I truly hope so because I was sweet and caring with him. We ended it and he said it's bad timing bc he is very busy with work, travel etc. I ecoressed my feelings bc he was quiet in texting but he did initiate to meet each time. His last text was 11 days ago "allright, the next week I will be travelling but after I'm back we can talk". ...didn't hear from him anymore. It feels so strong that I want to hug him that I hope he feels the same way but it's probably my own emptions wishful thinking. We had good times in person.
All I’ve received are “good morning”, “Hope you have a great day” and other irrelevant text. He’s gotten too comfortable because any other time I would respond. This time he went MIA for a few days after telling me a bunch of lies before doing it. This time he’s going to have to put in a lot more effort to even talk to me or see me. Day 13 of no contact. Normally at 2 weeks I say something but not this time… 🤷🏽♀️
I understand you. The same here. But yesterday misscariage.. I only told his mom about it. He i now obsessed with his homies and many girls so he dont even understand what he did to me. Some day he will. When all homies will be gone. Hug ❤❤❤
My ex fiance is engaged. When I found out I was completely broken. I hope she knows he loves to cheat. 😂 He can't help it. He texted me saying "maybe we can say hi sometimes" Whatever that means. She can have him. He's the one who lost.
Coach black, want to send my ex’s mom flowers in the shape of a birthday cake for her birthday anonymously on June 11th, I had a very emotionally attached relationship and bond with my ex. Is that weird that I want to send her mom flowers, though it’s just do to the relationship and respect I have for her mother.
My ex texted and called on the 4th of July. To invite me to a bar b que. I declined I had other plans. Even if I didn't, I'd still would have declined the invitation.
Hi Coach Blac, your videos have been helpful, thank you.....I do have a question, how do you treat your ex when you meet them especially when they are yet to pick their stuffs from your place?........I had to leave town for a bit, she had to stay at my place, she broke up with me through text but Still at my place, I went no contact and declined her offer of being friends...I have no idea what to do next? I also noticed lots of breadcrumbs but didn't check her socials or anything
Meet them in a public place to give her her stuff or drop it off at her door. Keep your head where it needs to be. It’s over and it’s over for a reason so there’s no reason to keep the toxicity in your life. Keep your eyes on the future and with time everyone will get better ❤
Simply ask hey its great to hear from you, why dont you grab your favorite bottle of wine and come make dinner with me. When are you free to get together? Anything other than a definite date is simple: "Ok well when you change your mind let me know. I gotta run keep in touch" Thats it. You do this two times then you tell them basically to fuck off
She asked me to let go of her... Its been 3 weeks of no contact... Only yesterday she texted me "Hi"... Didn't respond on time then she deleted the what's app message and blocked me... What to do when she does that... Do i have to send a text that explains how busy something?
Ask her if she is hurt about sonething and if she wants to talk (as adults would) to let you know. That's it 😊 She wants to feel seen and heard, if she is not playing attention games then I think this is a solution. Talk openly. But if she blocked you it's hard to text 😊
No contact work my ex has literally blocked me for the last month and I haven't contacted him today now that my life is going back to normal he texts unblocked me on socials but me and God on good terms so I no longer want what I thought I loved so much I know God has my back I'm not depressed anymore and after 7yrs with this man I no longer want parts of him never want to feel that pain ever again thank you coach really opened my eyes
