How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You | Christian Girl Vlog 

WOW WOW WOW! I absolutely love everything you said about forgiveness not being about excusing the other person's actions, or about trusting them. Forgiveness is about allowing God to work in your heart to get rid of all the bitterness towards them.

"Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling." Ive heard this two times in the real strugle i had right now. Its really totally hard to forgive and to love again a person that hurt you. But the choice is in me. Today i will text her. Something that that i think i will never do it again. Thankyou tiffany~ your vlog really streghten me. God bless you.

This is so true. Overventing is like poison spewing out. Been there, done that way too many times. Thanks for being real and really helping. I love these talks.

Oh my goodness the beginning was so funny 😂 Those flowers in the background are BEAUTIFUL. This video was so touching and powerful...loved it! I really liked how your put the words in the video! 💗 - Est X

Thanks so much for making this video Tiffany!! I needed that clarification that forgiveness isn't just letting someone walk all over you and it doesn't mean that you have to trust them again but just let go! I also loved how u shared your own struggle!! Thanks for being amazing ❤️

Thank You for sharing your wisdom. For over a year I've been battling with this bitterness and pain in my heart for a couple people who betrayed me and hurt me badly. For the longest time I would allow them to walk all over me because I believed that's what forgiveness meant. I believed that forgiveness was a feeling and not a confession to God. That forgiveness meant that all the pain and anger will completely dissapear as soon as we tell ourselves we forgive them. Deep down I realized that I was looking for the same person who hurt me, to heal me, instead of God. I was hoping they would appologies and realize that what they did was not okay. Deep down I was hoping that they would change their ways and love me like I loved them. This was a never ending cycle for over a year that the devil kept me trapped in. Unforgiveness is something that the devil uses to keep genuine Christ seeking christians trapped. It's something that will keep us stuck in this cycle and stunt our growth with God. I would let it all out and vent not just to friends and families but to the person who hurt me, making my image look really bad, believing that if I just let every hurt and pain that was on my heart out that I would FEEL forgiveness. I've heard pastors tell me that it's not that we can't forgive, it's that we don't want to and that forgiveness is a choice not a feeling, which is all beautifully true. It's not that we can't forgive, it's that we don't want to. Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling. Still I would feel this anger towards them. So if your reading this and you've been stuck in the same cycle as me, just know it will be okay. But know that only christ can relieve you of the pain, hurt, and bitterness you've been feeling. It's a walk with Jesus that I've been on. Because of this video I've asked God to bless my enemies, to bless those who hurt me. I've told Christ that I don't want to forgive them but I forgive them because I need to and for God to bless them in every way and heal them, give them joy and peace, and most of all, get to know the love and forgiveness of Christ, just as I have.

I love Tiffany’s videos because she gives so much insight and wisdom on things that usually aren’t talked about in the way she talks about them. Please keep up the wonderful and encouraging content!! I look forward to seeing your channel on my feed every week😁

Thank you for sharing yourself, it was very helpful to hear your experience in one of my most difficult moments when confronting myself with forgiven the person who hurt me the most in my whole life. Thank you! you reminded me the real power of God's Love

This was just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much, God bless, and Happy New Year!

Love your hair!

Great video!! I was just checking out what’s out there before I made a vid on this subject, and you’ve smashed it. This is literally everything I was going to say! ... gonna have to rethink/rewrite now!! I love your style, delivery, and the quality of the production. This is really good stuff. Biblical content, without being like a lecture. Awesome. Have a great day 👊💀

Also, this video is very powerful! The music in the beginning added a lot. AND that guy sounds awful. Pray for his future girl - she will go through what you went through.

Thank you! So glad I found this. So needed it today!

Love this. Message spoken clearly with love and understanding. Encouraging ❤

Tiffany, thank you so much for this girl talk. God was speaking through you to me. I had this experience that a girl scared me and my fear just came out. I try to forgive her and pray for her. God is powerful enough to heal us and forgive sinners. Amen

You were such a happy encouragement to me. Thank you!!!

Sometimes it takes continuous forgiveness over the same situation. When the pain comes up again, you forgive again, give it to God again. Each time the pain becomes less and less. Yes, over-venting can do more harm than good. Thanks for a great video.

HAHA I got such a fright when the picture fell down !! But great video- so much goodness ! :) x

Thank you so much! This helped bringing things to light

Thank you. I want to walk away from the person who hurt me but I can not because I paid a lot for the course. He made comments that were disrespectful and mean only to me but not to others. I was devastated. I want to quit but I cannot. He does not feel anything and life goes on. I feel like I am the only one who is trapped. I thought it was unfair. I cannot really forgive him. It is hard because I need to rely on him when I have questions. I will try to put the issues into God’s hands because I feel the pain. Thank you for your insights.

This was so so amazing Tiffany! What you said was really honest and relatable. It has really helped me; thank you for opening up about what you're going through :)

Thank you Tiffany, your videos have helped me a lot :)

IM SOOO DEAD your first “blessing” prayers are hilarious!!

I am so working on this. I have been betrayed by close friends and family obviously the friends are no longer in my life. I get so confused about this subject. so said friends I will never trust again and to be honest have no desire to be their friend again. so say I'm working real hard on forgiveness and run into them at a store? do I put a big smile on my face and hug them and spend a minute catching up? that may be what I should do but what are ur thoughts?

Hi Tiffany i just discovered your channel and immediately hook up with your videos and subscribed ..You are so encouraging!! God bless you

THANK YOU! Thank you thank you thank you. You are so relatable yet just absolutely RIGHT and forgiveness is something I've been struggling with. Particularly, forgiving someone I love.... and you mentioned it in the middle of the video, I don't know if I should forgive and stay or forgive and leave. This is so hard. This is the first video I'm watching of yours and I'm probably about to become an addict. Thank you so much girl

I was just thinking of someone I need to forgive and show compassion for. It can be hard because the things they did are intrusive. I believe prayer, not in blessings (which I should try), but for Jesus to be with them in their time of need/situation. There is always a reason for someone's behavior. Spot on! Thanks for the video.

forgiveness is really a process and I will start it today

The beginning of the video reminds me of myself. I was in a toxic relationship and when people asked me why I left I wanted them to know everything

this was amazing! I need this i’m the type to hold grudges and just keep things inside instead of just going to God. It feels impossible sometimes like i don’t even believe the power of God inside of me

Thank you so much for your transparency in this video. It has helped me so much!

Thank you that you are so open about what you are going through . It elps a lot to see how someone is fighting with bad situation

Preach it sister. This is exactly EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. The path toward forgiveness is turbulent but this was full of wonderful tips. THANK YOU!

Love.

I am struggling with the same issue that you said. Someone close to me who I can’t just cut off from my life is causing me a lot of trouble and I am really being bitter. Initially i used to ignore it. Later on started complaining about this person to my husband and I ultimately let them know that i had an issue with them treating me like that. Still they continue to do the same and said last day that I hold on grudge just because i cant forget all the incidents and that he/she keeps forgiving everyone and i should learn the same. I don’t understand how can you tell someone after hurting them that i was so great to forgive you, now I expect you to do the same, even when ill continue doing the same. Its affecting me deep. I don’t know how to deal with this.

This is a video I probably need to watch as I'm sure I haven't forgiven dozens of people that hurt me and its holding me back. Howeved, for some reason, no matter how many times I click on the video it won't load past 19 seconds.

This is great

Powerful

I really needed this, thank you ❤️

I'm new here I needed this it help what I needed to hear about forgiveness

Your videos help so much. Thank you!!! God bless

I think I needed this today!!

Thank you

Wow so powerful!! amen!! : ) LOL @ "Not vomiting"

I needed this, great video❤️

So heartfelt love this x

I need to forgive Leslie for breaking up with me 2x; but I'll never forget about her, as she would have been my wife for 3-5 years now, if she didn't have selfishness and some other issues.

So helpful! Thank you ❤

Love this!!!!

Hi Tiff, thank you so much for this video. It was so clear. I know as Christians we should forgive, but I didn’t know what that entailed. If the person does it continuously and will always be in your life, does that mean you force a relationship and let them continue their toxicity in your life? And does that mean you have to forget because I can’t forget. This video perfectly explained all of this. Thank you so much and God bless you Tiff!

What about if your married to someone who has hurt you and still married living in the same household how can I forgive and let go and let GOD take the lead and not hold on to bitterness ,anger , attitude ect

Thank you, your insight helped me

Thank you so much for sharing this, even though I'm two years late in watching it, haha. 😂 I came here after watching your "What if he's not a virgin" video, but this ended up reminding me of two other guys who ghosted me, each whom I had previously been good friends with and whom I'd liked at some point before. I believe I've forgiven them, since years have gone by and I don't have feelings for either anymore; but being ghosted by them has definitely contributed to my fear of relationships and my tendency to hold them at arms' length (such as with the guy who's interested in me currently who is not a virgin), and I feel like not sharing with them how their actions impacted me is doing them a disservice. It seems like many guys nowadays get away with things they don't realise are rude because girls don't confront them about it (politely, of course). When is confrontation the right thing to do? Likewise, when should we forgive and move on without directly resolving the issue with the person who hurt us? (P.S. If you haven't already done a video on ghosting, I think it would be a great addition to your channel!)

Thank you so much I appriciate it keep it up

I relate to the beginning 🙀

Hi Tiffany! Do you use iMovie? I do too! Because I can't find the music you use at 0:38 what is it called? Thanks I love your videos!

If you say u fogive someone then the topic came up again and feeling like the situation is happening , the emotions you feel is going to resurface the after wards you will forget it again, does that mean you fully forgiven that person?

Did you choose to upload on Tuesdays because it starts with the same letter as your name? hahaha lol

This is a saying I heard b4 we can only forgive because God first forgives us. I do struggle with it bit not as much as I used to at least in some ways.

(True story) Me: If you came to my house tomorrow and shot all of my family members with a gun, and then shot me in the legs to bleed out, and I survived... I would forgive you... My Friend: I would forgive you too at this point Me: Oh, you're sick.

Hi girl. just wanna say your pretty. you have a one great channel. keep uploading and hope we can support each other by subbing. thanks in advance xoxo