HOW TO GO DOWN ON A WOMAN //  

RU-vid said : “this is a video you need” 😭

Nothing, me just being a casual asexual and listening to this knowing I'll never use this wonderful knowledge

About the smelling "bad": I would also encourage ppl to drink. Drink enough water daily. The smell of your huha is going to be stronger if you drink too little.

i like how the answers to like 60% of these are literally just 'communicate with your partner'

surprisingly, I didn't search for this BUT youtube never let's me down with the recommendations

Me, an asexual "Welp, there's some interesting knowledge I'm never gonna use"

I ain’t homosexual, but I’m just a citizen who wants to be educated. 👌 Edit: It’s been a year, and guess what? As some may’ve suspected, I may be a bit gay.

"I'm not a sex educator, I'm just going from personal experience." IMHO this is the best kind of advice. Yes, the 'sex educators' have education and training, etc but there is such a thing as too much education. I would rather speak with (and have a new experience) a 'normal person' than some 'expert.'

I’ve heard when u go down on a girl for the first time you can ask her to hold your hand and when it feels good she can press it so you can find the good spots😊

The fact that this showed up in my recommended after WEEKS of me searching up this very thing in incognito mode ✋🏽😀

Also in my experience, "tasting bad" doesn't really matter. If it's a little bitter, it'll go away within about a minute. After that it's smooth sailing and delicious.

When you were talking abt your partner judging your body, I remembered something my partner said the day after. They just GUSHED about how amazing they thought I looked. They literally used the word "immaculate" (it was our first time together. I was so worried abt if they'd be happy with how I looked, but them going on and on abt how happy they word killed all my nerves

As a teen lesbian, this was very helpful. They don’t teach us this stuff in sex ed even though it’s important. Thanks for preaching for the GAYS🏳️‍🌈

If a video screams HOW TO GO DOWN ON A WOMAN in my face, I of course gonna click on it

can i just mention how fantastic it is that there are good subtitles? Im HOH so I usually watch videos hella loud so I can understand, but these subtitles saved my life. Thank you, QUEEN!

I went to Catholic school, and we did not get any sex ed, let alone queer sex ed (and my family, as far as I can remember, never talked with me about it). I'm 21, have never had sex with anyone, and only just realized I'm sapphic, so resources like this are so so helpful! Thank you so much! You've got yourself a new subscriber! :)

“Especially in Catholic schools” Sweats in queer catholic.

Keara: "It shouldn't be silent" Me: "AAAAAA SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICEXPIALIDOCIOUS." Her: "What the-" Me: "sorry it was a little quiet."

This is very tied into the whole communication theme, but if all participants are OK with it then laughter can be a wonderful thing during sex. Some people are sensitive emotionally to laughter during times like this, so please communicate about it first, but a genuine full laugh at a dumb joke or some awkward moment can make the vulva do some muscle movements that are super fun for all concerned.

Me a non-binary: “people with vulvas” * excited enby noises *

I recently came out as bisexual and this is my first pride month out of the closet. Thank you Keara for being such a good role model for me and all the other queers in the closet and out of the closet ❤️🏳️‍🌈

commenting for the algorithm, love ya keara

Im asexual, but, my gay asf friend has no idea how this stuff works and is too embarrassed to look anything up or see anything- So now it’s my job… It’s nice how not awkward you are about this- It makes it easier to watch and understand. So on my friends behalf, thanks.

Really inspiring seeing someone who doesn’t care about getting monetized No but in all seriousness this is a really helpful video. As a trans woman this video isn’t 1:1 for what my sexual experiences are like, but it’s definitely still helpful. I struggle with sex because of dysphoria and because a lot of people who I pursue romantically are interested in having sex with someone with a vagina, but I like, don’t have one.

I’m glad people are more open talking about sex now, especially with same sex couples etc rather than just straight sex and abstinence. I’m glad that I didn’t listen to my parents when they told me that I had to wait until marriage (with a guy who is Christian) to have sex. I’ve found out that I hate having sex with a guy so I’m glad I discovered that before getting married (I’m not thinking about marriage at all but was good to find that out). Thanks for this video. Also I’m low key attracted to you haha

them: *going down on me* me: so you like sports or what?

I cried over this out of happiness because I felt so comfortable as a lesbian myself.

I'm going on 20 years as an innocent loner who was raised Mormon, so until a few months ago I knew basically nothing. This was so freaking helpful I can't even tell you; the more I learn the more confident I get with thinking about things I was taught was a sin to think about. Thank you so much!

these videos help me so much. i’m bi and i’m coming out to my parents soon (maybe today)! wish me luck! update- i came out and my parents both supported me! i wrote a note to them and left it outside their door after they went to bed. the next day they both hugged me and told me how proud of me they were and that they love me

This video is amazing! As a non-binary, afab person, I really appreciate when you said "people with vulvas" - It made me feel so happy, so thank you!

as a bisexual girl who just spent a day with the girl she has a crush on i am taking this video as a sign.

I CAN NOT STOP STARING AT YOUR MOUTH YOU HAVE SUCH GOOD TEETH😭

4:48 “I don’t care, I’m just happy to be there” MEEEE LIKE HOLY SH!t

“its abawt the jerney, nawt the dehstinayshun, hunny” KEARA ARE YOU SUDDENLY TEXAN

As a straight male, I stumbled on this video simply based on the title, lol. My wife and I have been together for almost 18 years and I'm still just always looking for ways to make it better. You have some really good advice for the oral part that I either didn't know or had forgotten. Thank you! (PS with kids in the house it's easy to get rusty in the bedroom due to lack of opportunity)

Love how the RU-vid algorithm as decided to bless me, a simple lesbian, with information I can’t use because my girlfriend and I are long distance. I’ll keep this video saved though😂❤️

As a trans man who unfortunately has no peanut down there, thank you

I'm asexual, but if i ever fall in love with a person with vulva who isn't ace too, i'm ready

Not gonna lie, this was really helpful and I'm so glad that there are people like you who are de-stigmatizing the idea that sex between women should be hush-hush. Also I'm 21 and a demisexual and have had a lot of trouble finding a partner who I trust enough to have sex with, and because of that, having very little experience makes me even more insecure and thus reluctant to go through with things, but having someone talk about it so normally and learning that my worries are common with other women just upped my confidence a little, so thank you for sharing your answers! ❤❤ happy pride folks! 🏳️‍🌈

how did youtube know…

"I don't care, I'm just happy to be there." Amen to that😄

*Me, an asexual trying to explain why I'm here:* uh, I'm here - I'm here for the plot?

I love the queer evolution of Keara the mullet, the muscle shirt, the metal straw...plus this was a really honest and validating look at sexual health. Ty!

UR HAIR LOOKS SO GOOD!!!! I LOVE IT

THIS! is exactly what we need! Thank you so much for the candid, no beating around the bush, no pun intended, answers!

As a straight male, these tips are not just for the LGBTQ community. This is a great, to the point, simplistic explanation of just being with your significant other. 👍

Thank you! Being so casual about this, as if it's just a workout, or what to bring on a hike. Yaaaaas

as a trans girl looking for more sapphic interactions and wlw love this is perfect!!! Thanks Keara

I’m literally a sex repulsed asexual what am I doing here 😭

I once tried scissoring with a girl cause it was something we both wanted to try but no matter how much we kept trying and changing positions, we never got it right and I was just kind of disappointed. I was kinda like "wow, porn lied to me" 😹

the scissoring thing was actually super helpful bc ive heard sm different things about it and u cleared alot of it up so thank u

I actually felt really comfy listening to all of that. Just made me feel...a bit more confident. Thanks for sharing all of this! ✨💜💜

"I'm just happy to be there" XD

as a trans guy in a mlm t4t relationship this is really really helpful,, thank you so much for using inclusive language :]

This was the best video I’ve seen so far. It didn’t feel embarrassing listening about it and the music made it way better.

As a trans women that recently came out as lesbian my youtube recommendations never disappoint

I'm not planning to hook up with anyone in the near future but that's good advice for eventually 😂

One more thing about taste - oral lubes. They are made specifically for that. Don't use them as actual lubricant, they are literally just for taste.

I've been meaning to watch this for so long and I'm really glad I did because it's given me a lot of extra knowledge as virgin.

It's only 1min in and you are so pretty and your hair and makeup are lovely.😍 Do you have a go-to makeup tutorial or RU-vidr? Thanks! I love how straightforward and clear you are with answering these questions, and the sing-songing is perfect to make it a little less serious 😉 Great video!

as an asexual person idk why i am watching this. but i love keara so here i am!!!

I'm straight but a lot of this is still helpful! My ex boyfriend was quite awful in a lot of ways which has made me scared of the prospect of possibly having a sexual relationship again. He was incredibly selfish and clearly did not give a shit about my experience (I have never experienced good or even decent sex). Even when I tried to bring up issues he was dismissive, he didn't change anything, and I just ended up feeling bad for being "demanding" even though I basically only asked for the bare minimum - HE had the audacity to keep asking for more though! He also did things without asking under the assumption that I'd be into it despite me NEVER having given any indication that I was, such as choking, spanking and biting. I have a very low pain tolerance so these things were highly unpleasant, and even though I told him to be careful, asked him to be more gentle, he didn't. Idk if he somehow took it as a joke because I said it in a cheerful tone as to not ruin the mood. At one point I did outright tell him that he was hurting me and he acted really offended as if this was news to him and he was like "you make me sound like an abuser!" and I just???? Dude I've literally been telling you every single time to be careful and that it hurts??? And even after that, even though he made a scene about how bad he supposedly felt, he didn't stop. All of these things (as well as many more but this is getting long) have made me really really worried about what would happen if ever I find myself in a sexual situation again. I don't know how to deal with it.

I discovered, not so long ago, that I was actually bisexual. And i didn't know how sex worked between two girls. So this was very helpful 😄💞

ngl this video actually helped me so much. thanks for the great vid Keara!!

YOURE AN ANGEL!!! sex ed never taught us about this and i don’t have any wlw friends or family to ask for help so thank you so much!

the one dislike is from a super straight cis white rich man edit: ugh, there's more of 'em

I'm glad this exists, it answered a lot of a question I have but was way too shy and nervous to ask anyone. 💗💛

Thank you! This really helped me, and I've been looking for something like this for ages! Have a great rest of your day!

ok but like i actually appreciate this so much keara, thank you!! i love how you don't treat it as a weird thing and how open you are about this topic. (also, i love your hair omg)

The teacher we always wanted but never had

You are extremely needed! And besides being an easy video in every way, I'm not fluent in English, but I know it, and it was the first video in English that I understood in its entirety.

Seeing this feels wholesome. Just wish there had been videos like this when I asked myself some of these questions. would have made it so much easier... also safer! I'm happy for the gaybies

Keara, thank you so much for such an informative video! I really appreciate that you didn't sound awkward or anything like that. You discussed it just like any other topic. I have never had a sexual encounter with women before, but your video definitely helped me and gave some tips for the future. Have a nice day!

I still haven’t had my first time bc I literally hate my body. I feel ugly and I get so much anxiety bc of that. Is there any way to overcome this insecurity? :(

this is literally the most entertaining 'how to' video ive ever watched i my life

Thanks girl! I feel really well educated and you answered one of my questions that I had in my head. Glad this was on my recommendations.

I know this content isn't "for" me as a straight cis man, but it is great stuff and i'm so glad you are out here doing this.

Dear RU-vid algorithm, do your thing and recommend this to more people

I like learning other perspectives. Thanks for being so real and informative

the algorithm brought me here and I’m so grateful!! Great video, thanks for the advice!

watching this vid was one of the safest, happiest and most accepted I’ve felt since i came out. it’s so amazing to get the answers to questions that I’ve been so curious about, but just accepted I’d never know. thank you so much

as a queer teen these are so helpfull and a good way to answer my questions!! thank u for doing these for us keara💓

this is the first actually useful video omg thank you

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH QUEEN!!!!!! 🩷🩷🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈✨✨

*Please Keara make another video of this content, I know there are many questions, a longer and explanatory video would be excellent too* 🥺

this was actually so helpful. ALSO, scissoring is one form of tribbing so for folks interested look up tribbing. not in public tho.

I’ll honestly need to keep this in mind for whenever. Thank you.

OMG Keara you're so inclusive! I'm in heterosexual relationship rn and i have the same problems with sex, it's so amazing to watch queer content creator being so gentle and open, it helps so much! Thank you :)

since my christian school wont teach me about lesbian sex, keara can teach me 😭

Great job! For all the baby gays you really make a difference.

this is a great video keara, you could definitely do more of these :)

I'm a straight woman but this was still very insightful

yes because this needs to be discussed. not me watching this as a straight person but I love how you don't make it a taboo

As a 16 year old, I literally get no education on this. Thanks for being there

this is v helpful! also ur makeup is so pretty

thank u so much for talking about this so naturally, as everyone should in my opinion.

I know I'm kinda young to be watching this, but it is about the time for me to start learning about sex. It's a completely natural thing and I feel comfortable talking about it if someone doesn't make it sexual. (I know you're talking about sex but you don't have to make anything sexual) and that's exactly what you did, thank you Keara! I've also had a few questions like if sex-spread infections can spread with the same sex too, so this was helpful. I'm questioning both my sexuality and my gender, I've been trying out she/they pronouns and I'm thinking I'm pansexual, but I don't necessarily know because i think maybe I'm faking being attracted to men because I have internalized homophobia (I actually do have internalized homophobia so that's a thing) but I do know that I definitely like girls, I'm gonna see (When I'm older!) What kind of things happen with the same sex, what normal questions about sex is in the first place, etc. So this helped too. Thank you once again, I want to be educated on lgbtq+ sex but my parents are kinda homophobic in a way so I don't wanna talk to them about it (Especially about sex, like why??) And of course the only sex you get taught in schools is purely straight sex. So I wouldn't learn there. Thank you once again! This has helped me a lot!

Okay quick note, yes, go do it and get it over with to get rid of the nerves, but still be picky with who it’s with. I chose the wrong person and ended up getting SA-d during my first time. Make sure it’s still with someone you trust, be safe out there!

I'm so glad that I found this! I just found out that I'm bisexual and I wanted to know how to properly please any female partners in the future, so thank you for this! (Also happy pride month) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

This video was so good and helpful, but also, dang...that STRAW looks awesome!