Jesus blessed me with a beautiful husband sometimes he does things that upset me and then I begin to yell and I use the f word please pray for me Lord please take this out of my heart
Jeanette, We all find ourselves upset with our spouse at times. I appreciate your humility and wanting to grow in this area and I will pray for you. God bless!
You do not need prayer, you need to exercise SELF CONTROL. Do you yell the f word at your boss when he/she makes you mad? No. Do you do it with a police officer? No.
Prayer will increase her ability TO have more self control. It is not wise to tell someone NOT to pray but have something else that could only come through prayer then ...the action required .🤗@@EdwardsEvelyn
These were shared with me by loving brother in Christ I want to say these are excellent, praise God for these messages. I'm gonna listen to I think three of them Romans 15:13😊
Plz pray for my marriage for wife and myself to be what God's word says to be. How I need God in our marriage snd a miracle in wifes heart and mind renewing them
Simon, I just responded to your email. I will pray for your marriage. Are you both plugged into a local church? Would your wife be willing to go through my book and workbook, Your Marriage God's Way with you? • Here's the book: amzn.to/3BSQqbS • Here's the workbook: amzn.to/3p9HsPV Looks like Amazon is running a deal on the book, thirty-six percent off, and the workbook, ten percent off. I believe it would be a blessing for you both to do this together. You can share one copy of the book but you should have your own copy of the workbook.
@@ScottLaPierre thanks I will check with her and hopefully she will be willing to read with me. I haven't found a church here that speaks on biblical scriptures and I'm not giving up praying God leads us to one I haven't found yet
@Simon P Fernandez I believe in an organization called Church and Family Life. I have served them for years. I checked their network and unfortunately nearest church is over an hour away.
Adam loved his wife so much that he fell with her. First wimp of History. Now modern men in church are told to be pretty the same , fallen Adams who just love their wives with no firmness , no manliness. When God said to the woman He shall rule over you , note that Eve had just ruled over Adam. God just put things back into place. Maybe his dominance would have to be strengthened because of what had just happened. Adam the wimp had to RULE now and not let his wife take the helm back again.
Isabelle, Again, I would like to respond to different parts of your comment… "Adam loved his wife so much that he fell with her. First wimp of History." I do agree, which I stated in the message, that the fall was a result of Adam and Eve reversing roles: Eve led and Adam submitted to her. God established Adam's headship in Genesis 2 and the devil attacked it in Genesis 3. Had Adam led the fall would not have taken place. "Now modern men in church are told to be pretty the same , fallen Adams who just love their wives with no firmness , no manliness." I do agree with you that the church has failed to encourage men to lead and has allowed women to occupy positions of leadership that belonged to men. "When God said to the woman He shall rule over you , note that Eve had just ruled over Adam.God just put things back into place. Maybe his dominance would have to be strengthened because of what had just happened. Adam the wimp had to RULE now and not let his wife take the helm back again." You are correct that Eve had just rolled over Adam, but God was not just putting things back in place. He did not need to repeat Himself or reestablish what had already been established. Instead, when God said that man would rule over woman, it was part of the curse and He was referring to the temptation men would have to be domineering and harsh in their leadership versus loving and kind. Prior to The Fall men would have led lovingly and kindly. After the fall man is still expected to lead, but now he will be tempted to be harsh.
@@ScottLaPierre Sorry dear brother but I don't see where there is a "curse" here. The earth was cursed , the serpent was cursed but Adam and Eve were not specifically cursed. Men don't rule over their wives today and as a result they are ruled over by them ! It's true ! Who can deny it ? It is not men who defeat women. It is women who defeat men now. The stronger defeated by the weaker. Samson defeated by Delilah. This is why everything is so disturbing and scary. The real curse to me is Isaiah 3:12 where women rule and corrupt Not Genesis 3:16 And being dominant does not necessary mean being harsh. And what do you think of that loving Christ who tells the woman who teaches and deceives his servants that he is going to THROW her on a bed (In revelation) ? Isn't it vigorous and strong ? And what about God who punished his dear Israel with violence ? Not "loving " enough ?
@@ScottLaPierre Wife and I are in a very difficult situation and yes this is very encouraging for me. Sent it to her and hoping she is blessed as well. Already on part 2 for myself.
@@timothyweakly2496 I'm sorry to hear that, but thank you for letting me know. I don't know the details, but I will pray for you and your wife and your marriage.
Excellent, just to clear up… Genesis 1:27 says God created man and women … you said the commandment was given to the man because the women wasn’t created… so what is the right understanding?
Hello @ximenarodriguezs5067, Great question! Many people have wondered this same thing because it looks like two different creation accounts: one in Genesis 1 and another in Genesis 2. Here's what's going on: Genesis 1:1 says, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” and the rest of the chapter goes on to give an elevated view of all six days of creation. Then in Genesis 2 God zooms in on the creation of Adam and Eve and provides more detail man is the pinnacle or high point of God’s creation. In Genesis 1 it looks like Adam and Eve were created at the same time, but in Genesis 2 we see that Adam was created first and then Eve was fashioned from his side. In fact, many commentators don't even say Eve was created, because she wasn't created "ex nihilo" or out of nothing or from nothing like the rest of creation.
In addition to what Pastor Scott has noted. In both Genesis 2 & 3 (Genesis 2:16 and 3:17) Scripture indicates that God only commanded Adam regarding the prohibition about eating the fruit. Hence, Scripture implies that Adam was to instruct Eve regarding the Tree of Knowledge.
@Dreamlandhomestead I’m sorry, but I don’t completely understand your question. This is the first message that I deliver at my marriage conferences. Are you asking for the link to the second message? If you clarify, I will be happy to help you.
This is completely wrong. No one can lead without dominating. No one can be held responsible without having authority and control !! If the wives is told to submit to her husband in everything , it is because the man is dominant ! It's pure logics !! Nothing says that Adam was gentle or tender but he surely was because he FELL with her . So , being gentle is highly dangerous . Anyway , women don't like it when men are too tender , especially in bed. Women see tenderness and gentleness as weaknesses. Nothing to do with kindness , which is of one God's main attribute. Gentleness and tenderness are not things that a woman seeks in men at all. Tenderness is boring. It is not thrilling enough. Male dominance is vital for the survival of any civilisation. Male dominance is even vital for the animal kingdom. Male dominance is the sap that our societies don't have anymore. Calling that a consequence of the fall is completely absurd and illogical. Our Western societies , awfully dominated by women now crave male dominance but it's gone. Too late . We are dying out. I can say now with certitude that the post modern church is partly responsible for that.
Isabelle, I would like to respond to multiple parts of your comment, so I pasted it below with my thoughts underneath… "This is completely wrong. No one can lead without dominating." Every business, organization, team, etc. has leaders. You are telling me that every leader is dominating…or you are just applying this to marriage? "No one can be held responsible without having authority and control !!" You are correct that people should be held responsible and there should be authority. Husbands have authority and they are under authority: "I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God" (1 Corinthians 11:3). Just as wives have a husband as their head, husbands have Christ as their head, and even Christ, himself has His Father as His head. Only God the Father is without authority over Him. "If the wives is told to submit to her husband in everything , it is because the man is dominant ! It's pure logics !!" Note, wives are not expected to submit to everything. There are boundaries, which I discuss in this post, which I hope you will read and let me know your thoughts: www.scottlapierre.org/what-a-wifes-biblical-submission-is-not/ "Nothing says that Adam was gentle or tender but he surely was because he FELL with her . So , being gentle is highly dangerous ." Galatians 5:23 list gentleness as one of the fruit of the spirit. Are you saying it is dangerous to produce one of the fruit of the spirit? I think you might be confusing gentleness with passivity. I discussed the dangers of passivity in the video. I would never recommend that husbands be passive. But husbands can be strong spiritual leaders and still be gentle. "Anyway , women don't like it when men are too tender , especially in bed. Women see tenderness and gentleness as weaknesses. Nothing to do with kindness , which is of one God's main attribute. Gentleness and tenderness are not things that a woman seeks in men at all. Tenderness is boring. It is not thrilling enough." This might be your opinion, but I am sure you don't speak for all women. There are plenty of women who appreciate their husband's tenderness and gentleness, perhaps even in the bedroom. I am surprised that you are so critical of gentleness, considering it is something the Holy Spirit produces in our lives as we are sanctified. Yes, kindness is one of God's attributes, but so is gentleness as it is one of the fruit of His Spirit. Again, I am wondering if you are confusing gentleness with passivity. "Male dominance is vital for the survival of any civilisation. Male dominance is even vital for the animal kingdom. Male dominance is the sap that our societies don't have anymore. Calling that a consequence of the fall is completely absurd and illogical." Now I am wondering if you are confusing male dominance with leadership. Again, men can lead without being domineering. Christ Himself is a great example. "Our Western societies , awfully dominated by women now crave male dominance but it's gone. Too late . We are dying out. I can say now with certitude that the post modern church is partly responsible for that." I agree with much of what you are saying, but I would probably use different words. I don't think women crave male dominance, but they do crave spiritual leadership. Yes, you are correct that the church has been part of the problem when it doesn't encourage men to lead and instead allows women to occupy positions that belong to men.
@@ScottLaPierre Women do crave male dominance. Please take a look at what is happening in our societies now that women are "free". They turn to what we call "bad boys". Not because they are bad , but because they are dominant. The problem is , now dominance is connected to what is "bad". The modern church keeps telling husbands to be nice , tender , almost grovel to their wives ( how terrible !) . They have been turned into Nice Guys that women deep inside despise . No woman really appreciate a man who is too tender in bed. It's impossible. Tenderness , sweetness is feminine , not masculine in our eyes . We may be wrong but that's how we see things. The loving doe of Proverbs 5:18 needs to be approached by a rutting deer , a man who asserts his desires , a man who is not afraid to take what is his. Notice that it is the woman who is portrayed as a doe , and the doe is a very sweet and tender animal. On the other hand , there is the deer , powerful , dominant , full of strength and vigour. That's what I call male dominance. Women secretly crave this power that they don't have. Women even have rape fantasies and those fantasies are always the same : feeling strongly wanted , being taken , possessed , being overpowered. I don't know if men realise how wild we can be mentally as regard sexual matters because we need this masculine power that we don't have. Women are also very much used to enduring violence in their bodies (menstruations , pregnancie ..) . I think that's partly why we feel those things so strongly. We hate being treated with kids gloves in sexual matters. Women who say that they want a husband who is nice , tender , romantic just lie to themselves. If he is just that , he will be no real man in their eyes. Of course I generalise , there are exceptions , I cannot speak for all women but it is usually so. I can't understand that you can confuse a fruit of the Spirit with something carnal like sex. Gentleness towards our brothers and sisters is one thing but you seem to forget that between a man and a woman , there is something different. As long as sex is not involved , gentleness is not a problem. How could I put it ? There is some kind of power balance between the sexes , and i'm going to use a very masculine and warlike vision here . I think that men have to "defeat "their women in bed. The more control he has over her in bed , the more he will be the one in her eyes. You see , this is specific to the sexes. A man who is not in control in bed , won't be in control out of the bedroom either. He will gradually lose his wife. Anyway , the very notion of being owned is a thrill to us women. The Bible says that it is not the wife who has power over her body but her husband. The husband has to really live that and not be afraid to go take it. You see , this has nothing to do with gentleness but with a man who asserts his (legitimate )rights. It is unbelievable and so misandric that so many church teachings call married men "selfish"for acting masculine !! If only they knew how much we naturally respond to this "selfishness" ! We women can only respond to a man who acts masculine . Massive emasculation ( lack of male dominance , not spiritual leadership ) make women freak out deep inside. I'm not surprised of the breakdown of marriage in our societies where men are afraid of their own masculinity . Once again , I'm not talking about spiritual leadership dear brother but about sex. Because in marriage (which is the bedrock of society) , everything starts off in the marriage bed.
Igor, the link to the handout is in the description, and you can get it here: www.scottlapierre.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/Your-Marriage-Gods-Way-Conference-Handout.pdf. God bless!
