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How Our Expectations Make Tinnitus Worse 

Alice Moyle
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In this video, I am talking about how our expectations often make tinnitus worse.
00:00 - our expectations impact tinnitus
01:10 - what we resist persists
01:36 - finding acceptance
02:43 - I’ll only be happy when…
04:18 - patreon & 1-1 support sessions
06:10 - how our emotions impact tinnitus
07:21 - so many people experience tinnitus
08:12 - find joy in the small moments
About Me:
Hello! I first heard my tinnitus back in 2020 and it completely took over my life. I felt so hopeless, alone and terrified. I thought I would never be able to enjoy existing ever again and had to navigate many challenges to get to where I am today. I am now in a place where my tinnitus comes and goes and I can take a no-big-deal approach towards the sound through self-work and therefore I can enjoy my life again and not feel all of the difficult emotions that I once did.
I also have struggled with severe anxiety and OCD. I want to try and be a glimmer of hope for those who are struggling, especially those with tinnitus, by showing that it's possible to feel better and overcome tinnitus without pushing bullsh*t quick fixes that don't work. I want to share different practices and things that I am experimenting with in my own life that could help you on your journey. I believe that its necessary to approach healing holistically for true progress. I want to help people feel less alone in the suffering that they experience, to build a community and find more joy together in the chaos of life! You've got this. Stay hopeful.
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30 июл 2024

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Комментарии : 51   
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Hi lovely people 😊 Please answer these 5 questions if you’re interested in online mentorship sessions with me by clicking the link below! www.surveymonkey.com/r/mentorsessionswithalice Your answers will be anonymous.
@stephanoix7400
@stephanoix7400 5 месяцев назад
Anyone going through this please remember we're one big family on this planet ❤
@elizandrolorensi6571
@elizandrolorensi6571 5 месяцев назад
To those of you experiencing the "silent" pain of going through the battle against tinnitus, i'm here to tell you it is absolutely possible to overcome the worst days of coping with it and come to terms with this new reality. I've been there, i know your despair, cause at the early stages i came to a point where i thought i'd better be dead instead. I was sure i would never be able to get used to my new condition. Nowadays, 90 % of the time i don't even notice it is there anymore, not because it disappeared, but simply because our brain is capable of adapting to anything. Of course It takes time, patience and a whole new perspective on tinnitus but is doable. Hope you all the best!
@susy841
@susy841 5 месяцев назад
How long did it take?.
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much for sharing. That is amazing and I completely agree!
@blancacasillas8226
@blancacasillas8226 4 месяца назад
Elizandrolorensi Thank you! I needed to hear this. I think I will never get to where I don’t hear it anymore…. I pray and wish I one day don’t notice it anymore so I can go on with my life happy again and be able to travel 🙏🙏🙏
@elizandrolorensi6571
@elizandrolorensi6571 4 месяца назад
'm sure you will reach such a point on the way where it won't be a problem anymore, my dear. I've noticed that the less inportance you give to the buzzing the less perceptible it becomes regardless if it remains there. The trick is give time the chance to work its magic. @@blancacasillas8226
@rusky325i
@rusky325i 5 месяцев назад
Thank you Alice for great advice. I have intermittent or cyclical tinnitus that started at the end of last summer. It only switches during sleep and what I wake up is what I get for the rest of the day Today woke up with minor ringing, instead of monitoring it or being worried about how it annoys me I just went on a bike ride and when I paused to take a break it wasn't there. It let me go for some reason which I guess is due to changing my expectation. I just sat there and listened to nature without the stupid hissing sound..This is a first time mild day turned absolutely quiet. When I got home few hours later it returned but it felt like I am starting to get some control over it by not worrying about it. Now hope same will start to happen for my loud days.
@judyzilinski3241
@judyzilinski3241 4 месяца назад
I wish I found you before. Thanks so much. My tinnitus started when my youngest son phoned home from university saying he had ( stress of a PhD candidate) well I became so upset not knowing how to help I got it - actually I had it before and knew it was there if I thought about it but, most of the time I didn’t hear it or render I had it. I have gone thru hell to back to that time. My son is healing and I never told him about mine.
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 21 день назад
Wow, thank you for sharing your story. I wish you and your son the best and healing just takes time! You've got this.
@susy841
@susy841 5 месяцев назад
So true. This is so me and it always has been.
@petra.tinnitus.insomnia.recova
@petra.tinnitus.insomnia.recova 5 месяцев назад
A beautiful video this week. Thank you, Alice! You are truly a wonderful person ❤️
@GTnYo
@GTnYo 5 месяцев назад
I dont have tinnitus but have some visual problems that i think this advice would be useful for as well. I thank you for making these videos. All the best to you
@teresarand1777
@teresarand1777 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for that I get excited when I see a new video it took me quite awhile to see what you are talking about lately I have had more good day's then bad I used to get made because I wasn't improving fast enough so what you said about be in the know that is very to I still hear my tinnitus but I'm learning to not let it bother me your video have been so much help in my recovery thank you
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
You’re more than welcome! Keep going ☺️
@andrewsatcarrum763
@andrewsatcarrum763 5 месяцев назад
Great advice… on a day where I’m struggling big time. Interested !!
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
I hope you are doing okay! I’ll keep you updated on the support sessions ☺️
@mishamostovoi
@mishamostovoi 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for these videos
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle Месяц назад
You are more than welcome!
@katem6392
@katem6392 5 месяцев назад
Really important wisdom in here, that anyone could benefit from.
@michaelreisman5695
@michaelreisman5695 5 месяцев назад
Great stuff! Definitely interested in the sessions. Here in the Philadelphia, PA area, there are no interpersonal resources. You're right in that we are not alone!
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
Great! Good to know 🙂 i’ll keep you updated.
@mikekazama5624
@mikekazama5624 5 месяцев назад
Hi Alice, You're such an inspiration listening to. You really must have worked hard and done some serious soul searching getting where you are today. I'll gladly support you to help you reaching out to as many people as possible. God bless.
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope you are doing well!
@WATEOW
@WATEOW 5 месяцев назад
What a message today!❤ Thanks for your beautiful soul, Calm angel voice, wisdom and sharing your experience with us! Definitely looking for 1:1 to be available 🙏
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
You’re so welcome! Great! I’ll keep you updated 🙂
@angelsarecats
@angelsarecats 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video! It's so significant for me now to find support because it might be really challenging sometimes.❤
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
You’re more than welcome! Do you mean regarding finding my channel or the possibility of 1 on 1 support sessions with me? Thanks! 💕
@angelsarecats
@angelsarecats 5 месяцев назад
I mean finding your channel❤ I wish I could have a session someday too when I get a job and can afford it😊 Meanwhile your videos help me get over depression and panic because of tinnitus❤❤❤
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
@@angelsarecats I am so glad that the videos help! 🫶🏼
@BiggySnacks
@BiggySnacks 5 месяцев назад
Great content! I would definitely be interested in your 1-1 and Patreon. Thank you!
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
Amazing! ☺️ Thanks for letting me know. I’ll keep you updated!
@judyzilinski3241
@judyzilinski3241 4 месяца назад
Support your ideas !
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 21 день назад
Thank you!
@Daan-fl4gs
@Daan-fl4gs 5 месяцев назад
Thank you very much. Any tips for the constant scanning, monitoring( thinking about) the symptoms.
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Hey there! It takes practice and a lot of effort to lessen the constant scanning and monitoring for symptoms. I would say that it doesn't happen overnight for most people. Keep focusing on the things that bring you joy in your life and try to bring more of that into your life. The more you can focus on things outside of the tinnitus sound, the more it will fade into your awareness. I wish you all the best!
@anhark8253
@anhark8253 5 месяцев назад
Hi Alice Thankyou for the videos I wanted to ask about the visual disturbances do you still experience static in your vision and has it gotten any better also when you look at the sky do you still see those little squiggly lines and what’s the progress
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Hey there! Sorry for the delayed response. I don't really experience the static anymore! I can still see those squiggly lines if I look at the sky for too long, however not so much now and it doesn't bother me! :) I wish you all the best.
@susy841
@susy841 5 месяцев назад
Do you go to see bands at all?. This was my main hobby which I have had to give up.
@bradad2026
@bradad2026 5 месяцев назад
Why? Have you considered ear plugs, positioning yourself further away from speakers/amplifiers? I was reticent about going to see a movie, especially when I knew there would be loud intervals in it but I wore ear plugs and it was fine. I was worried about being in a plane since my tinnitus began but again with some planning (and noise cancelling headphones) it was fine.
@susy841
@susy841 5 месяцев назад
​@bradad2026 I have always worn ear plugs but a few people have said it spikes their tinnitus so it's put me off. I like to be near my friends who always sit down the front, I do try to avoid speakers though. I didn't want to just be hearing tinnitus all night as ear plugs make my tinnitus louder now.
@TheDaien
@TheDaien 5 месяцев назад
Hi Alice, Thank you for another great video. I'd love to support your work and get in touch with you in a personal session. Please let me know if this is possible. Thanks in advance. Much love from the Netherlands. Kind regards, Junior
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! I appreciate it 🙂 ill keep you updated!
@TheDaien
@TheDaien 5 месяцев назад
@@alicemoyle Great! I look forward to it!
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 5 месяцев назад
@@TheDaien me too! 🫶🏼
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Hey there! I hope you’ve been well 🙂I’d love if you could please answer these 5 questions if you’re interested in online mentorship sessions with me by clicking the link below! www.surveymonkey.com/r/mentorsessionswithalice Your answers will be anonymous.
@TheDaien
@TheDaien 4 месяца назад
@@alicemoyle Good morning Alice, I've been doing alright. I hope you are doing good too. Loving your videos (I watch them religiously every week). I filled out the survey! Hope to see you in the near future! - Junior
@shivangithakur4728
@shivangithakur4728 5 месяцев назад
Help me please 😢
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
Hey there! I hope you are doing okay. What is going on for you? You've got this!
@cesarmv89
@cesarmv89 5 месяцев назад
I read a story about a old man who have T since he was a child, he don’t know what T was one day he saw a documentary about tinnitus after that his life becomes a nightmare, what change before and after he saw the documentary nothing, tinnitus is about perception
@alicemoyle
@alicemoyle 4 месяца назад
That is very interesting! thanks for sharing.
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