Tips on how to get closer to a man you want to be with when you are playing the field or with a sugar daddy , this also works in regular relationships as well
Ignore men commenting things like "thanks for giving up the game" or "I watch videos like this to see womens tactics" Men with real resources arent looking for youtube videos on how women get men with money because they are out there getting money. No disrespect to the youtuber but men making serious money or are focused on their careers arent going to spend their time watching 1hr + youtube videos. So you men can calm down, we arent after your £12 p/h paycheck. Keep that.
Keep telling yourself that. I'm an attorney with 2 patents and a flourishing e-business. While I don't watch these videos in their entirety, picking up tips to weed y'all out is well worth my time.
This is my bible when it comes to dealing with men. Best way to gain a man's trust, is to first be his friend. Take time to understand him, as a another person😎
best thing to do is whatever you do once u will do again don’t be private about it otherwise u keep them private u make yourself seem like the other woman and less than pretty much bye
To be honest, as long as you look good and you are pleasant and feminine, and have never come too hard at him asking for funds non tactfully, he will always associate your name coming across on his phone screen with positive feelings. You want to maintain this perception by fostering positive feelings. And Shera is absolutely right when she says you must be their weakness.
This is 100% accurate. My old sugar daddy, he ALWAYS talked about his daughter and how he loves her. And before i asked for some money i would say "Hey baby. Have you talked to your daughter lately. How is she?" Worked EVERY TIME....even tho, to be honest, i didnt give a shit about his family lol
SouthernBelle323 key word in your post. "OLD" get it while the getting is good because nobody can tolerate yall. The baby trap is your last hope to keep a SUGARDADDY
Kufre Akpan 🤔shera kept her SUGARDADDY 😅🤣🤑all the way thru her twenties. Lol..all those unhappy embarrassing years for house n car keys..lol.. yall so stupid following her. Here in the south, that's a 350k home, 500k tops. Women buy those homes by they lonesome after a divorce or half successful career. Smh.. This group pathetic
marie EAGLES big dogs like big drugs occasionally. Especially the ones yall chasing that was teenagers during the crack era. Will you try SUGARDADDY drugs if he rich enough and you KNOW he can easily replace you? Remember, he's rich🤑
Literally just worked. I did what u said step by step and he was putty in my hand and made it his mission to inconvenience himself lol and fix my issue lmaooooo I had to bury myself in his shoulder to hid my evil laugh because it worked so flawlessly lol
honey bunny stop lying!! It's only been 4 days. He knows what you about. He complied because he wanted head. You and your sneaky laugh will be replaced shortly. Report back to this chat when he shakes you
The easiest way to create a bond from my experience is simply making them work for you and invest in you.... yes it's over simplified but people always feel an attachment and deep bond to anything they worked hard to earn or get
Invest meaning what? Men I date always spend a lot on dates and give me their time. Should they also be paying my bills. I don’t agree with that unless we are past the dating stage.
I kept telling him how I didn't want to talk about it because it's stressing me out so, much and he's like "oh no we gotta fix that, I'm calling them first thing in the morning and setting up a appointment Friday to get this taken care of don't even worry about it!!! Lol he is so happy to have problem to solve.
What really work is when I kept trying to change the subject like she said to do and be like oh no no I don't want to talk about it how was your day and no matter what he kept pressing me to tell him what the problem was so that he could help me fix it.
Oddly enough, I see this in Asian dramas or kdrama (even in anime as well). Usually results in the guy wanting to protect the girl. I notice this has worked for me as well but never realized...until your comment. 🤔
Why are these women still worried about a guy being cute. So dumb. These dusties be saying thy don’t have to pay a woman’s way because they’re “cute” but they won’t get the woman they want. Only pick mes
After watching you videos for two weeks I met someone last Thursday (tomorrow will be a week) I’ve already had him take me to the highest end restaurant and bought me 3 gifts!! Finally learning how to get a man see my worth and show me he sees it! Thank you Shera!
Building this bond is the best way to get a man to do for you for the long term. This is how I’m getting my rent paid. And why I have another man as my target for something more than rent. I’m building a strong bond with this new man. He has more than the one paying my rent.
The Tshirt gift. So me! I bought my ex this black & gold black pantheresque $14.99 Tshirt for his birthday. He complained that he did so much for me blah blah blah and all he got was a tshirt. But everytime he wore it he got compliments. One waiter at a fancy restaurant even asked if it was versace. We kept a straight face and said Yes 😅
@@catchaliar1317 Yeah I blame society for that & awful humans like yourself. Other races can relax and rely on their men to protect and provide unlike blk women.
This also works with women. I've done this with my toxic mom who has for most of my life has been abusive as well as manipulated and finessed me. And now she thinks we have a bond which gave me leverage to flip the table on her. And now she is going through emotionally some of the stuff I went through and I have a front row seat to her getting a taste of her own medicine. Now that I have the upper hand and taken back my power, my self-esteem has increased and my depression and stress has went away. I feel like I have more control over my life.
When I see pretty boys I see trouble, heartache, headaches and stress……..I have no attraction at all. I like to look but like I would a pair of shoes I’d know I’d never wear……..
Dear SheRa. This authentic caring behaviour does work. It is a form of respect form him and these are prime instructions in HOW to respect ourselves. This way we can judge whether or not he respects us and it can weed out the creepers and abusers. Wonderful advice. Thank you so much.
LOL, she ain't lying though about those extra thick azz wigs...I can't! What got me dying was "Put some extra lip gloss on so you can't feel the crustiness" of his old chapped lips. 😂
Wow I really got to stop actually trying to have emotions in this game. My emotions make me a big loser. Getting the guy is not the problem but the moment I start catching feelings they lose interest. But the ones I don’t care for are on my case so I need to change my target to guys I know I won’t like that much 😂😂😂
I dont have a problem doing this I just have a problem when the man starts to think that I should give him some. I just cant mess around with someone I'm not attracted to or have true loving feelings for no matter how much money they give me or offer me.
I don’t think she is saying give yourself away for some coins. She is rather saying hold yourself to a certain standard and men will always follow you. Period. Now not Every man will be quick to want some ass but rest assure they are thinking about it.. just be nice and remember if you choose to give him some you choose not him.
Ok but mama Shera where were you when I just turned 21😂😂 I could have avoided a lot of dust from the beginning but the knowledge is timeless. Love you soon much mama❤
You are hilarious!!!!!!! I've only watched a minute and Wow! Please do stand-up comedy. There's a big empty spot open for you to fill it right now. The great female comedianes are too old or gone now. Also Dr. Toni Grant's book, "Being a Woman" based on Carl Jung's female archetypes is where you are coming from. I highly recommend you read it. The church lady you speak of is the Madonna / Courtesan which is the combo of archetypes that inspire a man to marry for good. The pay for my nails, pay for my hair girl is the Amazon / Courtesan. There's also Mother / Courtesan, plus other combos. You've nailed them already. P.S. You're so naughty!!! Please be sincere down deep! Lol.
I'm in the beginning of this stage with someone I met doing one of my hobbies. I'm not necessarily interested in him taking care of me financially or even dating him long term, its just nice to talk with a man who has his shit together for once, owns his own home, has a college degree from a prestigious university, is bilingual, reliable car, investments, etc. Its just refreshing.
LBC Ulrica You must read my other comment. I agree with SheRa. We don't doormat ourselves and this is sincerely a great way to weed out creepers/abusers.
When I heard She Ra Seven pronouncing the name "Neville Goddard" and mentioned she has to "check him out," I was immediately shocked that she didn't know about him😮, Since she often talk about LOA, spirits, etc. I say this because he is 🔥🔥= meaning powerful, like the commenter stated. When he'd lectured, all of his lectures are about the God mind, LOA, visualization, etc. He was brilliant! I love that man's way of thinking and wish he was alive in this lifetime☺.
Shera, just letting you know I'm creating a list of people I see as my mentors, and you have most definitely made it to that list! Thank You for your efforts, sassyness and impressive intelligence! 🦋💙
I'm realizing how semi cringey my previous post was lmao. It's cool to see the transition from pick me mentality to leveled up Goddess. I no longer feel the need to let Shera or anyone know my next steps. I think it's valid to want that and it comes from a place of :" look at me! I'm doin it yall! "Eventually your level up will progress to a place where seeking that external validation diminishes. I am by no means out of that frame of mind and neediness; but I certainly am on the correct path and branching away from it. I no longer relate to mindsets I've had even just 2 months ago. Sherah not everyone will like you or what you have to say; I am a big fan of you and your work and even still some things I hear you say I'm like what no that can't be right. But regardless lmao.... one day when I'm on my own two feet I will repay it forward to you. The impact you've had on my life alone has been profound. I even catch myself being like "sprinkle sprinkle!"💫 When someone upsets me yet I choose not to react.... or when I get my makeup just perfect lmfao. 🤣Much love Sherah darling thank you so much for everything you do. 😊❤💛💗
