How to Speak Like a Lady!

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Hello my ladylike loves! Today we are diving into my top tips for ladylike speaking and conversations. Of course, I'm no expert, but I love talking about social situations, and how we can improve our first impressions with others. I hope this helps!
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Thank you so much for watching. I post videos 2 times a week, but if you're hungry for more of this content, please check out my blog! I write 3 times a week, and always take time to discuss femininity, character growth, and of course... homemaking tips! Xoxo!
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@g-cellatwork5406 4 года назад

1. Expand your vocabulary by consuming contents that . Use more concise words. 2. Think before you speak. You may take small pauses. Do not use filler words (uhm, ah, like, etc.). 3. Do not swearing & slang. 4. Be mindful. 5. Speak with clarity. 6. Be confident in your demeanor. Learn to laugh at yourself. Go with the flow. 7. Learn how to end a conversation with a proper execution. (You don't need an excuse to leave a conversation.) Smile, shake hands, and say something like, "So nice to see you, I'm looking forward the next time we talk, bye!"

@Myllkka 4 года назад

Ending the conversation is always the hard part for me, but being simply polite is the best.

@NoaNoir 4 года назад

Thank yo for this summary!

@elizabethwlsn951 4 года назад

Thank you for this! ❤

@kathyv.6586 4 года назад

Thank you so much for this, I´m always taking notes on my notebook so people like you make all the process so much easier

@NadejdaY_ 2 года назад

And don’t gossip!

@pinkasaflingmango 4 года назад

"Goodbye does not mean I hate you" sounds like the title of a sad alternative rock song.

@ashleysalazar2012 3 года назад

Haha true

@GiaGRitter 3 года назад

hahahaha I love this! *cough* third eye blind

@Goat.Cheese 4 года назад

I like to save my swears/cursing for emergency or very serious situations so people know when I really mean it. Swearing all the time waters them down.

@purelovexist 4 года назад

Emily hahaha like saying I love you all the time? I used to think that and save my I love you for only special and rare moments. Now I know different. I can say I love you everyday and multiple times a day to my husband and still mean it. The problem is when we are using swear words every day as a slang and actually meaning it too. I used to hate when people swear because for me was really strong words and then I got used to the English language and swearing was not that strong to my ears anymore and I started doing it. I believe the only way to eliminate it from my daily life is to eliminate it completely and going back to the way I was never swearing it, although I did used the word shit* that one felt safe enough. Maybe I go back to it and say shoot instead until I can eliminate from my life forever 😇 one can dream right 🤷🏻‍♀️

@pyrojes 4 года назад

Great idea!

@ellacarter9863 4 года назад

That makes sense! xD

@Lisaglamour 4 года назад

"A lady cares about other people, and is compassionate about other people experiences" I just love how gentle, sweet, loving and positive your videos are! I also do videos about elegant fashion, and I can only aspire to be as successful as you are with you channel and your good advises ❤️ Spreading love to everyone reading this ❤️

@SarahJo06 3 года назад

Oh! I've watched your videos on ladylike walking!💕

@carolynmaves503 4 года назад

When I was a younger woman we were good friends with a retired couple, he was quite deaf. He was very good at lip reading. That made us think about our conversation. We would face him, talk slowly, be concise. He was an educated, intelligent man, we did not need to talk down to him, we just needed to be mindful of how we were communicating. Thanks for all your helpful tips.

@marlygnarly4186 4 года назад

This is a great topic. On expanding vocabulary: one of the things my husband and I do every evening together is read the word of the day on the Merriam Webster site. One of us will read it and if its a word we don't know we'll try to guess what it means. We're both really into literature.

@NyanHomeschoolGirl17 4 года назад

That's so sweet

@FemmePistolera 4 года назад

@@NyanHomeschoolGirl17 yaass pun

@talkingtoawall5123 4 года назад

Relationship goals 💯

@fatimaissufo 4 года назад

I am from Mozambique. 🇲🇿 Our official language is Portuguese. I love the way you speak, it's just perfect and audible. I do learn alot from You.

@sweeteststar3882 4 года назад

This is kind of off topic ... but yesterday a guy randomly told me that I have a pretty smile and that I "remind him of a Disney princess"... and all I could think of was your video that I watched about that 😂 I've been adopting everything you teach in your videos and not only does it make me happier, but people notice it too! lol anyways, keep up the good work with the videos ♥️😊

@SarahJo06 3 года назад

This is a random question but what Disney princess do you look like?😂

@darcyreads 4 года назад

I am guilty of gossiping. When people start, I can't help myself even though I know it's wrong. I'm making more conscious efforts to change that. Thank you so much Caitlin! ❤

@breannabishop9 3 года назад

It's okay. We are all guilty of gossiping! It gets easier and you don't have to participate in gossip. Anytime someone is gossiping around you and you can't get out of it just smile a nod. Nod as in you respect the person and are listening to them but just know you won't be nodding as in your accepting the gossiping. You never want gossip to come back on you. ❤️

@19Hollisterchick90 4 года назад

This is why I love your channel. You don't limit femininity to outer appearance. You're teaching young ladies how to be better people, not just better looking. Btw, you don't talk weird. We sometimes forget that American English is very different from other countries. Your speaking voice is lovely.

@giorgiagatti2621 4 года назад

I’m from Italy and I love hthe way you speak .You are helping me with my English skills too so please continue like this! I wish there where more channels like yours, elegant and interesting!

@dayanashiplett5274 4 года назад

I use the word “like” like there is no tomorrow because I am from California 😭🤣 but I am going to work on that. ❤️

@SarahJo06 3 года назад

Hey It's better then calling everyone and anyone "Baby"! #southerncharm.....I hope

@AlisonKay 4 года назад

I have seen this is other comments as well, but the way you say “conversation” and some other words seems to be a Canadian dialect. I’ve noticed a similar way of speaking from Sarah Therese here on RU-vid! I don’t think you’re pronouncing words incorrectly, just in a different way than what some people are used to! I love your content, and always find it uplifting and encouraging! Thank you for sharing! 💛

@michalsalazar6689 4 года назад

YAHS I MADE IT FIRST WOO anyways your opinions are never “controversial” they’re called OPINIONS for a reason. People can’t complain about inclusiveness and diversity but are unaccepting to different opinions and lifestyles.

@MrsMidwest 4 года назад

Michal Salazar so happy you’re here my friend!!

@NyanHomeschoolGirl17 4 года назад

So fucking true, so many people act like they're accepting of diversity but some people only mean it in the superficial sense and aren't accepting at all of diverse beliefs and values.

@michalsalazar6689 4 года назад

Always Here the same people who talk about acceptance aren’t accepting

@sabias3932 4 года назад

You would make a great teacher, you already have the mannerisms down 😂 I can see you running a little charm school 😉

@dayanaraviera3840 4 года назад

I do have this thing I do from time to time that is linked to my anxiety that I am so self conscious about. Essentially, when speaking my jaw tends to sometimes spasm out of nowhere and causes me to fumble on my words. I sometimes cry about it because I feel as though it makes me appear unintelligent and I have no way of controlling it. It happens unexpectedly.

@violeticious9197 4 года назад

I never noticed you say "converZation", not until you pointed it out. Now I hear it. And you do not sound like a robot, you are very well spoken.

@anaroute 4 года назад

I am your international audience :) and I totally appreciate the distinctive way you speak! I was spending my holiday with American "friends" who didn't bother to speak clearly and that was a nightmare :( I live and work in international environment and people put an effort out here to communicate effectively, so I do believe that trying to find a common language is not only ladylike, it's humanlike :) great to have your channel here on RU-vid!

@Annie-eh6mq 4 года назад

Love you Caitlin! I've been binge watching your channel for the past few weeks and feel like I've changed so much just from listening to your advice. I'm not a Christian, but your channel has been the first Christian-run channel that hasn't turned me away or made me feel embarrassed for my beliefs, and in turn you have sparked my interest into learning more about the religions around me. Excited for this video!

@diviner2347 4 года назад

I like how you said you speak the way you do INTENTIONALLY. It reminds me of my mentor saying to do things with intention. It’s not wandering away from being your real self, but doing something that adds value to yourself and others. Adds value to you because you’re intentions are clearer to others’ eyes and add value to others by helping them like you said-international viewers find it delightful to learn English by listening to you.

@libera7161 4 года назад

I work as an Agent (Call Center) and I can confirm this. I think talking "Lady Like" improves conversations overall, people understand your words better, they get less mad at you (even though they were mad at first) and it makes the work just easier.

@BrazilianGirl777 4 года назад

That’s really wonderful advice! I realize we tend to change language and the way we communicate to adapt to company. Such as when you have a date with an intelligent man vs when talking to a “homegirl” It’s good and bad, I feel sometimes having to adapt to situations keeps me from growing my communication skills.

@linamary5012 4 года назад

Oh my goodness!! ☺️💗💕 sis you’re so so so so beautiful, I’m SO blessed to have such a loving, gracious big sis in Christ!! 🥰 Thank you kindly for striving towards educating others so that we may improve our lives, I love you sis & God bless you!!! 💗💝💞✨

@alwaysbejoyful503 4 года назад

I’ve never noticed before, but you do say “converzation”. 😂

@kcinthesunshine 4 года назад

please make a video on dating/first dates/how to be feminine during a date!

@Chryslerdealership 4 года назад

Yess!

@margyrowland 4 года назад

They can’t find anything else to criticise except your precise delivery so it’s nothing that deserves your energy. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

@southafricanvegan1054 4 года назад

What you said about speaking to children in baby-talk is so true. I'm a babysitter and I've worked with all kinds of children including children who have severe mental and physical handicaps and have learned that they actually respond better when you DON'T speak to them like they're babies. Obviously don't speak to them like they're adults or even teenagers, but don't treat them like they're babies or toddlers! This was a great video, thank you Mrs Midwest!

@mollyollyopsie8342 4 года назад

I would love to see a “what’s in my bag video” from you! I love watching those kinds of videos, and I’m curious to see how the homemaker lifestyle might translate into the contents of your purse. ❤️😊

@bekahhisnanick7 4 года назад

I get so excited when I see your vids pop up Caitlin

@madisonangulo52 4 года назад

Who says you sound like a robot? I love the way you speak! You are very articulate and enunciate...both things I need to work on myself! Great topic!

@g-cellatwork5406 4 года назад

Wow I'm early, I do enjoy your videos about femininity especially the things you can develop internally and not just what you wear or observe from the outside. I love the video, "How to Speak Femininely" and happy that you have uploaded a new video about speech. I don't mind your pronunciation from the other video, and I just want to learn more about the tone of the voice. I think it would be helpful to have a video in the future on some exercises about adjusting the vocal tone.

@amandazplace5663 4 года назад

I've never thought you sounded like a robot. I'm in Canada. Your speaking style is similar to both "Clean My Space" and "Pick Up Limes" on RU-vid. Both those ladies are Canadian. I just thought, because you grew up in Canada, that this informed your style a bit. I agree with everything you said, Caitlyn.💞

@Aliveinthesky 4 года назад

I am in awe of the way you speak with your hands, they look so elegant!! Could we have a body language and gestures video? (:

@messofamomma5059 4 года назад

Yay! I’ve been looking forward to your videos! 😊 I have some serious social anxiety, so it’s always good to have some good tips for social situations.

@MotherMuse 4 года назад

Thanks Caitlyn this is so informative! In East Asian traditions there is a term for ugly speech, angry speech, harmful speech which is “harsh speech” and it is a virtue to avoid it and to instead communicate with kindness. 🌷 Like you I tend to speak (and write) more formally much of the time. 💕xo

@LVioletta1 4 года назад

Thank you! This was perfect timing! There is this lovely client that I have that just has so much to say and I don't have the continued time to speak to her. I totally appreciate you Kaitlyn! 🙏💛✨

@gracefulhumble7248 4 года назад

The last piece of advice about how to politely end a conversation, I really needed to hear that. Thank you so much

@fatimafarooq4787 4 года назад

I love how you talk. You’re such an inspiration. ❤️

@selfimprovementsubliminals3397 4 года назад

You're like a big sister to me, thanks so much Mrs Midwest for all of your amazing videos, I can genuinely say that embracing my femininity in life has made me a happier person and it's thanks to you. Keep doing what you're doing 💛💛

@megzlovindance 4 года назад

Finally! Haven’t watched the video yet but I’m so ready. I have been trying to expand my vocabulary thanks to your vids.

@mairewalker3748 4 года назад

You always express yourself in a lovely manner. Please continue to spread your message.

@michellecalvanese4876 4 года назад

I cannot tolerate swearing, even if I stub my toe or get hurt I’ll yell out “cranberry sauce” or “fudge” you can always substitute an obscene word with something cute or funny and you have zero chance of offending anyone.

@maximmsirois 4 года назад

i'm french and it helps me that you are speaking more slowly :) and its "fun" to listen to!

@TreeofLife_111 2 года назад

I’m literally watching ALL of your videos from start to finish to completely renew, glow up and find the right man! Thank you 🙏

@beechillin565 4 года назад

This is good advice for men as well; I taught public speaking for about 20 years and I wish I had had these videos for my classes.

@linda.westin 4 года назад

I truly appreciate your lovely videos and I feel so connected to who I truly am when I embrace my femininity. I also want to say that I think you move your hands so beautifully. I think it everytime. And isn't it wonderful when women compliment each other and inspire each other? I love it. Thank you for your videos and I love being a woman embracing my femininity attracting masculine energy to move towards me.

@marlygnarly4186 4 года назад

Yay! I'm here early today! I’d love a video on how you keep your hair healthy and long, also some style tips. You’re giving me Rapunzel vibes 😻

@rendschaak6925 4 года назад

I personally love the way you speak and so enjoy your videos ❤️ I also appreciate the organized delivery of your message. You are so easy to understand! Thank you for all you teach and the way in which you do it!

@anninhamusica 4 года назад

I absolutely love your videos 🥰 the problem is that nowadays everything seems to be over casual...it's such a lovely thing to put effort into things like your appearance and speech/communication. Confidence will come naturally when you put effort into these things in your daily life ♥️

@NinaBlow 3 года назад

Yes!! I needed this. Love ❤️

@massivelystressed2099 4 года назад

I've subscribed to your channel few months ago and I listen to your audio everyday because I am trying to speak in english. Thank you for helping me so much!

@sav6448 4 года назад

I’m from SoCal so the word “like” and “dude” are engrained in my brain. I need to learn to use them less but it’s harddd because I do it without thinking.

@Whitney322 4 года назад

I love your confidence and conviction. Keep up the good work 💕

@khadidjabouras6672 4 года назад

Hello caitlyn, I have been a subscriber for a couple of monthes now. And let me tell you that because of the way you talk slowly you are the only youtuber that i watch and understand, also i am one those people that listen to your videos while doing dishes ect to help me improve my language. Thank you very much for been so helpfull in everything you do.

@weronikas1307 4 года назад

Thank you so much for being so considerate! I am from Poland and love to watch your videos💗 you’re a true lady😊 also I actually find the way you’re speaking very calming and inviting

@mariagraziadeastis5102 3 года назад

I'm from Italy 🇮🇹 and i appriciate a lot that you speack clearly and not so fast. I love your viedo and they're helping me in learning english too, so thank you so much ❤️

@aidak3341 4 года назад

I love listening to your channel because you speak so eloquently!

@annam.8454 4 года назад

You are a really stunning lady! I’m glad I have found your Chanel. I’m not a woman yet but I’m learning so much from you for my next few years. Thank you so much!

@korinajordan7819 4 года назад

I love watching your channel. It's like going to charm school

@madisonminm5450 4 года назад

I love you so much!! Thanks for making these videos they help a lot!! 💕

@Aa2288 4 года назад

Wow I cannot get enough of these videos they’re so helpful for me. I don’t like wasting my time watching things that don’t benefit me in any way. This is definitely not time wasting plus I love how your Pinterest has Muslim fashion too because I’m Muslim and I love that you include it in your videos too. You never leave anybody out your videos are literally for everyone I think also any age too.

@salmaashraf9678 4 года назад

thank for understanding that you have a lot of people who watches you all over the world and focusing to make your language more easier for us you are so helpful and we love you a lot darling

@lifewitholga_ 4 года назад

Hi Sister! I'm late here! We love when your sweet doggie interrupts lol. By the way, I love this topic! People tend to give me a hard time for speaking formally but I also receive compliments for speaking eloquently. You win some, you lose some.

@abbyrose8978 4 года назад

Love all your videos Kaitlyn 💕💕

@tamaramorgan2784 4 года назад

Thank you so much for this video you have been and are continuing to such a blessing to me and other numerous young and older ladies. I have gained quite a bit of knowledge.... I need to stop feeling guilty about leaving conversations. xx

@temptationrosestudio 4 года назад

Hi,Mrs.Midwest! ❤️❤️ I am so glad that you are making a new video. Lots of support from Puerto Rico. 🇵🇷

@aadesi6414 4 года назад

Ive been a silent lurker but a well-known "feminist"RU-vidr criticized your channel without even realizing she promoted it. Now you have 30K more subscribers in only 2 months. Hellew haters lol

@carolynabelle4603 4 года назад

Ada Adesi I love how those videos totally backfired and just made Caitlin more famous and admired.

@noraewer1291 4 года назад

Really? Who was criticizing her?

@S_u_n_Flower_ 4 года назад

@@noraewer1291 I believe this person means Jaclyn Glenn

@andreavalentinaperez2734 4 года назад

@@noraewer1291 Jacklyn Glenn or something like that

@bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 4 года назад

Midwest is so nice though? She's not forcing her lifestyle on anyone. This is for the people that do want to be more elegant. She has never said elegant was superior or you can be a women for speaking casually.

@sydelleasha 4 года назад

The Daily Connoisseur and you are so in sync in your thoughts: the themes of both your videos today especially.

@jananderson8149 4 года назад

Asha George, I noticed this too!

@joynjuwe8898 2 года назад

I’m glad I found this channel

@againnope 4 года назад

You're right, I am a french woman and following you is a pleasure to me, because I can easily understand you !

@PaigonDavis 4 года назад

I love these tips! Especially about vocabulary. I do tend to pick up slang from my friends and become influenced by the books I read.

@slam5798 4 года назад

I came here from Mr. Atheists channel and I'm glad I did. This video was quite helpful and I'll implement some of these tips at work!

@laceyryan8498 4 года назад

You have such valuable knowledge and advice! Very refreshing.

@kfoster3616 4 года назад

words of wisdom....Thank you!....so refreshing

@gp7577 4 года назад

Your videos are so well put together, with such a worthwhile message. You are putting out such worthwhile content, and it surprises me that someone so you has so much depth and wisdom.

@Maria-ey1rv 3 года назад

For sure! I'm learning english and good manners. Grateful for your channel! Maria Mizia from Brazil

@stephanieCl 4 года назад

Thank you for another amazing video. I've expanded my vocabulary by learning 3 new words throughout this video and most importantly different ways to use them. As an elegant lady, I'm not 100% there...since English is my third language, I tend to use basics expression and it makes me feel behind, knowing that I impeccably speak my other languages. And I couldn't agree more with the "like, Uhm, huh" . I know I'm harsh with myself. You, my dear, are a delight! Blessings

@shanaeb4814 4 года назад

I’ve been doing this with my verbiage for a few years now, but glad you made a video about this! 😊 Also I’ve read articles and watched videos/listen to podcasts where the person talks about slowing speech when recording video or audio because you can appear unconfident or un-knowledgeable in the topic if you speak too fast.

@elsabethtesfaye9613 4 года назад

From Ethiopia 💚💛❤....Love the way you speak. You looked beautiful in this video 😍❤

@sadieann1036 4 года назад

I love your hair! This one might be my favorite

@gee.kay.4787 4 года назад

You are such a princess!! Ugh goals! (love the way you speak, it's soothing + calming) thank you! #femininefamily!

@cynthiamoyers9805 4 года назад

At LAST, a young person who is helping other young folks to stop using LIKE every other word!!! I know i drive the young folks in my life crazy with this, but it is extremely important. The English language is DEvolving!!!

@Ibbiegirl1 4 года назад

I love your bangs!

@NJ-wn9dw 4 года назад

I watch your videos for my English learning and to learn about hot to be more feminine. Thank you for speaking the way you do!

@sydelleasha 4 года назад

Thank you for this clear list. I do see these traits in people whose speech I admire. Also the tip to build others up is so Bible based! Great build up from non-examples to good examples.

@sillybeaniexo 4 года назад

i appreciated your last tip of exiting conversations. sooooo thankful for that, i’m terrible at leaving and i always awkwardly make an excuse.

@kimbers1238 4 года назад

You are such a jewel. I'm sure it still stings when someone comes at u with such nonsense as how u pronounce something but u sure seem to handle it with class. Good job

@kikiwilliams2029 4 года назад

That lipstick color looks great on you btw! Love your channel!!!

@lorenasenden4765 4 года назад

Confession: I'm guilty of watching the Wendy Williams show, It is entertaining to listen to while I do house tasks but it probably is not the most elegant influence.

@maddipage1347 4 года назад

Lorena Senden 😂😭

@sillybeaniexo 4 года назад

Lorena Senden i’m right there with you girl lol🤦🏽‍♀️

@margarethpretty9609 3 года назад

Thank you so much for these tips, they are very helpful.

@lucyslovelighttarot 4 года назад

Great tips to take to many formal situations. Thankyou

@isacaiafa4883 4 года назад

Thank you so much for this video!❤️❤️

@MrsMidwest 4 года назад

Isa Caiafa thank you for spending time on my channel!! 😍😍

@richendaw.2277 4 года назад

Totally off topic, but within the firsr ten seconds of the cut out clip, I just heard myself say that you, Caitlyn, will be an incredible Mum!! 🥰 God bless you and your family. And I would so love to meet yo someday!! Such an inspiration!

@carolinaparente5808 3 года назад

I'm really trying to enhance my formal English vocabulary and your videos have been helping me a lot to achieve this exact goal! Greetings from Brazil 😘

@Vusal709 4 года назад

I'm from morocco..and i loove youu and love your videos soo much...thank you for everything you 're sharing with us. ..i'm learning so many things with you ❤❤