How To Feel Feminine If You Feel Masculine in Relationships 

I think the problem with me having a hard time receiving is because I assume when people give me something they are definitely expecting something back and I don’t want to have that burden of owning anyone anything. Because let’s be honest there’s no free lunch in this world. lol. 😂

23 and after my almost three month relationship w someone I like, it helped my realize that I need therapy. Found a therapist and will be starting soon. I know that once I work through my traumas I will be aligning myself with the life that I know I am worthy of living. Relationships really help to amplify and provide feedback when your with secure individual. So grateful

I've learned a lot from u over the past 2 years and i enjoy being the feminine women ive became ,thanks a lot Dr Deff

I def have become more feminine in my marriage, but I can pull that masculine out when I need too. I'm a wild one😂

I know this may be off topic, but can you do a makeup routine video? As a dark skin woman, it's hard to find classy beautiful makeup looks like you often have. ❤

That scripture put me on my toes! Thank you for relating this to the word. 🙏🏾💕

You look beautiful ❤❤

As a teen, I love how you talk about femininity while also including Christianity

I just found your channel and I absolutely love love LOVE the way you breakdown these topics. I'm currently working on getting my bachelor's of arts in psychology and I've been drawn to Family & Marriage counseling because I've grew up seeing toxic relationships and its very important that I understand these things so that I can become successful within my own. Your channel has really inspire me to continue wanting to help women become their best selves even as mothers because that is something I've struggled with.

Love the side stories - makes it more relatable and integrateable than straight up advice

*Love love love the advice you gave about asking your man about a topic you are novice in so he can inform you about something he’s passionate about* . Also love the tip about letting him show up and accepting what he does. Thank you for giving practical advice on how we can rest in our femininity. I am trying to learn how I can improve myself and how I choose to show up in the world so I will be binge watching your content.🤗🧡

Dr. Daf is the business ❤

such a necessary message!

As always Dr Daf, spot on. Thank you ❤

Ohhh I was waiting for this video!!!! ❤

Oh my! I'm so happy I'm not the only one that finds it odd that lots of femininity content is presented in a masculine way! 😆 I'm kind of new to your channel and what drew me to your channel is how feminine you are in your presentation. I've only found one other channel that also feels feminine. The second you started talking in this video a genuine smile appeared on my face and I felt a kind of femininity and joy in me that's been hard to feel lately especially with some hurt and healing that I need to work on. I've been wanting to heal and grow in my femininity but watching other content often would just leave me feeling worse because it came off as condescending, so I wouldn't continue watching.. I was worried that it was all in my head and I was just resisting change.. So I just want to say thank you for your content and I'm really excited to learn from you and do the work I need. You're a beautiful person and I hope one day my femininity and beauty can radiate to others as yours does ❤

You are so right! This made me cry! Thank you

Love this!!! NEEDED THIS! 💛

Amazing content ❤ I’ve been watching you since the beginning of my femininity journey. I must say at first it seems like a lot of work, but once we shift into that feminine identity, that is so natural to us, it just becomes so easy. Ive found a power that didn’t know existed .. Thank You ❤

My sweetest mummy Micheeelle thanks for this wonderful inspired platform to change lives positively

Love this video. Also can you please do a makeup video? Step by step guide on how you do it.. I mean look at you.. you look absolutely gorgeous girl 😍🩷

Beautiful content as always. ❤

this video is perfect!! thank you Michelle!

This is good. Thank you Dr.Daf

Oh wow, I thought this Was an old video because it's a topic I wanted to search on your channel. I haven't resonated with your channel since I started consuming content on feminity. I'm only pointing this out because sometimes we don't resonate with content we aren't ready for ❤

I’m so grateful for your videos. I feel like God led me here because this is something I truly desire for myself.

I have a huge problem with brain fog. We have 4 kids and i feel after each kid i got foggier and foggier. I felt my vocabulary was going away. My youngest is 4 and it seems i can think more clear now. I do have parts of my middle school/teen years blacked out too, so not sure if that has anything to do with losing my vocabulary as well... I'm guessing trauma at that age. Anyway, since I've been learning from you, i have felt better just asking my husband, "what does this mean? What is this word?" I was embarrassed before because i thought he would think i was dumb and i knew i wasn't like this in the past when i met him. Since I've been reading in the Bible, my brain has opened up again and I've been able to organize our house better. Im usually all over the place. Quick story: You reminded me of maybe 10 years ago, my motherN Law let me know my broNLaw had mentioned how, "Marissa twirls her hair with her fingers and just seems girly. My gf doesn't do that" and i guess he told her he liked that. Plus i was never girly amd always thought that was a bad habit bc teachers always scolded me in school for that all the time😂. *They just married in November and are super happy🥰

It's spot on.

Thank you. I learn so much from you. Let’s heal, Ladies! 🙏🏻 “St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle, be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him we humbly pray; and do thou, O Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God, cast into hell Satan and all the evil spirits who prowl about the world seeking the ruin of souls.” Amen.

Hello Dr. Daf. You have been such an inspiration and your videos have truly helped me. You may have already touched on this before but I would love to know more on how to NOT nag our husbands and how to stay in our femininity during disagreements because this is typically the only time I feel that I resort to masculinity because I begin to feel unheard by my husband at times. Please help! ❤

I love this

Thank you so much this is amazing ❤️❤️ learnt a lot

Enjoyed this video! 😊🥰💛🙏🏾🍇🍇🍇🍇

A video I did not know I needed! Thank you Michelle, and thanks to the persons who asked for this video ❤️🩷🤍 I have book recommendations, from Gary Smalley: « For better or for best » (for women to read) and « If only he knew » for men to read 🫶🏾 They are quite connected to this topic of feeling masculine, and they give ways to better understand the opposite sex. I read the one for pen too as it helps me validate and understand my behaviours as women! Blessings ✨

Watching and loving your video from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

Dr. Daf is it masculine to suggest the majority ideas for hangouts? My guy friend specifically asked what I like to do on the onset. I didn't answer b/c I just relocated to the city. Over time I suggested different things never giving a deadline. I usually let him work out the details. He rarely suggests anything. I know his personality so I asked if it bothered him. He said no (but too much will get old). So I can't figure out if he's agreeing b/c it's new experiences or he's just being polite...

Can you please do a video of assertive communication for feminine women? I've struggled with people pleasing and want to learn to better assert myself.

Do you happen to have any recommendations for feminine car scents? To me they all smell either super fruity or woodsy.

A little male bravado is appealing but not too much.😂

How about if you start asking ( in a feminine way) but his feedback is that you are asking to much...or he gives feedback that you can do that yourself. How to respond to this

I lost my baby and the person left me.i felt to pick up the pieces and it's hard.i don't feel like woman 😢. What can do to get back in sync..i am longer attracted to my hobbies that usually help me ..it's like I am drowning. I kinda lost that feeling.😢

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this is kinda off topic. right now I feel like I am struggling so badd. my faith is weakem day by day. I don't have anyone to talk to rn. I have cried my self to sleep for the past 2 weeks😔. idk what to do. anyone have any tips? I really dont want to fall into depression.

UR voice kind of different, may you heal soon and as always great content. Thanx a lot 🙏🏼🩵

Am I High or is she a Bot 🤖 or something like omg….😬but she right tho this perfect looking lady.

When you said about how we need to be careful on what feminine content we watch, I instantly knew who you were talking about it's that one female RU-vidr named Love Dorsey. She very aggressive even she speaks the truth, never take advice from unlicensed people who think that they are life coach either.

What is up with you only showing white couples. Even the women of color was with white man why ? It wouldn't surprise me if you are with a white man