How a Man Should Treat His Wife According to the Bible | Marriage God's Way Conference | 4th Message

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Are you wondering how a man should treat his wife according to the Bible? Peter commands, "Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered" (1 Peter 3:7). After Peter commands wives to submit to their husbands, he tells husbands how to treat their wives in an understanding way so as not to abuse the authority given to them. Also, two husbands in the Old Testament serve as examples for husbands to learn from, and that's Jacob and Elkanah.
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00:00:00 MESSAGE LESSONS for How a Man Should Treat His Wife According to the Bible
00:01:31 Lesson 1: Remember listening is not enough.
00:12:34 Lesson 2: Husbands treat their wives well by (Part I) learning them.
00:22:44 Lesson 2: Husbands treat their wives well by (Part II) honoring them.
00:29:43 Lesson 2: Husbands treat their wives well by (Part III) Recognizing they’re the weaker vessel.
00:35:37 Lesson 2: Husbands treat their wives well by (Part IV) being spiritual men.
00:51:14 Lesson 3: Husbands mistreat their wives by (Part I) Responding in anger.
00:56:01 Lesson 3: Husbands mistreat their wives by (Part II) Responding in pride.
Husband asks wife:
• Do you feel like I strive to learn about you and understand you?
• Do you feel like I honor you for your femininity?
• Do you feel like I make your submission easier by being a spiritual man?
• Do you feel like I respond to you in anger or pride?
Wife asks husband:
• Do you feel like I try to be a consistent wife so it’s easier to understand me?
• Do you feel like I strive to be feminine?
• Thinking about the account with Rachel and Jacob, do you feel like I:
• Act melodramatically like she did?
• Take my frustrations out on you?
• Covet what other women have?

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Комментарии : 23

@emmanuelchukwu8331 Год назад

But doing what was thought! Loving our wives brings peace in the home!

@ScottLaPierre Год назад

Yes, I do agree that loving our wives as God commands brings peace to our homes. The saying goes: a happy wife makes a happy home :-).

@emmanuelchukwu8331 Год назад

@@ScottLaPierre you have a good marriage experience pastor

@jenniferwhiten1884 8 месяцев назад

Best marriage advice I’ve e er heard ❤

@ScottLaPierre 8 месяцев назад

@jenniferwhiten1884 that blesses me. Thanks for letting me know. I hope you listen to the other messagse!

@JLight86 2 года назад

Thank you for these series brother. I am learning a lot through it.

@ScottLaPierre 2 года назад

You're welcome. I'm blessed they minister to you.

@nicklo8800 2 месяца назад

You rock! One of the best talks I’ve ever heard on marriage and I’ve been married 11 years.

@ScottLaPierre 2 месяца назад

@nicklo8800 That's great to hear. Thanks for letting me know. God bless!

@suebotchie4167 10 месяцев назад

Terrific sermon, thank you.

@ScottLaPierre 10 месяцев назад

@suebotchie4167, Nice to hear from you. Thank you for letting me know. I'm blessed my sermon ministered to you!

@michelleyb.9709 Год назад

You are describing the ideal husband, but unfortunately most would rather just play golf. Any suggestions on how to turn this around?

@ScottLaPierre Год назад

I don't know what percent of men would rather golf then pursue being "The ideal husband." But I do know from the marriage conferences I have put on and the men I have gone to know in my church, that many of them sincerely pursue being godly husbands and to give up many things (I suspect including golf) to do so. With that said, even though I don't enjoy golf, I wouldn't say that just because a man plays golf that he is compromising as a husband. The issue is whether a wife feels like second place to an activity, whether it is golf, video games, or poker night.

@jennr8235 3 года назад

Why did Jacob keep having children with Leah?

@ScottLaPierre 3 года назад

Jenn, Good question. I'm not really sure, other than to say that she was his wife. The polygamy we see in the Old Testament was descriptive versus prescriptive. In other words, the Old Testament describes that it happened versus prescribing us to do the same. God's plan was always that a man would have one wife for life. But even in Jacob's situation, because of Laban's trickery, Leah was his first wife. If there was one wife he should have relations with it was her.

@BK-im8lr Год назад

How should I act as a wife if my husband thinks its okay to be harsh with me? He says its my fault for upsetting him. I apologized for the way I acted because him upsetting me isn't an excuse to get an attitude but he continues to be harsh and tell me I am just too sensitive and need to be less emotional. I don't expect him to be perfect. I at least want him to acknowledge that the way he treats me when he's upset is wrong and make an effort to do better. But he doesn't see it as a problem. I have prayed about it but what do I do in the meantime? What if he never changes? Do I have to just suppress my hurt? Do I still force myself to give him sex even though I feel unloved, used, and violated?

@ScottLaPierre Год назад

Hello @BK-im8lr, I am sorry for ways your husband has mistreated you. It is always hard for me to respond to messages like this without hearing the other side. It is hard for me to counsel people from a distance like this. I feel like the support you desire should be provided by your church elders. Can you reach out to them for help? They can provide counseling and hopefully one of them can come alongside your husband to disciple him.

@BK-im8lr Год назад

@ScottLaPierre Thanks for your response. My husband doesn't want to seek any sort of counseling. He doesn't think there's a problem that needs to be fixed. But I have sought out advice and most people say that he's correct in that I shouldn't be burdening him with my emotions. Thanks again.

@ScottLaPierre Год назад

@@BK-im8lr I appreciate your humility in seeking help from others and being willing to receive it, even if it is difficult. Although your husband might not be open to counseling, perhaps you would be open to one of the elders in the church taking him out to coffee. I would still encourage you to reach out to your elders so that one of those possibilities might take place.

@susanhaines7358 5 месяцев назад

As a wife I feel your pain. I really struggled with this and looked at women in the Bible vs today and realized God wants a wife to be holy no matter how her husband acts. 1 Peter 3. And a good book that will stir up emotions that you can take to God is. THE CARE AND FEEDING OF YOUR HUSBAND. also a good RU-vid to rifle feathers to help you is The Happy Wife School here on RU-vid. A triggered response by you is where you work on that and take it to God for healing and understanding. The bottom line is we do not get a free card when we choose a man to marry. We still are to be a godly wife. God sends the rain to the just and unjust. God is still good to all. We are to be good wives to poor husband's. But you just might learn to be stronger emotionally by working through your belief system that I will be good only if he is good to me. Does he still provide a room and food? Be thankful for that. Then see other things he does. Listen to him and be stronger emotionally if you feel he is too harsh. God bless.