HOW TO be More Confident - The Best Tips to Boost your Confidence 

Most Valuable Lesson - Stop Comparing yourself to others, Only compare yourself to previews version of yourself.

you there who's reading this comment, want to get rid of that evil voice in your head that tell you you're not worthy enough ? Well 1- start meditating twice a day for 15 minutes at least preferably once when you wake up and once before you go to sleep 2- stop fapping 3- realize that you won't die from most of the things you do so it's safe to try 4- the people who judge you don't matter to you and they don't deserve you 5- do what makes you happy be productive do somthing you love and focus on it 6- realize failure is an inevitable part of success without failure no sucess you will never successed if you have never failed 7- every feeling you feel good or bad is coming from your mind not the outside world get that in your mind (with meditation you will understand this) 8- (Bonus) cut sugar from your diet it raises cortisol which raises stress 9- (Bonus) start working out feeling strong in your body will make you strong mentally 10- finally always remember to breath deeply & slowly for one month you will notice the big diffrences *Believe it till you Recieve it* all of us are full of doubts and insecurties you are not the only one

Confidence is literally the most important thing to change in order to grow and have the life you want to live

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All things I did in the past year that I had to learn on my own. -Accept what you can't change about yourself. -Change what you can change that you don't like about yourself -When negative thoughts come into your head, shut them up. -Exercise -Take good care of your appearance (groom, clothes), I used to not care too much about that but I love to look good now. -Don't worry about what other people think of you, It's what you think about yourself that matters. People are unconsciously afraid to change because they identify themselves as the person they are now and that they're scared they won't be the same person if they do change when in fact it's a good thing and they're just preventing themselves from being the best "Them" they can be.

I've noticed u started to speak louder and just overall more charismatic and it's awesome

1. Figure out what your insecurities/weaknesses are and own them. 2. Stop comparing yourself to other people, compare yourself to previous versions of yourself. 3. Focus on the positive in your life, and not the negative (Law of Attraction). 4. Reduce cognitive dissonance (when what you think/feel differ from your actual behavior). 5. Stop listening to your inner critic. 6. Groom, dress, and look nice. This will manifest in your actions/thoughts. 7. Set small goals and achieve them. 8. Surround yourself with confident people (you are the average of the 5 ppl you hang out with) 9. Be appreciative and grateful, don't take anything for granted.

Love this video! I was superduper unconfident until a few year ago. Now I even got so confident that I started vlogging about 'the road to entrepreneurship'. Talking to the camera and putting the videos on youtube was a big step last year, now I don't even think about it anymore. Feels good to be confident! Thx for the insights!

Duuude, we have to change. The shadowy negative part of yourself has to die before we can be reborn into the person we can become. You have to want to be a butterfly so much that you decide to leave the caterpillar behind. Amazing concept. Evolve, grow, expand, re-invent yourself, and in the making, live the life you truly desire.

Well i used a lot of those changes quite a while ago and i can say only one thing: LISTEN TO THIS GUY HE KNOWS THE GOOD SHIT

In my life i never found not even one RU-vid channel which I have watched many videos in a row and liked them so much! I have never commented so enthusiastic, I am really glad I have crossed path you your channel! And I appreciate your work! Your videos are my shortcut to the "how to start way" in my life, I wanted to change some things in my life they are huge, so I thought, I have to start at the bottom you strengthen my foundation and build on it! And you have made me realize where to start, that knowledge, for me its wisdom, really educated me, So Thank you very much!

Love the positive encouragement in this video! Definitely spoke to me.

I would like to see a a whole video on intrusive thoughts. If you wouldn't mind doing one on it.

you make legit points to which most of the people can actually connect . the content is fresh ,kudos to you. keep up the good work.

Thank you very much for your important videos. But i suggest you two things: slow down your talk speed - and i think that making a summary in the end of each video in the form of tips will make it more efficient. You are great and your videos really help me become better.

ill focus on not doing heroin anymore :)

you are a genius! thanks for your videos, it instantly lighten my mood after watching. i appreciate your great work!

This was the best self help video I have ever watched including Ted talks! Especially intrusive thoughts, forgiving yourself but just everything was so incredibly formative and helpful I am sure to so many people. Thank you so much! Kathy

Great Content Thank You Psy Be aware Dun compare, own your life, focus on your strength instead of weakness.forgive yourself, congruent groom,set small and achieve, hang around confident people, appreciate, powerpose n smile

jesus, even the music is just making me feel so good about everything

I am that one person. Thank you. i am 2 weeks from being 18. I knew most of this before i watched it. I am I finally connected it all. Now is my when I will either start my life or fall back to old habits. All my friends and I are working on life together. Meditation.

I don't always watch your videos when they come out, but when I start watching thin I watch atleast 4 or five back to back

@JasonD: *Bro.. just hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com..* If your goal is to get more confidence around girls specifically, those are good books to read. The most important thing is to stop giving AF about rejection. Once you get over your nervousness and fear of approaching, your dating life will be lit. All that's needed is a mindset shift.

Say what you feel, I totally agree with avoiding cognitive dissonance. A friend to all is a friend to none, take sides and have beliefs that may turn some people away, because then you will find true friends. Don't only engage in small talk, and if you do, bring attention to the elephant in the room. If you say "Gee, the weather sure is great", follow that up with "Not that discussing the weather qualifies as an actual conversation". But maybe that's just my approach, truly the sooner you start talking about your feelings about events rather than just the physical events the faster you can share your true self and be a confident person who doesn't care about fitting in. Think of how you are with your closest friends and then act similarly with new people. Don't wear a mask of geniality and don't try to be everyone's friend no matter what. Don't pick fights but just be honest and open. People appreciate authenticity, whether that's in terms of a romantic relationship or a friendly relationship. Also to the guys who write "Stop masturbating" on all these videos, please stop. That may help you but only because you're setting a reasonably achievable goal, not because that is the be all, end all of confidence building.

OMG I'm right :D I'm about to change myself for a girl I like.. that's my motivation to change.. I started to read one chapter every day to improve my language, started to run one time around the block every day. I also started to talk with strangers, so like check your brake lights, they need to be fixed. Yesterday I thought about things that I like on me and I also try to eat less fast food/unhealthy food. Nearly every day in the last years wasn't good or fun for me, so I tried to change. As soon I was changing the school, everything turned better and better. I started to practice my English. So thank you for the video. It's a sign for me.

Thank you for sharing this wonderful tips. It is very timely because I am under depression due to stress, overthinking, frustration and insecurity.

Another thing that helped me with self confidence was hearing a phrase: "you should always be polite". Up to that point I always worried about fitting in. Hearing that phrase made me realize that there is one correct way to behave and anyone who expected me to act differently was wrong. That realization removed a lot of pressure in social situations.

I find it hilarious and cool when people expose their weaknesses and make fun of them - always fun to be around someone like that

If you haven't already you should consider doing a podcast. I love to listen to you talking while I work and while the animations do add to the experience, they aren't necessary.

I believe that self awareness is helpful when learning/building up confidence.

If you make your videos 10 minutes or longer you get more ad revenue so if its this close to ten mintues just add the extra seconds for extra $. But also some people try to make videos longer but only have 5 minutes of good content which ends up backfiring so it depends how much quality content you have to share.

Hey man your videos are great. I am dyslexic so I can't read books very fast and it slows me down when I want to learn something, which puts me off reading books, but you are a great help to me and I watch most of your videos. Keep up the good work

Very Good!!! I believe that i have confident in my self.. and see videos like this is very refreshing.. thank you!!

This video just reinforces everything I've done over the past 3/4 years to grow more confident. If anyone reads this and is low on confidence; THIS ACTUALLY WORKS. 3/4 years ago I was and had always lived my life as a loser who hates the way i look, talk (i had a lisp which i've since lost after growing more confident and talking more) and act. However, when i started forgiving myself, searching for every single positive thing about myself, as well as seeing where i'm strong and where i can improve; I started seeing myself as a better version of myself. Also whilst this comment is so damn long, I might as well recommend to stop comparing yourself to others and accepting the things you cannot change, because they just bring unnecessary negative emotions into your life. If anyone needs any advice to grow more confident and live a better life; I'll reply to any replies below this to help you ;). Thanks for reading!

Fantastic ideas! I'm putting several in place today and the days to come. Paul....

Love this channel so much 😃😃! Incredibly helpful!

I love the background score, your voice and your content in the page. I watch your videos regularly and they have been very helpful for my daily motivation requirements. Thanks a lot.

I loved the idea of comparing yourself to your previous version. the idea is simple but I just needed to hear it

I would like to thank you for the tip on "No More Mr Nice Guy". I've read the book and it described my situation to extremely large extents. I benefited a lot from knowing my failing points. THANK YOU again.

Thank you so much! I'm learning and growing with your videos.

I have been folowing this chanel for some time and i want to say thank you dude i love your work!!!!!

I like this video very much, and change the way I think and feel. You are true it is about changing your mentality and rest everything will follows.

Motivational videos and writing down quotes that resonate with you.. Definitely agree with the points made in this video..

Man, I'm dating a girl that I never thought of even being able to approach 6 months ago. I had a terrible depression last year. But I made above it and everything is getting right. I fought to change my selfsteen and could see that nothing was wrong with me, but that something about my mental state wasn't right. Right now I feel invincible. :D be positive people.

Another great vid. How long did it take for u to complete this vid, from idea to upload? Keep it up mate!

man thank u for creating these types of videos,it helped me a lot

im glad i found this and all of these videos that you do really help, it has answered a lot of questions that ive been trying to find the answers to for years, and it just brought up more questions. i wish i could be this helpful as you are, i like to help people too, sometimes i think i try to hard and either bother people or push them away though. body language can show a lot about a person, and instead of focusing on myself ive tried to help others instead. i realize i couldnt do much to help when there was a lot i needed to work on for myself

Hi, there! First off, I think this channel is awesome. I teach English as a foreign language in Brazil and it would be wonderful to have a video about how to be more confident when interacting in a foreign language. More power to you! Cheers

Thank you so much. I learned a lot from your channel! I’m trying to do some Chinese version of improvement videos. Even though VideoScribe does not support Chinese characters, I still manage some ways to do it. I will keep your words in mind and keep doing new videos. Again thank you so much for your lesson! Just want to let you know you really encourage me a lot !

You're such a GREAT Guy! I came here from *Alpha m.* ’s video & After watching your videos, I'm thinking WHY THE HECK I DIDN'T FIND YOUR CHANNEL PREVIOUSLY!

“My car didn’t start” Well at least I am not being kidnapped

Thanks a lot for your support and guidance on how to get the Outlook for people

I enjoyed your video. I'd also like to add that for me personally, visualization has been a very powerful tool. When I have no choice but to be around people that I don't want to be around (or just don't want to be around at that moment), I imagine myself shrouded in an energy field that repels negative thoughts, or simply other people's influence. It doesn't have to be my visual, use your imagination and what fits you. For anyone who's watched the anime "HunterxHunter", I imagine I am surrounded by my nen in these instances. You can use this to feel more confident, or to do things you normally wouldn't do. If you are having trouble with negative feelings towards someone, you can imagine sending waves of "loving kindness" towards them, and in my experience the negative feelings will eventually abate. The point of this technique is that it has no limits, and can be applied to anything. Visualization utilizes the power of your imagination to help you reorient your thoughts and feelings to match your desires and achieve your desired outcome.

I fucking love you dude

I think you should have a conclusion at the end of the video. Like a list of "things to do if you want to be confident" or some thing. It should be helpful. P.s: nice video

I love how you told about your own insecurities. Excellent video!

Most times, these types of videos never help me but yours really do. I just binged watched like 10 of your videos😂thank you for this

and you will be blind where u can improve yourself... that sums it up. That s ma lesson today

Hey buddie i found your channel some days ago all The Videos i watched are pretty much the best ive Seen on RU-vid yet keep going Like this you are awesome

yo man I've been subbing to ur channel for a while, u mighta seen me run my mouth down here, but all the positive advice really helps, and like you I've seen myself come a long way on the personal development chart.. I caught that part about past regrets and hurting ppl, but also getting over it and growing from it etc.. I can def relate and I'm sure a bunch of other ppl as well, I know it's personal bit I'd love to see a video about it... plus who's knows, maybe putting ur heart into it will get it to blow up even bigger, ppl recognize realness.. anyways, stay up brody.

It's wird how this video came in the just most perfect day in my life when I really need it ;Today! Thank you.

Content wise you are one of a kind , not like many youtube videos which beat around the bush! , Keep it Up !! :D

one of the best videos that I've found on this channel.... keep up the good work man 👍

Thank you man :) your videos are helpful

I'm in Nairobi, Kenya and your videos are making a difference here Thank you

I love your channel and your vision! God bless you in all your endeavors. You have helped me in so many important ways.

Thank you for all the valuable tips! You are definitely helping me to better myself and others.

Thankyou so much i like to think I’m already pretty confident but this is going to help even more😁

Man, it's the most amazing video about confidence I've ever watched. You've presented here the best advice I've learnt from many other books and videos. I only regret I did not watch it 2 or 3 years ago :)

Love this video! probably one of the best if not the best that you have made so far. Just a small suggestion, if you use different animation in a very video I think it will improve the quality of your content.

This video makes me cry, but it's so true.

Your videos have really made a difference thank you for putting in the effort to make them

Man.. I had a very hard Time a couple months ago.. It was very challenging to overcome depression mood, But I did! My strategies were these tips! Keep doing those vídeos bro! Thanksss

killing it with these videos, great content. You should look forward on theese types of videos that actually helps people to improve themselves.

Thank u very much. I have improved alot cuz of your videos. Keep doing videos. I love your work and thnx again

Also, so close to 1,000,000! Are you excited for that gold RU-vid play button? I'm supporting you!

Great tips as always!

Hi! :) Excellent video! I think this is one of those which I enjoyed the most. There's great material here to take and apply in my daily life. Have an excellent day! Blessings!!

Confidence is the key to life

Thank u so much ,u made me make the decision to change myself

Looking for video’s to share with my new foster son who has been abused his whole life...keep them simple and easy to understand like this one. Music is a bit loud and speech very fast but content is very good Thankyou

I never even realized it but I faked it until I made it with my own body language. I started making mental notes whenever I’d have my arms crossed or bad posture and then try to correct them, it now comes much more naturally.

Great video! Could you maybe do a in deepth video about The Law of Attraction?thanks!

Thanks for helpful tips! You are the best! Keep doing amazing work!

Thanks very much. This has gave me motivation which I will drive with.

I like this guy... Been dwelling in the past because of hurtful words molding me as I grew from my aunt. I struggle to this day with confidence now and I know I'm not ugly because people have thought I looked like a cross between Hugh Jackman and Johnny Depp! This doesn't really matter though as I need to give myself a kick in the Butt to try and approach beautiful girls...

I really appreciate this entire video, I needed this

Great video man :) appreciate the effort and length of the video

Thank you! I like a lot of your videos! 👍🏽✊🏽💪🏽

Thank you for helping me out with my problems I'll never forget about what you taught me 😀👍

This video is great. Please make more videos about personal growth. Moving on from an ex, how to deal with depression and more on the law of attraction. I really appreciate your videos.

Great video as always. I feel this videos are important for us all

thank you this video has changed my life!

Thanks for the great video and especially the subtitles!

Found out about you and I'm getting addicted to your work! You Know that already but you're doing some fuckin' great shit!

Awesome video packed with great information!

dude I've gotta say, your content is gold!

4:57 "Everyone in their voice has a head that critiques their own actions." ~Practical Psychology, 2017 Jokes aside, great video.

thank you for this great video and JZAC is dope af. new favorite artist. much love

Great tips I am like almost to that complete confident mark. But I tend to get side tracked and lazy, but these tips are very helpful. I am nervous to tap into my insecurities, but I know I have to face these demons at some point. Wish me luck! :)