anything
I think we need to remember that it's the guys responsibility aswell to not spread it around, they have the ability to think if they should or should not do it.
Hi Sid and Dina, I am currently a second year law student (studying UK law, so other countries rules may vary). What Sid said about the possibility of a prison sentence is in fact true. If anyone does or is going through this scenario, one possible route to take would be Tort. As this would be seen as revenge porn, especially if your ex uploaded them online. Hope this helped :) Love your videos guys, keep it up.
I'm sorry for her. Sending nude pictures to a man that clearly doesn't love you, shows that you have a deep desire to be loved, to be special. Everyone wants to be important, to love and be loved and sometimes, while we are looking for "the one" we met someone who doesn't love us and doesn't treat us like we deserve. Sending nude pictures is wrong but I don't judge her, who wants their sin to be exposed to anyone? Who deserves to be seen naked by all kinds of people, no of whom loves you or respects you? I really hope she is able to denounce him and move on with her life. She deserves a real man, a goon man who loves her.
I've been doing the same thing. I can't remember the first video I watched BUT I know ever since I watched I've been addicted. Dina is beautiful and so charming. Her husband is hilarious.
I couldn't stop laughing at sid's stocking and pool ball theory, haha he comes up with some funny stuff sometimes. That being said, in all seriousness its difficult to predict what a man/boy is capable of doing with your pictures after receiving them. Right now he has only exposed them to people in your college. He could expose them to more people or use them to make you do things for him. Yes, family do forgive (eventually) but it can be a long drawn process. Bare in mind some families can also be shunned by the community as well for things like this, therefore even if family forgive people won't let them forget ( this actually happened to a girl in my town). Not everyone is as forgiving. I think this is a very difficult situation the girls friend is in. That guy is a horrible piece of work for doing what he did. He clearly has no respect for women but girls should learn to respect themselves too. I feel many girls who do this want to feel admired and lack that in their lives. It's important to love yourself first and understand you are worth so much more, never give away yourself to anyone so easily. I would suggest for the girl to speak to someone about what happened (doctor perhaps) and maybe get counselling as this will probably have a great affect on her mental health. Secondly definitely tell the police, this is abusive and I am pretty sure this falls under harassment, maybe go with your friend for emotional support. I think Dina is right in saying we all need to learn from this. NEVER send a guy nudes. Initially any guy may seem like the perfect guy and you may believe he would never betray your trust, but whether he is decent or not if you ever end up breaking up or getting into an argument or even marrying someone else due to changes in circumstances, they could do anything. People become unrecognisable when angry don't trust anyone, protect yourself.
I totally agree. I've heard of girls killing themselves because of these things. Muslims or none Muslims. these kind of experiences can cause trauma . that's why consulting a doctor is necessary I believe even id the person looks alright. you never know what is going on in their mind. showing support is necessary. we all make mistakes. so I would advise anyone who has gone through this to surround themselves with people who will make them feel better and not judged. especially if the family is close minded . you never know what can happen.
Just to make you guys aware it is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE for someone to publish intimate pictures on the internet with the sole intent to distress or harm the individual.
to the friend, alongside all of Sid and Dina's advice, I'd like to add, just be there for her and reassure her that this does not define her. Reassure her that this will pass and tell her all of the positive things she has done so she doesn't get stuck depressed thinking about this one thing over and over again. Sometimes it's best to just listen to her and be a shoulder to cry on, other times is better to offer practical support. Also, if it gets too overwhelming for you, have your own support network to rely on if you need a breather. Sometimes you feel hopeless when trying to help another friend out where the situation is somewhat out of your control. Just be a friend, she will defo appreciate it, and it's very sweet of you to message in! All the best to you and ur friend xx
i wonder what Hannah was thinking when she woke up to her parents talking to a camera and her mother suddenly making weird triangles zooming in and out with her hands
Im laughing so hard.. When Sid told Dina to speak up and she said that was all she had.. Second after, while reading.. She was almost screaming😩😩 you guys are so funny even when not trying to be hahaha. Greetings from The Netherlands, the Hague xx
Yoo my g's love you guys man. I seriously think u guys should do like a live stream it's becoming a really hype thing now and would be hilarious (in a good way xD) if you guys done it uno
I really don't understand girls who decides to put a hijab on but still wants to act like they don't have it on. the guy is the biggest a**hole for doing that to her and I hope he gets what he deserves. btw how can't she think she can trust him when he had four other girls on the side. smh
funny vid xD and to the chick who got exposed, i wouldn't say your reputation is ruined for it. build your reputation on being a nice person and people will like you. and if people get mean cause your nudes are public, then just say thats a mistake that got exposed, we ALL make mistakes, whether its in photo form or otherwise, the only difference is some are private and some are unfortunately public. like sid and dina said, rise against and people will soon forget.
ASA. Thanks for sharing. People should know by now that they should never share personal things on the internet. Once you send anything out its still out there even if you think you have deleted it. Also for they young lady she can report this person . He can also get in trouble for sending out these types of pictures including spending time in prison. For all the young ladies please do not send your private pictures to anyone. it will always come back to bite you.
Here's what you do: Step 1: Repent and ask for forgiveness from Allah (swt) Step 2: Understand the concept of the hijab Step 3: Worry about the worldly consequences of your actions (reporting him to the police, your reputation etc.)
