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If a man loves you more than you love him I believe he’s less likely to leave you for someone else. Plus when he’s into you more, he’ll constantly find ways to make you happy.
ShoNuff IzHere!! Why do you men care about the advice she’s giving? Either ya know it’s legit good advice or you’re mad she’s giving away game to women who can go off to get what they deserve out of a man. Either way you men shouldn’t be pressed.
I don't know why these trolls think women don't reciprocate. It is possible to reciprocate with a man who loves you more without giving away your soul. These men are happy and getting their needs met.
Most men who troll these channels are used to the pick me chick... you know the girl that’s more emotionally invested into the man without seeing anything in return from said man. My man properly courted me in the dating stage and still does a year and a half later. He got us a place, I don’t pay bills or for dates. We go on vacations, he helps my family with anything. Life is good. When men are more into you, he will definitely over look certain things but still go the extra mile for you.
This is how I got my husband. I've always been better looking and I'm younger. He knows I could of gotten a much better looking guy, but he pays the bills and is taking care of the family and me. Most of those hotter looking guys I noticed can't pay there own bills and still live with there mommas lol. Gross. Good looks don't pay for food and mortgage. People have to really think and get priorities straight. Think more long term ! Him & I make one another better. I push him to make more money and be more successful, and I help him by accepting what he has to offer and show appreciation, & looking sexy & being a good mother who is there for our children. I never stopped taking care of myself. And it shows, most women my age after kids look all run through n sloppy. He says he appreciates that I care, men are visual. Never let yourself go !
" I push him to make more money and be more successful, and I help him by accepting what he has to offer and show appreciation, & looking sexy" lol sounds like you help a lot
What if you become fat and ugly and the guy still has money? Maybe you should have something else to offer besides looks because that fades away and he can cheat on you with someone else
I love this. My German grandmother said this: 'find a man who loves you more than you love him'. And it wasn't necessarily about the power dynamic or stringing a guy along; it was, as you mention here, about the fact that women naturally nurture and will put our family before ourselves, so we have to make sure that someone is putting us first so we don't end up worn out, left for last, and neglected - emotionally and otherwise. Love your videos !
You have to find a man who loves you more than you love him In my opinion. Women are natural caretakers, givers, all that mushy stuff. In order to find that balance it has to be this way. Otherwise you'll be chasing him, & that never ends up good.
I guess this is why Black women are the leading females to end up never married or single throughout most of her life, looking for something that was never made to exist. Not to be a Bible thumper, but if the woman was meant to be at the forefront, we would have a different society. The foundation is built on mutual respect, not who likes who more. That's high school insecure love and it's not natural, it's built on a false since of entitlement. And NO one is owed anything, it's what you have to offer, not what you think he should do for you, for you to be happy. Other wise she lacks happiness within and is looking for someone to make her happy, and that is not the responsibility of a man in a relationship with a woman. But hey, if that statement works for you I guess you are married and don't need my opinion or the opinion of the woman in this video. Those who are looking to be lead generally already have their narrative worked out. The difference is many lack the over all out come of the success they are looking to get through that channel. It's funny, when opinions don't match, it's defined by words like "Trolling" yada yada, instead of constructive education that differs. *ANOTHER GENERATION LOST AND STILL BROKEN*
Mina Jau THIS WORKED 20YRS AGO.. her advice outdated. You'll have many embarrassing evenings and repulsive old man sex before you get a dime. Men being educated about Shera kind and women scams. The well drying up fast. Nobody marrying so baby your best bet. Happy hunting
Gail123 Exacccttlllyy!! As a community, it's very slim pickings out here. Most are incarcerated, DL or gay, narcissistic, or just not about nothing. But of course, black women are to blame 🤔 smh
I'm 38 and I learned this philosophy as a teenager just by the experiencing the hard knocks in life. The man should love more because GENERALLY the woman is more faithful so the relationship will work whereas if it was the reverse the man will trample all over the woman, cheat, and leave his family in the dust
Indeed. Indeed. Indeed. Ita already A LOT to bear and raise children for a man. Make him a father and a respected member of society by bringing stability and a positive mindset in the marriage. He, in return has TO BE HEAD OVER HEELS over you. And actually, even, put you on a pedestal!! YOU DESERVE IT.
Yep my mother is a pickmesha he tramples all over her and disrespect her/ disregard her efforts DONT DO IT DO NOT LOVE A MAN LIKE THIS YOU WILL BE MISTREATED PLEASE
Ladies this is so true , let me tell you a story that happened I knew someone who was dating an older guy he took her out, he invested money into her, he handed her the keys to his home . He loved her . A few weeks into them dating she heard about another woman ,she spoke to this woman and the other woman seemed so lost, she said the woman told her that she was so in love with him and he was in loved with her ; this woman stayed out of the state , she said she paid her own bills she didn’t need his money she was set. She said the woman seemed so delusional. She has never been taken out to eat. No kind of face to face conversations. Just a bunch of lonely messages to hold on to for memories . The morale of the story is let that man be a MAN , allow him to invest his money, if you don’t allow him to be a man he WILL leave you for a younger woman as this man did .
This is absolutely true. And I've been told by many men that they have to love you more or they wont pursue you or marry you. You have to be the prize. Good video❤
I'm currently talking to someone that is crazy about me, he makes sure hes dressed to the nines and always buys me something everyday. I started dressing more feminine and do not text him alot.
I have been dating this guy for a year. It was obvious I was in love with him. He started acting up and I flipped the switch sleeping separately. Now he is buying me a car for my bday. He has the want and need to be the provider. Imma take him up on it
The same Dusty men up in these comments demonizing us for hypergamy - are the same ones that would go to Brazil and spend up their savings on those women.
Are the same ones expecting women to be their sex slaves, personal cooks, maids, foot rubbers, and convenient bank accounts while they sit back and do nothing.
Ashley, If you’re a 10 don’t date a 10. Get the basic looking guy(that’s dating down) with a good career and money. He’s gonna be more excited to have you. Then marry him(that’s marrying up because you won) you have a guy with money who adores you!
i didn't got it at first, but now, with your explanation above, it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! i used to wish i had a guy in the same level as me (a guy equal to me, almost my male version), to live that teenage love fantasy, but i'm starting to notice that i don't get along well with these type of guys who are my male version, *because i usually tend to chase them* 🤡 while the guys who aren't my male version, *love to chase me!* (and they're usually the ones who are more intelligent and have more chances to be wealthy in the future, even though they're not typically attractive). i think i'm starting to learn the game lol
Gail123 you should go out often you will see some « ugly » women having mind control over good looking men. The one who have the right mindset always win. You can find a very attractive woman being cheating on and get replaced by an « ugly » woman. It’s not because you look good that you will attract a good looking man. This world is vibrational you will attract who you are
ANIMA if they’re but controlling the man, dig deeper, she probably makes the $$ in the relationship, she’s probably more educated than the man; nothing is as it seems . With regards to cheating, NO woman is immune, it just depends on the man you’re with. Being cheated on has nothing to do with looks.
Gail123 I saw jobless « ugly » women being chase and spoiled by men. The men pay her bills buy her grocery and taking her out on nice place and in other side I saw gorgeous women who don’t get nothing and pay 50/50. I didn’t know why until I watch sheraseven1 channel. If you partner never spoiled you can’t understand what I m talking about. Receiving from a man is a best feeling ever and you just have to relax and receive not chasing. Most of a man love to give women. Men who don’t do much is because they do see that woman as the price or a game changer wom
@@godsfavorite1623 you're right, I know a guy who looks better than his wife makes more and does everything for her. She's not ugly but basic looking but hey whatever works for them
Shera, i realized that you care for women the most! People might call you selfish ! But honestly you really wanna help women i can tell! Thank you for your every lesson❤
This is so true. I remember I said it out loud, then my Husband called me and said … you know I feel like I love you more than you love me 🤣♥️🥰! I manifested that 🙂
YES SHERA!!!! He must love YOU more than you love HIM!!! That way if he ever loses his damn mind and starts acting up and treating you badly you can leave him with no hesitation!!!! PERIOD!!!! AND FURTHER NOTE!!! I love how she says “Ever” 😂😂
Men marry with a woman he likes, women like the man she's married with. As a man I expect loyalty from women. She doesn't have to be in love with me but she has to respect me and appreciate me, by being affectionate and being feminine for me.. lady in the streets freak in the sheets. As long as she's loyal I will respect her I will provide her and worship her
Omg - when i was like you people said i was conceited and mean . I foolishly started being how i was advised and began losing in life. Relationships & jobs. I’ve been transitioning back to this disposition because people are heartless - so the advice you give makes good sense.
Sooo many wise ppl have told me this and pickMeisha always says “it should be equal” which tells me what a fantasy land they truly live in...how many relationships do you know where they are equally in love ?? That’s an exception not the rule! The rule is most of the time one person is a little more in love and it should ALWAYS be the man! If it’s not you’re most likely setting yourself up for failure. And I know there’s always exceptions but don’t live your life always thinking that will be you bc 9/10 it’s not. Save yourself the heartache
It's definitely true even my grandmother always said this. If he loves you more then you stress less over him which keeps him loving you. Men don't like insecure women
Your so funny and speak the truth. I have a man that supports me and pays my bills and we have not been intimate. Hes been helping me for the last two years.
A few years ago, I shared with a pickme at the time I didn’t know these terms. When I said that my guy was paying my bills and we weren’t intimate - she was so angry. The rest of the night she barely spoke and or would try at make jabs at me. When I left her place I kept thinking wow - put yourself in her shoes. Of course she’d be jealous, she’s never had a *man* in her life and or received anything from one.
I think you should love someone not romantically but platonically ....its a higher love ...honestly if you are too romantically attached you can end up damaging men. Or the relationship. It becomes tumultuous. Romantic love is just an ideal created in songs. I am looking for a decent man who provides and is a good father. I am not looking for a hot guy to be passionate about. That is shallow. Men are not capable of platonic love ....they operate on a low level they need to be obsessed. It needs to feel passionate for them.
Let me tell you a little something. Many many years ago my own mother tried to teach me these things. I would not listen. Now after a bad 23 year marriage I I listen to Sherae. IT is a GAME whether you play or NOT. So play and play well and WIN
💯My Dear you are Dead On, I could not agree with you more Every Word is the TRUTH....when a man knows he got you in that emotional state- thats when the Games Begin...Like Tina said"Whats Love got to do with it!".....
That makes perfect sense, all things are either going one way or the other, never both at the same time ! All is energy, energy is mouvement, so it goes somewhere, it has direction.
I met this guy online and exchanges pics after. When I sent my pic I had more make up on than usual because of the event i went to. He completely disapeared than came back again. I was like whatever and kept ignoring him. Than one day he called with a different number i didnt know it was him. I picked up and we talked. It turned out the reason his ghosted me is because I too good looking for him. He freaked out and was not confident enough. Ladies he is 42 years and im 33. Can you believe that age with 0 confidence. I cut him off. Now every day he texts and says hi how are you and nothing else. Weird. Moving on
My man love me more and I love it. I sent him to our mutual friends house (they’re a couple but Im no longer friends with them) while I went shopping with my mom and I wasn’t even halfway done and he called me talking about he was already heading home. I was surprised because since I stopped being friends with the woman he hadn’t seen his best friend (the guy) and i asked him why he didn’t take advantage and he said “what was I gonna do there without you ?” But just know I kept shopping and got home at midnight anyway lol
great topic good content, don't agree with everything you say, but you always have something to say that I can use and apply to my real life and it works like a charm!!!
I think Barak loves Michelle more. Sure, she loves him,, but you can literally see it in their body language and that dynamic doesn't appear to bother him. He's the main provider and he doesn't mind. But, cute as he is; in her book she tells how she was ready to divorce him at one point. She was likely taught this was the way it should be by her mother/the older women in her family.
