Woman Admits The Real Reason She Became A Ho 

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What's worse is she probably has guys around who value that about her, but she just rejects them.

step 1) "Being modest doesn't work for me" => becomes 304 step 2) "They only sleep with me, they don't want to commit" => forces a pregnancy on Chad who doesn't want a child step 3) "He's deadbeat, I'm a victim, I need a good guy" => marries a nice guy for money to take care of the kid step 4) "You're too boring, I need excitement" => divorces a nice guy, takes his money, sleeps with Chad, buys him gifts with nice guy's money

I'm 54, had my first date tonight in at least 2 years. 53 yo woman I met in real life. Easy conversation, good vibe etc. She went on about all the blokes she gets with on Tinder!! WTF. She this isn't a date, we're just having dinner. I said I asked you out, it ain't book club Lady. Anyway it was good, walked her home, all good. Walking back to my car I thought about everything I've learnt on this channel. I thought, Yeah, nah I can do better. Felt in control. You really do help people Alexander. Thank you Mate.

The worst and I mean absolutely worst thing a woman can have is a hoe friend……she’ll see the excitement, attention, drama, danger, hell even potential money and think “man why am I settling”

Women friendzone men that hope for some "action". Men fckzone women that hope for a potential relationship. Simps and sidechicks getting used over and over while expecting different outcome than the last time.

They cannot think for themselves. If their friends are behaving like trash, you can count on THEM behaving like trash. Remove a good father from her life, raise her by a single mom, and there is a good chance she will have a high body count.

She isn't wholesome to begin with if she is flirting with the thought of being promiscuous. To her, 'being wholesome' is just a tactic, a means to an end, rather than her state of being.

These girls are unbelievable. There was a case here in NZ, where a girl on a working holiday, met a guy on line, and they met up. Had a few drinks etc, then ended up at his place. They had sex, she was strangled doing the act, and she ended up being buried in the bush. It came out during the court case, where the man was facing a murder charge. It came out, that she had sex with another guy the day before, and just after her murder, the killer tried to date another woman.. i made a plea on fb, to young women to not meet a guy, then jump into bed with him straight away.. i got crucified by young girls saying its our bodies, we can do what we want... my reasoning to post to my feelings, was that i saw the anguish on her parents faces, when they had to come over from U.K., and her activies were revealed during the court proceedings, plus i am a father of a daughter. Its heartbreaking.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

"I should be a hoe because it is not working out for me" No no no, what is not working out is you, you should work out, those chubby cheeks aren't going to go away by themselves, besides the only reason she doesn't have a BF is because she did no effort in trying to be a friend to a guy, if she tried to be friendly and do activities with him i am sure she would have a BF even being overweight

All I can say is that I'm glad I'm not a woman living in these modern times, because from everything I've seen so far the temptation to give in and hit the streets must be severe. Especially considering that misery loves company which means there are entire armies of women out there who have made it their life mission to pull all the others down with them.

Women's past matters a lot. Having ONS, FWB are immediate disqualifications. Even if she has a single partners for every single year she ain't the right one. Always ask how is her relationship with her father and her parents still married. That would remove most unworthy suitors.

Anyone notice that a woman has to put out just to get love, kindness, support whereas a man can't even even get a girlfriend if he is loving, kind, and supportive? What an odd world we live in. It "should" be that everyone can get love, kindness, and support from their community. And things like being loving, kind, and supportive are valued traits for a significant other. How did we get here? Are we such slaves to our biology that we must behave this way?

I had a female friend I was friendzoned with, but a few months after beginning dating her friend, she changed her tune and she came onto me - preselection is a REAL THING, Gents. They want the guy that another woman has.

Always ask yourself gents: "does she break or make more rules for me?" 🤔 thats a good indicator for probably more genuine interest/attraction

Its not that high quality guys wont commit to women they dont respect. Its that high quality guys wont commit to overweight chicks.

My only issue is I’ve NEVER and I mean NEVER seen a woman be proud of or even talk highly of her hoe phase. They usually wanna get in a relationship ASAP. So why do it??

There are too many variables that go into why a woman decides to be a 304. Peer pressure, boredom, attention, lack of self-esteem. Yada, yada, yada.

Forget doing some work. Losing weight to be a better candidate. Nah, just take the easiest route. Degrade yourself. Makes sense.

Alex, please start differentiating between high status and high quality guys. High status (high SMV) guys will regularly exploit women of lower status (and SMV) for quick hook-ups. High quality guys will refrain from exploiting weaker others, by definition. That clearly makes them two different sets of people, with or without any intersection.

This video was really an eye opener, recently I became friends with an attractive girl, she actually listened to me whenever I talked for minutes and even invited her to eat(she accepted but invited a male friend) but now I’m gonna totally pull back, I finally realize it’s gonna go nowhere. So glad I found this video

Been buzzing my hair since it started looking like yours and I didn't regret it. You can do it bro.

I like how everyone conveniently forgets the second part of "Women don't want to become surrogate/second mother to their husband", which is "But they do want surrogate/second father role from their husband.". Sure, there are fringe examples when this rule doesn't hold up, but we're talking rules here, overwhelming majority. And I'll tell you precisely why they drop the second part, because the moment you admit it, down go the rights they've "fought for" in the past half a century. Cause if we accept that they won't be mothers to their husbands but want their husbands to be their fathers (some will obscure this with "I want him to be father of my children/for my children" but in reality that includes her too, cause you can't be providing and taking care of children if she's not provided and taken care of first), then the next logical question is "So why give them rights?". If they naturally want to be children and it's okay for them to not pass that biological hurdle, then it's only natural for men to want to be in total control. I'm not some Andrew Tate stan, but it's really up for debate, and that's why people won't say the second part of it, cause it opens that debate.

The comparison with the nice guy who gets behind the lines through pretending and being nice to get sex or in a relationship is perfect

it is hoesome

The timing of this video couldnt be better. I was just thinking the other day about how a man who is in a woman's friendzone is the same thing as a woman in a fwb situation. Ive had a few fwb situations in my life. All of them ended because the woman wanted more and i didnt. And why wouldnt they want more? Theyre going to eventually feel the imbalance...that youre getting more out if it than they are (which you are, the same way a woman does when guys accept being in her friendzone). Men are designed to think any deal involving non-committal sex is a pretty sweet deal. If a woman is just having sex with you without your commitment or even your attention, shes going to eventually want more--the same as dudes in the friendzone do, only the opposte side of the coin. A guy in the friendzone knows deep down that hes accepting a crap deal because hes giving her the attention that she so desperately craves, but he isnt receiving any sex in return. At the end of the day, the equation is attention for sex. When we really like each other, we trade these things and call it dating. The problem is so many dudes these days are giving the attention but not receiving sex. And conversely, women in a fwb want your attention and commitment but will eventually realize they cant get it by continuing to have sex with you. Its all messed up.

Everyone including men should just figure out what their real value is in dating market. Loads of people are delusional to the point that they always try to date outside of their league and then wonder why it doesn't work out.

A. social conditioning B. peer pressure C. Feel like a rockstar D. So other girls miss out on a Fook boy for a moment

"working out" would definitely help though ...

'You can't make a ho a housewife'

Woman's version of the 'Nice Guy'

All these mind games use, get used, if this, then that. It’s a big part of why I’ve almost entirely given up. There’s still a tiny sliver of hope, but idk, maybe I’m just too old fashioned, but whatever happened to both parties just being good people who care about each other? It sounds like a hell of a lot of work for the occasional round of 35 - 50 minutes of “oh baby.” I don’t even know if the “hope” I have is real, but to be honest, I’m clinging to it as it’s the only thing keeping me from absolute black pill nihilism.

This is my personal strategy let me know what y’all think. I vaguely ask what a women is looking for from a guy to see there interest level and if it seems high I will pursue if not I leave it be. I personally don’t see the point in trying to convince a women of my quality the desire has to be there from the beginning.

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The notion that women can't accept emotion in a man is a malignancy of our culture.

Your videos are the best Alexander. All women need to watch your stuff. You're fighting the good fight man.

Alex keeps putting me in the Adzone.

One of the smoothest transition to an advertisement i have even seen. Tiege Hanley getting their money's worth.

The love is not something available in the world

I don't approach women or seek them out. They are pretty much everywhere. They initiate conversation with me frequently enough. When a woman does this I know she has confidence. Insecure people are a huge turn off. They aren't good communicators and are more inclined to be dishonest.

Being promiscuous is not a problem. The problem comes when they tell you they want something serious and then throw you away. And while they know they are promiscuous, after he does not commit, it is suddenly his fault. Be promiscuous as much as you want. But when you are, tell the truth about it. Having the cake and eat it too. Greedy SOABs these humans

The ad drop made me chuckle

I won't commit to that simply because it's easy for me. It's because I understand that she's also easy for everyone else.

GREAT analysis

I met a girl who was in a long-term relationship with someone else. We were friends for over two years. She never used me for free meals or anything else. When she broke up with her boyfriend, we started dating. We got engaged and married within six months. We had two amazing kids and a wonderful 33 years together so far. It does happen. It may be rare. But it happens. Women with discernment and morals don't start relationships without knowing someone first and aren't so quick to jump in bed. If you're looking for someone with a low body count, you can't expect them to be all over you when you start going out.

I was actually considering skin care stuff to stay useful since I am getting close to 30, I'm 27 but everyone even 20 year olds mistake me for 20, they did last summer when I lifeguarded during the summer between grad degree classes, it was when they learned I was in gradschool they did the math and realized I wasn't 20. I want to keep it that way, but I literally have no clue where to start looking, and I don't want to ask the fruity people for advise on skincare

And it seems that, in modern society, just being kind will get you friendzoned. Thirty years ago, things were a bit different. Today, being polite is mistaken for being a "nice guy". It is true that "chicks dig jerks".

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the sponsor transition was smooth ngl

Define wholesome and be specific about why it isn't working out for you.

It’s effortless. Doesn’t work well but is easy so the outcome is hard.

😆 I definitely don't friendzone. I've always thought it's a shame it's impossible for me to have female friends because sex has to be an outcome at some stage. I have thought that is me being immature. But it turns out it's the natural healthy path. Thanks for the clarity

Men are not meant to be surrogate dads for these little immature girls just like he said women don’t want to be surrogate. We want to help take care of them and work as team but modern women want men to do everything.

Women are pissed because situation ships lack vacations and fun dates.

She already was / is one. Most people do not know what wholesome is anymore.....

It's called the sex zone = sexual relationship with no emotional commitment... Friend zone = emotional commitment with no sex

So what’s the grey area here? Like I understand that you shouldn’t do alot of “respective” favors to opposite gender but can’t you just be a decent human being helping other decent human being? Like seriously is there any grey area here atall and how should one be balanced with this sort of thing?

It’s gets real quick on both ends of the equation

This is similar to the logic friendzoned guys use by offering the emotional part and hoping the sexual part will happen.

If you want the best of others, offer your best to others. If you want for others to value you, value yourself first. Self-respect and respect is scarce these days, from the people ive helped to this day the majority, very few have a bit of it. What a lonesome and individualist dystopian world we live in.

3:39 Best advice to all the men out there, following girls on IG hoping to get some from the friends zone.

Offering your product literally for free at the cost of drastically reducing the quality is great for marketing, but terrible for customer retention.

So you are saying the friendzone strat dont work, but then how are you supposed to approach the 'good' women... If you do it like a 'bad' boy they will be repulsed and not take you seriously

She finally got her “304 diploma”

I just hope for a chill relationship, one where we do not need "Hawaii trips" or to look good compared to others. We are just "happy with eachother"......unrealistic tho

Being Emotionally Vulnerable can cause her to actually LOSE attraction to you. Cry in private.

I think there’s two sides to every story. I agree that no man wants a woman who has a body count above a certain level. Still, if she has a body count below a certain level she might develop a fear of missing out at a certain age. This will increase chances of her cheating on her partner or leaving him just before that. There is an optimum for everything, which likely is different for different age groups. Men call out women for their unrealistic expectations. It‘s also unrealistic to expect even high quality women to be charming, intelligent and hot, but live like nuns for a couple of years if a guy leaves them (it happens). I would never want to be with a woman who was able to neglect her desires being single for a couple of years. In a relationship with her I could miss out for weeks or months, which I couldn’t stand because this never ever happened to me before.

So I guess I'm a little confused regarding what you said here about the natural order of things. Do you believe that the natural order is what's necessarily ethical, and that whatever seems to go against it is unethical? For instance, people naturally don't wear clothes, but that doesn't make it wrong to put clothes on

YOU CAN' T FRIENDZONE SOMEBODY WHO DOESNT CONSENT TO BEING FRIENDS THAT's gRAPE. If a man provides leadership, guidance, protection and all that and she gets that without providing value and he doesn't consent and says oh that's my friend and he told her I don't want to be just friends and she says that they are later that is gRAPE period if men value sex and if we take that it's gRAPE then if she steals the protection from you and she values that it's still gRAPE

Did she go through with it tho? Any links? For science.

The equivalent of a man saying he's just going to sit around and watch p*rn for the rest of his life whilst complaining that life is too hard, and never amounting to anything.

It's funny that she doesn't appear to understand that it's a big problem she is 40 lb overweight.

Some bright backgrounds will look nice...the dark production design feels off

i learned that the hard way, never be a participant in a friendzone, never

I don’t want to take care of them either

Women used to be encouraged by their mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and older sisters to get serious about finding a man with potential as early as possible. Sure, she was marrying someone beneath her (a female 5 marrying a dude who had the potential to be a 3, 7, or somewhere in between)...but, women were encouraged to get serious because a woman's window of opportunity to marry the best man she can find is fleeting

No wonder men don't want a relationship anymore

She is right. She is holesome that's why she wants her holes to be explored.

I accepted the friend zone of lesbians. It was nice having female companionship without the head trips and complications that the mere possibility of dating bring up. Two of them eventually started hinting that maybe someday... , and in both cases, by some remarkable coincidence, I happened to be useful to both of them. I was lonely and stupid, but never THAT stupid. I got the Hell out of there and never looked back.

The horrible truth

They have watched "Pretty Woman" too many times.

I'm sorry but people should stop being said that they can't have female friends. I do have female friends and we have normal interactions as in any social relationship. We go out and have some drinks, play games, speak about life, etc. Why ? => Because we're not autistic people made by Tinder. (and yes, we're under 30 years old) I've probably 70% male friends and 30% female friends, I see how other dudes look at them sometimes, how deperate they are for feminine attention. I'm pretty sure they think men and women can't be friends and only have a normal interaction with a girl once every year. If you're in the friendzone but you also aren't miserable, things can change sometimes. Don't believe in these categories. Just have normal interactions with people, understand that some are not available, or just too high for you to be in a relationship. That's ok, show that you don't care and you just want to enjoy life. Maybe you'll also meet her female friends some day... Life is not just about sex, so relationships are not just about the friendzone. Why being so obsessed by it...

Wish I would have known all this stuff a few years ago... 😐

This is as old as time itself… women making the mistake of giving it up too quickly. Smh.

Oh... This!. Finaly I got what to Say yo simps...

They just become a liability and baggage in a relationship.do we really need it? I don't.i say let a ho be a ho and if they stick around to long give em the boot

Just because a woman doesn’t sleep with you doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. It’s possible to date with no sex 😒🙄

For me it’s either unapproachable, f buddy or gf, fortunately the friendzone is just a brief step, for the second two. But I wish I could approach the unapproachable ones, haha

Being a ho is like playing life on recruit difficulty by throwing away all your self respect. To many woman it seems appealing you can earn the same wage as a high level manager just by being a ho.

The friend zone is nothing new. In fact social media simps are just an extension of that. I’ve never ever been in the friend zone because i know i the ROI is very low. Stand up for yourself and be a man. It’s a much better strategy.

Listening to this as an aroace makes me feel hopeless

I want to have a long ass talk with whomever decided to deprive modern men of this knowledge.

Honestly, if you are rich, why would you ever go for a relationship. She is only with you because of your money status, she is playing the game/winning, you are not. You can clearly see the dmbfck at the top of this new era of rich guys. A great example is xQc or Mizkif. It is just genuinely only moronic men that do this, at this day and age. Because they do not know any better. Anyone else either is in a open relationship, or not in a relationship at all

Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, and - you don't want a cow you want a hot babe.

Everything without a contract or commitment is going to deprive you, don't you know? K(now)it

is better to get an answer as soon as possible , if she says yes , you gonna get laid and if she says no , you will save money(and time)

Everyone on these videos says she probably rejected good men. That might be true, but even the young guys on her actual level will probably reward slutty women with attention and validation, and overlook wholesome women. I was guilty of doing that when I was younger. Now I've got into my early 30s, I really appreciate wholesome women.

No, the answer is NEVER BE HO. Go workout and meet people that have a common ground with you. Love lifting weights as a female then find a guy who supports that. This is not hard but NEVER EVER be a HO.

Think about it. Low value women do what high value men do thinking they will become high value. Lots of partners, trashy, drinking more, acting a fool and giving away what is suppose to be valueable for FREE. It back fires everytime.