How to Self-Pleasure (female/afab) for Beginners! 

I JUST VERY ACCIDENTALY SHARED THIS TO OUR TV THAT MY ENTIRE FAMILY WAS WATCHING I CANT MAKE THIS UP SOMEONE PLEASE HELP

im aro-ace so have an extremely hard time doing this without feeling disgusting and guilty afterwards. its great to see people talk about it openly

thank you Keara. I feel like no one really talks about stuff like this and even when they do I feel like they are giving tips for experienced people. This is really helpful and I love how positive about sex you are.

Hi Keara!! Thank you so much for normalizing this subject especially for young people. I have always been taught that making yourself feel good by yourself was a sin, dirty, adult, gross, and not good. I started on accident at a young age at like 11 or 12 and I thought I was so weird and gross. but now years later I realize it’s totally normal! So thank you! ❤️

im a trans girl and i watched this out of pure curiosity but let me just say that the part about shame was also super helpful for me and i resonated with it surprisingly very much

My best friend and I are very normal talking about sex and self-pleasuring. It's a normal occurrence for those who are comfortable with it. You're right about male masturbation; it's normal for people to talk about it, but when women masturbate it's for men to sexualize them and it's considered bad and dirty. Thank you for this, it gave me a lot of useful tips!! ❤‍🔥

Amazing content! Way to disarm societal hangups and addressing them! I love when you said your mission on earth is to serve the gays. You are the best, doing the Goddesses work! 💕🙏

Hi Keara!! Thank you for this video. I’m asexual, but doesn’t mean I don’t want to try masturbation. I like to read smutty fanfics and imagine the characters doing it and completely exclude myself. So this was very helpful, tysm!! 💕

I'm so happy to be able to watch someone who talks about these things so normally and making it comfortable it's so nice to hear this in this way thank you

as an asexual who is dating an asexual, I'm glad that this is being talking about and that there are things in this video that I can relate to.

This is honest to god my comfort channel. Im so lost with my Sexuality and im a very late bloomer so I'm exploring this part of myself later than everyone else which is very isolating. But your vids are helping me so much and making me feel so much comfier with myself. Thank you so much keep doing what you do !!

I'm genderfluid and panromantic and I wanted to thank you for creating this video. Masturbation especially with people that are afab is a taboo topic and people seem ashamed to talk about it although most people do masturbate. It's important that we normalise it so people feel okay to speak up about it. Thank you so much

I am so proud that someone actually talks about this thank you❤

A little tip: a lot of people are usually sensitive on the inside of their wrists! It's not for everyone, but it is an uncommon area to touch, and for some, it feels nicer than you'd expect it to be.

My mum says when my sister was maybe about 3 or 4, she (my sister) once left her underwear lying around with something sticky on it. My mother was horrified because she thought maybe someone had abused her. She went as far as to accuse my father, because only him or his cousin could have gone upstairs where my sister was. My mother took my sister to the doctor to look for any signs of abuse. Turns out my sister had just been playing around with herself. Fun anecdote that isn't talked about.

I found this thing you said at around 3 mins into the video to be super cool Keara:“...Women and people with the female experience...” As a non-binary/genderqueer afab person, the phrase “people with the female experience” is such an inclusive term to use because it includes all people, not just women, but just those who have vaginas (like myself). That phrase really encapsulates the idea that “people with the female experience” to society, may still be perceived as female, like a woman (feminine), or a woman, even if they may not be one or all of those things. But those folks still deal with woman issues like misogyny, sexism, and etc. because they are seen as a woman. And being seen as a woman therefore makes you treated as such. This can show how people who might not identify as a woman could deal with woman issues and that’s great to shine a light on. This saying I will say more often. Thanks Keara love your vids. :)

videos like this are so important, thank u for providing us with elite content 🙏🏻

OMG IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FINALLLYYYYYY YAY

Great video Keara! It's great to have people talking about the perspective of masturbation for people with vaginas, I think videos like this will help a lot of people feel more confident in self pleasure. Thanks for making this!

I love that this was the last thing I needed my confidence in was not being ashamed about this, then I found you I’m complete now 💛

Keara I love you so much, you’ve really helped me to mature as a young woman and I really appreciate all that you do for your fans. Thank you xx

Im in my closet, being productive on a moody day, and when i opened this video i just starting laughing before Keara even said a word. How not to love them ♥️

WAIT OTHERS USE THE SHOWER HEAD TOO? IVE DONE THAT FOR YEARS AND I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE OMGGGG I FEEL SO SEEN

I grow up Catholic too and I didn't tell my grandparents, so I still go to church sometimes and a month I even confessed and the priest asked me if ever did something unholy alone or with someone else and this time , because it happend already last year, I said no and he started praising me for being a good Christian girl and in the meantime I felt really uncomfortable, now I laugh about it but I was really upset at the time.

I LOVE U SO MUCH!! this is just what I was looking for! ✨💕

That top looks so good on you !! Thanks for the video:))) I'm a guy and loved this!!

This video helped so much! I started when i was young and felt extremely ashamed and thought it wasn't normal. But now that ur saying this I don't feel wierd doing it! Tysm again luv u. 💗

You’re hair is absolutely fabulous Keara 😍. Keep rocking it!!

I can’t believe this app exists- last year I found something really similar to dipsea that I LOVE but usage was really clunky for me and it was hard to navigate. I’m so excited that you r promoting this type of app- audio stories are IT I’m totally here for this!!!!

Totally agree double standards with masturbation and it is all about self love and care, and agree with others here saying nobody talks about this subject and this was a great video. Thank you so much cause never thought that this improves you as a lover as well and you get to know what you like this has opened my mind so appreciate this video

super important video keara!! thank you for doing this.

You are great Keara Thankyou for all you do😊

Hiya! I love all the ace people in the comments, I am asexual! I personally feel repulsed when I think about ever having sex, I just cannot imagine doing it with anyone, but this really helped! Thank you!

Love the term "vulva owners" 💗

thank you so much for talking about this 💙amazing to have this discussed stigma free

Hey my queer guys 🏳️‍⚧️ I finally got my „boyish“ haircut and I’m freakin out ! If so happy I did this 😊😊😊

seeing the aces' positivity in the comments is so nice, personally i did lots of research and tried for like 4 years but couldn't get to ~pleasure~ and not just ok that's weird

I'm so glad you are openly talking about this, also surprised if you're not demonetized because RU-vid def won't normalize this anytime soon

Your literally the first person I found in the world that I felt I related to when I found out I was bi. You don’t judge,your videos are always so funny, your advice is always so helpful, your so sweet & you & Lauren are the real deal!! Your amazing Keara. 💋

ur spider plant is growing babies aaaaa!!!

Beautiful & Inspirational , Exciting To Listen To

thank you so much for helping us gaybees

Thank you so much! Free and informative!,

Thank you sooo much personally i do it very differently but this really helps 😄

This girl is so pretty ❣️

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONE WHO FOUNDTHE SHOWER THING. ITS BETTER THAN ANY TOY EVER

love this!

the most romantic audiobook I've listened to is Bright and Bubbly on kindle

You make this so wonderful 😊 as if you are touching your Jewel 💎 thank you

Thank you so much . as a young person i always feel idk disipontied in myself when i get curius or do this Edit: the fact that self-pleasure actully dose help with my deppresion is crazy and so fasinating

Omgg loved this video so much, felt so much more comfortable knowing you care about inclusivity ♥️ where do you find the guided audios??

Thank you so much for this video. While I am a penis owner, I still so much appreciate learning about a vagina owner’s perspective and for the insight that both owners receive.❤

Honestly we have like private school like meetings with professional people coming over and like allowing us to open up and talk about things as afabs that we in our society have that's wrong and most of them mentioned the fact that masturbating for afabs is something that we should be more open about and share and talk about it as it's a healthy thing and as a genderfluid person myself i find it hard sometimes to be in the zone for giving myself love and attention as i feel insecure about my body especially my private areas and being born a woman and not identifying like one it's hard but thank u for this vid it helped quite a lot love u lots Keara u the best :)

Hi, Keara and Happy Friday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌈💜💜💜💜💜💜💜👍

Thank you so much keara for all the advice in this video, I live in a pretty liberal household but i never learnt how the female body works and i just wanted to thank you for all the videos you have done on sex ed

Why did I find this in my continue watching... I HAVE NEVER WATCHED THIS BEFORE-

This is a video i never knew i needed... 😂 Thanks keara

Very very nice channel ! Thanks for sharing this.

Hi British teen trans-guy here! Sorry if I'm out of place but I enjoyed your video a lot. There should be more education in schools about this subject because I notice there's a lot of shame and hush-hush around the subject. Thank you Keara

Ok, I'll give this a try

I’m trying to get over my religious trauma around anything sexual.

Okay a) loveee this vid and how open you are And b) off topic but your hair and makeup…. HOW??? TUTORIAL??

I enjoy love doing it during your talk u make it so beautiful I watch u atlist thrice a day yo do it belive me

I already do all these things…even though i havent self pleasure in…it’s been a while…but,you did give some very helpful tips

Does anyone have tips for this stuff while living with parents? I find it reaaaally hard to find a time to be alone when I've got family around all the time ;-;

❤Thank you so much! It is a no brained “duh” moment but I just never thought about the deep breathing and foreplay aspect of masturbating.

If it wasn't even more awkward than it sounds, I would recommend this video of yours to my daughters ... Besides I assume I wouldn't even have to. Greetings from a German male fan PS one of my female Co workers even gave her shower head a name...

i love this video!! and i really liked call her daddy podcast until in episode with chloe cherry they talked a lot that squirting is fake and its just a pee.„information” like that appearing in such a popular podcast is really bad 😓 bc squirting is real

It’s a form of self soothing

I'm 40 and all my life I've wanted be in a relationship but people don't respond to my personal ads. When I go to bed I think of the imaginary woman that I created years ago that I am in a relationship with and in love with. She is compassionate and caring, with a heart of gold. We connect in that way. We have many memories together of all the things we've done together and all the places we've gone together. You see, attraction for me is the connection, verses the physical. I need someone to love and have been deprived of that all my life so I had to create someone in my imagination whom I'm in love with and she loves me in return. I go into the calmness of her aura and feel accepted and loved.

Hi Keara, I need your help and everyone elses that saw this as well, about one girl. We were at some kind of celebration at her home, only our parents and us , when we were leaving my dad said to get each others instagram (so we can hang out sometimes) and we were both shy and she was just standing there and so did I, we looked at each other and then at the ground.(I regret not asking her omggg)And also when we were talking, we both felt like we knew each other forever but we only saw each other like 2 times, like 7 or 8 years ago and on that celebration, we were talking about everything litteraly and our parents were talking about homophobic stuff and I said smth like "omgg how can they be so homophobic" and we both laughed and did ccccc in the same time, she wasnt eye contacting me like in conversations before(she was looking around). She also was kinda shy when we were leaving(I was just waiting for our parents to end their conversation to hug her)she was looking at me and then looking away and when my parents started leaving I came in for a hug and she was kinda shy or uncomfortable, I couldnt tell. PLEASE HELP ME FOR A GOD SAKE I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO SLEEP NORMALY SINCE THAT DAY, LIKE DOES SHE LIKE MEEE????😭😭😭😭or maby it could be that she is still not sure for her sexuality? she is 17 and I am 16...

I will try this

"aaanndddd, my purpose in the world is to serve the gays." Thank you Keara.

dammit agh i feel like i found ur channel at the wrong time because im probably gonna forget its existence by the time im old enough for this information :,)

Aye aye...aye...what an intro..

Appreciate 👍💓

Even a bad relationship can really negatively affect how we feel about our bodies…

Interesting talk. Thanx

thank you :)

OMG Tysm for making this video when i first saw your videos i thought they were really welcome and no judging i really like that and the helped me figure out i was a pansexual and genderfliud also i finally came out to my parents and they were happy for what i am my step dad did get a little judge but he is okay now and talking about the topic masterbating i always find i so weird how boys could say omg i masterbated 4 times yesterday and the boys would just be like oh good on you and then one other say well i masterbated 7 times yesterday like a compatition but when it comes to girl we always get judge like no we don't talk about that eww you done that stay away from her she has fish fingers well I'm not sure about you guys but that's what happens in my school anyways but i have a small friend group of free that we talk about secret stuff also I'm kinda in the experimenting part of my life anyways because I'm 14 so I'm still experimenting anyway tysm i love your videos!!❤

Spot on :)

When she hypnotised me I got a little feminine feeling like shockwaves coming up through her body that she owns which is me

Me: I’m soooooo very new to being as a lesbian. But I’m jus starting to see things in a whole newer world that I’ve never seen before. But honestly though I’ve never taken things really slow , but it really feels like a whole new world to me. But to me: I’ve never felt like this before , cuz to me it’s so new that I jus want to take it slow. But also I’m jus really nervous , but I’m not sure if I’m gonna do fine or whatever. Cuz to me: I’m really really nervous and scared.

The sky is up

Make up is an amazing thing

Thanks for mentioning that this video is for afab's ... I am an amab nonbinary, so I appreciate you including all genders🥰🌈🏳‍🌈

Oh my god I did the bath faucet to I thought I was the only one

Thank you for this video! I am someone who enjoys sex but has never been able to enjoy self-pleasure or cum. So getting advice on how to get started is super helpful! Completely unrelated, PLEASE MAKE A HAIR TUTORIAL!!! Your hair looks so good

What can i listen to if o dont have the financial condition to sign Dipsea?

Great video as always, currently doesn't apply exactly to me but am planning maybe on surgery sometime when i have money so one day maybe right? Gotta note something though, as amab there was a LOT of shame put on guys for it, and for not doing it because 1 its sinful/gross to do it, however it's unmasculine to not, which sucks double with dysphoria. In addition though men are taught to not express being effected by shame so there's that aspect as well. Again feminity in general is shamed more because, honestly oppression, but masc definitely isn't safe from being shamed Edited typo, again

Any people here that never felt ashamed or disgusted after pleasuring themselves? Can’t be the only one

I started at age 6

I started when I was 10 😮

I love you 😘❤️

This video is great! I wanted to click off so much because I felt awkward watching this but also wanted to know. I still feel really guilty/disgusted after, I am only 15 and constantly look up if it normal for my age and did a bit at 13 but ignored it and stopped it for ages because I felt very wrong and gross for it and same with even seeing p*rn

I have a question I'm a qwuer when I'm pinned against the wall 🧱 but when I'm facing the sea I want to catch every fish out there until I caught a whale named sperm then then I just went home and the only thing got laid was a fart..

Wait lemme try tbh

I love the premise of this video! Although I don’t think it’s necessary to delineate that this is for people who are afab… hopefully it isn’t the intention but it comes across as exclusionary towards trans women

Masturbation is a great way to periodically release pentup sexual energy. Nothing wrong with it. It should be encouraged. Could lead to decreased sexual deviancy in society as a whole

Good to know Keara it's very insightful and meaningful ❤️👍🏳️‍🌈🙏